Post: #1

Hello guys.
I had a client, Girl A. She was very much into me. Just because she was a client I didn't want to approach her. One day while I was doing her hair she grabbed my bottom with a huge smile on her face and we exchanged numbers. I didn't want to take it slow and invited her out after a few texts. She didn't accept it but she didn't say no as well. Then she started to reply to my texts quite late and at the end she said she has a boyfriend. So we stopped texting.

A few weeks later another client, Girl B, came to get her hair done. I talked to her, arrange a date for the same night. She said she is going to meet up with her cousin and let me know when she is free. It turns out that Girl A is Girl B's cousin.

As soon as I found it out I texted Girl B saying that I'm sorry, I didn't know she was your cousin. Even though I like you I can't take you out.
I basically didn't want them to think that I'm a dickhead.

I now want to contact Girl A again. The reason is, I think, she wants to be with me. She was in the salon getting her nails done today and I catch her looking at me a few times.

What should I do? Should I just text her or do nothing and move on?

Post: #2

Salon game...this is new, lots of potential in this thread.

Post: #3

It sounds like you diffused the sexual tension with too much texting and friend zoned yourself. You should have just gotten her alone where you could bang her. Maybe under the guise of "Hey I want to try this new hair technique..come over to my place"

Plausible deniability is your friend when a girl is good to go and doesn't want to be judged for her sluttiness

But...Why would they think youre a dickhead for asking girl B out after girl A shut you down with the "I have a boyfriend "? (This was likely a shit test by the way.)

Quote: Even though I like you I can't take you out.

Yikes....How long have you been a hair dresser? You dont seem to know women very well

Edit: If this isn't your salon hitting on customers sounds like a good way to get sacked (I do enjoy using my Brit language skills)

Post: #4

(09-22-2018 11:48 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  But... Why would they think youre a dickhead for asking girl B out after girl A shut you down with the "I have a boyfriend "? (This was likely a shit test by the way.)

The girls are Romanian. They're a bit funny. After I realised that they're cousins I thought maybe Girl A sent Girl B to test me out.

(09-22-2018 11:48 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Even though I like you I can't take you out.

Yikes....How long have you been a hair dresser? You dont seem to know women very well

I'm actually still quite annoyed with myself for writing this. I still don't have a clue why I said it. I think I was trying to act like a Romanian to impress them. I don't know.

(09-22-2018 11:48 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Edit: If this isn't your salon hitting on customers sounds like a good way to get sacked (I do enjoy using my Brit language skills)

It's mine. So I won't be sacked.

Post: #5

Whether the salon is yours or not, you're walking on shaky territory. Why? Because, you're putting your livelihood at risk.

To me it's worse if you're the owner instead of employee. You have more to lose potentially as you may lose recurring income from customers that know some girl you dated that shit went down south with. Word can get around. Not only this but if you're seen running "game" on customers, there are other harpy customers that may destroy your business reputation.

The other part is that you need to work on your game. A chick that grabs your ass wants to fuck you. However she's not going to wait especially after you dried up her pussy with texts. In this case any texts should be used for logistics only.

Ideally what you should have done was told her what time you get off and tell her you will pick her up. It seems you may be able to do that now. Just do it and don't dick around. If she shows up, you have a high chance to bang.

More long term advice: approach girls outside and don't put your business premises at risk by doing so there.

Post: #6

(09-22-2018 12:36 PM)Cobra Wrote:  Whether the salon is yours or not, you're walking on shaky territory. Why? Because, you're putting your livelihood at risk.

To me it's worse if you're the owner instead of employee. You have more to lose potentially as you may lose recurring income from customers that know some girl you dated that shit went down south with. Word can get around. Not only this but if you're seen running "game" on customers, there are other harpy customers that may destroy your business reputation.

The other part is that you need to work on your game. A chick that grabs your ass wants to fuck you. However she's not going to wait especially after you dried up her pussy with texts. In this case any texts should be used for logistics only.

Ideally what you should have done was told her what time you get off and tell her you will pick her up. It seems you may be able to do that now. Just do it and don't dick around. If she shows up, you have a high chance to bang.

More long term advice: approach girls outside and don't put your business premises at risk by doing so there.

Thanks for your advice @Cobra
I'd only talk to a girl about dating when the girl is really into me and I wouldn't do it in my premises. I'm aware that my reputation is more important than a girl.

My game isn't that good as I didn't really need to approach girls outside due to the nature of my job. So, I just started to read Roosh's Game book. I'll take your advice and text her now. Thanks mate.

Post: #7

(09-22-2018 12:54 PM)Sir_Night Wrote:  

(09-22-2018 12:36 PM)Cobra Wrote:  Whether the salon is yours or not, you're walking on shaky territory. Why? Because, you're putting your livelihood at risk.

To me it's worse if you're the owner instead of employee. You have more to lose potentially as you may lose recurring income from customers that know some girl you dated that shit went down south with. Word can get around. Not only this but if you're seen running "game" on customers, there are other harpy customers that may destroy your business reputation.

The other part is that you need to work on your game. A chick that grabs your ass wants to fuck you. However she's not going to wait especially after you dried up her pussy with texts. In this case any texts should be used for logistics only.

Ideally what you should have done was told her what time you get off and tell her you will pick her up. It seems you may be able to do that now. Just do it and don't dick around. If she shows up, you have a high chance to bang.

More long term advice: approach girls outside and don't put your business premises at risk by doing so there.

Thanks for your advice @Cobra
I'd only talk to a girl about dating when the girl is really into me and I wouldn't do it in my premises. I'm aware that my reputation is more important than a girl.

My game isn't that good as I didn't really need to approach girls outside due to the nature of my job. So, I just started to read Roosh's Game book. I'll take your advice and text her now. Thanks mate.

Dont forget.... Dating and just fucking can be two completely different things. After re reading your OP I surmise that Girl A wants / wanted to fuck you and you threw out a "I want to date you" vibe...thats why she tossed out the "I have a boyfriend" shit test.

If I were you Id make up an excuse to ask her over to your place. Anything...make some shit up. If she comes over you'll know whats up.

Jungle fuck her into unconsciousness and you'll have a very loyal "customer"

Probably get cousin / Girl B over for a "treatment" too.

Post: #8

(09-22-2018 02:05 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Dont forget.... Dating and just fucking can be two completely different things. After re reading your OP I surmise that Girl A wants / wanted to fuck you and you threw out a "I want to date you" vibe...thats why she tossed out the "I have a boyfriend" shit test.

If I were you Id make up an excuse to ask her over to your place. Anything...make some shit up. If she comes over you'll know whats up.

Jungle fuck her into unconsciousness and you'll have a very loyal "customer"

Probably get cousin / Girl B over for a "treatment" too.

Thanks @PapayaTapper
I sent her a message yesterday making up some shit. She's not read it yet.

Post: #9

(09-22-2018 02:05 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Jungle fuck her into unconsciousness [...].

That'll be a new idiom in my lexicon. Thank you kindly, PT!

Post: #10

(09-23-2018 05:27 AM)ksbms Wrote:  

(09-22-2018 02:05 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Jungle fuck her into unconsciousness [...].

That'll be a new idiom in my lexicon. Thank you kindly, PT!

De nada

Post: #11

Seriously? You own a nail/hair salon?
Are you one them guys that pretend to be gay?

Stop being a creep. Be a professional.
Go bother girls somewhere else.

Post: #12

"I have a boyfriend''-

- So do I, maybe we can double date, lets do it Friday night, we'll swing by and pick you up....."

Yea, 20/20 Hindsight is easy on a messageboard.

Post: #13

Man, don't let her twist you around!! SHE'S TWISTING YOU AROUND, when she looks at you.

JUST SAY'' FUCK IT'' AND THROW DOWN BRO/, YOUR ''THERE''.

She sounds like a total slut.
I think WE NEED A ''SLUT TEST''- as opposed to ''shit test''.

Post: #14

(09-22-2018 11:24 AM)Sir_Night Wrote:  Hello guys.
I had a client, Girl A. She was very much into me. Just because she was a client I didn't want to approach her. One day while I was doing her hair she grabbed my bottom with a huge smile on her face and we exchanged numbers. I didn't want to take it slow and invited her out after a few texts. She didn't accept it but she didn't say no as well. Then she started to reply to my texts quite late and at the end she said she has a boyfriend. So we stopped texting.

A few weeks later another client, Girl B, came to get her hair done. I talked to her, arrange a date for the same night. She said she is going to meet up with her cousin and let me know when she is free. It turns out that Girl A is Girl B's cousin.

As soon as I found it out I texted Girl B saying that I'm sorry, I didn't know she was your cousin. Even though I like you I can't take you out.
I basically didn't want them to think that I'm a dickhead.

I now want to contact Girl A again. The reason is, I think, she wants to be with me. She was in the salon getting her nails done today and I catch her looking at me a few times.

What should I do? Should I just text her or do nothing and move on?

There is no problem here. There are plenty of fish in the sea. So who gives a crap if you lose them both? I would attempt to build attraction with both women, and create competition between them. Play aloof and flirt with both, meanwhile bang a different woman on the side. This should optimally take 1.5 - 2 weeks.

Post: #15

How did you find out Girl A was her cousin?