Post: #51

(07-09-2018 03:10 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  thing is she isnt hot at all has not body a d she hangs out with guys uglier then me.... I sound arrogant but its true. and she flaked ok me after 3 months of us dating. after promising something I felt like I had to fucking call her out for that.

You obviously dont get it. Your looks (or the other dudes) have nothing to do with it.

Zero

Zilch

Squat

Diddly

Nada

Its your beta / pussy / weak / clingy / desperate / needy /creepy / cringey etc behavior that killed any attraction she may have, if ever, had for you


She doesn't know how you feel because she absolutely positively is NOT thinking about you for one moment

100%

Guaranteed

Absolutely

I hope others are benefiting from the advice given in this thread because you OP are clearly not

I dont mean to be harsh but youre coming across like a girl with a high school crush...not a man

Post: #52

OP, what I see here is that you keep coming up with excuses to not believe what you're being told.

"thing is"

"she doesn't know"

"family baggage"

"isn't it weird"

This is just how women work, man. There's no thing. It isn't weird. Guys who tell themselves "she doesn't know" are the ones who keep trying to tell her and end up getting hit with restraining orders because they won't take the hint that she doesn't care.

You played the game badly and it'll happen again if you keep trying to pretend this was a one-off and finding reasons not to hold yourself accountable.

Post: #53

so what should I do forget about this bitch forever?
I know I come across as clingy as a mother fucker on here but I promise in person i wasnt that bad at all I'm just letting it all out on here because I have noone else to talk to

Post: #54

You spent a bunch of time together, dates, held hands, even slept in the same bed 15 times or more without sex...but you weren't "clingey"?

You thought you sending "Im a nice guy who will treat you like the princess you deserve to be treated as" message.

What her emotionally damaged mind translated that into is "Im a fag. Let's be friends"

The message a girl like this responds to are for example "Those jeans would look good on your ass if you lost some weight".

That's light romantic flirting


and

"Get over here and suck daddy's dick you dirty little whore"

That's foreplay

Post: #55

I tried everytime to have sex she knew what the fuck my intentions were lol. I was never super nice guy do everything for you etc. I would tease her and all of the above but I do agree. I should of never slept over there so much. That was way too much. I thought treating her good would make her want me since her family is shitty and she was such a sweet innocent girl in person. boy was I wrong. I promise to all of you in person she was madly in love with me.

Post: #56

(07-09-2018 06:06 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  I tried everytime to have sex she knew what the fuck my intentions were lol. I was never super nice guy do everything for you etc. I would tease her and all of the above but I do agree. I should of never slept over there so much. That was way too much. I thought treating her good would make her want me since her family is shitty and she was such a sweet innocent girl in person. boy was I wrong

We live and we learn....hopefully

Post: #57

I've actually had a very similar situation. I was in a relationship with a girl I really cared about for around 6 months. Thought everything was going great, best relationship ever until she just completely ghosted me. She wouldn't return calls or texts. I didn't bother trying to get her back or anything, just ran by her house and picked up some stuff of value that I had left there. I had to get all of this stuff through her mom because she wasn't mature enough to return my calls.

As I was leaving, she started texting me all this shit about showing up to her house unannounced and how rude I was for not "advising her first".... whatever.

The best thing to do is just move on and def don't contact her anymore. She obviously wasn't as into you as she led you to believe, maybe you weren't this... maybe you weren't that... maybe she met someone else.... who knows. Time heals all frustrations. Just focus on yourself and building the best future you can.

Post: #58

thank God I joined this site. I was at a loss for a month

Post: #59

(07-10-2018 09:28 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  thank God I joined this site. I was at a loss for a month

Sounds like you dodged a bullet there, OP.

Whatever's on her mind and whatever her intentions are, she's treated you with contempt. Oneitis can cloud anybody's mind, but you're worth more than that; in fact, you are doing better than you think if you've blasted in four other women since then.

This might have been a better place to post, by the way:

The Official RVF No Contact Thread

Post: #60

Sounds like oneitis. You are a soft beta.
Np we all were at one time. Work on yourself, definitly go to the gym. It will help in so many diffrent ways for you right now. Go read pimp by iceberg slim if you have free time. Than as soon as humanly possible, go fuck another girl. Fuck her with the hate you have for this chick that was rapeing your attention.
I never said its going to be easy.

Post: #61

this bitch is scared of confrontation whatsoever. She wouldn't have the balls to tell me I wanna be casual. I would have been 100% fine with it. One time she missed a hair appointment because she slept in and she was scared to even walk by the place because she thought they would be mad at her.....

Post: #62

Heed the advice you received!

Post: #63

Bro. Get a harem. options options options! did i say options!!!! she should be asking this question " Like he cut me off i dont understand why?" and you should be like "cuz bitch i fuck models and you aint one !" options my guy. stay safe

Post: #64

ive fucked 3 girls in a 3 week span I can get woman but this one fucked my head up because of the sudden ghosting. But I know what you mean

Post: #65

(07-09-2018 12:49 PM)kuqezi Wrote:  Dude, you're 28 and acting like 15.
First of all calm down.
If you, as you say, meet and fuck other girls, what's the big fuss about this one? Oneitis?

Seriously, I have a hard time believing OP is 28.

The idea of this scenario happening to a 28 year old clueless guy I can accept easily enough; it's the way he's responded to the situation, emotionally, as well as conceptually, that makes me go

Most guys that age (no matter what level their social skills) would at least take the main lesson to heart.

Post: #66

Maybe Megan's dead.

Aloha!

Post: #67

(07-11-2018 05:45 PM)Kona Wrote:  Maybe Megan's dead.

Aloha!

We know (((why))) she won't have sex with the OP.

Post: #68

(07-11-2018 05:48 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  

(07-11-2018 05:45 PM)Kona Wrote:  Maybe Megan's dead.

Aloha!

We know (((why))) she won't have sex with the OP.

Oh jeez. Hey kross1989, has Megan been speaking out against the globalists recently?

Does she have an opinion about pizzagate?

Aloha!

Post: #69

(07-08-2018 07:50 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  she comes from a broken home. parents seperated mom a drunk brothers and other siblings on drugs etc. idk if maybe that somewhat explains her actions?

sounds like the gods did you a favor with this one. be thankful you didn't waste any more time with this broad.

Post: #70

yeah man. This thread has made me start thinking more rationally and I'm back in my normal headspace so to say. I had a gut feeling from day one not to get involved with her because I knew she is/was a tease and has something messed up in her life. All she wanted was validation and attention because she used to be fat and ugly and had a piece of shit bf and now she lost weight and is getting attention from dudes. my mistake her loss