Post: #1

I did a forum search, but couldn't find any threads that have the word "rekindle" in the title.

TLDR:
I banged a girl 2-3 times about 5 years ago, when she was probably more slutty and also coming off of a relationship. She is back in my country now for 1 week and I want to bang her again. How to proceed?

So, since that time about 5 years ago, we have only had very minimal conversations via Facebook that sometimes go dead on her end.

She has a boyfriend (life partner) who is visible on her Facebook and Couchsurfing profile, but she has never mentioned him to me.

She messaged me about a week ago that she will be back in New York, and is there right now, but I am currently away and won't be back until this weekend.

This is really, really bad timing for me (I've been super sleep-deprived recently and I have ringworm under my armpits), but she will be going back to Japan after this, so that's why I'm entertaining the thought of banging her again.

She will be staying in a hotel with some of her work colleagues, and thus does not need a place to stay.

Should game involve just inviting her to a drinking spot near my home (I don't actually have my own home now, and don't mind admitting this to her, but as I've been traveling and can prove it, an Airbnb should suffice), and then trying to move her into my apartment? If she does mention the boyfriend, should I just be completely oblivious to that mentioning, or should I acknowledge it, but then make her forget about him?

5 years ago, she came straight to my place to fuc on the 2nd date. I would just invite her straight to my place again, but I haven't amped up any sexual conversations since the Facebook conversations over the years have been cold or dead, and because I don't want her to mention her boyfriend.

I plan to see her Thursday night, and she'll be leaving either Saturday or Sunday morning.

Post: #2

Why the hell are you so focused and keeping tabs on a girl you banged 5 years ago?

Post: #3

Man oh man! Just by the tone of your post... You feel lucky she gave you some Pussy back then... and that's your problem right there! Your #1 issue is that you care too much about Banging this Chick...which means something from your lifestyle is off.

Second issue is that you have absolutely no idea how to rekindle the attraction she had for you... so you had to come here! But hey I feel like I can help so I'll proceed. First off take off Wednesday from work, and sleep all day. Then get your body movin on Wednesday night by working out or jogging or what you usually do. The point is to get your blood pumping.

Invite her to sushi or a similar place near your home. A place that's booming with a Fun crowd... and above a KFC/Subway type restaurant. Absulutely no fancy Restaurant type. Way too quiet for a chick that's most likely looking for a Safe & headache free Booty Call from you! Chat about what she's been up to. Ask a lot of open ended question for HER to talk. While she's talking, throw a few compliment about how she still looks fantastic here & there with great smile on your face.

After she done talking for the most part... try the Roosh move of moving to a different spot with a bit of booze to get her loose. If not possible... just become more engage by telling her she's still got it going on/ making you interested.Then you simply go over the same reason you liked her in the past... kiss & touch her all over... and ask her "Is your hotel near"!

If she gives you LMR, use you real excuse that you were feeling like shit, and that her presence rejuvenated you(that's why you gotta call in sick 2morrow to Rest) and you should be good. Please don't fumble this one! Report Back of course!

Post: #4

Thanks for the tips. Something "is" wrong with my internal game, and it's been like that for a while, but let's proceed anyway as this is a time-sensitive issue.

I wasn't necessarily keeping tabs on her. We might have said hello to each other on Facebook 2 times a year max.

Yes, there are plenty of hot girls in the world, but if you bang a good one, even if it was many years ago, wouldnt you want bang her again if she still looks good?

I don't plan on being near her hotel because she said that that area is kinda boring and she would rather have a more local area. So I plan on invitng her out to one of the outer boroughs and then bringing her back to the place where I'll be staying. Also, she may be in town with coworkers that know about her relationship with her boyfriend and they may be staying in the same Hotel.

Full disclosure is that I hope to get her drunk enough that I can bang her while wearing my shirt (because of the rash that I suddenly got 2 days ago that I don't want her to notice) and that it won't weird.

Just like I gave a full honest report during my Chiang Mai failure, I will also give a report of what occurs in this situation.

Thanks again, and I would rather be honest and learn from y'all, than to come on here boasting, but not be doing anything in real life.

Post: #5

You are way overthinking this. She hit you up because shes at least open to the possibility of getting dick down by you She's gonna get it from somebody may as well be you.

Logistics are key here. What about suggesting drinks at hotel near hers. That way she doesn't have to worry about the co workers. Two drinks in and she wont care about them and then you bounce to her room or book your own in the same hotel as the bar

And get that ring worm and rash shit taken care of...you nasty mangy mutt

Post: #6

I guess, to me it would have to be super easy.

An example would be: A girl I banged 10 years ago texting me a few months ago - we met at a bar near my house, then fucked, she made it easy.

If you have take alot of effort then that juice ain't worth the squeeze.

If it takes alot of time, then I'd probably pass or tell her to meet me at a bar near my pad - if she ain't about it, I'm booking another girl.

Post: #7

Unless there's a specific reason why she needs to be near her hotel room on that night, or the next morning early, then I will bring her to a place near my neighborhood. I'm not sure why a couple of the post have suggested going near her hotel room.
(unless there's some super strategic logistic mastermind thing here that I'm not seeing).

Post: #8

The ringworm is actually the worst thing. How can I legitimately present a sexy mood if she were to see the rash? The worst thing is that I would only have 0.5 to 1 days of ointment application before seeing her. I wanted to reschedule on her, but she does only have a couple of days before leaving the USA. So, at the very least, if we do get to bang, I can use it as an excuse if my performance is not good.

Post: #9

My guess is that she might be concerned about her co-workers seeing her return to the hotel really late or early in the morning and pestering her or gossiping about it. Her worrying about what her co-workers might think or say is a cockblock you may need to consider in your strategy,

Post: #10

(04-10-2018 08:47 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I guess, to me it would have to be super easy.

An example would be: A girl I banged 10 years ago texting me a few months ago - we met at a bar near my house, then fucked, she made it easy.

If you have take alot of effort then that juice ain't worth the squeeze.

If it takes alot of time, then I'd probably pass or tell her to meet me at a bar near my pad - if she ain't about it, I'm booking another girl.

I wouldn't put much effort in either but I get the sense this guy needs this

Post: #11

I think you're overthinking this pretty hard. I won't delve into the reasons, but you don't need help "rekindling" if you've banged her before, she doesn't mention her boyfriend, she still chats you up, and she's trying to meet you.

Take her somewhere casual and ready to bounce to a lounge for another drink if it works. Her intentions here seem obvious. I think the RVF term is "Don't-Fuck-Up Game".

Post: #12

Tape up the ringworm or bandage it. Definitely don't use it as an excuse or mention it. If you just randomly got ringworm and you don't grapple then you probably have some serious hygiene issues which are more pressing than banging this girl but for now if she asks just say that you tried to shave your armpits with your safety razor and you got cut up pretty bad. I'm not really gonna comment on the ethics of banging a random chick when you have a skin infection although I have done it before but apart from that this one should be a layup so relax.

Post: #13

Hey JetSet, I probably should have read that thread on how to run "don't fuc up game", because I almost did fuc it up.

Fortunately though, it was a layup. I banged her Fri. night while we were both drunk, and then I banged her again Sat. morning while we were both sober. Then we had breakfast at a nearby diner. She went back to her hotel in Manhattan after breakfast. She just went back to Japan this morning (Sun.).

The reason I say that I almost messed it up is because I could have pulled her back to the Air B&B much earlier in the night, but I kind of took it as a challenge when she was saying that she was in a party mood, so because of that I took her to 1-2 more bars than I really needed to. I definitley could have sealed the deal an hour before I did. By prolonging it, I could have become more tired and even more drunk, thereby potentially making my equipment/schlong non-operational.

The topic of boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife never came up. That wasn't a concern for me since I am legit single. My number one concern is that I have this ugly ass ringworm rash around my underarms and part of my chest. I had tried to cover it with some sort of athletic tape, but it wouldn't stick. I couldn't bandage it, because then I would have been kind of immobile and moving awkwardly, thereby drawing more attention to it. I even thought to myself, what if I bandaged it too much, and one of the bouncers at the club door asked me to lift my shirt up to see what the hell was going on. It would have been very awkward. The topic only came up on the Saturday morning when she wanted to ride cowgirl and she tried to lift up my shirt and I stopped her. After our session was done, and we were both lying down next to each other on the bed breathing heavily, a minute or two past and she asked me why I didn't want to take off my shirt. I told her the truth. I have a rash and I didn't want to potentially spread it to you. Her only reply was a very calm "okay". The topic never came up again.

My number one goal was not to get the repeat-notch, believe it or not. It was to present myself as a nice, humorous, desirable person to hang out with whenever we both happen to be in the same city. (90% of the "hanging out" would be related to sex though). I feel like I succeeded there. I left a nice impression (on her face and on her stomach).

*Random thought, I know that some of you guys like to bang these ladies raw. And if you feel that your game is tight enough, and that she really isn't running around all loose and crazy, then why not bang them raw? But...a lot of these girls are very careless (aka, they care less). I could have easily hit it raw this time, both on the drunk Friday night or the sober Saturday morning. Nearly 5 years ago when I first banged her, she had asked me why I didn't go in raw, and that it was okay because she was on the pill. This time the conversation didn't come up. But I know that I could have done it with no problem. Fellas, this is a University-educated woman who works in the medical field. PSA: I would suggest to please wrap it up more often than not, and try to just be satisfied with getting raw head (for the sake of us all).

Thanks again to all who left a comment, whether positive or negative. They were all helpful in some way, shape, or form.