Post: #826

@Cobra couldn't agree more

Post: #827

(11-10-2018 07:50 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  White guys can date and smash whatever sexy girl of whatever race they want in the US, it is socially acceptable. For the most part, it is not as socially acceptable for minorities to get with hot white girls, black guys might be exceptions in some cases but even they face their setbacks.

Expect not only for envious lower value white guys to give you shit but also for hypocritical ethnic women who will drop on both knees for some pink cock to give you shit for it as well.

Socially acceptable to who? Why do you care so much about what other people think? If you're happy then fuck these people!

So what if a woman you know likes white guys? No homo, but the Hemsworth brothers and Tom Hardy are good looking guys - I would think a woman is strange if she doesn't find them attractive.

I've been out with women of all races, and I've never had any remarks from anyone when I'm out with them. I grew up in UK and there's tons of Indian guys with white girls - nobody gives a shit. Nobody has said shit to me in Los Angeles either...

Post: #828

If a woman told me she did not find Hardy or the Hemsworth brothers attractive, especially if she wasn't white herself, I would not think she is strange at all. Its no different than western women saying a handsome Bollywood actor is just "not my type". As a matter of fact, I might even consider an LTR with a hot ethnic girl that isn't as easily brainwashed by hypocritical Hollywood.

As for why I care, because it matters, social perception as a whole has a say in how women feel about going for you as well as the kind of life you live after being in that relationship or making it in game. I'll still stand by saying that you should do all you can as a guy to improve yourself, you will be surprised how many opportunities open up and Indian guys with their shit together most definitely have options.

Now as for why it still matters, it matters because you will always be dealing with people no matter what you do in life inside or outside of game. You will always have to deal with society and its trends at large even once you have completed your journey in the game and settled down with a hot girl.

This is why you see some overweight bubbas in small towns with girls way out of their league, poorly dressed frat bro in college with girls he has no business with and dorky looking hipsters in major cities with hot girls. All because he is a part of the "in crowd" or has "status", that is why it matters, social perception is working in his favor.

The very fact that we have a game thread for each minority group discussing how much location matters in game and giving specific game advice is testament to the fact that you have to account for this stuff.

So when you do get into an LTR and she happens to be good looking and white, you have to be aware of the kinds of attacks that will be thrown in your direction.

Could just be an east coast thing as I am not too familiar with life in California.

Post: #829

Rare picture (courtesy of TMZ) of the user "a beer is enough" after getting destroyed in this thread:

Post: #830

(11-12-2018 11:47 AM)a beer is enough Wrote:  If a woman told me she did not find Hardy or the Hemsworth brothers attractive, especially if she wasn't white herself, I would not think she is strange at all. Its no different than western women saying a handsome Bollywood actor is just "not my type". As a matter of fact, I might even consider an LTR with a hot ethnic girl that isn't as easily brainwashed by hypocritical Hollywood.

As for why I care, because it matters, social perception as a whole has a say in how women feel about going for you as well as the kind of life you live after being in that relationship or making it in game. I'll still stand by saying that you should do all you can as a guy to improve yourself, you will be surprised how many opportunities open up and Indian guys with their shit together most definitely have options.

Now as for why it still matters, it matters because you will always be dealing with people no matter what you do in life inside or outside of game. You will always have to deal with society and its trends at large even once you have completed your journey in the game and settled down with a hot girl.

This is why you see some overweight bubbas in small towns with girls way out of their league, poorly dressed frat bro in college with girls he has no business with and dorky looking hipsters in major cities with hot girls. All because he is a part of the "in crowd" or has "status", that is why it matters, social perception is working in his favor.

The very fact that we have a game thread for each minority group discussing how much location matters in game and giving specific game advice is testament to the fact that you have to account for this stuff.

So when you do get into an LTR and she happens to be good looking and white, you have to be aware of the kinds of attacks that will be thrown in your direction.

Could just be an east coast thing as I am not too familiar with life in California.

Masculinity is not specific to a certain skin color. If you're a masculine socially well versed Indian man, you should have no problems with what other people think of who you date.

There are plenty of indian dudes who put 99% of white dudes to shame, and nobody would have the balls to fuck with them.

Post: #831

@abeerisenough too be honest dude it kind feels like you are repeating yourself alot. Don't get me wrong I get what you are trying to say. But it kind of feels like you are too focused on how Indians are perceived and not how you are perceived as an individual. I know plenty of Desi cats who havs their life in order and perform well whether it is with women, work or fitness. Their background is just a small detail of their lifestyle.

Sure, it sucks but how other Indians are and act shouldn't affect your life. It's just one factor of your life. There are other variables in play here than just belonging to a certain ethnicity.

Financial stability, education, experiences, skills, fitness and interests are factors that you can effect. I think you need ask yourself the question if you are a product of your background or are you a product of choices you make and the work you put in?

Feel free to let me know if I misunderstood you.

Post: #832

I get the same feeling, I think Beer needs his own progress thread.

Beer you write ALOT, but what concrete actions and steps are you taking?

I see alot of theories and ideas you talk about, but what are you applying in the real world?

I honestly think you need to create your own progress thread to keep yourself accountable of things you want to change.

Post: #833

Guys like a beer is enough are not uncommon among the younger crowd in America these days. There's an endless thirst for popularity, pussy, and validation permeating society at all levels. It just manifests itself differently in different groups. Among young women, you see it in endless social media abuse, hypergamy, etc. Among young men, especially ethnic immigrant men, you see people tying their basic self esteem and well being to how popular they are, how much pussy they're getting, and how much access they have to "the cool crowd".

As late as thirty to forty years ago, society's focus was on raising strong families, having stable jobs, and generally just getting by. Our fathers probably cared about getting pussy, but it was a drastic back seat to securing education and stability. These days, it's all about clout. My father at twenty didn't give a fuck about clout -- he was studying his ass off to become an engineer. At twenty, clout and pussy were all I could think about. I'm far from the only person who this applies to. I'm not in this mindset any more, but there are many, many people who stay in this phase throughout their late teens and early-mid twenties (possibly even into their thirties).

This "race to clout" affects ethnic immigrant men differently. They're subject to all kinds of negative stereotyping and feel a disconnect between American culture and their ancestral culture. They may have controlling parents who haven't fully assimilated and don't know how to raise a kid to be socially successful. Some start seeing racism everywhere, others go into a spiral of self hatred (I've met Indian guys who straight up told me that they wish they had blonde hair and blue eyes). It can definitely be a tough situation.

Beer's posts are very repetitive, but I've been in his shoes. So have thousands of others. Take a look at some "ethnic" red pill subreddits -- Asian masculinity, ABCDesis. They're full of endless speculation on which areas are best for Asian/Indian men, tons of complaining about self-hating Indian/Asian women, tons of salt about racist liberal whites. A lot of the "ethnic" based posts on the old TRP subreddit had this theme as well.

To be fair, some understanding of racial dynamics is a good thing. Unpacking your own complexes, negative views, and negative experiences is an important part of becoming a better and more self-aware man. Getting over these things is essential for fostering self love and learning about life. With that being said, beer's mentality is one to be gotten over with. Spending your life obsessing over popularity/pussy and writing endless internet posts about it is not healthy. All this talk about "pink nipple", "pink cock", "self hating ethnic women"...it's an unhealthy and ultimately inaccurate way of looking at the world.

Post: #834

Hey how's it going everyone? Just found this thread.

I'm an Indian guy born and living in India so I don't deal with many of the issues posted on this thread. I usually bang Indian girls and some foreign girls who come to the city. Most of my notches are through tinder and a few through my extended social circle and I've slowly been able to build a small but loyal harem.

I've traveled a bit around SEA like the Philippines and Vietnam and got a local notch in each city.

Indian girls in Tier 1 cities here are probably as slutty as all the women in the US so its great that I found this forum at the right time. I don't really approach women here but I have friends who do (all nightgame) and that works as well.

I'm planning my next trip now for New Years - any suggestions?

Post: #835

(11-14-2018 10:16 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  Indian girls in Tier 1 cities here are probably as slutty as all the women in the US so its great that I found this forum at the right time. I don't really approach women here but I have friends who do (all nightgame) and that works as well.

Where are you in India? There is a 0% chance Indian girls in Mumbai/Delhi/Bangalore/Pune are as slutty as American women in NYC/Miami/Vegas/LA....0%

Only models/actresses in Mumbai (and maybe Kolkata/South India) can even be 50% of the slut of a American girl in USA...Bangalore has a lot of sluts (by Indian standards) but its nowhere near the anglosphere level.

One thing I do not understand about young urban Indians...why do they blindly copy the West in everything? Including trying to emulate the hookup culture. Both urban and rural India are still sexually frustrated. My overall impression of young urban Indians is they are desperate for international validation--regardless of socio-economic/caste/religion/educational background.

I think the motto for young urban Indians: "We want Europe/US/Canada/Australia/UK/Japan to acknowledge us as cool and hip, therefore we will copy everything from them good or bad. We will post our travel photos from Europe, London, NYC and Miami on facebook/instagram to show we are upper-class Indians and not rickshawallahs".

Post: #836

(11-14-2018 10:20 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:16 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  Indian girls in Tier 1 cities here are probably as slutty as all the women in the US so its great that I found this forum at the right time. I don't really approach women here but I have friends who do (all nightgame) and that works as well.

Where are you in India? There is a 0% chance Indian girls in Mumbai/Delhi/Bangalore/Pune are as slutty as American women in NYC/Miami/Vegas/LA....0%

Only models/actresses in Mumbai (and maybe Kolkata/South India) can even be 50% of the slut of a American girl in USA...Bangalore has a lot of sluts (by Indian standards) but its nowhere near the anglosphere level.

One thing I do not understand about young urban Indians...why do they blindly copy the West in everything? Including trying to emulate the hookup culture. Both urban and rural India are still sexually frustrated. My overall impression of young urban Indians is they are desperate for international validation--regardless of socio-economic/caste/religion background.

I think the motto for young urban Indians: "We want Europe/US/Canada/Australia/UK/Japan to acknowledge us a cool and hip, therefore we will copy everything from them good or bad".

Then women in the US must be unbelievably slutty cause its crazy here. I'm in Bangalore.

Yeah India blindly apes the west. The latest being feminism and I keep trying to tell people its already dying out over there. I'm just enjoying it cause it makes my life easier.

There's definitely an amount of western worship here but a lot of people are waking up to it and trying to build their own identity and culture. Very cool place to be right now.

Post: #837

(11-14-2018 10:35 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:20 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:16 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  Indian girls in Tier 1 cities here are probably as slutty as all the women in the US so its great that I found this forum at the right time. I don't really approach women here but I have friends who do (all nightgame) and that works as well.

Where are you in India? There is a 0% chance Indian girls in Mumbai/Delhi/Bangalore/Pune are as slutty as American women in NYC/Miami/Vegas/LA....0%

Only models/actresses in Mumbai (and maybe Kolkata/South India) can even be 50% of the slut of a American girl in USA...Bangalore has a lot of sluts (by Indian standards) but its nowhere near the anglosphere level.

One thing I do not understand about young urban Indians...why do they blindly copy the West in everything? Including trying to emulate the hookup culture. Both urban and rural India are still sexually frustrated. My overall impression of young urban Indians is they are desperate for international validation--regardless of socio-economic/caste/religion background.

I think the motto for young urban Indians: "We want Europe/US/Canada/Australia/UK/Japan to acknowledge us a cool and hip, therefore we will copy everything from them good or bad".

Then women in the US must be unbelievably slutty cause its crazy here. I'm in Bangalore.

Yeah India blindly apes the west. The latest being feminism and I keep trying to tell people its already dying out over there. I'm just enjoying it cause it makes my life easier.

There's definitely an amount of western worship here but a lot of people are waking up to it and trying to build their own identity and culture. Very cool place to be right now.

Yeah, man, its borderline impossible to find a "good" traditional girl with a low notch count in the U.S.--some immigrant/minority communities have good girls but they are off-limits to most men. Comparatively, it is still easy to find nice, good, traditional Indian girls -- even in the tier 1 cities of India. Obviously in smaller towns/villages/rural areas, its even easier.

I have been following the hashtag metoo movement in India. Chetan Bhagat, Alok Nath and many other lesser know celebrity men have been taken down. It reveals how cunning Indian and foreign women are -- in not targeting the big players (Aamir Khan and Jessica Hines, Salman Khan has abused multiple women, Akshay Kumar was a playboy in his younger days, Virat Kohli, CEOs like Anand Mahindra, journalists like Prannoy Roy and Arnab Goswami etc) for sexual harassment. I'm waiting for Indian/foreign women to target the upper echelon of Indian men as part of the metoo "movement"....not small fish like Nawazuddin Siddiqui, Suhel Seth, etc. That will be fun to watch, when it happens.

I think Hindu Nationalism under BJP/RSS is a good thing...I question if Modi and Amit Shah are the men to lead it. Sonia Gandhi, Rahul Gandhi and their sycophants in Congress actually led the decline in Indian culture and traditions; through votebank miniority appeasement politics. I hope and think Modi and BJP will win in 2019. Modi deserves another 5 years as PM, imo.

Lol Bangalore, Mumbai and Kolkata are the slut capitals of India...at the same time, its still 1000x better than girls you will find in the states and probably Europe too.

Edit: Indian students/H1b workers/NRIs in the West also contribute to the moral decline. They bring their ideas from their experiences and implement them in India. That has also contribued to the hookup culture.

Overall, people in urban India are very selfish and only care about money/power. The sychophancy of the masses toward people who have money/power is disgusting -- they have no shame. Money, money and money.

Post: #838

(11-14-2018 10:20 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:16 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  Indian girls in Tier 1 cities here are probably as slutty as all the women in the US so its great that I found this forum at the right time. I don't really approach women here but I have friends who do (all nightgame) and that works as well.

Where are you in India? There is a 0% chance Indian girls in Mumbai/Delhi/Bangalore/Pune are as slutty as American women in NYC/Miami/Vegas/LA....0%

Only models/actresses in Mumbai (and maybe Kolkata/South India) can even be 50% of the slut of a American girl in USA...Bangalore has a lot of sluts (by Indian standards) but its nowhere near the anglosphere level.

One thing I do not understand about young urban Indians...why do they blindly copy the West in everything? Including trying to emulate the hookup culture. Both urban and rural India are still sexually frustrated. My overall impression of young urban Indians is they are desperate for international validation--regardless of socio-economic/caste/religion/educational background.

I think the motto for young urban Indians: "We want Europe/US/Canada/Australia/UK/Japan to acknowledge us as cool and hip, therefore we will copy everything from them good or bad. We will post our travel photos from Europe, London, NYC and Miami on facebook/instagram to show we are upper-class Indians and not rickshawallahs".

THIS. Totally agree and the reason behind it is the people who have that "wannabe western/white" attitude seek validation from imitating west and feel they are updating /becoming better(lol) if they shed "their" ideas/mindsets.You can see this happening in the movies and actors/actresses too. Im looking at you sellout piggy chopra. But some don't have this virus and some realize their mistake. We need more of them.

Post: #839

As for Jaxon’s post, being upset that it’s become all about pussy and clout won’t change the fact that that’s how everyone thinks now. And that you’ll be pushed off to the side if you’re not socially remarkable as a brown guy. That’s what I experienced in college, and it happened a whole lot less after I improved my appearance and built muscle. Most of the other brown guys I know have never experienced any social validation or good sex.

I hate to be a downer, but I really don’t see how "all of us are going to make it" like I’ve been seeing pop up here. Vast majority of brown guys in the US are below average height, and you don’t get shit with that unless you’ve got a very above average face or light skin. My college also had a lot of fobby Indians and unkempt ABCDs, but this is just what I’ve seen, and this seems to be the case where I live (I’m jumping ship from here next year for my medical career).

We’ll all have our wins and losses, but the aznidentity sub was right: we’re in a perpetual state of war.

I’m open to discussion about any of these points. What age group are you all btw?

Lastly, could someone PM me? For some reason I’m unable to PM anyone and my account is a month old. I just wanted some advice on a few of my tinder pics. For reference I’m mid-early 20’s ABCD

Post: #840

(11-14-2018 05:48 PM)kooba Wrote:  As for Jaxon’s post, being upset that it’s become all about pussy and clout won’t change the fact that that’s how everyone thinks now. And that you’ll be pushed off to the side if you’re not socially remarkable as a brown guy. That’s what I experienced in college, and it happened a whole lot less after I improved my appearance and built muscle. Most of the other brown guys I know have never experienced any social validation or good sex.

I hate to be a downer, but I really don’t see how "all of us are going to make it" like I’ve been seeing pop up here. Vast majority of brown guys in the US are below average height, and you don’t get shit with that unless you’ve got a very above average face or light skin. My college also had a lot of fobby Indians and unkempt ABCDs, but this is just what I’ve seen, and this seems to be the case where I live (I’m jumping ship from here next year for my medical career).

We’ll all have our wins and losses, but the aznidentity sub was right: we’re in a perpetual state of war.

I’m open to discussion about any of these points. What age group are you all btw?

Lastly, could someone PM me? For some reason I’m unable to PM anyone and my account is a month old. I just wanted some advice on a few of my tinder pics. For reference I’m mid-early 20’s ABCD

Definitely not complaining about it, it's more just a social phenomenon that I've noticed. I agree that it is the reality in large parts of America. There is an epidemic of thirst and status whoring out there. It just manifests itself differently among different groups of people.

I will say that it's an unhealthy way of thinking. I'm much more about personal fulfillment, growth, and enjoyment of life than I am about trying to roll with the cool kids. That's honestly the vibe I get from a lot of people online (not just immigrants).

Self improvement should be the "battle" in your life -- not the perceptions of other people. If you focus on improving yourself through exercise, reading, intellectually challenging work, and constantly learning, you'll enjoy your life overall. If you're on a desparate quest for validation -- constantly obsessing about race, "pink nipple", self hating ethnic girls -- life will blow no matter how much pussy you're actually getting. I know because I've been on both sides of the fence.

Life is an adventure, not a siege. I'm all for studying the effects of race on social/sexual dynamics, in fact I think it's a pretty interesting topic. But by the same token, the obsession and bitterness a lot of people have about it online is not healthy. I understand it, but I don't agree with it.

Post: #841

Just from a philosophical standpoint, meaning only exists if it’s agreed on. That’s why I’ve always disagreed that "you shouldn’t care what people think." People will immediately see me and think I’m not white, and think all sorts of things. Jaxon are you South Asian? How old are you?

Edit: man I’ve stooped low. I’m gonna go out on a limb here: does anyone have any recommendations for seeing a male counselor or therapist about this stuff? I can’t discuss this with anyone close to me. I care about mental health and I lift fairly regularly.

Post: #842

(11-14-2018 10:57 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:35 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:20 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:16 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  Indian girls in Tier 1 cities here are probably as slutty as all the women in the US so its great that I found this forum at the right time. I don't really approach women here but I have friends who do (all nightgame) and that works as well.

Where are you in India? There is a 0% chance Indian girls in Mumbai/Delhi/Bangalore/Pune are as slutty as American women in NYC/Miami/Vegas/LA....0%

Only models/actresses in Mumbai (and maybe Kolkata/South India) can even be 50% of the slut of a American girl in USA...Bangalore has a lot of sluts (by Indian standards) but its nowhere near the anglosphere level.

One thing I do not understand about young urban Indians...why do they blindly copy the West in everything? Including trying to emulate the hookup culture. Both urban and rural India are still sexually frustrated. My overall impression of young urban Indians is they are desperate for international validation--regardless of socio-economic/caste/religion background.

I think the motto for young urban Indians: "We want Europe/US/Canada/Australia/UK/Japan to acknowledge us a cool and hip, therefore we will copy everything from them good or bad".

Then women in the US must be unbelievably slutty cause its crazy here. I'm in Bangalore.

Yeah India blindly apes the west. The latest being feminism and I keep trying to tell people its already dying out over there. I'm just enjoying it cause it makes my life easier.

There's definitely an amount of western worship here but a lot of people are waking up to it and trying to build their own identity and culture. Very cool place to be right now.

Yeah, man, its borderline impossible to find a "good" traditional girl with a low notch count in the U.S.--some immigrant/minority communities have good girls but they are off-limits to most men. Comparatively, it is still easy to find nice, good, traditional Indian girls -- even in the tier 1 cities of India. Obviously in smaller towns/villages/rural areas, its even easier.

I have been following the hashtag metoo movement in India. Chetan Bhagat, Alok Nath and many other lesser know celebrity men have been taken down. It reveals how cunning Indian and foreign women are -- in not targeting the big players (Aamir Khan and Jessica Hines, Salman Khan has abused multiple women, Akshay Kumar was a playboy in his younger days, Virat Kohli, CEOs like Anand Mahindra, journalists like Prannoy Roy and Arnab Goswami etc) for sexual harassment. I'm waiting for Indian/foreign women to target the upper echelon of Indian men as part of the metoo "movement"....not small fish like Nawazuddin Siddiqui, Suhel Seth, etc. That will be fun to watch, when it happens.

I think Hindu Nationalism under BJP/RSS is a good thing...I question if Modi and Amit Shah are the men to lead it. Sonia Gandhi, Rahul Gandhi and their sycophants in Congress actually led the decline in Indian culture and traditions; through votebank miniority appeasement politics. I hope and think Modi and BJP will win in 2019. Modi deserves another 5 years as PM, imo.

Lol Bangalore, Mumbai and Kolkata are the slut capitals of India...at the same time, its still 1000x better than girls you will find in the states and probably Europe too.

Edit: Indian students/H1b workers/NRIs in the West also contribute to the moral decline. They bring their ideas from their experiences and implement them in India. That has also contribued to the hookup culture.

Overall, people in urban India are very selfish and only care about money/power. The sychophancy of the masses toward people who have money/power is disgusting -- they have no shame. Money, money and money.

I definitely support Modi but at this point in India to make real changes you a need a dictator type of figure to come in and make the hard decisions the country desperately needs. I wonder if Modi is the person who can evolve under into that role. Most patriotic Indians who do want change would definitely support this sort of regime.

What's your background? Are you American? And how old are you cause it seems like you want to get married soon.

Post: #843

I want to cry. I have come to the conclusion that I connect better with American women than foreign women. The cultural/language barrier is too strong with foreign women (specifically those from outside of the Anglosphere).

I have always put foreign women (European, Latinas, Mediterranean, Jewish, etc) on a pedestal. Its the slutty American women who understand me best and it brings me sadness.

I seriously need to leave USA before I end up getting into a serious relationship with an American woman (of any race, especially white).

Post: #844

(11-14-2018 10:28 PM)Pestilence Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:57 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:35 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:20 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:16 AM)Pestilence Wrote:  Indian girls in Tier 1 cities here are probably as slutty as all the women in the US so its great that I found this forum at the right time. I don't really approach women here but I have friends who do (all nightgame) and that works as well.

Where are you in India? There is a 0% chance Indian girls in Mumbai/Delhi/Bangalore/Pune are as slutty as American women in NYC/Miami/Vegas/LA....0%

Only models/actresses in Mumbai (and maybe Kolkata/South India) can even be 50% of the slut of a American girl in USA...Bangalore has a lot of sluts (by Indian standards) but its nowhere near the anglosphere level.

One thing I do not understand about young urban Indians...why do they blindly copy the West in everything? Including trying to emulate the hookup culture. Both urban and rural India are still sexually frustrated. My overall impression of young urban Indians is they are desperate for international validation--regardless of socio-economic/caste/religion background.

I think the motto for young urban Indians: "We want Europe/US/Canada/Australia/UK/Japan to acknowledge us a cool and hip, therefore we will copy everything from them good or bad".

Then women in the US must be unbelievably slutty cause its crazy here. I'm in Bangalore.

Yeah India blindly apes the west. The latest being feminism and I keep trying to tell people its already dying out over there. I'm just enjoying it cause it makes my life easier.

There's definitely an amount of western worship here but a lot of people are waking up to it and trying to build their own identity and culture. Very cool place to be right now.

Yeah, man, its borderline impossible to find a "good" traditional girl with a low notch count in the U.S.--some immigrant/minority communities have good girls but they are off-limits to most men. Comparatively, it is still easy to find nice, good, traditional Indian girls -- even in the tier 1 cities of India. Obviously in smaller towns/villages/rural areas, its even easier.

I have been following the hashtag metoo movement in India. Chetan Bhagat, Alok Nath and many other lesser know celebrity men have been taken down. It reveals how cunning Indian and foreign women are -- in not targeting the big players (Aamir Khan and Jessica Hines, Salman Khan has abused multiple women, Akshay Kumar was a playboy in his younger days, Virat Kohli, CEOs like Anand Mahindra, journalists like Prannoy Roy and Arnab Goswami etc) for sexual harassment. I'm waiting for Indian/foreign women to target the upper echelon of Indian men as part of the metoo "movement"....not small fish like Nawazuddin Siddiqui, Suhel Seth, etc. That will be fun to watch, when it happens.

I think Hindu Nationalism under BJP/RSS is a good thing...I question if Modi and Amit Shah are the men to lead it. Sonia Gandhi, Rahul Gandhi and their sycophants in Congress actually led the decline in Indian culture and traditions; through votebank miniority appeasement politics. I hope and think Modi and BJP will win in 2019. Modi deserves another 5 years as PM, imo.

Lol Bangalore, Mumbai and Kolkata are the slut capitals of India...at the same time, its still 1000x better than girls you will find in the states and probably Europe too.

Edit: Indian students/H1b workers/NRIs in the West also contribute to the moral decline. They bring their ideas from their experiences and implement them in India. That has also contribued to the hookup culture.

Overall, people in urban India are very selfish and only care about money/power. The sychophancy of the masses toward people who have money/power is disgusting -- they have no shame. Money, money and money.

I definitely support Modi but at this point in India to make real changes you a need a dictator type of figure to come in and make the hard decisions the country desperately needs. I wonder if Modi is the person who can evolve under into that role. Most patriotic Indians who do want change would definitely support this sort of regime.

What's your background? Are you American? And how old are you cause it seems like you want to get married soon.

I think a military dictatorship would be good...as long as India remains a democracy I think Modi and BJP are the best option available.

For the time being, I want to remain as anonymous as possible. I have already posted a lot of stuff in other threads. Don't want to take the risk in being identified.

I am of marriageable age and need to get married soon. So I am kind of looking for a serious long-term relationship. At the same time, I still want to run game and engage in casual sex and hook up culture lol

Post: #845

(11-14-2018 07:34 PM)Jaxon Wrote:  Life is an adventure, not a siege. I'm all for studying the effects of race on social/sexual dynamics, in fact I think it's a pretty interesting topic. But by the same token, the obsession and bitterness a lot of people have about it online is not healthy. I understand it, but I don't agree with it.

Exactly life is an adventure, and you should be discovering yourself on the way.

Life isn't fair, but the world isn't out to "get" you.

Guys discuss and discuss their problems online or to whomever but what are guys actually doing about it in real life? They sound like a broken record.

If you start thinking you're at a disadvantage or you start doubting yourself you're already losing. This is where self love and inner game are extremely important.

You'll notice the guys who obsess on these topics or who give theories, aren't the guys in the trenches approaching, gaming, dating, banging.

They're paper tigers.

Guys get so stigmatized and stereotype themselves they become paralyzed when it comes to making actual changes.

I accept people are like this, but I don't understand the mindset, and I also don't agree with it.

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I was watching this prank video from India and I automatically thought of the user "a beer is enough"

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(11-09-2018 05:19 PM)kaotic Wrote:  ABCD is a ridiculous term, it basically means, "dude you're so white washed, it's shameful"

It's an outdated term. One mostly used tongue in cheek now but it's original meaning was those Indians who were trying too hard to assimilate they forgot who they were. Now every community has this : Irish, Blacks, Asians, Latinos etc and I believe Indians are the ones that suffered the least because our culture is strong. You don't see Indian girls openly fawning over White men like Asian girls or doing stupid things like shaving their head and wearing wigs like Black girls but that is another discussion

(11-09-2018 06:09 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Can you go into detail of what you think is weird? I'm genuinely interested in knowing, maybe we'll see something we didn't see before.

There is a poster who says "Hot Indian girls hang with hot white girls". That statement is so fucking stupid I don't even know where to begin with shit like that. Maybe in his experience but extrapolating something so whimsical like that into a definitive statement is comical

You then have 'a beer is enough' constantly whinging about 'self-hating ethinc' girls and moaning repetitively. It's just very strange and for us Indians born in India a wholly alien experience.

For us 'Indian girls' are just girls. They're pretty,ugly,fat,sexy and everything in between.

(11-10-2018 03:09 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  Its clear as day, these dudes want white girls just as bad if not more than any other kind of Indian guy out there.

I don't know the exact name of it but when someone constantly berates something over and over again yet tries to attack others for going after it, a lot of it is due to a heavy desire for it. It happens when desire meets unattainability, kind of like a crabs in a bucket type of phenomenon.

see Kaotic walk into a bar with a pretty looking blonde by his arm, throwing up the whole sellout and not being proud of your roots card.

It's not "Clear as day" to anyone. In fact, I'm probably one of those Indian nationalists you're talking about and going through this thread 50 percent of which was filled with your posts gave me a fucking nosebleed.

You seem to think that blonde is a universal standard of attractiveness for everyone because of some weird fetish you have when most people are telling you to grow the fuck up. When Indians are posting matrimonial ads they are posting ads for 'fair skin' (because fair skin means you did not have to work in the sun) but no one is posting ads for white women. In fact marrying outside your race to a White, Black etc will bring the fury of Uncles and Aunts you've never met. Whites are considered inferior and don't even enter the imagination of the average Indian. The people turning up here are trolls and outliers.

Even In America a country where white supremacy runs deep 60%+ of foreign born Indians are marrying each other making us one of the most tightly knit communities so I don't know what the fuck you're talking about when you speak of things that are 'clear as day'

Then there are the people on this thread who are telling you your experiences are not the norm but you keep posting the same things again and again. Either you :

1) Have the humility to understand that your opinion and experience is not universal nor is what you consider the 'truth'

2) Continue to behave in a belligerent manner and assume the world is out to get you.

Whatever it is, you are coming across as mentally colonized and your posts are cringe worthy

Go after who you want but the fact that you need to shit on everyone to get there speaks of someone deeply insecure and unconfident. Maybe you had bad experiences with some women, I do not know but it is better to realize they aren't the norm and just move the fuck on rather that passing out sweeping generalizations and then wonder why there is pushback

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(11-14-2018 10:20 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  We will post our travel photos from Europe, London, NYC and Miami on facebook/instagram to show we are upper-class Indians and not rickshawallahs".

What do you mean by this lol? People post travel pics on Instagram, why is that related to 'Western-validation'? That is an absurd conclusion

It reminds me of White people thinking that Japanese people wanted to be 'White' because they colored their hair blonde and it's just like no. They just like cool colors, they color it pink and purple too.

Now, the English speaking part of India is turning towards Western cultural content in small steps but they are doing it with Indian authenticity as well. Like I said, Indian culture is strong so in the long run should be fine.

You have Indians like the ones who participate here who are familiar with Western culture but have one foot firmly in their roots :

https://homegrown.co.in/

You have Indians who have remained more 'authentic' but are embracing modernization. They are the ones who have driven Indias explosion on the internet with T -Series becoming the most subscribed channel on youtube.





and of course you have the traditional indians who are the majority who go to the temple, believe in Vishnu and what not

The first group is what the west will promote because it is in their interests to do so but that is a falsehood and the truth will always come out.

The BJP/RSS have changed the entire political landscape of the country in a way that will resonate for decades. Now even that idiot Rahul Gandhi will go to temples to pay respect to Hindus and show himself as in touch with the people. Lol, it's weird

But they are fucking idiots, make no mistake. Centralization of power will make states with regional identity reject them and lead to a fragmenting of the country and their nationalism is a crude one. I also personally detest people who attempt to rewrite history and bend the truth because they cannot deal with it.

Lastly, I'm not sure if you're joking when you say you think a military dictatorship in the country. I certainly hope you are considering we have a basket case of a country called Pakistan next to us that experimented with such a system which led to their ruin despite the grandoise visions of Jinnah.

No, democracy might look inferior compared to China but for a country like India it is the only way.

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(11-16-2018 05:43 AM)One piece Wrote:  

(11-14-2018 10:20 AM)Soy Jooce Wrote:  We will post our travel photos from Europe, London, NYC and Miami on facebook/instagram to show we are upper-class Indians and not rickshawallahs".

What do you mean by this lol? People post travel pics on Instagram, why is that related to 'Western-validation'? That is an absurd conclusion


The BJP/RSS have changed the entire political landscape of the country in a way that will resonate for decades. Now even that idiot Rahul Gandhi will go to temples to pay respect to Hindus and show himself as in touch with the people. Lol, it's weird

But they are fucking idiots, make no mistake. Centralization of power will make states with regional identity reject them and lead to a fragmenting of the country and their nationalism is a crude one. I also personally detest people who attempt to rewrite history and bend the truth because they cannot deal with it.

Lastly, I'm not sure if you're joking when you say you think a military dictatorship in the country. I certainly hope you are considering we have a basket case of a country called Pakistan next to us that experimented with such a system which led to their ruin despite the grandoise visions of Jinnah.

No, democracy might look inferior compared to China but for a country like India it is the only way.

Wanderlust is a common theme among young urban Indians on social media. It began in 2011 with Hindi films like 'Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara'. Similarly to how many young Indians are "entrepreneurs".

I agree BJP/RSS is excellent in restoring Hindu culture and Indian traditions overall. Love Jihad is another issue which has been slowed down thanks to Hindutva across the country. Muslim men are less likely to target Hindu and Sikh women thanks to rising Hindu Nationalism. Its disgusting the shit Indian/Pakistani/Bangaldeshi Muslim men get away it and its good they are being held accountable and stopped. Illegal immigration from Bangladesh into India is also being slowed down...thankfully. I 100% support right-wing Hindu groups.

Yeah, Rahul Gandhi is a complete idiot...a product of dynastic politics. I hope Modi and BJP will take action against a radical mullah like Asaduddin Owaisi...I am not sure why the Indian media gives that buffoon so much coverage?

I'm a fan of the Indian Army and General Bipin Rawat. Whenever their is some emergency, the army is called in to fix the problem, as the local police/govt/administration failed to do their job. I believe a military dictatorship would at least establish discipline and order. Otherwise, India is just a chaotic democracy and will remain so.

Comparing it to Pakistan is wrong, as Pakis have a confused identity (sometimes with Arabs/Persians/Muslims and sometimes with India) and their dysfunctional hate towards 'Hindu' India. Anything and everything would fail in Pakistan, including Democracy. Pak Army and ISI elected Imran Khan as PM, not the people of Pakistan. Pakistan = failed state