Post: #1

Hey everyone, this is my first post. I just started the whole PUA thing. No real routines or anything, just vibing and being confident around girls. I know it says on the FAQ if you ask about advice about a girl you already lost, but I think I can recover this.

I started having sex with this girl a few months ago, and we kinda developed feelings. Over the summer I couldn't visit because of logistics and stuff (We're in college), but the first night back we had sex. Then I took her home again a few days later. The next day I found out from a friend that she was upset and confused/didn't know if I liked her. He told me to tell her how I felt about her and I stupidly agreed. When i told her she said she wasn't looking for anything, but still wanted to know if I was going out that night and said maybe she'd see me there. It's been like two weeks and I haven't spoken to her, except last night when I asked if she was going out so I could try and bang her again. She didn't have her phone so when I saw her out I assumed she didn't respond and ignored her. I got a text later that night from her saying she had left her phone at home because it wasn't working.

I heard from a friend of hers that she still likes me, but doesn't want a boyfriend.

My question is have I made myself look like a pussy? If I could I'd like to keep banging her, and maybe turn it into something, but I don't really know where to go from here. It seems different from other situations because I've already had sex with her a bunch of times, and the girl is really awkward andhard to talk to sometimes.

Any advice would be awesome, thanks guys.

Post: #2

Can we start seeing posts about broken hearts and girl problems in the newbie section? There is room for a lot of deeper "pussy mastery" discussion in the main forum. If you are worrying about looking like a bitch the clear solution is to stop worrying. Forget this girl and make her jealous by showing her you can get other girls, overtly or inadvertently. She said she isn't looking for anything. In girl language this is as clear as she will spell out that she has no attraction because she values female tact and does not want to hurt your feelings.

P.S. no QQ I belong in the newb section too

Post: #3

i didn't see the newbie forum until after i posted, sorry. i guess i'll just keep banging her then, because i can.

Post: #4

you've made yourself look a pussy to a large extent. i would go about treating as you normally would and not let what you said to her affect how you treat her. if you let in get in your head, you will only look like a bigger pussy. dont let it look like you care that she might not want anything serious.

Post: #5

this should be in the newbie forum.....

Post: #6

In my experience, any woman who says she doesn't want a boyfriend is lying.