Post: #26

Recently (last year or so) I’ve had women that were into me say that they love watching me “move” which means my swagger for the most part. When I’ve asked deeper identifying questions it’s the air of confidence that permeates one’s being after years of faking it - hah. Also described as the “dont fuck with me” look.

Frankly we send off so many different vibes, the truth is to be self aware and keep a mental catalogue of what works. Rinse, lather, repeat

In other words, how you “move” isn’t just how you move.

Post: #27

You can often look towards the opposite end of the equation for clues on what not to do.

Watch a fumbling, cowed beta and figure out everything about his M.O. that inspires revulsion in women and yourself. Make sure never to do the stuff he does.

Post: #28

(11-23-2017 04:25 PM)churros Wrote:  How did experience make you tamer?

Because it taught me that there's more to life and human interactions than gaming young, clueless girls (even though it will always remain one of the most pleasurable thing in life).

You are not in a vacuum with the girls you are peacocking to. There are other girls, and most importantly, other men, in that same environment with you. Some of them might end up being much more valuable to you than some random rolls in the shack with a young chick. But the *alpha* attitude you display are driving them off.

Back in my early aikido days, I was popular with the girls, but not popular with the rest of the club. I burn a lot of bridges because I loved a good fight and showing off. Of course I didn't give half a shit so long as the adrenaline is running from sex and energy. Now I know better.

That guy I just threw down to get a quick high and get girl's eyes sparkling? He could have been a very nice buddy who would buy me a beer when I'm broke or send me an insider job offer. Both of which can be more important to me than a random girl.

Samseau might be preaching, but he is right in one thing. We overvalue pussy too much. Building meaningful relationship with men, and women who matter, is far more rewarding in the long run than fucking. Even a beta can teach me stuff I'm clueless about. No girl can ever teach me anything of value. Most of what I know today (fencing, writing, french, patience, diplomacy, etc) were taught to me by men who couldnt give a shit about how many girls you banged, but will get annoyed at a loud, arrogant young buck.

Then there are "retention rate" - how long can you keep a girl around after the initial ONS.

But none of what I said is something players and newbies should be thinking about. If your goals are upping notch count, yes, the swagger walk and the attitude associated with it is very effective. Learn it, do it, love it.

Post: #29

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Post: #30

(11-21-2017 04:55 PM)BossOfBosses Wrote:  But I looked at how I was *moving* in that particular moment and for lack of better way to put I was "striding" or "strutting" down the street.

Its funny you say that....one of the biggest womanizers I ever met had the most unforgettable ...I'm not sure what you call it but it was between a strut and slither.

I actually turned to the side while walking with him and burst out laughing because it was like he was gliding along beside me.

Was a little above average height, not overly built....reminded me a lot of Bon Scott. Did not give a fuck and had no issue throwing down. One night at a party after talking bout his twins two separate women approached him to be a donor....He could flip lesbians like it was nothing (decent looking ones too).
The whole lunch room would joke about if you put his sweat in a bottle it would be the best cologne a man could have
One other thing about him....he never bragged about his conquests and was very secretive...the only reason he got found out where I worked was he got busted leaving their places and came clean afterwards.

But that snake walk was something else.

Post: #31

(11-23-2017 03:46 PM)Baronxrus Wrote:  Effeminate look.

You missed the point. Nevermind the fact this "effeminate" guy gets way more pussy thrown at him than probably anyone on this thread or forum.

Post: #32

(11-25-2017 01:15 PM)BossOfBosses Wrote:  

(11-23-2017 03:46 PM)Baronxrus Wrote:  Effeminate look.

You missed the point. Nevermind the fact this "effeminate" guy gets way more pussy thrown at him than probably anyone on this thread or forum.

Effeminate men get laid all the time. In truth, men do get laid all the time despite the amount of doomsaying circle jerk going around in the manosphere.

I've seen faggot gay (bi?) men get laid with hot girls, betas get laid/luck out with hot girls, ugly guys get laid with hot girls etc.

Truthfully getting laid with women is not that hard to figure out if the man is of average intelligence and no autism. It is certainly way easier to learn than carpentry, scuplture, martial arts, building a passive income, or other pursuits. Most guys will get laid after 100 approaches (random quality)

Post: #33

(11-27-2017 12:57 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

(11-25-2017 01:15 PM)BossOfBosses Wrote:  

(11-23-2017 03:46 PM)Baronxrus Wrote:  Effeminate look.

You missed the point. Nevermind the fact this "effeminate" guy gets way more pussy thrown at him than probably anyone on this thread or forum.

Effeminate men get laid all the time. In truth, men do get laid all the time despite the amount of doomsaying circle jerk going around in the manosphere.

I've seen faggot gay (bi?) men get laid with hot girls, betas get laid/luck out with hot girls, ugly guys get laid with hot girls etc.

Truthfully getting laid with women is not that hard to figure out if the man is of average intelligence and no autism. It is certainly way easier to learn than carpentry, scuplture, martial arts, building a passive income, or other pursuits. Most guys will get laid after 100 approaches (random quality)

There's 1 in 1024 chance you'll get ten heads in a row if tossing a coin. But that's not the point, to eventually score, by chance. You want to maximise scoring, aka, increasing probabilities of success. I doubt any men would be happy to approach randomly 100 women and take home whatever falls into his hands...

Post: #34

I'll add my two cents here: surround yourself with adequate negative space. Just like how artists and photographers will surround a subject with the negative space background, so too do you become a subject of a mini-portrait.

Examples:
1. Enter a room via the middle of a doorway. Walk in the middle of the sidewalk when you can. No slinking by-you need all that grand glorious space for yourself.
2. Situate your home desk to face outwards towards the middle of the room.
2a. Clean that desk too! Cluttered desks distract from the person sitting in the center.

I think this is pretty common sense; just develop a split-second conscientiousness about which parts of the sidewalk/the room are prime real estate.

This is not necessarily *how to move* but choosing *where to move*

Post: #35

I strut, it is priceless and awesome- I do not pimp step or walk with a limp because it is try hard not cool.

Post: #36

(11-21-2017 06:37 PM)MikeInRealLife Wrote:  Roissy/Heartiste has addressed this multiple times. Head over to the Chateau!

I would but due to my great grandfather dying in the Holocaust I don't fuck with the PUA fascist- my poor Great grandfather died when he fell off a guard tower at Auschwitz(joke stolen from the great Kona- Aloha!)

Post: #37

Yeah displaying a lot of flare finesse,and peacocking in your body language is under rated. Being a peacock 'jocky' so to speak. I like the left hand in pocket and right arm flared as far as possible. Another good good one is the hand in waistcoat posture(unbutton your shirt and stick your hand in your shirt/polo).

Adopting different styles of movements depending on the character you play is key to.
I.e How you move on a beach is more like a sheepdog life guard guy on duty ready to burst into action if something breaks on the horizon,keep your eyes on the water,playing guessing games about when the tides are rolling in,whooing,and whooping around vs when your dressed sharp at party or casual environment and want to look some classy dude who may have been dealing cocaine all day and moves like a killer.

I think a lot of how to move can be learned by watching movie characters emulating the one's who's swagger you jive with and YOU could actually imagine pulling off the character as well as possible.

Obviously you gotta know when to tone things down and come across as atleast a slightly less arrogant bastard or heaven forbid feign humbleness.

Post: #38

Someone try this and report back

Post: #39

(11-29-2017 01:24 AM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  Someone try this and report back

Just did it in an aquarium, and a squid made me a marriage proposal.