Post: #26

It had to be posted.

   

Post: #27

How do you just find 8 orphaned kids?

I always wonder about adoption, isn't there a grandparent, uncles, aunts?

Post: #28

(10-02-2017 03:09 PM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  Looks like they are trying to start a soccer team, one of the white kids can play goalie.

Then they are playing from behind. Lionel Messi was a badass at 5 years old. He better get that training camp going ASAP.

Post: #29

They can shave a few years off like Freddy Adu.

Post: #30

Wow, they surely went hard at virtue signalling, you have to at least give them the merit.

Post: #31

delete

Post: #32

I feel sorry for their real children. Their life is ruined.

Post: #33

Meanwhile...

Post: #34

Wife doesn't work and he works for a water board. "Water Board" employees must get paid a LOT better than I thought. It's $12-14K annually to support a child. That's $120-140,000 just to keep the kids alive! Then they had to crowdsource $16,000 to build an extension on their house. If you had to beg for $16,000, how do you have $140,000 annually for the kids.

Is this dude getting some massive welfare package?

Quote:The former teacher, was inspired to visit the African country in 2010, after discovering one of her students was from Sierra Leone and had been adopted by an American family.

Alongside husband, Mike, 34, who works for the water board, they went to 'The Raining Season' orphanage where they were interviewed to become adoptive parents.

Post: #35

(10-02-2017 01:30 PM)Samseau Wrote:  Matthew 6

Quote:1 “Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.

2 “So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. 3 But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you."

So you're telling me these guys are Christians... who've never read the most prominent sections of the Bible.

PURE virtue signaling, let them enjoy their shitlib rewards. Hopefully the kids don't grow to be too fucked up, pretty obvious they don't care about the kids they just want to look holy.

The type and shadow of the Western woman:



Pharoah's daughter adopts Moses with which leads to the collapse of her father's kingdom - Exodus 2

The type and shadow of Merkel and her pseudopregnancy:

The Bitch and Her Whelps

Aesop Wrote:A BITCH, ready to whelp, earnestly begged a shepherd for a place
where she might litter. When her request was granted, she
besought permission to rear her puppies in the same spot. The
shepherd again consented. But at last the Bitch, protected by
the bodyguard of her Whelps, who had now grown up and were able
to defend themselves, asserted her exclusive right to the place
and would not permit the shepherd to approach.

http://www.aesopfables.com/cgi/aesop1.cg...dHerWhelps

Post: #36

(10-03-2017 12:20 AM)Rocha Wrote:  Meanwhile...

Charles Dickens Wrote:Mrs. Jellyby
fictional character
Written By: The Editors of Encyclopædia Britannica

Mrs. Jellyby, satiric character in the novel Bleak House (1852–53) by Charles Dickens, one of his memorable caricatures. Matronly Mrs. Jellyby is a philanthropist who devotes her time and energy to setting up a mission in Africa while ignoring the needy in her own family and neighbourhood.

https://www.britannica.com/topic/Mrs-Jellyby

Post: #37

(10-03-2017 12:12 AM)Mage Wrote:  I feel sorry for their real children. Their life is ruined.

There is something sick in the West now that the zeitgeist puts everyone else ahead of its own children, born, unborn and yet to be conceived.

Post: #38

(10-02-2017 01:34 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  They obviously believe in the concept of a large nuclear family. I'm jealous a little bit because I wish I could have that many, blood or not. My wife is too weak and too much of a modern Chinese woman to handle a large family.

She's shit-testing you.

Time to step your game up a notch and make it clear to her that you are the one who makes the family decisions.

Post: #39

Family friends who would be in their 70s now are a case study for this in my mind.

They are a successful white couple who went on to raise two successful white children.

They also adopted two African American kids when they were under the age of 5 and when their biological children were heading off to University.

Their biological children have both went to good universities and have had successful careers, along with providing them with grandchildren.

The adopted children, who were raised with exactly the same high standards of living as their biological children, have grown up to essentially be bums. They never went to college and are in their 20's still living at home and unemployed (days spent smoking weed and playing video games with no ambition for something more). The adopted African American kids do not get along with the biological children.

It is obvious to anyone close to the family how much stress, family friction, and disappointment their "good deed" of adoption has been for them.

Post: #40

(10-02-2017 01:09 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

Quote:A couple have done an extreme 'Brangelina' by adopting eight siblings from an African orphanage in one go - the biggest single adoption in history.

Hayley and Mike Jones instantly increased the size of their family from two to ten by adopting the children from Sierra Leone.

The pair wanted a bigger family but were put off having children after both of Hayley's pregnancies ended with emergency C-sections.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...anage.html



Prediction that she will eventually bang her eldest "son", who is way more fit than her husband.



MILF WB:

Quote:Mike and Hayley said it was their strong Christian faith that convinced them to adopt their new children

They wrote a book about their experience which you can buy at ChristianBooks.com.



https://www.christianbook.com/overcoming...vent=ESRCP

The pastor at my church did this with five kids from an orphanage. He gave them back within a year and left the church shortly after that. Even as a child it seemed like a rash decision.

Post: #41

(10-03-2017 04:19 AM)PainPositive Wrote:  The pastor at my church did this with five kids from an orphanage. He gave them back within a year...

Wait? You can do that?

Post: #42

(10-03-2017 04:44 AM)Suits Wrote:  

(10-03-2017 04:19 AM)PainPositive Wrote:  The pastor at my church did this with five kids from an orphanage. He gave them back within a year...

Wait? You can do that?

Try before you Buy.

Post: #43

Personally I'm curious to know how the fuck you're allowed to adopt 8 kids in one hit. From what I understand it's difficult enough to convince the state you're fit to adopt one kid, much less eight.

I get the sneaking suspicion that if a couple attempted to adopt 8 foreign white kids (or asians for that matter) that they would be immediately arrested and investigated for potential sex-traffiking crimes.

Post: #44

Agree with Roosh.

5 years from now...

Post: #45

(10-03-2017 04:44 AM)Suits Wrote:  

(10-03-2017 04:19 AM)PainPositive Wrote:  The pastor at my church did this with five kids from an orphanage. He gave them back within a year...

Wait? You can do that?

Only with Amazon Prime

Post: #46

(10-03-2017 01:26 AM)Suits Wrote:  

(10-02-2017 01:34 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  They obviously believe in the concept of a large nuclear family. I'm jealous a little bit because I wish I could have that many, blood or not. My wife is too weak and too much of a modern Chinese woman to handle a large family.

She's shit-testing you.

Time to step your game up a notch and make it clear to her that you are the one who makes the family decisions.

Nah I disagree on that. I'm clearly the tyrant, but I can observe weaknesses in others and know what their limits are around me, enough to make an executive decision on their behalf. When I met her I was not exactly interested in a large family at the time. That was something I found interest in later, so that affected my searching at the time.

My kids can learn from me as well. My father is too blue pilled to have handed down a wisdom like that, but considering his background, he did the best with what he understood.

Besides, I am not exactly ballin over here. Flying back and forth between China and the USA with kids is not cheap at all.

If I had to do everything all over again with what I know now, I probably would have gone for a 18-20 year old, gotten 4-5 out of her, stayed in the USA, took some different job offers, got an MBA, and hired a nanny. 24-25 is too late and too harsh on their bodies to constantly go back to back on kids more than twice. After each kid the recovery time is worse and longer than the previous time.

I don't have any regrets, but that's just my honest Monday Morning Quarterback look at how I did and what I would have done differently. God still has a plan for me and my tribe, I am quite certain through faith everything will work out for the best and on time.

Post: #47

(10-03-2017 06:58 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  Personally I'm curious to know how the fuck you're allowed to adopt 8 kids in one hit. From what I understand it's difficult enough to convince the state you're fit to adopt one kid, much less eight.

It's extremely difficult to even get approved for adoption within the US. Close friends of mine have been through a ton to get approved. They started the process a year ago. They have shelled out a shit ton of money to make it happen, along with jumping through hoops with paperwork. They also had random house inspections where people came and went through their house and belongings to make sure it was kid safe and friendly.

This process is far from a walk in the park.

Post: #48

(10-03-2017 03:14 AM)bacon Wrote:  Family friends who would be in their 70s now are a case study for this in my mind.

They are a successful white couple who went on to raise two successful white children.

They also adopted two African American kids when they were under the age of 5 and when their biological children were heading off to University.

Their biological children have both went to good universities and have had successful careers, along with providing them with grandchildren.

The adopted children, who were raised with exactly the same high standards of living as their biological children, have grown up to essentially be bums. They never went to college and are in their 20's still living at home and unemployed (days spent smoking weed and playing video games with no ambition for something more). The adopted African American kids do not get along with the biological children.

It is obvious to anyone close to the family how much stress, family friction, and disappointment their "good deed" of adoption has been for them.

I have a close associate with a similar experience and result. One of their mixed-race adopted children has not adjusted well and will spend the rest of life tormenting the adoptive parents. The other is doing well enough and is not demonstrating major problems, thankfully.

With adoptive kids, you usually lose screening capacity. You have no idea what is going to happen biologically. The problem is compounded with mixed-race and cultural issues. How can a white parent help a young black man navigate in a white environment - where they will always have a distinguishing/outgroup identity - or a black environment - where the parents have little/no basis? It takes a strong parent-set (father figure must be firm) to pull it off.

Note: In one case, I observed that this environment delivered a kid that is finely tuned to manipulate "white guilt." Highly likely that these kids will be trained from a young age at how "oppressed" they are, how they are constantly "profiled," etc. Their Churchian and liberal teachers/coaches/etc. and even family members will often "socially promote" them and buffer them from any racial offense - legitimate or not, historical or present, fabricated or actual. Such an environment sets up a highly manipulative, narcissistic personality that trains the child from an early age to play on these emotions.

I suspect that President Obama learned this from a young age, as well as Colin Kapernaeck. Black/mixed race kids, raised in a relatively affluent white culture, indoctrinated with a victim mind-set. One was masterful at baiting guilt-obsessed/cuck opposition into capitulation, all the while playing a Jesus figure. The latter has the NFL at its knees, literally and figuratively.

Post: #49

I won't hate too hard, but I always feel a little salty when people adopt kids from abroad instead of our homegrown orphans. It's just such a virtue signal that I can't ignore it. Think about all our inner city sports talent that will never get a fair shot because they don't have a dad rich enough to afford cleats and jerseys. For shame, America.

Goob 1: I adopted a kid recently. I hope we can give him a good life.

Goob 2: Wow, really? That's great. Where did you adopt him from?

Goob 1: One of the local inner city districts.

Goob 2: That's cool, but I adopted MY kid from Siera Leone.

Shit like that bothers me because it has nothing to do with the kids at that point. Salt aside, I do respect these Christians for putting their money where their mouth is and adopting. It's easy to wear the superman cape but another thing to actually try and fly.

Would I adopt? Possibly, but I'd only do it if I couldn't have kids, but even then I'd pick an American kid over a foreign interloper.

Post: #50

Unless you're infertile, I really don't believe in adoption.

We breed animals for certain behavioral traits, it's foolish assuming humans are any different.

Adoption is a crapshoot. Depending on the child you're taking in you're going to run into all sorts of issues being the end result of low impulse control and other undesirable personality quirks. Intelligence being the biggest one. You think these african kids are going to be smarter than 85 IQ points? Ha!

Regardless, this family could have adopted any number of American born orphans who would probably be slightly better behaved and would appreciate the opportunity given.

Adopting kids of another race is weird, plain and simple. Fortis and others said it more precisely than I have.