Post: #1

I'm somewhat of a newbie (on and off since 2015, LIFE got in the way..) and my main goal before settling down is to get 100 bangs. I'm not talking about chubby chasing, I'm talking about 7+ females. I'm average in looks, somewhat average in height (5'8) and have a very stable well paying career (40k starting out, will be a 70k in 6 years) but I stay in somewhat of a small town with a metro area stated above. I figure if I go the Roosh V program route (10 approaches a week, 520 approaches a year) plus some trips to Mexico/Thailand I can meet that number in 6 years. Only problem is I don't want to be seen as that "creep" in my downtown district approaching new girls every week. Also, I don't want to be the guy who cheats on every girl on town so when its time to settle to have a family, I'm only left with the bar thots that could care less about raising children.

I'm in a big dilemma and I know most of you are thinking "Just move to a major metro..." but its something I would rather avoid because of the cost and the fact I need to be closer to my family now more than ever for personal reasons. So with this being said. Could I get 100 bangs in somewhat of a short time frame (6 years) and be able to do it all within my small metro ares? If so what would I need to do?

Other Relevant Factors

-I have about 10 hours a week to spend on game
-As of now I have about $100 a month to spend on game (for bars, good online photos, game resources, etc)
-I will be a 10 minute drive away from downtown, could pay $250 more a month for rent to be a 5 minute walk away from the bars/clubs. That would get me to save less money
-I could take a career path that would have me getting less money in the long run (about $30k in the next 10 years) that would give me the flexibility to work as a bartendar which would elevate my status and help.
-I have a great niche with black girls (2 bangs 15 approaches over the past 2 years)
-Age: 22-25
-No Kids, no property owned
- Could back to school to get my Masters and be GAME RELEVANT (would be a 2 year process part time, I won't be able to be in greek life as a part time student)
-I have a large dick (magnum girth, 7 inches long)
-In decent shape, a little muscular

If you all need any more details please let me know.

Post: #2

Do or do not; there is no try.

Of course it's possible; but I get the sense that you're chasing an arbitrary number as opposed to gaming because you enjoy it. Can you tell us why you want to chase after 100 notches?

Post: #3

(05-22-2017 01:08 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  Do or do not; there is no try.

Of course it's possible; but I get the sense that you're chasing an arbitrary number as opposed to gaming because you enjoy it. Can you tell us why you want to chase after 100 notches?

I want to soy my oats, have fun, and become good at sex. I want to be Chad Thundercock. Get to Phase 5 of being a player (phases in this thread /thread-51119.html ) Be able to relationship game my future wife so that we have a great stable happy family.

You said it can be done, how? How do I keep my reputation respectable and bang these 100 different quality chicks in a small metro like this?

Post: #4

Why would it be done? Not going to start on that

Could it be done? Yes do the math.

100 lays

365 days

Every 3.65 days you need to get laid.

Referencing "Two Months In The Life Of The G Manifesto: Approach-Number-Conversion Rates", let's assume you're a decent player with a 3% approach/bang rate. This means you'll have to approach 33.3 repeating girls to get laid.

33.3 approaches
3.65 days
~9 approaches/day

So yes, if you do 9 approaches a day everyday you will get 100 bangs in a year.

Could it be done in a city of 500k-1m people? I doubt it.

100 bangs at this close rate would require 3,333 approaches. I won't go full autismo but let's assume 1M pop for easy math. 3,333 approaches out of 1M is 0.03% of the population....on a pure numbers basis I'd say it's safe to assume 0.03% of the population at large is a HB, but when you take into account:

1. You have to find these girls
2. They might know eachother

I doubt it.

Unless you lower your standards.

This was fun. Let us know how it goes!

Edit: could you do it with your lifestyle? Possible but you must be firing on all FUCKING cylinders.

You need ~63 approaches a week. In ten hours that's six approaches an hour, CONSISTENTLY. Every week, no excuses.

My analysis was done considering a 3% close rate too. Drop that 1% and all bets are off.

Post: #5

(05-22-2017 01:36 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Why would it be done? Not going to start on that

Could it be done? Yes do the math.

100 lays

365 days

Every 3.65 days you need to get laid.

Referencing "Two Months In The Life Of The G Manifesto: Approach-Number-Conversion Rates", let's assume you're a decent player with a 3% approach/bang rate. This means you'll have to approach 33.3 repeating girls to get laid.

33.3 approaches
3.65 days
~9 approaches/day

So yes, if you do 9 approaches a day everyday you will get 100 bangs in a year.

Could it be done in a city of 500k-1m people? I doubt it.

100 bangs at this close rate would require 3,333 approaches. I won't go full autismo but let's assume 1M pop for easy math. 3,333 approaches out of 1M is 0.03% of the population....on a pure numbers basis I'd say it's safe to assume 0.03% of the population at large is a HB, but when you take into account:

1. You have to find these girls
2. They might know eachother

I doubt it.

Unless you lower your standards.

This was fun. Let us know how it goes!

Edit: could you do it with your lifestyle? Possible but you must be firing on all FUCKING cylinders.

You need ~63 approaches a week. In ten hours that's six approaches an hour, CONSISTENTLY. Every week, no excuses.

My analysis was done considering a 3% close rate too. Drop that 1% and all bets are off.

As noted in the post description.

- I have a 6 year window to get this done
- I would need time to escalate and get her comfortable to get the bang as well...

Would this change your answer? If it does what would I need to go to get this done?

Post: #6

Wow, I went full retard on that last post, and incorrectly assumed you meant 100 bangs in a year.

I definitely had too much Super Male Vitality today.

Could you do it in six years? Hands down. That's 1.4 lays a month.

Could you do it in your small town? Who knows. I do know, that you should stop worrying about your stupid f***ing crotch count and start focusing on your life. If you haven't opened WallStreetPlayboys I highly recommend you take a few hours out of your day and read every damn post on that site.

Or to start you can go to this thread and press CTRL + F "WestCoast"

/thread-34269.html

Post: #7

(05-22-2017 01:41 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 01:36 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Why would it be done? Not going to start on that

Could it be done? Yes do the math.

100 lays

365 days

Every 3.65 days you need to get laid.

Referencing "Two Months In The Life Of The G Manifesto: Approach-Number-Conversion Rates", let's assume you're a decent player with a 3% approach/bang rate. This means you'll have to approach 33.3 repeating girls to get laid.

33.3 approaches
3.65 days
~9 approaches/day

So yes, if you do 9 approaches a day everyday you will get 100 bangs in a year.

Could it be done in a city of 500k-1m people? I doubt it.

100 bangs at this close rate would require 3,333 approaches. I won't go full autismo but let's assume 1M pop for easy math. 3,333 approaches out of 1M is 0.03% of the population....on a pure numbers basis I'd say it's safe to assume 0.03% of the population at large is a HB, but when you take into account:

1. You have to find these girls
2. They might know eachother

I doubt it.

Unless you lower your standards.

This was fun. Let us know how it goes!

Edit: could you do it with your lifestyle? Possible but you must be firing on all FUCKING cylinders.

You need ~63 approaches a week. In ten hours that's six approaches an hour, CONSISTENTLY. Every week, no excuses.

My analysis was done considering a 3% close rate too. Drop that 1% and all bets are off.

As noted in the post description.

- I have a 6 year window to get this done
- I would need time to escalate and get her comfortable to get the bang as well...

Would this change your answer? If it does what would I need to go to get this done?

Well, I'm just gonna add that if you have 6 years to do so, you would have more of an age-window on the population available. Assuming you go for girls since they are 18, you could, eventually, add the girls that are now 12. This would give you more chances.

Post: #8

(05-22-2017 01:43 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Wow, I went full retard on that last post, and incorrectly assumed you meant 100 bangs in a year.

I definitely had too much Super Male Vitality today.

Could you do it in six years? Hands down. That's 1.4 lays a month.

Could you do it in your small town? Who knows. I do know, that you should stop worrying about your stupid f***ing crotch count and start focusing on your life. If you haven't opened WallStreetPlayboys I highly recommend you take a few hours out of your day and read every damn post on that site.

Or to start you can go to this thread and press CTRL + F "WestCoast"

/thread-34269.html

Believe me I have been.

In college I was a workaholic and I have a good career in head of me to show for it. I am trying to find the best way to stack my cash and get laid which the WallStreetPlayboys glorifys. My career is not as lucrative as finance and I a part of me wishes I took that path but its too late now.

Also I read a post from that sites that says to (im paraphrasing) "game in you 20s and 30s, have a kid by 40." FUCK THAT. I don't want to be trying to chase my kid around the house at 40 even if I have a lot of $$$$.

I want to stack cash and have fun while Im young and have money saved for a home for my family when I'm in my late 20s. Not gaming bimbos in the club and plotting on my next raise.

Post: #9

delete. double post

Post: #10

(05-22-2017 01:49 PM)ExploringReality Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 01:41 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 01:36 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Why would it be done? Not going to start on that

Could it be done? Yes do the math.

100 lays

365 days

Every 3.65 days you need to get laid.

Referencing "Two Months In The Life Of The G Manifesto: Approach-Number-Conversion Rates", let's assume you're a decent player with a 3% approach/bang rate. This means you'll have to approach 33.3 repeating girls to get laid.

33.3 approaches
3.65 days
~9 approaches/day

So yes, if you do 9 approaches a day everyday you will get 100 bangs in a year.

Could it be done in a city of 500k-1m people? I doubt it.

100 bangs at this close rate would require 3,333 approaches. I won't go full autismo but let's assume 1M pop for easy math. 3,333 approaches out of 1M is 0.03% of the population....on a pure numbers basis I'd say it's safe to assume 0.03% of the population at large is a HB, but when you take into account:

1. You have to find these girls
2. They might know eachother

I doubt it.

Unless you lower your standards.

This was fun. Let us know how it goes!

Edit: could you do it with your lifestyle? Possible but you must be firing on all FUCKING cylinders.

You need ~63 approaches a week. In ten hours that's six approaches an hour, CONSISTENTLY. Every week, no excuses.

My analysis was done considering a 3% close rate too. Drop that 1% and all bets are off.

As noted in the post description.

- I have a 6 year window to get this done
- I would need time to escalate and get her comfortable to get the bang as well...

Would this change your answer? If it does what would I need to go to get this done?

Well, I'm just gonna add that if you have 6 years to do so, you would have more of an age-window on the population available. Assuming you go for girls since they are 18, you could, eventually, add the girls that are now 12. This would give you more chances.

So what would be the best strategy? Should I try to become a bartendar? Should I focus on day game/night game/ online game? What would be the best way to spend those 10 hours?

Post: #11

What serious career do you have that also lets you bartend?

Post: #12

Completely doable. In G-Man's datasheet he said he did zero online game.

You have 6 years to do this.

1-2 bangs a month from Tinder. Easy
1-2 bangs a month from day/night game. Easy

Find the 2-3 best night time places in your city and lock them down. Become friends with the people there and get social proof.

The thing that might hold you back will be having only $100 bucks a month to spend. Try and get that to $200. $50 per weekend and you'll get at least 1-4 bangs per month.

You don't need 10 hours a week to do this.

5 mins a day on tinder.

2-3 hours out 2-3 nights a week.

Spend the rest of the hours making more money.

Post: #13

Man, I cared about my sex count number when I was 17. Competing with my friends was the shit. I'm 22 now and don't care about that shit. If I get laid, great! I don't have any number oriented goals though lmao.

Why do you want 100 so bad? Genuinely curious

Cheers, brother

Post: #14

(05-22-2017 02:47 PM)BrandonCodi Wrote:  Man, I cared about my sex count number when I was 17. Competing with my friends was the shit. I'm 22 now and don't care about that shit. If I get laid, great! I don't have any number oriented goals though lmao.

Why do you want 100 so bad? Genuinely curious

Cheers, brother

I want to soy my oats, have fun, and become good at sex. I want to be Chad Thundercock. Get to Phase 5 of being a player (phases in this thread /thread-51119.html ) Be able to relationship game my future wife so that we have a great stable happy family.

Post: #15

(05-22-2017 02:42 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  Completely doable. In G-Man's datasheet he said he did zero online game.

You have 6 years to do this.

1-2 bangs a month from Tinder. Easy
1-2 bangs a month from day/night game. Easy

Find the 2-3 best night time places in your city and lock them down. Become friends with the people there and get social proof.

The thing that might hold you back will be having only $100 bucks a month to spend. Try and get that to $200. $50 per weekend and you'll get at least 1-4 bangs per month.

You don't need 10 hours a week to do this.

5 mins a day on tinder.

2-3 hours out 2-3 nights a week.

Spend the rest of the hours making more money.

Thank you, this is what I was looking for. Any more insight on how to lock down a night venue? I saw Christian Mcqueen has a guide for it but I would like to get information from more than one source if possible.

Post: #16

(05-22-2017 01:18 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 01:08 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  Do or do not; there is no try.

Of course it's possible; but I get the sense that you're chasing an arbitrary number as opposed to gaming because you enjoy it. Can you tell us why you want to chase after 100 notches?

I want to soy my oats, have fun, and become good at sex. I want to be Chad Thundercock. Get to Phase 5 of being a player (phases in this thread /thread-51119.html) Be able to relationship game my future wife so that we have a great stable happy family.

You said it can be done, how? How do I keep my reputation respectable and bang these 100 different quality chicks in a small metro like this?

Banging a ton of women and relationship game are two totally different avenues, but I can appreciate sowing your oats, and practicing abundance. The key to your rep is to demonstrate value. Girls won't think you're creepy if you're suited down, you've got your living situation on lock down, and you're beefed up in the muscle department.

I always like to picture Christian Bale in American Psycho as a good starting place (specifically because we share the same career). Bale demonstrates extreme value; with the good looks, high paying job, and confidence. It doesn't matter that he kills the women, because they're dying to be around him. Keep that attitude, and you'll clean up.

Post: #17

(05-22-2017 02:56 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 01:18 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 01:08 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  Do or do not; there is no try.

Of course it's possible; but I get the sense that you're chasing an arbitrary number as opposed to gaming because you enjoy it. Can you tell us why you want to chase after 100 notches?

I want to soy my oats, have fun, and become good at sex. I want to be Chad Thundercock. Get to Phase 5 of being a player (phases in this thread /thread-51119.html) Be able to relationship game my future wife so that we have a great stable happy family.

You said it can be done, how? How do I keep my reputation respectable and bang these 100 different quality chicks in a small metro like this?

Banging a ton of women and relationship game are two totally different avenues, but I can appreciate sowing your oats, and practicing abundance. The key to your rep is to demonstrate value. Girls won't think you're creepy if you're suited down, you've got your living situation on lock down, and you're beefed up in the muscle department.

I always like to picture Christian Bale in American Psycho as a good starting place (specifically because we share the same career). Bale demonstrates extreme value; with the good looks, high paying job, and confidence. It doesn't matter that he kills the women, because they're dying to be around him. Keep that attitude, and you'll clean up.

My clothes are respectable; I have a slightly above average build, and above average looks. I will do everything I can to get to what you just state, but in the meantime, I should be fine correct?

Post: #18

(05-22-2017 02:55 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 02:42 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  Completely doable. In G-Man's datasheet he said he did zero online game.

You have 6 years to do this.

1-2 bangs a month from Tinder. Easy
1-2 bangs a month from day/night game. Easy

Find the 2-3 best night time places in your city and lock them down. Become friends with the people there and get social proof.

The thing that might hold you back will be having only $100 bucks a month to spend. Try and get that to $200. $50 per weekend and you'll get at least 1-4 bangs per month.

You don't need 10 hours a week to do this.

5 mins a day on tinder.

2-3 hours out 2-3 nights a week.

Spend the rest of the hours making more money.

Thank you, this is what I was looking for. Any more insight on how to lock down a night venue? I saw Christian Mcqueen has a guide for it but I would like to get information from more than one source if possible.

Remember, the key is to only pick 2-3 spots. Maybe 2-3 more during the day for "day 2's".

- Remember everyone's name that you meet at the joint. Use a spreadsheet if needed.

- Tip generously. Very generously. This will payoff later on with free drinks and other things.

- Check out the places on different nights of the week to see which days are the best to go. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday can be way better than Friday and Saturday because every fuckin dude in town goes out on Friday and Saturday.

- Check the social media profiles of these places and see what kind of info you can gather. IE has anyone had a promotion lately, do you know anyone that is friends with anyone there, etc

- Be very gracious with the staff. Always treat them well and THANK THEM FOR THEIR HOSPITALITY.

- Try and bring some value to the places. Example: Tell the owner you know a photographer that can swing by and snap some shots for their social media profiles. Don't ask for money.

- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

- Don't interrupt the waitstaff while they are walking. Only quick bursts when they are standing still or look bored.

------

You get the idea.

Post: #19

Of course it can be done. Girls can know each other - sometimes they even recommend such men for some sexy time. Town is also big enough to learn Game even if you burn through the first 1000 approaches.

Post: #20

(05-22-2017 03:16 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 02:55 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 02:42 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  Completely doable. In G-Man's datasheet he said he did zero online game.

You have 6 years to do this.

1-2 bangs a month from Tinder. Easy
1-2 bangs a month from day/night game. Easy

Find the 2-3 best night time places in your city and lock them down. Become friends with the people there and get social proof.

The thing that might hold you back will be having only $100 bucks a month to spend. Try and get that to $200. $50 per weekend and you'll get at least 1-4 bangs per month.

You don't need 10 hours a week to do this.

5 mins a day on tinder.

2-3 hours out 2-3 nights a week.

Spend the rest of the hours making more money.

Thank you, this is what I was looking for. Any more insight on how to lock down a night venue? I saw Christian Mcqueen has a guide for it but I would like to get information from more than one source if possible.

Remember, the key is to only pick 2-3 spots. Maybe 2-3 more during the day for "day 2's".

- Remember everyone's name that you meet at the joint. Use a spreadsheet if needed.

- Tip generously. Very generously. This will payoff later on with free drinks and other things.

- Check out the places on different nights of the week to see which days are the best to go. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday can be way better than Friday and Saturday because every fuckin dude in town goes out on Friday and Saturday.

- Check the social media profiles of these places and see what kind of info you can gather. IE has anyone had a promotion lately, do you know anyone that is friends with anyone there, etc

- Be very gracious with the staff. Always treat them well and THANK THEM FOR THEIR HOSPITALITY.

- Try and bring some value to the places. Example: Tell the owner you know a photographer that can swing by and snap some shots for their social media profiles. Don't ask for money.

- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

- Don't interrupt the waitstaff while they are walking. Only quick bursts when they are standing still or look bored.

------

You get the idea.

Quote:- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

I apologize ahead of time but a million questions popped in my head when I saw this post

Whats the point of locking it down then? Do I game in one venue and "lock down" another?
Do I just show up to the venue I lock up and chat up the staff all night?
How do I do that so casually? How long do I stay to lock up these venues?
When you say tip generously, would you say a 50% tip is good?
If I can save $250 a month on rent to get logistics that aren't the best but respectable should I just stick with the cheaper rent (10 minute drive vs 5 minute walk)

Post: #21

(05-22-2017 03:30 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:16 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 02:55 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 02:42 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  Completely doable. In G-Man's datasheet he said he did zero online game.

You have 6 years to do this.

1-2 bangs a month from Tinder. Easy
1-2 bangs a month from day/night game. Easy

Find the 2-3 best night time places in your city and lock them down. Become friends with the people there and get social proof.

The thing that might hold you back will be having only $100 bucks a month to spend. Try and get that to $200. $50 per weekend and you'll get at least 1-4 bangs per month.

You don't need 10 hours a week to do this.

5 mins a day on tinder.

2-3 hours out 2-3 nights a week.

Spend the rest of the hours making more money.

Thank you, this is what I was looking for. Any more insight on how to lock down a night venue? I saw Christian Mcqueen has a guide for it but I would like to get information from more than one source if possible.

Remember, the key is to only pick 2-3 spots. Maybe 2-3 more during the day for "day 2's".

- Remember everyone's name that you meet at the joint. Use a spreadsheet if needed.

- Tip generously. Very generously. This will payoff later on with free drinks and other things.

- Check out the places on different nights of the week to see which days are the best to go. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday can be way better than Friday and Saturday because every fuckin dude in town goes out on Friday and Saturday.

- Check the social media profiles of these places and see what kind of info you can gather. IE has anyone had a promotion lately, do you know anyone that is friends with anyone there, etc

- Be very gracious with the staff. Always treat them well and THANK THEM FOR THEIR HOSPITALITY.

- Try and bring some value to the places. Example: Tell the owner you know a photographer that can swing by and snap some shots for their social media profiles. Don't ask for money.

- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

- Don't interrupt the waitstaff while they are walking. Only quick bursts when they are standing still or look bored.

------

You get the idea.

Quote:- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

I apologize ahead of time but a million questions popped in my head when I saw this post

Whats the point of locking it down then? Do I game in one venue and "lock down" another?
Do I just show up to the venue I lock up and chat up the staff all night?
How do I do that so casually? How long do I stay to lock up these venues?
When you say tip generously, would you say a 50% tip is good?
If I can save $250 a month on rent to get logistics that aren't the best but respectable should I just stick with the cheaper rent (10 minute drive vs 5 minute walk)

What i'm getting at is if you game these waitresses you're going to burn these spots. Don't do that. Basically just befriend everyone there from the busboy to the owner.

Yeah 50% tips are good. You do that consistently, you not only get great service, you'll eventually start getting free shit from them.

5 min walk can't be beat. If you can pull that off, it will work out way better for you.

Edit: Locking down a place essentially gives you great social proof. And you can start hanging out with these waitresses and bartenders on their off days. They have hot friends. Friendzone the girls at the places you want on lock.

Post: #22

(05-22-2017 03:44 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:30 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:16 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 02:55 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 02:42 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  Completely doable. In G-Man's datasheet he said he did zero online game.

You have 6 years to do this.

1-2 bangs a month from Tinder. Easy
1-2 bangs a month from day/night game. Easy

Find the 2-3 best night time places in your city and lock them down. Become friends with the people there and get social proof.

The thing that might hold you back will be having only $100 bucks a month to spend. Try and get that to $200. $50 per weekend and you'll get at least 1-4 bangs per month.

You don't need 10 hours a week to do this.

5 mins a day on tinder.

2-3 hours out 2-3 nights a week.

Spend the rest of the hours making more money.

Thank you, this is what I was looking for. Any more insight on how to lock down a night venue? I saw Christian Mcqueen has a guide for it but I would like to get information from more than one source if possible.

Remember, the key is to only pick 2-3 spots. Maybe 2-3 more during the day for "day 2's".

- Remember everyone's name that you meet at the joint. Use a spreadsheet if needed.

- Tip generously. Very generously. This will payoff later on with free drinks and other things.

- Check out the places on different nights of the week to see which days are the best to go. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday can be way better than Friday and Saturday because every fuckin dude in town goes out on Friday and Saturday.

- Check the social media profiles of these places and see what kind of info you can gather. IE has anyone had a promotion lately, do you know anyone that is friends with anyone there, etc

- Be very gracious with the staff. Always treat them well and THANK THEM FOR THEIR HOSPITALITY.

- Try and bring some value to the places. Example: Tell the owner you know a photographer that can swing by and snap some shots for their social media profiles. Don't ask for money.

- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

- Don't interrupt the waitstaff while they are walking. Only quick bursts when they are standing still or look bored.

------

You get the idea.

Quote:- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

I apologize ahead of time but a million questions popped in my head when I saw this post

Whats the point of locking it down then? Do I game in one venue and "lock down" another?
Do I just show up to the venue I lock up and chat up the staff all night?
How do I do that so casually? How long do I stay to lock up these venues?
When you say tip generously, would you say a 50% tip is good?
If I can save $250 a month on rent to get logistics that aren't the best but respectable should I just stick with the cheaper rent (10 minute drive vs 5 minute walk)

What i'm getting at is if you game these waitresses you're going to burn these spots. Don't do that. Basically just befriend everyone there from the busboy to the owner.

Yeah 50% tips are good. You do that consistently, you not only get great service, you'll eventually start getting free shit from them.

5 min walk can't be beat. If you can pull that off, it will work out way better for you.

Edit: Locking down a place essentially gives you great social proof. And you can start hanging out with these waitresses and bartenders on their off days. They have hot friends. Friendzone the girls at the places you want on lock.

Okay do don't game the employees, that's completely understandable

So would I just ramble with the employees whenever they have a quick break? Kind of day game them (except for the flirtation and teasing obviously). How long should I do this before its awkward?

Also,Would working as a bartender put me in even a better position? What about if I start out as a barbacker and never get promoted?

Post: #23

(05-22-2017 03:57 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:44 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:30 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:16 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 02:55 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  Thank you, this is what I was looking for. Any more insight on how to lock down a night venue? I saw Christian Mcqueen has a guide for it but I would like to get information from more than one source if possible.

Remember, the key is to only pick 2-3 spots. Maybe 2-3 more during the day for "day 2's".

- Remember everyone's name that you meet at the joint. Use a spreadsheet if needed.

- Tip generously. Very generously. This will payoff later on with free drinks and other things.

- Check out the places on different nights of the week to see which days are the best to go. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday can be way better than Friday and Saturday because every fuckin dude in town goes out on Friday and Saturday.

- Check the social media profiles of these places and see what kind of info you can gather. IE has anyone had a promotion lately, do you know anyone that is friends with anyone there, etc

- Be very gracious with the staff. Always treat them well and THANK THEM FOR THEIR HOSPITALITY.

- Try and bring some value to the places. Example: Tell the owner you know a photographer that can swing by and snap some shots for their social media profiles. Don't ask for money.

- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

- Don't interrupt the waitstaff while they are walking. Only quick bursts when they are standing still or look bored.

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You get the idea.

Quote:- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

I apologize ahead of time but a million questions popped in my head when I saw this post

Whats the point of locking it down then? Do I game in one venue and "lock down" another?
Do I just show up to the venue I lock up and chat up the staff all night?
How do I do that so casually? How long do I stay to lock up these venues?
When you say tip generously, would you say a 50% tip is good?
If I can save $250 a month on rent to get logistics that aren't the best but respectable should I just stick with the cheaper rent (10 minute drive vs 5 minute walk)

What i'm getting at is if you game these waitresses you're going to burn these spots. Don't do that. Basically just befriend everyone there from the busboy to the owner.

Yeah 50% tips are good. You do that consistently, you not only get great service, you'll eventually start getting free shit from them.

5 min walk can't be beat. If you can pull that off, it will work out way better for you.

Edit: Locking down a place essentially gives you great social proof. And you can start hanging out with these waitresses and bartenders on their off days. They have hot friends. Friendzone the girls at the places you want on lock.

Okay do don't game the employees, that's completely understandable

So would I just ramble with the employees whenever they have a quick break? Kind of day game them (except for the flirtation and teasing obviously). How long should I do this before its awkward?

Also,Would working as a bartender put me in even a better position? What about if I start out as a barbacker and never get promoted?

Dude, just become friends with the people. You're thinking way too much right now. I can't hold your hand and tell you step by step how to make friends.

- Tip well, remember names, congratulate people for promotions, ask how their day is, thank the manager for providing great hospitality, etc. Get numbers and see if people want to hang out on off days if you want. No need to, but the goal is to have everyone in the place know you by name. That's it, be the cool guy that tips well and knows everyone.

Post: #24

(05-22-2017 04:13 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:57 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:44 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:30 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-22-2017 03:16 PM)captain_shane Wrote:  Remember, the key is to only pick 2-3 spots. Maybe 2-3 more during the day for "day 2's".

- Remember everyone's name that you meet at the joint. Use a spreadsheet if needed.

- Tip generously. Very generously. This will payoff later on with free drinks and other things.

- Check out the places on different nights of the week to see which days are the best to go. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday can be way better than Friday and Saturday because every fuckin dude in town goes out on Friday and Saturday.

- Check the social media profiles of these places and see what kind of info you can gather. IE has anyone had a promotion lately, do you know anyone that is friends with anyone there, etc

- Be very gracious with the staff. Always treat them well and THANK THEM FOR THEIR HOSPITALITY.

- Try and bring some value to the places. Example: Tell the owner you know a photographer that can swing by and snap some shots for their social media profiles. Don't ask for money.

- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

- Don't interrupt the waitstaff while they are walking. Only quick bursts when they are standing still or look bored.

------

You get the idea.

Quote:- Don't game the girls at the places you're trying to lock down.

I apologize ahead of time but a million questions popped in my head when I saw this post

Whats the point of locking it down then? Do I game in one venue and "lock down" another?
Do I just show up to the venue I lock up and chat up the staff all night?
How do I do that so casually? How long do I stay to lock up these venues?
When you say tip generously, would you say a 50% tip is good?
If I can save $250 a month on rent to get logistics that aren't the best but respectable should I just stick with the cheaper rent (10 minute drive vs 5 minute walk)

What i'm getting at is if you game these waitresses you're going to burn these spots. Don't do that. Basically just befriend everyone there from the busboy to the owner.

Yeah 50% tips are good. You do that consistently, you not only get great service, you'll eventually start getting free shit from them.

5 min walk can't be beat. If you can pull that off, it will work out way better for you.

Edit: Locking down a place essentially gives you great social proof. And you can start hanging out with these waitresses and bartenders on their off days. They have hot friends. Friendzone the girls at the places you want on lock.

Okay do don't game the employees, that's completely understandable

So would I just ramble with the employees whenever they have a quick break? Kind of day game them (except for the flirtation and teasing obviously). How long should I do this before its awkward?

Also,Would working as a bartender put me in even a better position? What about if I start out as a barbacker and never get promoted?

Dude, just become friends with the people. You're thinking way too much right now. I can't hold your hand and tell you step by step how to make friends.

- Tip well, remember names, congratulate people for promotions, ask how their day is, thank the manager for providing great hospitality, etc. Get numbers and see if people want to hang out on off days if you want. No need to, but the goal is to have everyone in the place know you by name. That's it, be the cool guy that tips well and knows everyone.

I mean it just doesn't seem natural. Going to a club and being friendly with all of the employees on a weekly basis. Getting to know them personally. I can see this crashing and burning as much as I can see it working. Their has to be some type of specific strategy to this but whatever I will figure it out. I would like some on the input on my bartender question if you don't mind.

Post: #25

This thread can double as your progress log if you go ahead.

Isn't this all about goal setting?

The 100 bangs can be gotten. Yes. Since you're going all in, I've got a different idea - do it in no more than 4 years, so you stay sharp, challenged, and don't get bored.
I don't have 100 bangs (disclaimer).

Something that hasn't been mentioned yet that is key is what preparation are you going to do before you start? How will you present yourself? Changes to appearance, and angle of attack for social media and online dating. With the volume of approaches needed, what is it about you that will hook the girls? How will you get a foothold? What makes you their type of guy?