Post: #26

(05-22-2017 05:32 PM)brick tamland Wrote:  This thread can double as your progress log if you go ahead.

Isn't this all about goal setting?

The 100 bangs can be gotten. Yes. Since you're going all in, I've got a different idea - do it in no more than 4 years, so you stay sharp, challenged, and don't get bored.
I don't have 100 bangs (disclaimer).

Something that hasn't been mentioned yet that is key is what preparation are you going to do before you start? How will you present yourself? Changes to appearance, and angle of attack for social media and online dating. With the volume of approaches needed, what is it about you that will hook the girls? How will you get a foothold? What makes you their type of guy?

I will get a principal photographer for my first round of online photos in the next couple of week. Start a OKC account and buy a year long Tinder premium account. Possibly start a instagram account but I am unsure since my life will be somewhat routine.

I will possibly spice up the wardrobe a bit (spend no more than $100 will dig into this thread tonight ).
I bought a 6 book package from Christian Mcqueen (Nightclub bible, strip club bible, text game, day game, playboy lifestyle 1 & 2) I will read through and apply it starting Saturday night.

I will also start a new workout routine and ditch my high school football routine which according to the bodybuilding forum is terrible.
Once my clothes/online game/ and I read through those books I will report back with a complete gameplan. I still have the mindset that I will work/study 70 hours a week and game 7-10 hours a week.

I may try becoming a bartender and have poosy fall in my lap, but I doubt I could balance that with grad school and my career but again maybe I could. I still need to weight my options.

A part me wants to take some dance classes as well and folow Samseau's dance data sheet, but that may not be worth the time/money.

Great idea about making this a progress sheet. I will be sure to report my progress ideally every week or so. Worst case every month or so.

Post: #27

Very interested in following your progress. I'm stuck in a 200k town for 1 year more, then in a 60k (lol) for 9 months, so I will rely on social game and in daygame for those girls that you know are foreigners. But then I'm moving for at least 5 years to a 3m very touristic town. Then I will try to do the same you are doing. Excited about seeing you making it!

Post: #28

CMQ books

Post: #29

This thread is making my spider-sense tingle.

Post: #30

(05-23-2017 07:46 AM)redbeard Wrote:  CMQ books

Post: #31

(05-23-2017 08:32 AM)Conquerer7 Wrote:  

(05-23-2017 07:46 AM)redbeard Wrote:  CMQ books

Why you say that? Is he a con artist or something. I thought he was a respected member of the forum?

Post: #32

I live in a city of 800k, metro area of just over 1m.
I have about 130+ notches at age 23. I make $0 / year currently and live at my parent's house.

It can be done.

Post: #33

(05-23-2017 10:53 AM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-23-2017 08:32 AM)Conquerer7 Wrote:  

(05-23-2017 07:46 AM)redbeard Wrote:  CMQ books

Why you say that? Is he a con artist or something. I thought he was a respected member of the forum?

When you read the books, you will know

Post: #34

(05-22-2017 12:57 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  I'm average in looks, somewhat average in height (5'8)

(05-22-2017 03:01 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  I have a slightly above average build, and above average looks.

To answer OP's question plainly, banging 100 different girls over a 6 year span in a teir 3 metro is child's play.

Post: #35

The real question is, why the fuck would you make such a shallow goal your purpose for the next few years?

What about more noble self improvement goals?

What about your values?

If you build a better you, the pussy will come. You don't need 100 of them to fulfil your pussy needs.

Post: #36

Does anybody know if there is a thread regarding the number of bangs that we acomplished so far?

Post: #37

(05-24-2017 06:42 AM)goncalo999 Wrote:  Does anybody know if there is a thread regarding the number of bangs that we acomplished so far?

We do an annual one every January.

Post: #38

(05-24-2017 03:23 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  The real question is, why the fuck would you make such a shallow goal your purpose for the next few years?

What about more noble self improvement goals?

What about your values?

If you build a better you, the pussy will come. You don't need 100 of them to fulfil your pussy needs.

I see what you're saying. At the end of the day, I want sex with beautiful women on a regular basis. I believe that most of us aim for.I want to get to a point in my life where I'm fucking beautiful women at least three times a week.

I do also want to fuck a variety of women.

To accomplish this YES I don't need to fuck 100 women to do this.

HOWEVER, this is a good place to start. I'm dating a 6.5-7 today, and I KNOW I want better than this.

Therefore, I will progressively reach for better than this and by gaming/dating/banging women not only will I continue to get better women, but my game will continue to get better so I can game my potential wife down the road and keep her.

We all know priorities, and goals change over time, so If I'm banging the chicks of my dreams by bang 25, then there is a high chance my goals will change.

But for now, I'm going for 100 bangs.

Post: #39

(05-24-2017 03:23 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  The real question is, why the fuck would you make such a shallow goal your purpose for the next few years?

What about more noble self improvement goals?

What about your values?

If you build a better you, the pussy will come. You don't need 100 of them to fulfil your pussy needs.

I agree with you man, but sometimes you have to bang 100 bitches first to see the truth in this statement.
Hitting a notch count of 100 was my goal and once I hit it, I definitely saw the futility in it. But at the same time, my journey to hitting that 100 was very enriching and I've been through a lot of bullshit and learned A LOT.

Post: #40

Great commentary by Chris GLL, related to WHY OP wants 100 bangs:

How Getting Laid Should Fit Into Your 20's
(Prioritize Women So You Never Have to Again)

https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/pi...o-your-20s

Post: #41

(05-24-2017 12:48 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Great commentary by Chris GLL, related to WHY OP wants 100 bangs:

How Getting Laid Should Fit Into Your 20's
(Prioritize Women So You Never Have to Again)

https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/pi...o-your-20s

Cosign. Get it out of your system while you are still getting yourself sorted out. Don't try to settle down with a chick before you figure your shit out. That's just setting yourself up for failure.

Post: #42

Is there any sort of University in your town?

Post: #43

(05-25-2017 01:02 PM)TrifeLife Wrote:  Is there any sort of University in your town?

I'll pm you those details

Post: #44

I sometimes think we forget that two new bangs a month is above average is above average. Of course, some countries in SEAsia and Latin amercia don't apply but for the rest it's good.

Post: #45

Okay, guys its time for an update. I won't be approaching this weekend for personal reasons (family) but here is what has happened thus far


BY THE NUMBERS
4 Approaches
2 Numbers
2 Dates (1 pending, text commit)
0 Bangs

The bowling date wasn't enjoyable (the one I mentioned earlier in the thread). The vibe from the first date was not there, and she had the nerve to ask me if she could still hang around 'her guy friends.' She's a 6.5 at best and not worth a minute more of my time unless she's in my condo about to be banged.

I have a date set up with a 7/10 chick to hang out my new condo. The approach lasted about 5 minutes, but she was showing huge IOIs.

IMPROVEMENTS (LOGISTICS/STATUS)
Got a job being a barback for a popular club downtown
Going to start renting a condo that is a 10-minute walk from that club I will barback.

I will dig through this forum on how I can leverage this barback gig. I have scanned some threads, and with my situation being dependent on status and I didn't have too much money spend on tipping bouncers/bartenders every week this would be my best bet. The condo I got is solid. Nothing flashy but not rundown. Saw an 8.5/10 walk into one of the units today, she'll be on my radar.

SETBACKS
Due to personal reasons (family), I won't be able to go out and approach this weekend.That's roughly ten approaches out the Window.
I fucked up and overslept these past two days and haven't been hitting the gym like I need to. I got to start developing that good habit of working out in the mornings again.
For some reason, I can't get my HDMI cord to work, and I think it may be due to this new operating system. I need to get this fixed before the date on Wednesday.

SUMMARY
Overall I believe things are headed in the right direction. The consensus of what was stated on this thread was to 1)Obtain status at a night venue 2) Improve Logistics 3) Max out online game.

I did the first two things for sure. However, the online game is still a work in progress, but I will get those quality pics shot an uploaded on the Tinder/OKC/Bumble, etc. in the next couple of weeks for sure. I will also be sure to read through those online game threads to leverage those apps as well as I can.

Post: #46

UPDATE TIME. I should have done this sooner but I'm adjusting to A LOT. (two new jobs/new condo)

BY THE NUMBERS
17 Approaches
12 Tinder Matches
5 Numbers
3 Dates
0 Bangs

My approaches led to nearly nothing. With some much new shit going on in my life, it was very difficult to approach effectively. Especially since I knew in the back of my mind I didn't have damn near any time to date these girls anyway.

All the Tinder matches I got were when I was in Dallas. One was DTF immediately but unmatched me last second. Another wanted me to drive 30 minute to pick her up for a date which was not worth it to me at the time but looking back I should have taken that chance for the bang. The rest never responded. All were done with a crappy selfie pic.

The new date I had was with a white chick. She didn't shave all of her mustache (I can't make this shit up, she a 1/8th a stache on the date) and she seemed much bonier/pale then when I met her (she had no facial hair). I was turned off from the start and only chatted to be nice.

A big titted black chick flaked on me last minute and that makes 2 time already. Deleted her number and moved on with my life.

IMPROVEMENTS (LOGISTICS/STATUS)
I got my professional photos taken and they have been edited and are ready to go. Also I found a rhythm to my new work schedule so I should be able find time to get dates/approach.

Also, my appearance is improving. I have been getting stronger with a new workout routine from a certified trainer at my gym. Also, I making enough money now where I can afford to get a haircut every week or so. Am getting more IOIs from girls througout the at work/ running errands than usual.

I will get POF/Tinder/Bumble set up to start getting some bangs with this new found rhythm to my work life.

I will start kickboxing sometime in the next couple weeks. I did a free trial and its something that not only help my online game (when I get a go pro and post on instagram) but it will help in my social life as well which helps my inner game. Not to mention its something I always wanted to do growing up

SETBACKS
Due to being a new environment (new jobs and apartment) I was struggling to find a rhythm and finding the time to approach/date chicks. As you see, just 13 approaches since I last posted a month ago.

Also, me being new to my job as a barback I was much more focused on doing a good job rather than getting girl"s numbers.

Working in a bar twice a week has been a big adjustment for me as well. I am just now getting use to getting home at 3am staring at a pile of dishes to clean and folding laundry.

Money has been tight as well. My first check is coming a week later then expected so I didn't have any spending money for any more dates in June .

To top it all off due to reasons out of my control I will be laid off from my current barback gig next week. I am getting help from a coworker to get hired somewhere else as a barback but if push comes to shove I will find work as a server/cook/host etc and be persistent about hitting these bars up for a barback gig.... and eventually become a bartender.


SUMMARY
Numbers wise, I made no progress this week. However the future looks brighter then ever. I will have professional photos up for online game this month which should amount to a bang if I play my cards right. I have read over 200 pages of the Tinder Thread and made a big cheat sheet to max my potential. I have skimmed the OKC thread but not as much as I want to. I will just dive into online dating and adjust accordingly at this point. I don't have anytime to read game threads for the hell of it.



BOTTOM LINE GOALS FOR JULY 2017

• Get Another Barback Gig. Receive acclaim from coworker in both corporate/barback gig
• Sign up For Kickboxing
• Improve my Strength (will post numbers next month and the progress I am running low on time)
• Get a Bang
• Improve my diet (I have been lagging, no excuses for that.)
  

THOUGHTS
Striving for 100 bangs has made my life much more exciting. Barbacking can be rough but is a fun job overall because of the hot ass women and loud music I get to experience on a weekly basis. Not to mention I will start kickboxing soon which will be fun as well. Also, with this extra money from this barback gig it will be much easier for me to scratch things off my bucket list (traveling, owning a gun, learning self defense, etc.). I can already tell this is gong to be one hell of a journey.

SPECIAL THANKS
To AneroidOcean for the post explaining me what to do to game girls as a barback

To BlurredSevens for all his posts in the Tinder Thread and his Zero Date Bangs Recipe I plan to use.

To Kaotic for his Progress Sheets that show you can get laid working two jobs, even if you are fairly short (which I am). Also, showing me that Learning to Skateboard to get Laid was a dumbass idea.

To redbeard for some solid advice via PMs. Mainly how status is much more important in these small metros compared to large metros which made me adjust my game accordingly.

Post: #47

Perhaps you should move to a large city like Chicago or nyc and strive to be the best version of yourself. Eveything would follow then

Post: #48

UPDATE TIME. I should have done this sooner but I'm adjusting to A LOT. (two new jobs/new condo)

BY THE NUMBERS
19 Approaches
17 Tinder Matches
10 POF Matches
2 Bumble Matches
9 Numbers (2 via tinder, 4 POF, 1 as barback, 3 via approaches)
3 Dates
0 Bangs

No bangs. No dates



Depressed to be honest. The only happiness I get is from lifting weights and when I'm praise for doing a good job at my corporate gig. All I can think of doing is improving and Just Keep Going, I have so much room to grow with looks/status/game/etc.



IMPROVEMENTS (LOGISTICS/STATUS)
The only positive I see this month is that I am getting a better response rate with online game. I'm learning that online girls aren't just instantly DTF since they swipe right on tinder. You have to be interesting and reply to them sooner rather than later. I have to start delaying my opener outside of working hours so I can respond sooner and have better responses than "nothing at work" or "good how are you".

I will get a barback gig soon I'm confident. I just need to get some family matters taken care of.

SETBACKS
The flake rate for online game is crazy. I have had 6 flakes this month and it has really made me depressed to be honest. I don't think online game was meant for small metros. The abundance is just not their. I read in the tinder thread that the flake rate is 5% for Tinder unless you establish a strong rapport even with professional photos. That seems like a waster of time to me. But nonetheless I will continue to work on my looks and get shredded so I will be more desirable on these apps. I am confident I will break through that wall. I will have a much more exciting life with more money to spend with a steady second job which I will post to Instagram. My goal is to have 10k+ followers this time next year will help with my status for sure

SUMMARY.
I'm not sure how crazy I am about "100 bangs" as I was in the past. I just want a balanced life. A life with a stable income/friends/sex/family etc. Whether it comes from 100 bangs or not we shall see. depends how these relationships go. With that being said, 100 bangs is still the goal and I'm still doing everything I can to do it.



BOTTOM LINE GOALS FOR JULY 2017
Get Another Barback Gig. Receive acclaim from coworker in both corporate/barback gig ( (failed, don't have the time due to reasons I can't disclose)
Sign up For Kickboxing (failed, don't have the funds/time due to reasons I can't disclose)
Improve my Strength (passed, Bench went from 165 8x3 to 175 8x3; Squat went from 165 8x3 to 190 8x3; plank from 30 seconds to 1 minute sets of 3. Deadlift from 245 8x3 to 265 8x3.)
Get a Bang (failed)
Improve my diet (passed, have much more energy and feel stronger!)

GOALS for AUGUST 2018
Get Another Barback Gig. Receive acclaim from coworker in both corporate/barback gig
Get a Bang
Get Stronger
Get a Date from online game (I want to be able to build comfort well from onine game)

Post: #49

Have you tried day game at all? It's a bit of a different animal.

I don't get why you are taking a second job as a bartender(and you want a third job also as a bartender), sure a lot of bartenders meet women at work, but the hours are shit and you want to perform well in the rest of your day(for work, socializing and everything else). If you genuinely enjoy being a barback, go ahead, but if you are doing it just for the easier access to girls that go to bars, but don't actually like the job of serving beer, and doing customer service doesn't appeal to you, then don't stick with it.(my 2 cents)

Post: #50

(05-23-2017 10:53 AM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

(05-23-2017 08:32 AM)Conquerer7 Wrote:  

(05-23-2017 07:46 AM)redbeard Wrote:  CMQ books

Why you say that? Is he a con artist or something. I thought he was a respected member of the forum?

I thought about not saying anything, but what the heck. CMQ was a character all right, and sure he got laid, but the chapters I read from his book were worthless. There is no question that he got laid a lot from being a club promoter in Los angeles and Vegas, he struck me as being more like P.T. Barnum as a result, rather than a game guru.

That said, I did go to a RVF meetup and met one of his pua students who hired him privately, and he had nothing but good things to say about CMQ(essentially he wasn't getting laid at all before meeting him, but was getting dates and getting laid after hiring him and got good results from his pua coaching).