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RE: Why does Germany get overlooked?
(09-07-2018 11:52 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote: What are everyone's thoughts on foreigners gaming in Germany?
I feel like almost all German are into travel and would be curious and excited to sleep with foreign men visiting their country because of the level of excitement.
I'm American (but brown skin - Indian Descent) and have had huge success with German women visiting my city - NYC.
Well, I've gotten 3 bangs, a few more makeouts, and yet more leads in as many months. All 3 lays happened last week, which means I could've done better haha, but none of them were German.
The locals have been mostly receptive, but it seems to me that I'd need more investment of time to get the lay, or hit the right venues.
All this has been in Berlin, and my German is around CEFR A2, so probably not representative of the whole country.
EDIT: I'm a very Westernised Australian of Asian descent; tall, slightly jacked, dresses more on the preppy side, above average looks.
(This post was last modified: 09-08-2018 09:23 AM by JWLZG.)
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RavenBlack
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RE: Why does Germany get overlooked?
(09-11-2018 03:16 PM)kirdiesel Wrote: (09-07-2018 11:52 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote: What are everyone's thoughts on foreigners gaming in Germany?
I feel like almost all German are into travel and would be curious and excited to sleep with foreign men visiting their country because of the level of excitement.
I'm American (but brown skin - Indian Descent) and have had huge success with German women visiting my city - NYC.
Outside of Berlin do not even attempt to game here. They are 100% NOT excited to sleep with foreign men visiting their country (unless you are white)
I also had massive success with German women in NYC and its a complete farce. When you finally get to Germany you'll realize this was only a small subset of girls and the girls in country are totally different.
Hell even some of the girls I met in NYC and then in Germany again acted differently.
Not such thing as being "white" in Germany. You need to look like an ethnic german and speak fluent german to avoid disadvantage, In Germany there is Germans and the rest, its not a comparable country like the US where people are mixed mutts and some people can "pass" for white regardless where they are from, Germans couldnt care less about the "white" concept of the US, here things work very differently, germans can detect from a mile away that you are not german and you do not speak language, your body language is not as germans... Specially people from East (seen as more simple and lower class) and Southern Europe (seen as pseudo arabs , exotic, but on the long term not reliable). You better be Germans or a native from countries like Netherlands, Denmark, Sweden, Norway where culture is really assimilable, and be sure you speak German fluent. German girls usually dont like typical slavic dude and feel uncomfotable among spanish or italians who are seen as betas who lose their control in front of a tall blonde, because they are not used to such girls. Maybe you do not realize it because you see your experience as a Black guy, I can narrate the story from the "dark white" looking guy point of view, in some ways in Germany it doesnt matter you are Black african,Italian or Chinese, what matters is that you are visible/not german and it will play as a disadvantage in every situation.
(This post was last modified: 09-12-2018 12:06 PM by RavenBlack.)
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RavenBlack
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RE: Why does Germany get overlooked?
(09-12-2018 01:09 PM)kirdiesel Wrote: (09-12-2018 12:04 PM)RavenBlack Wrote: (09-11-2018 03:16 PM)kirdiesel Wrote: (09-07-2018 11:52 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote: What are everyone's thoughts on foreigners gaming in Germany?
I feel like almost all German are into travel and would be curious and excited to sleep with foreign men visiting their country because of the level of excitement.
I'm American (but brown skin - Indian Descent) and have had huge success with German women visiting my city - NYC.
Outside of Berlin do not even attempt to game here. They are 100% NOT excited to sleep with foreign men visiting their country (unless you are white)
I also had massive success with German women in NYC and its a complete farce. When you finally get to Germany you'll realize this was only a small subset of girls and the girls in country are totally different.
Hell even some of the girls I met in NYC and then in Germany again acted differently.
it doesnt matter you are Black african,Italian or Chinese
All I have to say is LOL. Tell Jörg, Helmut, Jonas or whoever at the door of the latest trendy or high end nightclub here that and see where that gets you.
Run a Tinder profile or go night gaming with these different races vs a "white" opps! Native German looking guy of similar attraction and see what happens.
Not to say its IMPOSSIBLE to have any success here as a minority but I am now saying if you are not white or native looking German DO NOT BOTHER coming here to game. If you HAVE to come to this area you are better off investing your time in the Netherlands (where I just got a ONS last weekend) or Belgium.
This is coming from a 5, 10 190lb veteran of nightgame who has lived here for almost 8 years now. I know what im talking about.
Nowhere did I contradict you, in fact I went further than you to support your point and clarify something, because you say being white gives you advantage..I responded that in Germany being white isn't enough(Germans don't differentiate between white and non-white, which is the Anglosphere trademark, but Germans differentiate between German Vs non-german), you have to be German or at least Germanic looking (Dutch, Danish, Swedish, Norwegian, Icelandic,etc) and on top of that you Will tested if you are native speaker and can relate culturally-wise. Germans are at the top, and only Scandinavians, Dutch and other native German speakers(Austria,german-swiss) could 'perhaps' reach similar status if they live enough long in germany, speak German as first language..etc
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tiikaa
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RE: Why does Germany get overlooked?
(09-11-2018 03:16 PM)kirdiesel Wrote: (09-07-2018 11:52 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote: What are everyone's thoughts on foreigners gaming in Germany?
I feel like almost all German are into travel and would be curious and excited to sleep with foreign men visiting their country because of the level of excitement.
I'm American (but brown skin - Indian Descent) and have had huge success with German women visiting my city - NYC.
Outside of Berlin do not even attempt to game here. They are 100% NOT excited to sleep with foreign men visiting their country (unless you are white)
I also had massive success with German women in NYC and its a complete farce. When you finally get to Germany you'll realize this was only a small subset of girls and the girls in country are totally different.
Hell even some of the girls I met in NYC and then in Germany again acted differently.
This is just wrong dude.
German girls are not excited to sleep with ANY guy , because of the sheer surplus on young men that is in the country.
So please dont make the readers believe its a racial thing, cuz its not. Being blonde and white won´t get you anywhere either. German women are VERY difficult in general and NOT impressed by any man anymore. If you are HG 9-10 you can still score some boring 5-6 german girls. but your "market value" would still be higher in other countries (where you dont have 60%-40% men/women and extreme feminist culture like in Germany).
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semibaron
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RE: Why does Germany get overlooked?
From what I see from my German friends, Germany is a "fair" country, where men and women of equal value match.
- The jacked and cool policeman has a sexy fitness girl
- The aspiring business executive is married with a sophisticated and classy woman
- The average high school teacher gets an average, slim girl with long hair
- The unemployed and overweight looser with diagnosed depression lives together with a green haired and tattooed 3
Traveling guys almost everywhere but the poorest countries have lower value than in their home country. No knowledge of the local language, no social circle and you just pass by. This is why a foreigner punches below its value in a country such as Germany. You can increase your value by staying in the country for a good amount of time and learn the language, build a social circle.
In summary, if you are a male 6 you still probably get a female 4 if you just pass by. If you put in the effort you can reach the female equivalent of your own value, but hardly exceed it. Germany is a "fair" country. The only real short cut is to hit on immigrants girls.
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RE: Why does Germany get overlooked?
(03-04-2019 01:41 PM)semibaron Wrote: From what I see from my German friends, Germany is a "fair" country, where men and women of equal value match.
- The jacked and cool policeman has a sexy fitness girl
- The aspiring business executive is married with a sophisticated and classy woman
- The average high school teacher gets an average, slim girl with long hair
- The unemployed and overweight looser with diagnosed depression lives together with a green haired and tattooed 3
Traveling guys almost everywhere but the poorest countries have lower value than in their home country. No knowledge of the local language, no social circle and you just pass by. This is why a foreigner punches below its value in a country such as Germany. You can increase your value by staying in the country for a good amount of time and learn the language, build a social circle.
In summary, if you are a male 6 you still probably get a female 4 if you just pass by. If you put in the effort you can reach the female equivalent of your own value, but hardly exceed it. Germany is a "fair" country. The only real short cut is to hit on immigrants girls.
This isn't what I've observed in Hamburg, where I've been living for the past 10 months. Although what you describe certainly applies to many couples, there's a worrying trend of ethnically German guys dating down here - and I mean a solid 2 points down - that even puts the UK to shame. In the past few months, I've seen countless guys who are well put together, even tall and in good shape, dating women that struggle to walk. This seems to have come about at least partly as a result of the unmistakable surplus of men, mostly of Middle Eastern origin but also from other parts of Europe and the world, living here of fertile age. Even in the main shopping precinct, where you would typically expect women to be in the majority, I normally see significantly more men - by that I mean 2 or more times as many in the 18-40 age range - than I do women. I've also had women tell me that they think there's a noticeable surplus of guys living here. Another worrying sign is migrant men walking around with much older women. It's an unmistakable sign of the thirst here, since there genuinely seems to be no lower bar for a woman not only to fail to find a man at all, but also no obstacles to her finding one significantly better looking than herself.
On the flipside, women are in attention-whoring mode in public that goes well beyond what I experienced in the UK before I left. Everywhere I go in public, women are straining their heads trying to soak up as many guys' glances as possible and the hotter ones walk about with a sickeningly arrogant, beaming glow the like of which I've never witnessed before.
In short, if your looks aren't top-notch, don't even think about daygaming here. You'll get cut to pieces, since it's daygame on hard mode, for sure.
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RE: Why does Germany get overlooked?
Because in Germany it is all social circle game, high school boyfriend game, church game, friends of the family game, friends of friends game. So you have to be born here if you want to be considered as a human being. Being southern european I get treated a second class human even though I look kind of northern-ish (been asked if I am from Netherlands, Dänemark, even Russia).
True, there are black people pulling skanks. True, there are hispanoamericans pulling 30 year olds. True, there are beta bucks pulling fatties. But for people like me, like you and me? It is pretty much fvcked up. You guys always talking about how much you pull in the US. Well try gaming in Spain or Germany. Not in Ibiza or Berlin, but in other places of the country, and you will know the HORROR. Plus if you go to party zones anyway expect a lot of HIV. And I mean a lot.
Germany gets overlooked because women here have psychological complexes. They all think they are models, so they reject constantly. Then they end up being 35 and very desperate. Just go social media and see all the ladies looking for "a real man.... that does not mind my kid and 2 cats". Even in Tinder, I have encountered single mothers.
In short: people come to Germany because of work, because of monetary reasons, not because the people, because the people, specially the women, SUCK. You often get a cold treatment for the simple reason of being born somewhere else. I live in NRW now but the same applies in Bayern. I would never live in Germany if I had the money to leave guys, why do you even want to come here?!?!?! I do not get it.
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