Post: #1

Alright So two different scenarios I need help with. First of all the friend cock block. I have this friend, we've been friends for like 10 years and in that time he has never had a girlfriend. Well let me be more specific, he has only been with two girls and only once with each. I've been single for a while and quite into gaming girls and I figured what the harm in taking him along, he needs to get some game. So I started training him to be my wingman and it bombed horribly, so I bought him a copy of bang hoping he would learn something and we can start working on it for him.

The only problem is he read it, I think half assed, and now he thinks he's a big time player. I'm at the club with him (where I've built a good social circle) and I am getting stories back from girls that he is trying to rape them on the dance floor. He never realizes where he is in the game and just goes straight into rubbing girls pussy's. This is starting to hurt my rep there, and it's frustrating. I figured I would just stop inviting him, but I get into this place for free if I register on facebook so he knows when I'm going and just shows up. He also jumps into conversations I'm having with girls and try's to pull the 'good player bad player' move, but completely bombs it, and at the wrong fucking time. No set up at all.

So I don't know what to do with him... Advice?

The second is the female cockblock. I finally ditched my friend and started talking to these two Spanish girls I had talked to a few weeks back. I ended up at their place and I knew one of them wanted to bang but the other had a bf out of town and wasn't down. Trust me i worked on her too. The one with the bf kept hanging around even though I know the other one was ready to progress. Lots of touching and good conversation. Eventually it got to late and I just passed out on the couch. Next to the girl I wanted.

Any tips on getting rid of the friend? I'm going out with that girl later this week so its no biggie, ill get it, but I want to know if I did something wrong to miss it that night.

Post: #2

"I have this friend, we've been friends for like 10 years and in that time he has never had a girlfriend. Well let me be more specific, he has only been with two girls and only once with each. I've been single for a while and quite into gaming girls and I figured what the harm in taking him along, he needs to get some game. So I started training him to be my wingman and it bombed horribly"

Ten years is a good run.

Time to part ways.

Post: #3

(08-09-2011 12:46 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  Ten years is a good run.

Time to part ways.

How do I get rid of him following me to the club and around the club? Just straight tell him to get lost?

Post: #4

[attachment=2658]This old guy cockblocks me and pedestals girls all over town nightly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wayne_Fontes
I have pictures of it from last night on my Iphone that I can't load here.
Three ex pros and one coach against el mech last night. Guess who won?
Ck ditch that guy asap or sit him down and tell him to chill out.

Post: #5

(08-09-2011 12:52 PM)Clearwaterkid Wrote:  

(08-09-2011 12:46 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  Ten years is a good run.

Time to part ways.

How do I get rid of him following me to the club and around the club? Just straight tell him to get lost?

Reason no 103 as to why Facebook sucks!

Tell your friend raw and straight up like a man. You can start out cool, but be very firm that you don't feel your styles are compatible and are choosing to walk your own path. Faking a friendship is a disservice to you both.



No need to be his enemy, but he is not to pretend he is with you at s club if he happens to see you, he's not.

Mixx

Post: #6

It's hard to go out with these type of guys. While it's honorable to be loyal to a friend you've known for years, if he's fucking up your game then straight up don't go out with him. I've had this experience when I was younger, I started to find my stride in college and thereafter, and I still have friends from those days where I was game less. While they are good guys, they are not the type of people I'd go out with because they would just ruin my chances. You guys can still be friends, but I'd find other people to go out with.

Post: #7

(08-09-2011 01:02 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  This old guy cockblocks me and pedestals girls all over town nightly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wayne_Fontes
I have pictures of it from last night on my Iphone that I can't load here.
Three ex pros and one coach against el mech last night. Guess who won?
Ck ditch that guy asap or sit him down and tell him to chill out.

Lol Wayne Fontes cockblocks you? That guy was such a shitty coach, yet as things some how got worse for the Lions, people in Detroit love the guy. You can keep him as far as I'm concerned.

Post: #8

(08-09-2011 01:02 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  This old guy cockblocks me and pedestals girls all over town nightly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wayne_Fontes
I have pictures of it from last night on my Iphone that I can't load here.
Three ex pros and one coach against el mech last night. Guess who won?
Ck ditch that guy asap or sit him down and tell him to chill out.

Yeaah i know what i should be doing it was just a question of i there were other options... outside of the club he's an alright guy, but frankly the pussy is more important to me.

Btw El Mech, if you ever make it to south tampa, watch out for this guy http://www.theskateboardindustry.com/tsi/p/273.jpg he used to be a senator and now dresses in women's underwear and tries to pick up girls. Serious cock block, but he seems to have girls all over him...

Post: #9

(08-09-2011 06:48 PM)CJ Wrote:  

(08-09-2011 01:02 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  This old guy cockblocks me and pedestals girls all over town nightly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wayne_Fontes
I have pictures of it from last night on my Iphone that I can't load here.
Three ex pros and one coach against el mech last night. Guess who won?
Ck ditch that guy asap or sit him down and tell him to chill out.

Lol Wayne Fontes cockblocks you? That guy was such a shitty coach, yet as things some how got worse for the Lions, people in Detroit love the guy. You can keep him as far as I'm concerned.

Yea he does. Last night I went out hungry and had my cousin drop me off at the bar. I started chatting up a latina and he comes over and starts kissing her hand and telling her how he would take care of her and the rest of his lame ass game on younger girls.

You sure you don't want him back? He has celeb status around here but, so does the Allman bros. sound guy.

@CK what the hell is that? That guy hangs out like that?

Post: #10

(08-09-2011 07:31 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  @CK what the hell is that? That guy hangs out like that?

YES! he does! creeps me the hell out too! he goes to several clubs in south tampa and he will get all up on girls you are talking to. I'm not joking. They call him the senator because he used to be a senator. I dont know his real name.

Post: #11

(08-09-2011 12:46 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  Ten years is a good run.

Time to part ways.

I'm in agreement here; when a friend becomes a burden and is causing damage to your rep, it's time to put them in the rearview window.

If you want you can lay it out for him; 'Look dude, it's cool that you're trying and everything, but you're coming across the wrong way. You don't get good with chicks from reading a book...it helps, but the way to get good is to get out there.'


Facebook is fucking stupid by the way. Everything wrong with North America is represented by Facebook; the general sloppiness of the layout, the advertising and useless 'apps' and of course, it's a platform for ugly women to seek validation (which they almost always get on Facebook and almost never get in real life) and low-value men to try and make themselves look like players and pimps.

I've heard people say it's useful for 'long game with chicks that don't live nearby'. How is it in any way useful to run 'long game' on a girl that isn't even in your town? You have a few good chats and think you're getting some headway, but then she gets a boyfriend one day, and its a guy she met on the street or through friends.

Either deactivate and just pay the cover, or if you want to keep it register for like seven events and throw this guy for a loop.

Post: #12

Delete the the notification of you registering off your wall. If that doesn't work, block and delete him on Facebook. If he notices and asks tell him you've deactivated.

Post: #13

(08-09-2011 12:40 PM)Clearwaterkid Wrote:  I have this friend, we've been friends for like 10 years and in that time he has never had a girlfriend. Well let me be more specific, he has only been with two girls and only once with each. I've been single for a while and quite into gaming girls and I figured what the harm in taking him along, he needs to get some game. So I started training him to be my wingman and it bombed horribly, so I bought him a copy of bang hoping he would learn something and we can start working on it for him.

I lent my friend in a similar situation my copy of Bang, except he took it the opposite way. He was like, "I don't just want random hookups" and "I'm not gonna meet my wife at a bar." And I heard he started calling me a sleaze behind my back. So much for helping a gameless friend.

Post: #14

Maybe tell him to stop being a rapist?

Does he know he's horrifying everyone there?

Post: #15

I've been the victim of a clock block of the century by a 2nd tier friend tonight.

I'm still speechless.

My only question: Is drunkeness ever an excuse for the behaviour?

Post: #16

If he is a good friend then when you tell him that you're dating styles are incompatible, he won't mind and will accommodate your desire for space. If he doesn't... then he wasn't a good friend and thus you lose nothing.

Post: #17

(08-09-2011 12:52 PM)Clearwaterkid Wrote:  

(08-09-2011 12:46 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  Ten years is a good run.

Time to part ways.

How do I get rid of him following me to the club and around the club? Just straight tell him to get lost?

He's a good friend, and sometimes friendship means we have to tolerate certain foibles. But on this one tell him that you need to isolate this chick, so he should do his own thing for a bit while you lock her down. A friend should be able to understand and process that without hurt feelings.

Post: #18

I haven't posted in this tread in a while, but things worked out with my friend. He ended up getting a job where he can't go out as much so I don't see him as often.

However, I have befriended a guy in a club after seeing him out for several months and realized we were on the same page with finding girls. For the most part he has been an excellent wing man, and has resulted in several bangs. I have been hanging with him for the last couple of months but I am running into a different problem with him.

Lately it seems like every time I turn my back he tries to swoop my girls by making up lies about me. For example I went home last night with a headache and some stomach problems and he started working on this girl I've been talking to for a week now and told her that I left with another girl. Granted I've already banged her a couple times, but it's the principle of the thing. There are certain lines you don't cross with a wing. When she said she didn't believe him, he got over top angry at her and tried to take her home.

This is now the third time this has happened with this guy. I live in a small town and there are not a lot of clubs and bars so I see him out almost every night I go out.

Has anyone else encountered this and how has it been dealt with? Is this something that is common with male wing men?

Post: #19

Yeah, it's common. You need to ditch him and possibly kick his ass or just bring him here and let the local yocals in the Holiday bars have a wack at him. It's going to get worse.

Post: #20

(04-06-2012 04:28 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Yeah, it's common. You need to ditch him and possibly kick his ass or just bring him here and let the local yocals in the Holiday bars have a wack at him. It's going to get worse.

Are you saying I should confront him about it or just do my best to abandon him as a friend?

Post: #21

(04-06-2012 06:02 PM)Clearwaterkid Wrote:  

(04-06-2012 04:28 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Yeah, it's common. You need to ditch him and possibly kick his ass or just bring him here and let the local yocals in the Holiday bars have a wack at him. It's going to get worse.

Are you saying I should confront him about it or just do my best to abandon him as a friend?

Confront for sure. You're pissed right? If it was me and I heard that shit I would call him right up and say hey dickhead why the fuck are you talking shit to try to get with my ho's??? Do it again and we're going to go at it.

Post: #22

I hate those guys with no balls who approaches a girl as soon as I talk to her.
I haven't told them yet 'hey if I approach first, can you fuckin leave me alone?' because it will crush their feelings.

I honestly don't know what to do when these guys with no fcukin clue, cock blocks like that.
I talk to one girl and this guy shows up trying to talk to her. Should I stay there and do 2 men competition to win her attention? (like 2 dogs fighting for the cookie?)
I talk to one girl from girl's group. (hottest one) this guys comes up and keeps talking to her with me, leaving other girls by themselves.
what kind of values do we convey when 2 guys hitting on one girl?
isn't it fuckin obvious?

Anyways, for the OP, if he steals your girl, that's one thing. I know you don't want to be put in that weird 'dog fighting' situation.
someone will say he is a douche or someone will say you can't blame him.
But if he makes a lie to make you look bad, that's totally different.
I think you should confront him, tell him stop doing that shit and he better not see you again at the club.

Post: #23

Don't even stress it, laugh it off and let them bury themselves, they usually do. I like to leave the set and let the dude destroy his chances while raising my value at the same time by hollaring at another chic. Once she sees you've left her to talk to others she will go crazy and that's when you can come back after you see cock block dude blew it. You can even make a joke about cock block dude. Something like, "so you in love yet? That guy seemed pretty smooth." In a dry humor, sarcastic funny kind of way. I actually embrace cock blockers and enjoy the challenge. I feel it raises my value. Like I am such a threat dude has to come over here and try to sabotage my shit. Chics recognize this shit too and I feel it only raises my value in the long run. Especially if I shit on him in front of them, like give them a nudge and a look like, "can you believe this guy." "Let's watch him and have him entertain us." You don't have to say that out loud but you can portray that vibe. Its like you are the director and they are your puppets.

I have a friend I've known since first grade who we literally nick named the human rocket launcher because when he approaches a set your in its the same thing as if someone got on one knee with a rocket launcher and blasted all the chics away in one shot. Lol.