Post: #26

(08-02-2011 06:29 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  Try gaming a girl when you have a low budget and can hardly pay for your own drinks.

In this case you might just want to stay in hostel as several people advised in a different thread. Looks like a perfect opportunity to utilize.

But why would you travel then? Even if you're flying to Thailand from India, your ticket alone would cost at least $300. If you're flying from US, it will be well over $1,000.

I don't really understand the motive which forces people to spend thousands of dollars and dozens of hours in travel to get to the destination country, just to live in a sub-par conditions which are much worse than they had at home.

Post: #27

Vacancier Permanent Wrote:I also felt very bad for the guys from India and the indian sub continent who were consistently ignored by the Thai girls and their only option was to go after the lady boys. Most clubs, bars, gogos wouldn't even let them in. Sad and felt pity for them. They do really live up to their reputation of being very tight with money and are haggling like crazy even for a freaking baht and counting even satangs (thai pennies) LOL. They try to pull off all kind of shit, like booking one room at a hotel and then showing up with like 6 guys to sleep there. I even witnessed that while checking in a hotel last February in Pattaya. I was at the reception of the hotel and in front of me, there were 3 indian guys who inquired about room availability and they were told straight up that there is no room available. I was next in line and I overheard that. After they left, the person at the reception told me about their antics and that they do not accept Indians and some Arabs at their hotels for pulling off all kind of crazy shit. Even girls have told me numerous times that Indian men they would rip them off, telling them that they'd pay them the going rate of 1000 baht and once the deed was done at the hotel would only give them 500 or 300 or worst, not even pay them. Some times, they'd even have 2 or 3 guys waiting in the room to fuck the same girl. Needless to say that these losers have screwed the scene for all their Indian brothers so all this discrimination against Indians is a result of their own behaviours. Sad to have all indians being penalized by the actions of a few (quite a few in that case) bad apples. Oh well. So if you're indian and looking like a typical indian, then be warned and I'd suggest you to skip Thailand as you'll face a lot of discrimination there.

This is true not just for Thailand. More often than not Indians are treated with some or lots of hostility around the world due to experience with precedent Indians. And I have personally observed behavior that would give a bad name to any race from Indians, so its no miracle that people in many places are wary of Indians.

But that does paint a very bleak picture, although I look far from a typical Indian, I was looking forward to going to Thailand since I have never been there.

Not that I am not planning on going anymore, but good to know that I may come across some differential treatment.

torontokid Wrote:I'm not gonna blame my race, my approaching has been sporadic and weak. That being said, If I come back when I have momentum(A month in India really killed my approach instinct) and I don't get any girls I'll say that Indian guys have a worse chance.

I completely agree with you. The worst thing about India is not that it is very hard to get laid or game girls here properly. Even worse is how it just kills your instincts and vibe.

Post: #28

(08-03-2011 10:10 PM)skulled Wrote:  Not that I am not planning on going anymore, but good to know that I may come across some differential treatment.

You will be treated differently. In my two months in Thailand I had no problems whatsoever, as one of the guys here said "Good looking is good looking anywhere in the world."

Did the Thai girls approach me, nope, I don't think they will approach you unless they are pros. Did I get attention from the lower class Thai girls? No, Did I get attention from the higher or Middle class Thai girls? Hell Yes! My hotel was near a school and college. The students from the school used to come and eat at the Hotel's restaurant. It was quite easy to observe the attitude of the school and college girls who would come and sit next to my table and start starring and giggling even if they were with their boyfriends. Girls using their mobile phones to take my pictures, etc,etc. And I used to dressed like a bum when I was in BKK because I was on a budget trip.

Same shit happened when I was in the On nut area, I was sitting at the Bus stop and sipping on some juice, two college Thai Girls come and sit really close to me. I have tons of more instances like these. Also, when it comes to tourist chicks you will be hunted down, not approached or eye fucked, HUNTED DOWN!. As all the guys here have pointed out, they are not getting any attention and they are in the mood to fuck some brown men. Some of them are absolute stunners and with all due respect the guys who in Thailand at the moment are in the off season. You don't see hot Russian girls in Thailand this time of the year. I would be interested to see how this opinion about the quality of the tourist chick changes when someone from this forum goes to BKK in say Dec or Jan.

I went on the trip with the attitude that I will not get any attention from the Thai girls because I am brown and/or Indian. That is absolute BS! There is only one brown guy on this forum who has been to BKK and because he had a bad experience the preconceived notion that brown guys don't do well in Thailand was reaffirmed. Indians are ill treated in Thailand? Yes most are but they are the shitty Indians and if you have been to India or if you are an Indian you will know exactly what I am talking about. However, Thai people can sense this as well because their class structure is very similar to the Indian class structure. They can differentiate rich Indians from the poor shitty ones. For guys who have been to BKK, they must have seen the name Jaspal in one of the malls. That family is from India and one of the richest in Thailand, you think that family is ill treated? There isn't just one rich Indian family in Thailand, there are quite a few! Westerners do not understand this because they have a very different class structure, I can differentiate between a shitty and a classy Indian just by looking at his writing style!

I would be interested to read the trip report when a brown guy like MiXX goes to BKK. If he does not get laid every day with a hot rich Thai girl then I will stop posting on this forum.

And that belief that if you have money then you will get laid like a king in Thailand. Again absolute BS. True if you only target pros. They have Ferrari and Lamborghini showrooms in BKK! Some Thai people are richer than anyone on this forum. Most middle class and upper class Thai girls are like any other girl in this world! They will fuck you if you because you are entertaining or good looking and not because you have money. Every Thai girl is a pro? Absolute and complete nonsense!

Post: #29

And almost forgot. +1 for awesome and hilarious report HH, I can see that you are one of the few guys who get it!

Post: #30

Yeah I agree with Mystik you can easily tell the difference between cool and uncool Indians.

Post: #31

(08-04-2011 02:05 AM)torontokid Wrote:  Yeah I agree with Mystik you can easily tell the difference between cool and uncool Indians.

T-Kid, haters are gonna hate. The bitter truth is that a classy, educated, decent to good looking brown guy (Arab, Indian or Latino) reaches the ranks of a Mediterranean dude and is no longer at the bottom but at the top of the totem pole.

I applaud you for having the maturity to not use your race as a scapegoat and blame it for your experience in Thailand.

Post: #32

(08-04-2011 03:15 AM)Mystik Wrote:  

(08-04-2011 02:05 AM)torontokid Wrote:  Yeah I agree with Mystik you can easily tell the difference between cool and uncool Indians.

T-Kid, haters are gonna hate. The bitter truth is that a classy, educated, decent to good looking brown guy (Arab, Indian or Latino) reaches the ranks of a Mediterranean dude and is no longer at the bottom but at the top of the totem pole.

I applaud you for having the maturity to not use your race as a scapegoat and blame it for your experience in Thailand.

Yeah, brown guys can pretty much shapeshift into Arabs, Latinos, or Indians depending on the situation.

I plan to take full advantage of this when I learn Spanish and salsa.

But I have to ask you this, how do you spend most of your time in India and then spit game in Bangkok? How do you build up momentum?
My problem is that I need wings to get started after a long period of no approaching(Like this one month in India). Once I get a few days in then I'm good on my own and can keep it going.

Post: #33

(08-04-2011 03:28 AM)torontokid Wrote:  But I have to ask you this, how do you spend most of your time in India and then spit game in Bangkok? How do you build up momentum?
My problem is that I need wings to get started after a long period of no approaching(Like this one month in India). Once I get a few days in then I'm good on my own and can keep it going.

You have practically answered the question yourself. If I go to BKK right now then it will take me at least a week (maybe more) to get comfortable with approaching and thats BKK, if this was Western Europe then it will take even more time. So, the only solution is to approach more. I don't see any other way. Also, I think you are being too hard on yourself, a bad approach is not a bad approach until you label it as one. As MiXX once said, "the only bad approach is the one that you don't make."

Your dependency on wings will go down with time. At first, I could not, literally could not walk into a bar or a nightclub on my own. Now, its not a big deal and since I have learnt that you can get better results by going solo I prefer to take that route.

Post: #34

Mystik,
You're right that the discrimination doesn't apply to classy and rich indians but only to the lower class ones who have absolutely no manners at all. I should have made that distinction on my previous post to give a more fairer picture of the situation. There are a lot of rich indians in BKK running businesses and those you will see them with stunning thai girls.

Post: #35

(08-03-2011 11:35 PM)Mystik Wrote:  You will be treated differently. In my two months in Thailand I had no problems whatsoever, as one of the guys here said "Good looking is good looking anywhere in the world."

Did the Thai girls approach me, nope, I don't think they will approach you unless they are pros. Did I get attention from the lower class Thai girls? No, Did I get attention from the higher or Middle class Thai girls? Hell Yes! My hotel was near a school and college. The students from the school used to come and eat at the Hotel's restaurant. It was quite easy to observe the attitude of the school and college girls who would come and sit next to my table and start starring and giggling even if they were with their boyfriends. Girls using their mobile phones to take my pictures, etc,etc. And I used to dressed like a bum when I was in BKK because I was on a budget trip.

Same shit happened when I was in the On nut area, I was sitting at the Bus stop and sipping on some juice, two college Thai Girls come and sit really close to me. I have tons of more instances like these. Also, when it comes to tourist chicks you will be hunted down, not approached or eye fucked, HUNTED DOWN!. As all the guys here have pointed out, they are not getting any attention and they are in the mood to fuck some brown men.

I went on the trip with the attitude that I will not get any attention from the Thai girls because I am brown and/or Indian. That is absolute BS! There is only one brown guy on this forum who has been to BKK and because he had a bad experience the preconceived notion that brown guys don't do well in Thailand was reaffirmed. Indians are ill treated in Thailand?

Well, the guy who posted the negative reports about Thailand wasn't some off the boat uneducated guy from India, but an Indian guy who was brought up in the US and appears to have travelled and gamed chicks quite extensively. So, there must be some truth to his report, just as there is to yours.

Not every upper middle class Indian guy looks like a Bollywood superstar. Maybe the average well educated Indian guy will have an experience somewhere in between what you and nomadicdude had.

Post: #36

I think it has to do location. for example I did some approaches near the on nut area and thr girls were more receptive and friendly compared to nana area.

Post: #37

(08-03-2011 11:35 PM)Mystik Wrote:  [I would be interested to read the trip report when a brown guy like MiXX goes to BKK. If he does not get laid every day with a hot rich Thai girl then I will stop posting on this forum.

Read Mixx's experiences about Peru. Basically, he got no love there because he is a brown guy. He hates the country and vows never to step foot in there again. Not saying that Thailiand will be the same, but just pointing out that it CAN happen, even to Mixx.

Post: #38

Deleted...Bumped Nomadicdude's old thread..lets not further hijack this thread with Indian guys in BKK info.

Post: #39

(08-02-2011 10:40 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  

(08-02-2011 10:22 PM)Luckystar Wrote:  HH...sounds like Neil is saying that money is 'the package' in Thailand, not 'part' of the package as you are implying.

I've often heard the same...I'm sure it's a matter of opinion.

If you are paying for sex, I am sure it is.

Look, not everyone is going to travel on a budget so tight they cant afford the 80 cents its costs to buy a beer. If luxuries like air conditioning and the ability to buy a beer in one of the cheapest countries in the world is now seen as a massive advantage that skews results, then heaven help us.

What next? Real players only live in cardboard boxes and only use newspaper to wipe their asses? If you are not spitting game at girls while you wash their car windows you wont understand what its really like?

I was banging tourists and locals. I had a smorgasbord of ass up in the air conditioned hotel room.

I was dressed in shorts and slops most of the time. I was not rolling up in a Benz wearing custom fit suits handing out 50's at the door. I looked no different to most of the other holidaymakers there. What that means for you guys is that unless you are a toothless cripple, you should come right and I found it easy to do so. Im in good shape, but I am in my mid 30's now. If I was in my younger 20's, I would have come back with every STD known to man.

I think people need to be a little more positive about the whole thing. 20 good reports, you get one bad and a lot of folks seem to ignore the 20 other good reports. Likewise one dude saying that it was only easy to score if you had money, while the truth is that its the case no matter where you are in the world.

I just came off a 22 hour bus and had a long sleep after so i cant reply sooner.
I said no pun intented so dont take it this way. I'm traveling on a low budget because i want to travel as long as possible. For me its more satisfying to know that when i get a girl to come to my cheap place, she's really interested in me and not my wallet because she has a lot of guys to choose from with fat wallets.

Sidenote - a toothless cripple gets more attention from local girls than a handsome young backpacker because the toothless cripple will buy them gifts and give them money for sex. Thai girls have different morals than western girls ( often forced by her family to "get a rich foreigner to drain his money"

Btw- I'm turning 35 this year and when i say i cant afford a beer i had more expensive countries in mind not thailand, that was wrong of me.

greetz Neil

Post: #40

(08-02-2011 10:22 PM)Luckystar Wrote:  HH...sounds like Neil is saying that money is 'the package' in Thailand, not 'part' of the package as you are implying.

I'm sure it's a matter of opinion.

You guys should read the book "Money number one". its sold in some bars in Thailand. Bar girls hate this book because it tells all the tricks they use. My travelling buddy in Indonesia lend it to me and it cracked me up so much. Wish i had a copy of it.

Grtz neil

Post: #41

(08-02-2011 11:23 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  What sort of budget are people travelling on that air conditioning in Thailand is considered a luxury? I stayed in a cheap 3 star hotel between flights. It cost me $19 for the night and it came with air conditioning, free wifi, cable TV.

If you dont have 20 bucks a night, what are you doing travelling? You should be at home collecting food stamps.

20 bucks a night = a FUCKING EXPENSIVE room in my case, i rarely pay that much for a room.

I'm not sitting at home, im banging girls all over the world

Post: #42

(08-03-2011 08:35 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(08-02-2011 06:29 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  Try gaming a girl when you have a low budget and can hardly pay for your own drinks.

In this case you might just want to stay in hostel as several people advised in a different thread. Looks like a perfect opportunity to utilize.

But why would you travel then? Even if you're flying to Thailand from India, your ticket alone would cost at least $300. If you're flying from US, it will be well over $1,000.

I don't really understand the motive which forces people to spend thousands of dollars and dozens of hours in travel to get to the destination country, just to live in a sub-par conditions which are much worse than they had at home.

I did everything traveling by land visiting everything in between. Some people travel hardcore.

Post: #43

(08-04-2011 11:31 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(08-02-2011 11:23 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  What sort of budget are people travelling on that air conditioning in Thailand is considered a luxury? I stayed in a cheap 3 star hotel between flights. It cost me $19 for the night and it came with air conditioning, free wifi, cable TV.

If you dont have 20 bucks a night, what are you doing travelling? You should be at home collecting food stamps.

20 bucks a night = a FUCKING EXPENSIVE room in my case, i rarely pay that much for a room.

I'm not sitting at home, im banging girls all over the world

All power to you for making such a budget work. I don't think it's representative of how people of the forum chose to travel however. Personally I like to live in style in nice hotels, does that make my game any less "true" than yours?

Also, you just posted 4 separate replies in a row. It's easier to follow if you just use the blue quote button for every post you want to reply to.

Post: #44

(08-02-2011 06:29 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  Try gaming a girl when you have a low budget and can hardly pay for your own drinks.

We did.

It is called being 16 - 22 years old.

I always kind of find it funny when the "budget travelers" on here use reverse snobbery on guys who travel with a few twenties to rub together.

Pretty soon the "short" guys on here will start calling the "tall" guys on here non-true players.

Let's just appreciate everyone's information and contributions for what they are.

Post: #45

(08-04-2011 11:48 AM)Vicious Wrote:  

(08-04-2011 11:31 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(08-02-2011 11:23 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  What sort of budget are people travelling on that air conditioning in Thailand is considered a luxury? I stayed in a cheap 3 star hotel between flights. It cost me $19 for the night and it came with air conditioning, free wifi, cable TV.

If you dont have 20 bucks a night, what are you doing travelling? You should be at home collecting food stamps.

20 bucks a night = a FUCKING EXPENSIVE room in my case, i rarely pay that much for a room.

I'm not sitting at home, im banging girls all over the world

All power to you for making such a budget work. I don't think it's representative of how people of the forum chose to travel however. Personally I like to live in style in nice hotels, does that make my game any less "true" than yours?

Also, you just posted 4 separate replies in a row. It's easier to follow if you just use the blue quote button for every post you want to reply to.


For sure, i will life like this if i had the budget for it, no doubt about it. Also i cant compare myself with guys who have a 4 week vacation of work. I would break the bank also. I did spent more when i was traveling with my Russian girlfriend but we split the bill on those expensive rooms.
Thanks for the tip on the quote button

(08-04-2011 12:04 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(08-02-2011 06:29 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  Try gaming a girl when you have a low budget and can hardly pay for your own drinks.

We did.

It is called being 16 - 22 years old.

Not completely true, in that period of your life girls know/assume you do have have money. Anyway i worked full time since i was 18 so i always had money but no game.

I always kind of find it funny when the "budget travelers" on here use reverse snobbery on guys who travel with a few twenties to rub together.

Pretty soon the "short" guys on here will start calling the "tall" guys on here non-true players.

Haha, i'm 6.2 so i wouldn't make that statement but i guess you're right.

Let's just appreciate everyone's information and contributions for what they are.

Post: #46

I think you over-estimate the usefulness and power of money Neil. I did the whole budget/backpacker thing a few years ago and was in a similar situation as you... cheap hostel rooms, counting money to buy beers, not able to go to expensive clubs. I got laid pretty regularly too.

Now I'm doing pretty well financially and traveling much better, and strangely enough, it hasn't really affect my results much at all. I can't say I get laid any more for reasons directly relating to money. A few reasons indirect reasons sure help (nicer clothes, money for cabs, apartments in city center, etc.). But the only difference I notice now is that girls I bang are more apt to want to be my girlfriend than before. They usually want to stick around. Which is either good/bad depending on the girl.

Money's not an aphrodisiac. But it sure as shit can make a girl cling to you.

Post: #47

Neil,
I love your blog and enjoy reading your posts. However, with all respect due man, if you're 35 and can barely afford your own drinks in Thailand and are sleeping in cheap hostels and where 20 bucks a night is "fucking expensive", then the only sound advice I or anyone can give you is take some time off from travel, make some cash, build a solid foundation for yourself, even building an online biz in the process to make your travelling sustainable. The last thing you want is to be 40, totally broke and having to go home, living with your parents and take on a job flipping burgers or sitting in a call centre. It ain't fun and that 's the kind of stuff that will make a guy want to commit suicide or kill others or some other stupid shit. So be wiser with your time man. Please don't take this the wrong way. I'm not trying to be condescending or arrogant or snobbish.

Post: #48

Neil, are you East Indian by chance? j/k

Couldn't help it....

Post: #49

(08-04-2011 01:33 PM)Entropy4 Wrote:  I think you over-estimate the usefulness and power of money Neil. I did the whole budget/backpacker thing a few years ago and was in a similar situation as you... cheap hostel rooms, counting money to buy beers, not able to go to expensive clubs. I got laid pretty regularly too.

* Glad i meet a fellow poor ass backpacker on this forum *

Now I'm doing pretty well financially and traveling much better, and strangely enough, it hasn't really affect my results much at all. I can't say I get laid any more for reasons directly relating to money. A few reasons indirect reasons sure help (nicer clothes, money for cabs, apartments in city center, etc.). But the only difference I notice now is that girls I bang are more apt to want to be my girlfriend than before. They usually want to stick around. Which is either good/bad depending on the girl.

Money's not an aphrodisiac. But it sure as shit can make a girl cling to you.

* I have a huge clinging problem, the girls always want to stay with me all the time, i have to open a topic about that soon *

(08-04-2011 02:58 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  Neil,
I love your blog and enjoy reading your posts. However, with all respect due man, if you're 35 and can barely afford your own drinks in Thailand and are sleeping in cheap hostels and where 20 bucks a night is "fucking expensive", then the only sound advice I or anyone can give you is take some time off from travel, make some cash, build a solid foundation for yourself, even building an online biz in the process to make your travelling sustainable. The last thing you want is to be 40, totally broke and having to go home, living with your parents and take on a job flipping burgers or sitting in a call centre. It ain't fun and that 's the kind of stuff that will make a guy want to commit suicide or kill others or some other stupid shit. So be wiser with your time man. Please don't take this the wrong way. I'm not trying to be condescending or arrogant or snobbish.

* In Asia i stayed in hotels only, but very cheap ones, i only stayed in hostels in very expensive place like Singapore. You can get a room in most South east Asian countries for between 3 and 12 dollar. I'm in South America now and have trouble finding a decent room under 10 dollars in countries like Bolivia and Peru, pisses me off because im running out of money fast. I'll have to resort to couch surfing in Brazil maybe.

When i return home will have spent around 50000 dollars just on traveling , that sounds like a lot but its not much because i have to make it last for 2 years and 8 months while traveling to 40something countries and going out a lot. When i have a girl in poor countries i have to pay for her also ( meals, not for sex or bullshit things), i have to take double rooms/two bed room when i stay with a girl, cost more also.

I will be broke as fuck when i return home, have to live with my parents for a while. I will focus on my website a lot and try to write a book about my adventures

The thing i wrote about not having money for drinks is wrong, i had expensive countries in mind when i wrote that, not Asia. My bad !
Even in "poor" countries like Peru a cocktail costs 5 to 7 dollars, so i dont like to spent that money on girls drinks.

Haha, not about to kill someone any time soon, i will focus on more travel or living cheap in the Philippines. I know the perfect place for that.

All right i'm off to the beach now.

Grtz Neil

Post: #50

It seems like everybody on this forum just waits for the chance to rip on Indian dudes.

Of course, cheap, poor, crass, uneducated guys are going to get treated poorly.

It's like if every time somebody talked about white guys, we talked about them as if they were inbred jim-bob from bumf*ck Alabama or fat, bald 55 year old dudes going on prostitute banging vacations.

I'm guessing most of the guys here, regardless of where they're from, are middle class, educated dudes. Let's talk about it from that perspective.