Post: #26

Be certain to have a full STD panel and blood tests done. I am a huge advocate of condoms, 100% of the time, no matter who or where you stick your dick. Lots of men believe that they have some sort of special "radar" that lets them know if a woman is Clean, Dirty, Good, Bad, Promiscuous, or Chaste. There is no such thing, you never know. #TrustNoBitch

Post: #27

(05-28-2016 06:09 AM)porscheguy Wrote:  You were ready to wife up a verified broken slut that you may or may not have knocked up. To be honest, you may wish to take the time to do a little personal inventory of your own behavior.

Definitely aware of how bad it was objectively. That was my point. I get the game we play; in spite of actively living these idioms we adhere to, I was being pulled deeper and deeper by something I couldn't control. Something primordial.

I would never look to knock up or marry a girl older than I. Foregone conclusion. But I wasn't thinking with my brain.

It allowed me to come to terms and realize I find abortion abhorrent.

Even if it was faked, which truly I doubt, I believe she would have convinced herself otherwise. Regardless, she was more than 20 days late by the time she got her rag/ miscarried.

For someone who was so deep into it, it was crushing to think that the first life you ever manage to make could be taken away by such unconstrained hedonism.

I never considered myself religious but I suppose I share some values with the religous right.

Can't turn a ho into a housewife.

And for everyone making AIDS, "get checked out comments," don't think I didn't. But again, pay attention to the meat and cheese, not the crust or the seeds in the bread.

Post: #28

(05-28-2016 07:20 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.

This is classic borderline personality disorder. Symptoms:

- Woman reeks of pure, raw, almost primal sexuality
- Amazing sex
- It's like she's staring into your soul when you talk
- She is incredibly, insanely promiscuous, but you don't want to admit it
- Relationship goes from 0-90 in like two seconds
- Completely insane, irrational, and uncontrollable

The best advice I can give you is to avoid her at all costs, forever. This is one you won't forget for awhile. Throw out the sex tapes and pictures.

No matter how much game you have, these relationships will destroy you if you're emotionally invested. I don't care if you're Neil Strauss on crack and steroids.

Understand that it's not your fault. She has a mental disorder and can't help herself. I've seen these women rip lesser men to shreds physically, financially, and emotionally. The best thing you can do is stay out of the path of destruction.

Nail on the head Hank.

She still owes me $600 for putting a new transmission into her truck.

It sounds dark but I really would like to get to the point in my game journey that I could use these women the way they used me and the many men before. Not to emotionally harangue and devastate, but just to get the experience and move on.

If you ever sat at the wood while this girl was bartending though, you'd be able to see the depths of the abyss from which this succubus operates from.

It was my first time working in a bar; let's just say the stories I had heard about the lifestyle going into it held true.

Oh well, back to the patch and chasing the things that matter.

Post: #29

(05-28-2016 01:10 PM)Condog Wrote:  

(05-28-2016 07:20 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.

This is classic borderline personality disorder. Symptoms:

- Woman reeks of pure, raw, almost primal sexuality
- Amazing sex
- It's like she's staring into your soul when you talk
- She is incredibly, insanely promiscuous, but you don't want to admit it
- Relationship goes from 0-90 in like two seconds
- Completely insane, irrational, and uncontrollable

The best advice I can give you is to avoid her at all costs, forever. This is one you won't forget for awhile. Throw out the sex tapes and pictures.

No matter how much game you have, these relationships will destroy you if you're emotionally invested. I don't care if you're Neil Strauss on crack and steroids.

Understand that it's not your fault. She has a mental disorder and can't help herself. I've seen these women rip lesser men to shreds physically, financially, and emotionally. The best thing you can do is stay out of the path of destruction.

Nail on the head Hank.

She still owes me $600 for putting a new transmission into her truck.

It sounds dark but I really would like to get to the point in my game journey that I could use these women the way they used me and the many men before. Not to emotionally harangue and devastate, but just to get the experience and move on.

If you ever sat at the wood while this girl was bartending though, you'd be able to see the depths of the abyss from which this succubus operates from.

It was my first time working in a bar; let's just say the stories I had heard about the lifestyle going into it held true.

Oh well, back to the patch and chasing the things that matter.

You now have the experience. Move on and just avoid. Let her wreck some other poor schlub's life.

Trust me.

BPDs are like heroin. Don't do it. Just don't.

Post: #30

(05-28-2016 07:20 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.

This is classic borderline personality disorder. Symptoms:

- Woman reeks of pure, raw, almost primal sexuality
- Amazing sex
- It's like she's staring into your soul when you talk
- She is incredibly, insanely promiscuous, but you don't want to admit it
- Relationship goes from 0-90 in like two seconds
- Completely insane, irrational, and uncontrollable

Something I've also noticed about the few BPDs who managed to weasel their way into my life: they sort of do a female version of "compliment and cuddle."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_bombing

Beware any girl who's telling you that you're the greatest thing ever after you've only known her for a couple hours, or even before she's ever met you in person. It's simply manipulation - you're being set up to be knocked down.

It's perfectly possible to have sex on a first date, yet for both parties to still be cautious.

Post: #31

Damn I read about 3/4 of that, I got to say dude fucked up big time in the game, time to fess up to the fuck up and charge it to the game. I love how he listed about a million red flags, but still explains how he proceeded to get intangled with this chick, sounds like the dick and the brain were having a bit of a chess match.

Funny how Corndog starts the story talking about how he knew better than to mess with this chick and was acting all player, but as the story progresses he devolves into boyfriend/relationship status with this chick.

I know from experience how these chicks can be, they're like some kind of sexual sorcerer, kind of like the hot redhead witch from Game of Thrones, they cast a spell with their crazy dick sucking and fucking skills.

The thing is you should always see it a mile away, in regards to this guys' story it should have been clear as day, getting emotionally attached to, cumming in and potentially impregnating a chick like that, that's kind of on you homie.

I guess I should finish reading the story, but kind of sounds like dude is pointing the finger a lot, but as much as he hated her bullshit it sounds like he kind of enabled her to an extent, and often even partook himself, at least in regards to the ketamine use.

If you're dating a nasty chick whose done more orgies than she can count and does a disgusting drug like ketamine on a regular basis, it's time to look in the mirror.

In the past I fucked up big time dating a BPD chick and hindsight is 20/20 with her I was younger, dumb and naive as hell and was completely lied to and manipulated, but Corndog makes it sound like he saw all of this clear as day.

Anyway live and learn, just don't repeat the same mistakes again.

Post: #32

(05-28-2016 01:54 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(05-28-2016 07:20 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.

This is classic borderline personality disorder. Symptoms:

- Woman reeks of pure, raw, almost primal sexuality
- Amazing sex
- It's like she's staring into your soul when you talk
- She is incredibly, insanely promiscuous, but you don't want to admit it
- Relationship goes from 0-90 in like two seconds
- Completely insane, irrational, and uncontrollable

Something I've also noticed about the few BPDs who managed to weasel their way into my life: they sort of do a female version of "compliment and cuddle."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_bombing

Beware any girl who's telling you that you're the greatest thing ever after you've only known her for a couple hours, or even before she's ever met you in person. It's simply manipulation - you're being set up to be knocked down.

It's perfectly possible to have sex on a first date, yet for both parties to still be cautious.

Ding dong.

Part of the problem is they're so crazy that they believe it at the time. So it feels very real.

"You're so perfect, Hank, I've never met anyone like you... you're my soulmate!"

Post: #33

(05-28-2016 02:10 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  "You're so perfect, Hank, I've never met anyone like you... you're my soulmate!"

All women do this to a greater or lesser degree when they've been dating you for a while, I think. The problem is the BPD ones ACTUALLY BELIEVE IT.

I took a break from seeing one of my plates for a while, because she had been being bitchy, and she set me a text that said something like "You know, if that's what you want...I mean I'd be heartbroken but I'd accept it."

The next time I saw her I read her that text in a goofy voice. "I would be like....sooooooo heartbroken! I'd NEVER recover!"

She tried to play it straight but couldn't. "I mean! I would! I totally would, I..." but she couldn't help giggling at the same time. Then I was like "You were totally thinking about hitting up that guy who you were texting with from online two months ago" and she goes "Heh, well ah...yeah.."



The "makeup sex" was really great. First time she texted me the next morning to specifically give me a compliment about it. She's not big into the "love bombing" thing at all.

Post: #34

(05-28-2016 02:09 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  Damn I read about 3/4 of that, I got to say dude fucked up big time in the game, time to fess up to the fuck up and charge it to the game. I love how he listed about a million red flags, but still explains how he proceeded to get intangled with this chick, sounds like the dick and the brain were having a bit of a chess match.

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I guess I should finish reading the story, but kind of sounds like dude is pointing the finger a lot, but as much as he hated her bullshit it sounds like he kind of enabled her to an extent, and often even partook himself, at least in regards to the ketamine use.

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If you're dating a nasty chick whose done more orgies than she can count and does a disgusting drug like ketamine on a regular basis, it's time to look in the mirror.

In the past I fucked up big time dating a BPD chick and hindsight is 20/20 with her I was younger, dumb and naive as hell and was completely lied to and manipulated, but Corndog makes it sound like he saw all of this clear as day.

Anyway live and learn, just don't repeat the same mistakes again.

OGNorCal707,

Harsh words but it was a harsh situation and I was blind. I get it. Thanks. That's why I took the time to put this story up.

Yeah, I saw those flags but she when she acted right, she acted right. It was what it was.

I know I fucked up. I was hearing it from every corner when I was in the shit.

Chalk it up and move on, that's what my boys told me.

I took K once. I won't explain the reason but yeah, retarded. Just a drug addict.

It was doubly difficult because we both worked together full time and I couldn't have it go to shit and risk losing that job. As the only guy in a bar run by a woman it was thin ice

I have no attachment to any longer. Just need my $600...

Funny how my game has tightened up since then. Am I cynical now? No, she's a mental patient. Am I jaded? You bet your ass.

Sounds like you walked this path before.
Also, "Condog" is not "Corndog." Hope that wasn't a dig. If it was, let's be original.

Post: #35

(05-28-2016 06:57 PM)Condog Wrote:  Sounds like you walked this path before.
Also, "Condog" is not "Corndog." Hope that wasn't a dig. If it was, let's be original.

Oh shit my bad I genuinely read your user name as "Corndog", although I tend to just skim through stuff on the forum and wasn't really paying very close attention. Now in retrospect I'm cracking up, but no it wasn't intentional.

Yes, I've walked a somewhat similar path as you, as other guys have picked up on it sounds like your Ex was a certifiable BPD for sure, it's bizarre how deeply they can get inside your mind and make you act completely irrationally and outside yourself. It is truly like being under a spell, unless you've experienced it for yourself it's hard for other people to understand and relate.

Welcome to the club, you're not the first nor the last guy to go through an experience like this, shit probably one of many guys who have followed the same script with the same chick.

I was mostly busting your balls because at the beginning of the thread you were making yourself out to be a hardened game wise player who knew better, but like I said that quickly devolved into chaos.

I know I was relatively young and very inexperienced overall, but especially with relationships when I got caught up with my BPD ex, I don't know how old you are, but usually experience is the best teacher. Now you've gone through this experience you should know better.

I know the roller coaster was exciting with some of the highest highs and some of the wildest most sexually gratifying sex, but basically everything else that came with it was a shit storm. This chick fucked up your mental, emotional, and physical health, and cost you money. Definitely cut her out of your life completely and don't look back. Trust me it ain't worth it. My ex got me falsely arrested and I had to spend a year of my life in domestic violence classes, plus ended up spending like $5,000 on lawyer, court fees, court ordered classes, etc.

These psychos will ruin your life.

Post: #36

BPDs are the crack-cocaine of dating. When it's good, it's real good. It's the best. The sex is fantastic. You feel like you connect with them on another level spiritually, emotionally, and physically. If you could just get this relationship right, you'd spend every waking moment with this person. You'd actually consider making a child with this woman and letting her into your life when it's good. It's like the love you read about in movies.

But when it's bad, it's bad. You never know where you stand with them, how they they know "Joe" the tattoo artists or "Arthur" the bassist. When you ask questions, they make you feel jealous and possessive. You want to believe the things they tell you outright, but on its face it's too crazy to believe. "I slept over at my sister's house last night" or "Oh, I had to work late and got a hotel room, sorry I didn't call." Something is always a little bit off.

These women will take you to new emotional heights, but also some dangerous places too.

My opinion is to avoid. You can't overcome mental illness with any amount of game. She'll just sweep you into her mental illness.

Post: #37

I just finished divorcing a BPD woman. Let me tell you, you dodged a bullett. I was mixed up in her craziness for 14 years. It was always something. Use this as a life lesson.

I also agree with the other posters, you need to look in the mirror and reflect on how you contributed to this trainwreck.

Post: #38

Are you going to post those pics

Post: #39

I intend to. I'm in contact with a senior poster on here trying to figure out why my browser won't allow it.

Post: #40

Don't post the pics.

There's no reason to expose risking yourself, and there's no benefit to you. A few rep points isn't worth it. Plus she's crazy as shit, and quite possibly reading this forum. You've already let her bring problems into your life, and now you're inviting more. Not only for yourself, but for this forum.

Revenge porn is for losers. Fellow RVFers can find regular porn on their own.

Post: #41

I need to have a shower after reading that.
Might be a good idea to check into a monastery for a few months.

P.S. posting pics of girls is against the rules.

Post: #42

OP, you said the chick did hardcore lesbian porn or photoshoot?

If you can't post pics on here just post a link to the site the scene is on.

Post: #43

(05-29-2016 02:40 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  Don't post the pics.

There's no reason to expose risking yourself, and there's no benefit to you. A few rep points isn't worth it. Plus she's crazy as shit, and quite possibly reading this forum. You've already let her bring problems into your life, and now you're inviting more. Not only for yourself, but for this forum.

Revenge porn is for losers. Fellow RVFers can find regular porn on their own.

Yes, yes and yes.

Publicly sharing private sexual media of conquests/randoms either for profit or revenge is an extremely low act that not only reflects the pathetic nature of the person sharing it but also leads to serious psychological hurt for those outed. This is especially relevant in the age of world-wide permanent imprinting online; once the image/name is uploaded it is difficult if not impossible in some cases to remove it.

Further, it also makes things harder for us seducers to save those nights of passion on film. I have personally found a correlation and at times direct causation effect between the public outing of nude shots and the reluctance of girls to participate in filming. For instance - reflecting on the refusal of mid- and/or post-lay recordings, I clearly remember a Hong Kong girl specifically citing a well-publicized case of a local famous actor who apparently sent his laptop in for repair however the tech guys then found and sold his sex tapes with several local actresses to a media outlet. So the Fappening and so on may be good for the purpose of self-pleasure for a few minutes but may work against should you want to get your own shots.

P.S.

(01-05-2011 05:35 PM)Roosh Wrote:  13. Do not post nude or identifiable images of your sexual conquests. Do not share images or screenshots that identify your dates or girlfriends (e.g., first names, faces, phone numbers, etc) and do not upload naked photos.

Name: joHnANDY
Joined: Aug 2015
First post: May 2016...

(05-28-2016 08:48 PM)Johnandy Wrote:  Are you going to post those pics

Post: #44

I'll be honest: I made it about 1/3rd of the way through that and then skimmed some of the questions at the end.

Though, I think that I got it. The story pretty much writes itself after the girl's initial description and Condog's description of his attraction to her.

What I realized after experiencing the mix of higher than normal levels of physical attraction and bad news (crazy or another variation of a woman being a bad package): the Satan described in the Bible is an allegory for extreme sexual attraction to women that will ruin you.

I didn't think about it much, after my experiences. I sort of just knew it. This is the meaning behind the Satan allegory.

You can either preserve yourself or give in. You can't do both.

It takes one of these (but sometimes two of differing varieties) for most men to learn to become much more cautious. Some men get out with little to no permanent life-damage like a baby with her. Some men aren't so lucky. Anything below pregnancy and serious disease is getting away clean. Anything that allows you to continue living life relatively healthy but most importantly free from her is getting away clean.

From there on out: life will no seem a little sweeter. The grass will seem greener. The sky a little bit bluer.

(05-28-2016 06:57 PM)Condog Wrote:  I have no attachment to any longer. Just need my $600...

No you don't. It's the cost of doing business, and consider it getting off cheap. May advice: forget the money.

Post: #45

(05-28-2016 08:06 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  BPDs are the crack-cocaine of dating. When it's good, it's real good. It's the best. The sex is fantastic. You feel like you connect with them on another level spiritually, emotionally, and physically. If you could just get this relationship right, you'd spend every waking moment with this person. You'd actually consider making a child with this woman and letting her into your life when it's good. It's like the love you read about in movies.

But when it's bad, it's bad. You never know where you stand with them, how they they know "Joe" the tattoo artists or "Arthur" the bassist. When you ask questions, they make you feel jealous and possessive. You want to believe the things they tell you outright, but on its face it's too crazy to believe. "I slept over at my sister's house last night" or "Oh, I had to work late and got a hotel room, sorry I didn't call." Something is always a little bit off.

These women will take you to new emotional heights, but also some dangerous places too.

My opinion is to avoid. You can't overcome mental illness with any amount of game. She'll just sweep you into her mental illness.

Totally agree. Been there, done that a few times. The sex and raw emotions are fantastic. But those are fleeting. The wreck they cause you can take months or years to clean up.

The good news is every girl with this illness acts exactly the same. Easy to spot now.

Post: #46

(05-28-2016 09:48 PM)Condog Wrote:  I intend to. I'm in contact with a senior poster on here trying to figure out why my browser won't allow it.

I'm the member he has been talking to about posting. But I told him I was out of it (tired/lightly hungover) when I was reading through the post. I have no idea what he plans on posting but cautioned him against anything that he will regret. Especially, if it could also reveal his identity. I thought maybe it was some text messages.

Now if OP is trying to post pics of the girl as some sort of revenge act, don't do that. Not only for the reasons already mentioned but also you have to ask what is going on with you internally. People do stuff like that out of anger, but anger comes from being hurt, being hurt comes from a variety of things (no duh). I think it is better to sit with yourself and deal with your pain rather than causing more of it. You are suffering from being hurt.

Maybe you feel like you got beat or lost. It happens to everyone. Have you ever pulled nonsense on a girl but you came out on the winning side? Probably felt fine then.

You creating more drama for yourself and her - is exactly what she wants AND AND AND that means it is exactly what you want. You say you don't want drama but drama is not created by itself. Maybe you want another taste of it.

And now based on the people asking for photos (I won't go through the original post again) and it sounds like you had promised pics of women - DON'T DO IT.



Have some emotional control.

Post: #47

Hank Moody really showing his experience with crazy girls here. All his info has been on point.

Great sex. Intense emotional connection. Love drunk. Tumultuous, anxiety-stricken relationships. Crazy girls are always "the one who got away" type that seem to leave a long-lasting burn mark in your memory bank.

The most memorable and fun relationships I've had were with the crazy ones. It's generally the same for everyone. Instability evokes emotional response - it feeds the human desire to feel. That contrast becomes addicting. I would even bet its chemically addicting as such a thing surely elicits hormonal and dopamine rushes.

Post: #48

(05-29-2016 02:40 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  Revenge porn is for losers. Fellow RVFers can find regular porn on their own.

(05-29-2016 07:55 AM)Artiste Wrote:  Publicly sharing private sexual media of conquests/randoms either for profit or revenge is an extremely low act that not only reflects the pathetic nature of the person sharing it but also leads to serious psychological hurt for those outed.

(05-29-2016 10:40 AM)samsamsam Wrote:  And now based on the people asking for photos (I won't go through the original post again) and it sounds like you had promised pics of women - DON'T DO IT.

Have some emotional control.

Fellas, let's just pump the brakes for a second.

I was never going to post pics of a chick on the internet.

Stupid, asking for trouble, unnecesary.

When I said I had pics and screenshots of all of it, I was referring to correspondence. Yes, I do have explicit content of her/ us but that is never seeing the light of day.

It threw me off a bit when I have senior guys like El Mech asking if I was gonna post.

I believe this is what I said in the epilogue:

(05-27-2016 05:19 PM)Condog Wrote:  I have screenshots and photos and videos to back up everything I have done or said with her. At first it was just to back myself up if she ever did have the kid so I could win the custody battle.

That is not an invitation to ask or otherwise solicit me for compromising images.
That was simply a backstop against those on here with a presumption of incredulity to my writing.

Senior members will know that all this is possible, and with BPD chicks, probable, so I trust they believe my long-winded story.

As for those requiring pics to believe it... Grow up. Read my words in their entirety then tell me you still require proof.

I joined RVF to be involved in a community of people that would be able to guide/ advise/ empathize/ relate/ bullshit about the ways we take on life.

I wish to garner enough experience in my time alive to be one who is sought out so I may give back.

Revenge porn is for dumb cunts.

When it comes to how I feel about the whole situation, I believe I just wrote nearly 6,000 words on the subject.

I was able to because the scab is fading.

-C

Post: #49

(05-28-2016 08:06 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  BPDs are the crack-cocaine of dating. When it's good, it's real good. It's the best. The sex is fantastic. You feel like you connect with them on another level spiritually, emotionally, and physically. If you could just get this relationship right, you'd spend every waking moment with this person. You'd actually consider making a child with this woman and letting her into your life when it's good. It's like the love you read about in movies.

But when it's bad, it's bad. You never know where you stand with them, how they they know "Joe" the tattoo artists or "Arthur" the bassist. When you ask questions, they make you feel jealous and possessive. You want to believe the things they tell you outright, but on its face it's too crazy to believe. "I slept over at my sister's house last night" or "Oh, I had to work late and got a hotel room, sorry I didn't call." Something is always a little bit off.

These women will take you to new emotional heights, but also some dangerous places too.

My opinion is to avoid. You can't overcome mental illness with any amount of game. She'll just sweep you into her mental illness.

Exactly my mindset Hank. It's like you were there man.

Post: #50

^
Wow!

All the signs were there.. But whats interesting is how easily & clearly the white lies.. to the point that someone who works in bar and bangs other chicks could not "distinguish" between her lies and her truths (if any).

We need to have a Master list/ Wiki for such threads.. Instead of them being all over the place and us finding such Gold! by chance.

http://www.palmbeachpost.com/news/crime-...64oa6n7BM/

http://www.palmbeachpost.com/news/crime-...U7iBRWOhO/

Dalia Dippolito - I just came across this and man I'm blown away by how easily she shifted expressions.. wow!