Post: #26

(04-13-2016 05:43 PM)HenryM Wrote:  Met a girl from online--30ish, blonde, lawyer (I know . . .). After 3rd bang (4th meeting) left her place about 1:30am. Things seemed good. Next afternoon, she texted me "This isn't cool" w/ pics of bruises on her arm. Also said "I know it's passion but you can't do this to me."

Seems totally wacky--no way I bruised her arm like that. One bruise, in particular, on exterior of arm--no way. (Other, on interior--possible if I shifted weight but seems unlikely). Not to get all CSI but photos seem odd--one taken in bedroom, one in bathroom.

I responded: "I wasn't even rough. We'll have to be careful next time given you're an eggshell."

She said "You'll have to be." [Seems like a pretty close-ended response by her--not playful at all.]

Thoughts? Sending photos rather than just telling me seems aggressive (generational issue?); I'm 98% sure photos not a result of our encounter!

My thought: She has a resentment (me not staying over?)--and sent photos already on file. I won't see her again for sure.

She's a lawyer. If she was fishing for a case against you she would have worded that text a lot differently. Consent is without a doubt implied there.

I get it, there are a lot of women that try to pull stuff like that. She fits the demographic pretty well also.

What I think you are dealing with is a 50 Shades Of Gray fan. She fits that demographic too.

Yes its risky, but maybe "wait till you see what I do next time" or something along those lines may have altered the entire dynamic.

Ask yourself these things:

1) how hot is she?

2) if she's into the rough stuff, are three ways possible?

3) can she fix traffic tickets/small criminal infractions?

Maybe she's worth keeping around.

Aloha!