Any guy wants girls who are exotic, it's not just local Colombian guys. If you grow up around pale white chicks your whole life they are a dime a dozen. If you grow up around Latinas those white chicks are exotic. Pretty much all the guys I know who grew up in Latin America think like like that and if a Colombiana 7 was back in my hometown where there are no good looking Latinas I'm sure most guys I know there would lose their shit and think she's a supermodel.

Quote:Damn I would rather bang all the girls in the second pic except second from the right over the girl in the first pic lol. Also why would you care how rich a girl is if she not spending that money on you?

Quote:PC those girls in the second pic are bangable but mediocre, the chick are far left looks ok to me though.

Quote:As for lonewolf, well he said those were 6s and 7s so thats not a bad thing anyway. Not sure what the ugly after the pic refers to as those girls are definitely not ugly (except the two on the right). The one in red in the middle is hotter than the blonde to me (would ltr). But anyway everyone bang whoever they want.

Haha guys I was being sarcastic, Those girls are really hot to me as well. Ask a local paisa and he would tell you he lives among women like that everyday and he'd say as well that they are not very special. I've three cousins in medellin who look like that. And my cousins have other cousins who look better than them. It's ridiculous the amount of pussy everywhere and think medellin is ruined compared to what it was when I grew up in there haha.

Quote:How much time will the tunnel cut down on travel time?

Dude, according to the news the trip from the airport to medellin will be 18 minutes after the tunnel gets finished sometime in june. I know it's peanuts compared to the infrastructure in the west but I love to see my city improve.[/size]

Quote:I hate to say it. I just hope we are not poisoning Colombia. I would hate it if we are also responsible for making Colombia like the west. I think somewhat we are partially guilty. If you date them, let them keep their culture. Even if you're not religious. Let them keep their faith. Why? Because the moment we bring in our culture they will start to lose theirs. Don't be pissies. Be more macho like some of their guys. I hope the gist is getting through.

You guys won't ruin everything. The 'aliens' with their narrative are already doing a good job with that, you may not notice that as a foreigner but I'm in this forum for a reason.

Thank you! I agree with that the fact is most of the guys on here talk about all these bangs and hot girls but for real most are probably 6's and 7's tops which is fine too, but I have a hard time believing many of the stories on here lol and also on social media.

(04-21-2019 01:42 PM)NoMoreTO Wrote:  ^^ The 3rd and 4th from the left, in the back are definitely attractive girls. Twinkle in their eyes, not drunk, nice smiles. WB

Pointy elbows aside (chick on the extreme left appears to have the Latina hairy arm thing going on), I'd crush every one of them. Doesn't appear to be a cunty/resting bitch face/overly tattooed/Miss Piggy/entitled porker in the bunch.

Edit: I would probably go hard (as in actually put in a solid effort to game) after the one on the far right. My "whiteness" would most likely give me leverage so dealing with her on an ongoing basis would serve me better. In addition, she looks slightly more introverted than the rest of the more attention-whorey types in the photo. Girls who trend more shy tend to be less annoying for me to deal with. Plus she has long hair. Having to give women in D.C. shit for having short hair gets old after awhile.

^How would your whiteness give you leverage?

^ Because they've never seen white people before except on TV.

(04-22-2019 07:18 PM)scotian Wrote:  ^How would your whiteness give you leverage?

As you know from your travels, light skin is associated with being of higher class in some cultures; Latin American cultures for sure. Dark(er) skinned women, especially in that region of the world, are very cognizant of their skin tone (morena, negra, indigenous and so on) so being associated with a "blanquito" validates them in a way and you will normally get more effort (logistically, sexually and so on) than she might give someone of her own background. I'll often tease a girl I'm with about me being super white as compared to her which playfully but subtly reinforces our cultural and/or class differences. That's my experience anyway.

@ManOfTheTimes its all in your head bro.
Plenty of morenos with attractive girls in Medellin, I heard some girl say they have the fame of having big dicks.

As long as you are not black you should be fine.

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I always assumed any status boost you get from white skin is because they think you have money being a gringo. It could be because I've been to Jakarta and Manila. Girls there will sport fuck you just for having pasty skin, its easily 10x worse there. In Latin America you definitely have to bring more to the table.

If I overstay tourist visa and pay, will they put anything about this in my passport? Any other major downsides? I am thinking of doing it for 6-12 months since I don't need to travel elsewhere.

It seems to be very cheap compared to say student visa(1.2mil/month at EAFIT + 40 hours of time / month).

(04-23-2019 07:07 PM)Hoo Wrote:  If I overstay tourist visa and pay, will they put anything about this in my passport? Any other major downsides? I am thinking of doing it for 6-12 months since I don't need to travel elsewhere.

It seems to be very cheap compared to say student visa(1.2mil/month at EAFIT + 40 hours of time / month).

You can get your letter with EAFIT for 12 months, do a month then go on a 3 month, then take another month of school, then take a break. They won't blink an eye, as long as you do some school with them and give them a little cash. I saw that when I took a course with EAFIT.

Also, for Spanish, I'd go with private tutors in coffee shops or a small local school. At EAFIT you are paying primo for a group experience surrounded by Gringos who are actually the worst language students. You can pay less and have a one on one prof, and actually help a real person to pay their bills.

There are plenty of guys of all races that travel to Colombia, strike out and resort to dumpster diving or P4P.

Being white isn't a skeleton key to Latina pussy.

(04-23-2019 07:58 PM)NoMoreTO Wrote:  

(04-23-2019 07:07 PM)Hoo Wrote:  If I overstay tourist visa and pay, will they put anything about this in my passport? Any other major downsides? I am thinking of doing it for 6-12 months since I don't need to travel elsewhere.

It seems to be very cheap compared to say student visa(1.2mil/month at EAFIT + 40 hours of time / month).

You can get your letter with EAFIT for 12 months, do a month then go on a 3 month, then take another month of school, then take a break. They won't blink an eye, as long as you do some school with them and give them a little cash. I saw that when I took a course with EAFIT.

Also, for Spanish, I'd go with private tutors in coffee shops or a small local school. At EAFIT you are paying primo for a group experience surrounded by Gringos who are actually the worst language students. You can pay less and have a one on one prof, and actually help a real person to pay their bills.

How would you go about finding a private tutor in Medellin? I'd like to find someone who charges around $10 USD (give or take) per hour. Can anybody recommend one to me? I've been getting many hours of practice and improving a lot simply by going out with girls who don't speak English, but I'm hitting a plateau. I've been pretty lazy to study on my own, so I think spending money for a tutor will give me the extra push I need.

(04-26-2019 10:49 AM)travolta Wrote:  

(04-23-2019 07:58 PM)NoMoreTO Wrote:  

(04-23-2019 07:07 PM)Hoo Wrote:  If I overstay tourist visa and pay, will they put anything about this in my passport? Any other major downsides? I am thinking of doing it for 6-12 months since I don't need to travel elsewhere.

It seems to be very cheap compared to say student visa(1.2mil/month at EAFIT + 40 hours of time / month).

You can get your letter with EAFIT for 12 months, do a month then go on a 3 month, then take another month of school, then take a break. They won't blink an eye, as long as you do some school with them and give them a little cash. I saw that when I took a course with EAFIT.

Also, for Spanish, I'd go with private tutors in coffee shops or a small local school. At EAFIT you are paying primo for a group experience surrounded by Gringos who are actually the worst language students. You can pay less and have a one on one prof, and actually help a real person to pay their bills.

How would you go about finding a private tutor in Medellin? I'd like to find someone who charges around $10 USD (give or take) per hour. Can anybody recommend one to me? I've been getting many hours of practice and improving a lot simply by going out with girls who don't speak English, but I'm hitting a plateau. I've been pretty lazy to study on my own, so I think spending money for a tutor will give me the extra push I need.

I know some girl that gives private classes for like $3/h. havent had time to try it but whatsapp me ill pass you the contact

Quote:How would you go about finding a private tutor in Medellin? I'd like to find someone who charges around $10 USD (give or take) per hour. Can anybody recommend one to me? I've been getting many hours of practice and improving a lot simply by going out with girls who don't speak English, but I'm hitting a plateau. I've been pretty lazy to study on my own, so I think spending money for a tutor will give me the extra push I need.
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On Time in Pereira I went on a facebook group of people looking for work. Busca trabajo Pereira. I put a post up for a teacher and got about 10 responses in 2 hours. You could probably try the same thing.
- filter on price
- hot chicks preferred
- get a real teacher, unless you're on a real tight budget.
- set appointments/lessons with 3 , continue with which one you like

NoMoreTo what do you like about Pereira besides it being cheaper?

Will anyone be in Cartagena next week.

(04-26-2019 04:02 PM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  NoMoreTo what do you like about Pereira besides it being cheaper?

vs. Medellin

Pros
Less Pollution
Less Traffic
Closer to Nature
Cheaper

Cons
Less Party
Day gaming is a little harder, tinder too
Colombian social circles are even harder to crack, they are not as used to ex pats
Very few RVF bros to wing/go out with
Chicks are not quite Medellin level, but still hot.
A little harder to find a turnkey place on Airbnb

I am 6 months into being single after my divorced finalize 6 months ago. I am coming out of my introverted shell and have started opening chicas here almost every day. Sometimes it hard but I push myself.

I have been in a 2nd tier Colombian city for 2 months now.

Today at a Juan Valdez coffee shop 3 chicas sat at the table next to me… They were at another table, but moved to the table by me.
After they sat down I made eye contact with one of them and then they started power gossiping. It took me about 10 minutes to come up with something to say as I knew I will have to interrupt their conversation.

I was nervous so I opened with a situational question and they were receptive to my approach and we all ended up talking for about 40 minutes.

The girl in the yellow who is really pretty did most of the talking telling me about the area, answering my questions and telling me a few things about themselves. Overall we had a good conversation.

The other two were pretty and I engaged the in conversation as well. I could tell the girl in the black jacket was somewhat interested in me as she kept staring at me…

After the 40 minutes they get up and tell me it’s time for them to go.
I couldn’t think of a way fast enough to get a number close because I liked both the girl in the yellow and black.

I was not sure who to ask for their whatsapp and I did not want to make it awkward. So we went our different ways. I felt proud for opening a set but disappointed for not closing.

What would you guys have done in this situation?


   

Simple

Ask for one of the girl’s number

(04-26-2019 09:37 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  Simple

Asked for one of the girl’s number

I was bit overwhelmed, didn't want to offend the other 2 chicas by asking for 1 number... Lesson learned.

Best of luck!
You did the approach, great. What you can do next time is give them your Facebook or what’s app. The girl that I would be interested in, I would’ve did my best to add her number and say something like, let’s all hang out sometime.

Don’t fret, you’ll have more opportunities.

(04-26-2019 08:05 PM)dfw1 Wrote:  I am 6 months into being single after my divorced finalize 6 months ago. I am coming out of my introverted shell and have started opening chicas here almost every day. Sometimes it hard but I push myself.

I have been in a 2nd tier Colombian city for 2 months now.

Today at a Juan Valdez coffee shop 3 chicas sat at the table next to me… They were at another table, but moved to the table by me.
After they sat down I made eye contact with one of them and then they started power gossiping. It took me about 10 minutes to come up with something to say as I knew I will have to interrupt their conversation.

I was nervous so I opened with a situational question and they were receptive to my approach and we all ended up talking for about 40 minutes.

The girl in the yellow who is really pretty did most of the talking telling me about the area, answering my questions and telling me a few things about themselves. Overall we had a good conversation.

The other two were pretty and I engaged the in conversation as well. I could tell the girl in the black jacket was somewhat interested in me as she kept staring at me…

After the 40 minutes they get up and tell me it’s time for them to go.
I couldn’t think of a way fast enough to get a number close because I liked both the girl in the yellow and black.

I was not sure who to ask for their whatsapp and I did not want to make it awkward. So we went our different ways. I felt proud for opening a set but disappointed for not closing.

What would you guys have done in this situation?

I'm curious to know what question you asked to get their attention?

In terms of getting their number, its a difficult one when you have 2 targets, but I probably would have said 'is it possible to stay in touch with you girls' as you're still new to the area and see which one comes forward first.

(04-26-2019 10:04 PM)dfw1 Wrote:  I was bit overwhelmed, didn't want to offend the other 2 chicas by asking for 1 number... Lesson learned.

Don't even ask for their phone numbers. Open your phone to "add contacts" and just hand it to them. Each and every one will put their numbers in your phone.

It just works. Trust me.