Post: #51

Shot, its all good man. You keep on taking girls to clubs, buying them drinks and definitely show them you ain't broke and are a baller. I'm sure the club managers love you too! There is nothing a nightclub manager loves more than tying their (male) clients down with bottle service so they can't bounce elsewhere if the venue sucks!

It just makes my game that much tighter.

Mixx

Post: #52

Quote:That's exactly why it's try-hard. There's a difference between buying someone a drink who has earned it with conversation and buying their affection with a drink. It's your money, time, and effort though... so don't let me tell you what to do.

I don't think chicks can earn anything. Sometimes you just feel like sharing. The whole "you bought her a drink, now you are her bitch" thing is mostly in your head. I used to think like that a long time ago, but I realized it was basically in my head.

If anything, a chick 'earning' a drink through conversation is the bigger evil than organizing a night out with your boys and some ladies you already know. If I invite somebody out, of course I'm going to share with them, male or female.

Quote:Shot, its all good man. You keep on taking girls to clubs, buying them drinks and definitely show them you ain't broke and are a baller. I'm sure the club managers love you too! There is nothing a nightclub manager loves more than tying their (male) clients down with bottle service so they can't bounce elsewhere if the venue sucks!

You sound unreasonable bitter about all this. I mentioned one little gambit: going out with your friends, getting bottles, inviting some women along. I wasn't trying to get philosophical about the metaphysical issues of whether or not buying drinks makes you anything. Who cares what the night club manager thinks? Do I care what the Burger King manager thinks when I buy a whopper jr value meal?

If anything, I should thanking them, night clubs have been kind to me over the years, and I've abused my nightlife connections for all I could.

Also, bouncing around in a big group of guys(which was the situation I posted earlier) is a not that practical. When I am out alone, I typically get stamps at 2-4 venues, and club hop, depending on the music. Doing that with a big crowd, especially while drinking, not nearly so agile.

BUT, and here is where the invited ladies come in. If we have a bunch of people, including our own women, we don't HAVE to worry about if the rest of the club sucks or not. We already have our party and our women for the night. We're good.

Quote:It just makes my game that much tighter.

How is your worrying about me going to make YOUR game tighter? You and gmac are taking this way too serious, way too personal. You seem bitter, and I dunno why.

Going out on the cheap is pretty easy and I did that for years. These days, I don't have to. Generally speaking, I have more money than time, so this is a better route, SOME NIGHTS. My "cost per notch" matters to me even less than the gas mileage on my truck, which is shitty.

Post: #53

(07-11-2011 09:26 PM)YoungGunner Wrote:  

(07-11-2011 05:56 PM)CJ Wrote:  I should probably add the other college town I frequent is Ann Arbor, so that's gonna be a bit different no matter what...

how would you rate the quality of girls up there? I assume there are alot of decent middle-class white/jewish girls since many people from my hs go there and that's mainly my hs's demographic, but I've been wondering if I should make time to visit.

Ann Arbor is unique because there's a very clear division within the campus. On one side you've got all the bars off of Main that older students, and locals frequent a lot, such as Heidelberg. Logically, it's not as easy to pull from there, but it's not a bad spot to run day game.

Then on the other side you've got all the bars around South U that the younger students are going to, the bars that are more fun and that people take their friends to when they're visiting from other schools or home. Personal favorites for picking up a slut include Cafe Habana, Fifth Quarter and Rick's, and there's a handful of other good ones too.

My only advice if you go, is to go out EARLY. A lot of my friends are clueless when it comes to this, and bitch about not having any fun because they can't get into anywhere without waiting in a long line. Also avoid the Ait Bar - gay bar, and The Arena - crappy bar with bitchy staff.

As for women, there's great diversity and plenty of quality. I don't know about the girls being Jewish or not, as I don't really ask on that one, nor am skilled at picking out if a girl is Jewish.

I really don't know why I don't live there anymore, as that was a great place to run game... I guess I just hate snow.

Post: #54

(07-12-2011 12:05 PM)Sh0t Wrote:  You are taking it way too seriously with the "too cool to buy drinks" thing.

Buying a girl a gin and tonic after talking to her for a while and forking over a couple hundred for bottle service in the hopes that it'll lure some naive girls are two completely different things.

Post: #55

That's what you don't seem to understand shot.

You are trying to impress slutty college girls by showing them as you stated that "you ain't broke, and can show them a good time" by tossing $$$ around or like Roosh just posted; it's a different story to have a girl earn your time as oppose to buying it.

Spend hundreds of dollars to have slutty college girls cock-tease you all night, or spend next to nothing and pick your girl for the night.

The girls are not easily impressed; they are playing you.

That's what game does shot. It changes your perspective. I'm not trying to change your ways, by all means continue that path if that is what you feel you want, but it's not gonna hold up in this forum.


But maybe I am just a bitter man hehe.

Mixx

Post: #56

College towns definitely have some of the best female/male ratios and best ratio of young girls along with some of the most attractive. Tallahassee has a median age of 26 and Gainesville 25 compare that to the united states median age of 38 and you'll see the difference.

(07-10-2011 07:07 PM)spinaroonie Wrote:  I've fvcked a number of these college lizards post-college. The juniors and seniors like mature, slightly older guys who have their shit together, but who still look like they could pass for a college kid.

I think this is one of the most important parts, college girls are usually obsessed with status so they'll go for a older guy but not one that looks "old". A young professional that makes a decent amount of $, with decent game that looks like they could be college aged is probably the type of person that would do best in a college town.

Post: #57

I think, playing with friends in a college is the biggest unforgettable fun in life.

Post: #58

(07-10-2011 12:16 PM)Sh0t Wrote:  I've always recommended men read books like "Unhooked" and "unprotected" etc that talk about the experience of women on campus. They give valuable insights on how to work it.

I'd like to read these but couldn't find them on Amazon. Anyone know where to get these books?

Post: #59

I am 26, 33 lifetime notches with 17 of them coming over the past 26 months.

The closer I get to 30, the easiest this thing seems. I read somewhere on this board that men peak from 33-40. I seriously think there might be some truth to this.

Four years of college should be spent busting your ass with work, with a college GF.

Post: #60

It seems like in my town the ratios are a little bit different (like you say) but the old adage of female hypergamy still stays true, lol.

Post: #61

(07-08-2011 11:29 AM)spinaroonie Wrote:  The REALITY of College Town Game


Us PUAs and players have a distorted perspective of the sexual marketplace. An oft-repeated trope is 20% of women are fvcking 80% of the men. This is not true - the stats don't bear this out. (http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2010/09/14...principle/)

 
The fact is every college has a surplus of girls. And for every attention-whoring sorority slut gyrating her booty at the local frat bar on Saturday night, there are three "nice girls" sitting at home watching Twilight, or nerding it up at the library, or hanging out with the sisterhood bitching about how there are no good men left.
 
There's a huge reservoir of cute girls that don't get a lot of attention and don't a lot of play. These are girls in arts majors in 90% chick programs like psychology, sociology etc. These girls aren't used to getting a lot of attention from dudes because they're not meeting dudes. They're not meeting a quality guys. A lot of these girls are horny and lonely. They WANT to MEET guys to date and fvck. Theyr'e not.
So what happens when these girls hit up what was USED TO BE the primate grounds for the mating dance - the local the bar/club? They get hit on by guido douchebag roid monkeys. Or awkward dorks with bad game. Or wallflower creepers staring them down from the sidelines. And though they'd like to meet and get to know guys, the loud "ra ra" autotune crap blasting at high decibels makes conversation unbearable. And when she does start chatting with a quality guy - the guy with the professional career, the car, the pad - whom she feels she has a connection with, the mother hen shows up and her jealous friends invariably end up c*ckblocking.

Bars were once the spots these single ladies would go in pursuit of men, but the bar scene has changed. With the evolution of Facebook/texting technology, bars have become social grounds for big, mixed sets of friends (guys and girls) to hang out, not find someone to fvck. I used to see tons of 2-sets and 3-sets of girls to chat up at bars and clubs. I seldom see that now. NIGHT GAME IS DEAD, and the experiences of the dudes here from as disparate as NY, LA, and Miami corroborates with this view. (/archive/index...-3270.html)

Most girls want to be in relationships, but think of the sheer number of single college girls out there. A lot of girls are too picky, but most are simply not meeting calibre men. And a lot of the quality cerebral guys whom these girls SHOULD be dating have dropped out of the game altogether, resorting to video games and porn as a quick fix.
 
Someone's gotta fvck these girls.
 
But most guys don't have the tenacity to tough it through. Most guys have way too much of a fragile ego to overcome the inevitable sea of rejections that will come when first starting out. And they're frightened off by social shaming terms like "creeper" and "stalker" used by chicks (and cockblocking dudes) to scare beta guys from approaching during the day. So there's no competition.
 
This is why for the enterprising DAY GAME PLAYER IN A COLLEGE TOWN, there's a bounty of booty to be had. Even moreso for a young professional dude just out of school who won't need to worry about a bad rep scarring him on campus. College girls are impressed by mature guys with a stable career, car, pad etc. Just look don't look old.
 
Game on players.
 

http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2010/09/14...principle/

This article needs to be updated, with studies of the current years, ideally post-2012. 2012 and on was about the time women started to abuse the ease of online hookups via social media, seeking tons of attention of posting pictures on social media, using online dating more (something like 30% of relationships nowadays are from online dating), and becoming texting obsessed.

We are not in the same dating climate at the studies in that article.

https://ifstudies.org/blog/male-sexlessn...cels-claim

Here's a good article representing a case for a rise in male sexlessness, using data from the relevant years.

Post: #62

(02-02-2019 06:08 AM)aswifty Wrote:  http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2010/09/14...principle/

This article needs to be updated, with studies of the current years, ideally post-2012. 2012 and on was about the time women started to abuse the ease of online hookups via social media, seeking tons of attention of posting pictures on social media, using online dating more (something like 30% of relationships nowadays are from online dating), and becoming texting obsessed.

We are not in the same dating climate at the studies in that article.

https://ifstudies.org/blog/male-sexlessn...cels-claim

Here's a good article representing a case for a rise in male sexlessness, using data from the relevant years.

A rising percentage of sexually frustrated young men usually spells bad news for a society. This is the root cause of a lot of political revolutions.

When society provides no route for young men to prove themselves as men, and thereby winning prime poosy, they tend to either

1) drop out totally, losing themselves in drugs/video games/porn
OR
2) rise up in violence against the system

We're seeing both happening.
Man, it ain't 1955 anymore. Betas ain't guaranteed a wife in an apron with an apple pie. The strictures of civilization are weakening, and the ancient laws of natural sexual selection are gaining the upper hand once again.

Post: #63

What if you are a British tourist visiting college towns?