Post: #101

(01-27-2016 08:00 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  [quote='masoud_akbari' pid='1203949' dateline='1453941957']
Yes

What is your point though?

My point lies between the lines of this joke I wrote in another thread (see below). See if you can figure it out.

Still cannot figure it out

Post: #102

^ OP, why not take a crack at what you think the joke means? Now judging by your "participation" in this thread that may be a bridge too far, but I think what you need to start focusing on is trying. Take a risk. It's not as if you're going to lose face here more than you already have. Also, how do you figure the joke is funny if you don't get it? Explain.

Post: #103

(01-08-2016 09:19 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  Welcome back, Cardguy.

Nah cardguy atleast manages to buy hookers. This guy is much more pathetic and less intelligent than him.

Post: #104

(01-27-2016 07:45 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  Yes

What is your point though?

(01-31-2016 08:18 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  Still cannot figure it out

OP

From your original post:

"I just believe it wasnt the right path for me, as I cant handle rejection, it hurts."

But when I asked you if you would have sex with the woman in "no lose" scenario you answered "Yes"

So just like in the joke I relayed, there is your answer, Little Johnny:

Theoretically you've created your "own path". You've come to terms with your path and believe it to be an original one.

However

Realistically you've just chosen the oldest path there is...quitting in the face of adversity. You'll take the pussy if you don't have to put forth any effort.

But this is symptomatic of something bigger than just approaching women

I doubt this will make any difference to you but on the off chance that a little gets through to you (or perhaps another young guy out there)and a seed is planted I'll offer you this:



Quitting is a disease and it's an insidious one. If you quit once, because something is challenging, too difficult or even seemingly impossible, then quitting the next time becomes all the easier,...and so on and so on.

And quitting is all too acceptable in today's "I want it now" society. It's instant gratification or fuck it.

Guess what? Creating the life you REALLY WANT vs the life that just happens to you will be HARD....at first

Ever wonder why some people seem to succeed at everything, at no matter what? Well it starts with their inner dialogue.

Years ago I read a book about Arnold Schwarzenegger's rise to becoming a 5 time world body building champ. In it there was a passage about how every day before his work out he would spend 10-15 minutes really looking at himself in the mirror. Not because he was admiring himself, but rather because he was looking for his weakest/ least developed muscle group. Once he identified that, thats' what he would train that day. In other words he didn't avoid his weaknesses...he attacked them.

That's just one example of many I could give you but the point is that the truth is as cliche as it is fact.

Inner dialogue.



One of the most powerful tools a man can have is the ability to have a deep understanding of their OWN motivations (why we do anything). Most people go through life never bothering to ask "why" they feel/believe a certain way. The reality is that everything springs from the two most basic determinants: FEAR and DESIRE.

Every. Single. Thing. Everything we (you, me, everyone) do or don't do is driven by fear and/or desire. Both are constantly in our inner dialogue. Sometimes the dialogue is a conscious one, most often it's not. But those are the two "elements" of "why" in it's purest form.

The entire universe only exists in your (my, each of us's) head. Changing the universe only requires the right tools (and they do exist) and the desire to do so

Inner dialogue=inner game

Inner game = life...100%

Fear driven life vs desire driven life

You can still choose...better than you have

Now you can't say you were never told

Post: #105

Fucking fantastic post ^

Post: #106

One thing the army taught me is that there is no such thing as retreat. The three phases of war are the advance, the defense, and the withdrawal. If you need time to re-energize, muster your forces, get better Intel and training before heading back into the fray there is nothing wrong with that. I've taken a few months here or there where I gave up on women to focus on me. However, going full incel/MGTOW is a fucking retreat, a compete abandonment of the field.
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if you like the forum then heed the advice on self improvement and learn some game - any game - and then get back out there. Pharmacy is a good career option but you are setting yourself up for the beta trap unless you make some other changes (I dated a pharmacy student and she went on to marry a pharmacist and now they run a pharmacy together in Beaver Lake, Ontario. Pharmacists seen to be people who are smart enough to become doctors but too lazy to follow through with their MD and residency).
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Lift, get into a sport and join the university debating team. You will never have those so easily available to you once you graduate.

Post: #107

I would disagree with people calling me pathetic. Its not like im just sitting in my room, arms folded, thinking "fuck women, life is unfair because I am ugly".

If people call me a quitter thats fine. But I am not for self-pitying, sympathy or bitterness. I am not a guy who thinks"guy X has it easy", "Rich people dont have to work hard" type of shit.

Either though I see myself as a MGOTW pretty much, this is were me and most of the incels/MGTOW differ. I do not advocate negativity (I argue that "giving up on women|" can be seen as a positive in the future,

A lot of people think I have taken the "easy option". Im not going to compare my option to game, but it is certainly not "easy". All throughout my (and our lives) from a young age we have been exposed to "love" and women. Most songs are about women and love, most movies we watched as a child had were about love/women/intimacy. So automatically by default the desire to have women in my life became part of my soul. Now, I went through 1-2 years of ripping and tearing out my soul and putting down new foundations. That was not easy.


I would say 90% of men who cant get women by age of 35-40 are either wierdos or
depressed. I am going down that route, I know the struggle that lies ahead. This is not going to be easy, I want to be part of that 10% who is successful and enjoying life as I am now in my early 20's. Its not like I have footsteps to follow in either, I have to make my own. Our modern society does not believe that a man who doesnt have sex or women in his life can be happy, time for me to prove them wrong?

Post: #108

(02-21-2016 03:13 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  I would disagree with people calling me pathetic. Its not like im just sitting in my room, arms folded, thinking "fuck women, life is unfair because I am ugly".

If people call me a quitter thats fine. But I am not for self-pitying, sympathy or bitterness. I am not a guy who thinks"guy X has it easy", "Rich people dont have to work hard" type of shit.

Either though I see myself as a MGOTW pretty much, this is were me and most of the incels/MGTOW differ. I do not advocate negativity (I argue that "giving up on women|" can be seen as a positive in the future,

A lot of people think I have taken the "easy option". Im not going to compare my option to game, but it is certainly not "easy". All throughout my (and our lives) from a young age we have been exposed to "love" and women. Most songs are about women and love, most movies we watched as a child had were about love/women/intimacy. So automatically by default the desire to have women in my life became part of my soul. Now, I went through 1-2 years of ripping and tearing out my soul and putting down new foundations. That was not easy.


I would say 90% of men who cant get women by age of 35-40 are either wierdos or
depressed. I am going down that route, I know the struggle that lies ahead. This is not going to be easy, I want to be part of that 10% who is successful and enjoying life as I am now in my early 20's. Its not like I have footsteps to follow in either, I have to make my own. Our modern society does not believe that a man who doesnt have sex or women in his life can be happy, time for me to prove them wrong?

All I see is a hamster saying he can't get laid and refuses to learn how to get laid.

The more you justify yourself the more you're proving the point of the community which didn't even insinuate half the things you said above. Specifically this below:

Quote:I would disagree with people calling me pathetic. Its not like im just sitting in my room, arms folded, thinking "fuck women, life is unfair because I am ugly".

If people call me a quitter thats fine. But I am not for self-pitying, sympathy or bitterness. I am not a guy who thinks"guy X has it easy", "Rich people dont have to work hard" type of shit.

You don't value negativity but you bring it up. Not to mention anyone bringing up their ideology and attention whoring like you are and not simply just posting in other sections of the forum is simply an attention whore. If you were serious you wouldn't have even started this thread. You're one of those guys who helped create the stereotype that millennials are self entitled jackasses because you think the world revolves around you. Nobody cares about your redundant ideology.

Last but not least the biggest thing that forced to even respond to this obvious troll is your lack of effort into writing your post grammatically or with care. If you can't even learn how to put an apostrophe in "I'm" and capitalize it, no wonder you "gave up" on women.

Since you can't even put effort into writing a post, I highly doubt you're in shape, have your shit together, or even somebody worth talking too in real life.

Putting it bluntly. You are a loser because of your lack of effort even on simply typing up a post.

Post: #109

(02-21-2016 03:13 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  I would disagree with people calling me pathetic. Its not like im just sitting in my room, arms folded, thinking "fuck women, life is unfair because I am ugly".

If people call me a quitter thats fine. But I am not for self-pitying, sympathy or bitterness. I am not a guy who thinks"guy X has it easy", "Rich people dont have to work hard" type of shit.

Either though I see myself as a MGOTW pretty much, this is were me and most of the incels/MGTOW differ. I do not advocate negativity (I argue that "giving up on women|" can be seen as a positive in the future,

A lot of people think I have taken the "easy option". Im not going to compare my option to game, but it is certainly not "easy". All throughout my (and our lives) from a young age we have been exposed to "love" and women. Most songs are about women and love, most movies we watched as a child had were about love/women/intimacy. So automatically by default the desire to have women in my life became part of my soul. Now, I went through 1-2 years of ripping and tearing out my soul and putting down new foundations. That was not easy.


I would say 90% of men who cant get women by age of 35-40 are either wierdos or
depressed. I am going down that route, I know the struggle that lies ahead. This is not going to be easy, I want to be part of that 10% who is successful and enjoying life as I am now in my early 20's. Its not like I have footsteps to follow in either, I have to make my own. Our modern society does not believe that a man who doesnt have sex or women in his life can be happy, time for me to prove them wrong?

OP, this is begging the question of why you posted in the first place. What are you trying to prove, and to whom? And most importantly why?

Post: #110

OP, this is begging the question of why you posted in the first place. What are you trying to prove, and to whom? And most importantly why?
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Wanted to see the overriding reaction and thoughts. This will mirror what my friends and family will say about me later in life. Also, I kind of knew that the comments would be negative, its like a test for me. To put my arguments forward to you guys (and people I know in the future) about going alone (or MGTOW) without getting frustrated or angry. The way I see it, is once you lose control of your emotions, you are on a downward spiral

Post: #111

You are already on a downward spiral and so is this thread.

If you aren't going to take advice, give positive input, and just sit here and write our reactions down then I think it's time for you to join another forum, an MGTOW forum. This, we are mostly not.

This entire thread hasn't been productive at all, even with helpful members trying to figure out what's going on with you.

All you want are reactions and feeeeelings. At this point you're thinking just like the females you don't want anything to be apart of.

Post: #112

(02-22-2016 05:24 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  Wanted to see the overriding reaction and thoughts. This will mirror what my friends and family will say about me later in life. Also, I kind of knew that the comments would be negative, its like a test for me. To put my arguments forward to you guys (and people I know in the future) about going alone (or MGTOW) without getting frustrated or angry. The way I see it, is once you lose control of your emotions, you are on a downward spiral

OP is a special kind of retard. The special snowflake kind.

Post: #113

Well at least now he's typing in complete sentences and isn't using excessive smileys.

Post: #114

This forum is a red pill forum- and I want to learn more about the red pill

For me game and red pill overlap, but they are two separate things (at least for me). This forum has helped me distinguish the lies that society believes from the bitter cold truth. That is why I joined this forum. I scoured through this forum since I was 19 before I decided to join

Post: #115

OP

The reason why people are giving you shit is because no matter how much we think we can live without women and have the best possible life without them.

We can't.

You denying that, is denying the red pill that you seem to hold so dear. Sure you can live a happy life but wouldn't it be enhanced from fucking women on your terms? Something that is extremely possible with how slutty girls are in this day and age. Really in every day and age.

That would take work though. It will be tough, you will fail but if you do it right, learn from those mistakes than you can be successful.

Clearly you don't want to put in the work for that. You want to be a MGTOW. Everyone knows that these guys crave women even more than the most beta beta but are too bitter and mad to accept that and do what it's going to take to get women.

Either way if you refuse to commit to becoming a better man in all areas of life including game there is no reason for you to be on this forum.

Post: #116

Thats exactly why I did not join their forum- bitter and mad

The travel, the everything else, the news and politics are most of the reasons why I joined this forum.

You think I cant be happy without women? Just you watch

Post: #117

I wish Tuth was around.

Post: #118

Eternally waiting for it for this guy.

Post: #119

I'm in utter disbelief of this thread.

Post: #120

And he's gone!

Post: #121

OP

Two nights ago I had a hot 25 yo brunette, I'd just met hours earlier, naked on my bed sucking her tits, licking her perfectly shaved slit, then riding my cock with her hot wet tight pussy and then finally swallowing the load of cum I fired down her equally hot throat.

Man it felt fucking fantastic. It always does

I can live without women in my life but I can't live without sex with them.

Sex is life.

It's a shame you're just too lazy to know what it feels like. It's really not that hard

Post: #122

No self respecting man should ever use a smiley face in the subject line and/or with such frequency anywhere else.

Post: #123

delete. Double post.

Post: #124

If he wasn't going to contribute anything and sit here and say I don't need girls. Then proceed to explain he just wanted our reactions. Then here's your reaction, getting banned.

I know he'll read this, but this dude needs serious face to face help.

A man giving up on women all together is concerning. Even just from an arousal sexual aspect, let alone partner or LTR.

"wait till you see how I am, I'm not bitter, blah, blah, blah"

He was just waiting for our reactions.

Time waster, and this forums time should not be raped.

Post: #125

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