Post: #1

Facebook game

From my friends of friends I've seen many attractive females, I don't care if I'm blocked, how do I go about sending a message to them?

"Hey, I don't know you but you're so sexy!" What are you about?

What is the ideal opener? This is the one im thinking if using.

I've messaged some and I have no reply back.

Post: #2

(12-06-2015 06:32 AM)Atom89 Wrote:  Facebook game

From my friends of friends I've seen many attractive females, I don't care if I'm blocked, how do I go about sending a message to them?

"Hey, I don't know you but you're so sexy!" What are you about?

What is the ideal opener? This is the one im thinking if using.

I've messaged some and I have no reply back.

Waste of time. If you're not friends with the person, as far as I know your message gets dumped to a black hole called "other" where they'll never see it.

Facebook chicks can trivially set up their accounts so that any attempts at contact, whether from messenger or posts to their wall, from anyone not on their "whitelist" will get dumped to the black hole. There's one woman who I wanted to bang in college who accepted a friend request of mine over a year ago, who lives about 20 minutes drive from me, whom I've tried to contact on several different occasions through the available methods with absolutely no success.

If I can't even communicate with women who are on my friend's list, how do you expect to open women who aren't?

About the only thing you could do is send one of them a friend request and hope for the best, but there's a 95% probability that she will just add you to join her collection of orbiters liking her stuff.

Sometimes women in clubs say "Hey! You want to add me to your friends list on Facebook?" and I just sadly shake my head, and tell them directly - "You have enough likes already." The sheepish grin I usually get in return tells the whole story. For the most part, they think the guys on their "friends" list are losers.

In general, I don't think "Facebook game" will pay many dividends. Use it to keep in touch with college friends, or business purposes, or engage with people who share your hobbies. I've never once been able to use it to hook up with anyone. It's mainly just a female validation engine.

You'd get far better rewards for you time spamming openers on OKCupid or Tinder, at least for the moment. Unfortunately, those apps are becoming more and more like "Facebook Lite" each day, in that the women using them aren't there to meet new people, but carpet-bomb Instagram selfies to the world.

And why are you sending women stuff like "You're so sexy"? Good grief, man.

Post: #3

xpq has it covered, the only thing I will add, is that you can message girls you knew in high school or college for a retro bang. Tell them you want to meet for drinks to catch up and run standard game and try to bang them. but for girls that you don't know?

Post: #4

Facebook Game.

That's an oxymoron right?

I don't have FB, never have, never will.

With my limited understanding, I'd never go cold approaching honey's on it.

Girls be racking up career high likes & friend populations.

You're better off at a sausage fest.

& read up on Text Game, search the forum, hit up a dating app
& realise why you're better approaching girls face to face.
Than over keyboard.

Post: #5

Eradicator is on point.
I've used face book to rekindle things with old co workers, and chicks I went to school with; but random girls? Waste of time in my opinion.

However, if you must, post some pictures of you doing exciting things, and with women with high smv. I'm curious to see if it'd work.

Post: #6

The only thing I have ever heard people who are "successful" at gaming on FB say is that is a almost all subtle/passive game. You like some of her pics so she sees your name pop up and maybe she checks out your profile. In that event, you make sure you have a dope looking setup with lots of hot/interest/exciting pics that make you look cool as fuck while you don't post a lot of gay attention-seeking status update like a lot of chodes do. Then maybe she likes some of your pics, then you can eventually shoot her a message.

Not worth it if you ask me. Most girls who are even slightly attractive on FB are basically like mini-celebrities getting shitloads of likes and comments from every little post and picture the put up. Dudes thirsting hard for them and probably flooding their inbox with "hey whats up!" just like they flood their pics' comment section with "Looking good!"

I cold messaged one hot girl on my friends list who lives in the city I just moved to. It was an innocent enough message because I don't know anyone here, and basically told her that I'm new and don't know anyone and would like to meet people in town and grow a social circle and she read it but never responded.

Post: #7

I've tried sending messages to girls whom I don't know, but the chances of them replying is minimal on FB.

Have good pictures of yourself and like her pictures, then send her something random based on her interests. This does help sometimes.

The best you could do is to get to know her in person and use FB as a tool to supplement your game.

Post: #8

(12-07-2015 02:42 PM)Gotzinho Wrote:  The best you could do is to get to know her in person and use FB as a tool to supplement your game.

FB is a tool, at first it was to connect with people through shared interests.
FB is your vitrine, where you expose your brand, that's where women go abd comment about how daring, fun, charming and anything else you want.

Acting like women posting pics about what you did this morning is not the way to go, scarcity increase value.

Post: #9

FB cold approach? You're better off posting a pic of Brad pitt and trying to convince them that's you

Post: #10

There's no "black hole of other messages" anymore. A month or so ago FB changed the way messages work so they all go to one place now. I know this because I had someone respond to one right after the change.

Post: #11

I've successfully broken the ice with girls on Facebook before. I didn't get the meet, but 1) I was mostly messaging local models, so I set the standard pretty high, and 2) I was just playing around with it a bit to see what's possible. I've also got a bad habit of wasting time chatting with girls when I should be working but then when it comes to meeting I brush it off and go hit at girls at the bar instead. haha So this isn't really a post about substantial results.

But...for my small sample sizes, it seemed the trick was to add them first. If they accept, "like" a few of their photos later that day - don't get carried away, and make sure you like one or two that shows more personality than skin - i.e. a pic with them making a goofy face, cuddling with their dog, or holding a friend's baby. Like a post or two.

If they like a couple of yours back, send an introductory message.

Guys are real dismissive of "likes" around here, but in some situations, as in with a cute girl you just added, "likes" are essentially light flirting. It depends on where the "like" falls, really. I mean, think about it - if you meet some hot girl in town or on a dating site and she asks for your Facebook and then hops on there and likes five of your photos, what is she really saying?

Obviously a point will pass when you're just another face on her wall, but initially, her clicks are very signficicant. And a comment from a girl you just met, whether your recently met online or in real life - well, I don't really see what more of an IOI you could need than that...message her and get the ball rolling!

Sometimes they message you right away when you add them and say "do we know each other?" Hell, I do that when random people add me too. Just say "No, but Facebook suggested you as a friend, and you looked interesting/cute, so I added you. Do you live here in X?" This explanation makes more sense if you have a mutual friend, but what are they going to do, argue how the algorithms work? Anyways, it's to the point but non-threatening and non-needy. The question is a filler but it's apparent you're just interested to get to know her more and aren't going to be overbearing about it.

You may have to ramble at them a bit to get some of them to open up more because they're probably iffy about the whole thing and not sure what to expect from you.

Obviously it will have better results if you just moved to a place where your look is exotic and valued - and if you're a good-looking guy.

I only tried this a few times, but I did get some promising responses. If I remember, quite a few of the girls I talked with ended up having boyfriends - no big surprise since they were models.

I wouldn't try that "sexy" line with a platform like this. You're just another desparate spammer at this point.

It is a fickle place to approach someone, that's for sure. One time I had a good conversation going with a Filipina in Phnom Penh, everything seemed en route, and she was single. Then she suddenly blocked me withotu warning. I can only think she told one of her friends about me and they said something along the lines of "What the hell, who is this guy and how did he find you?" And kudos to her because I found her by searching "women from the philippines who live in Phnom Penh" (I don't think the search feature is as robust now as it used to be). hahaha

Another thing you have to be cautious of is if you start adding a bunch of local models, they may notice and catch on. Plus some of them may know each other. You may want to pare the dead leads off the friends list. Or just broaden your scope beyond just the high end and aim for some 7s. Make sure you have lots of guy friends too.

Also, if she's a model and has been at it for a while she may have too many friends to add anymore. And they've got guys constantly messaging. So obviously you'll get way better results if you lower your sights - what can I say, I like to aim high.

As for how to find the models, well, I don't know about in the West, but here in Asia, people are always following and friending local models. So just add the local people you meet on Facebook and then scan their friends list for models. Once you find one, they'll probably be friends with other models. And of course, there are plenty of pretty enough girls that aren't at the top of the FB totem pole that you could target.

I"m sure there are far more productive things to do with your time, but I may give it another run to see what happens. It's a fun challenge just because everyone says it can't be done.

I get adds from girls quite often that I don't know or just because we have a mutual friend too - ones that don't seem like they're marketing on there. Unfortunately, they're almost never hot enough or they're in a different location than me. For some reason, supermodels aren't jumping at the bit to hunt me down on there, I guess - I don't really know why.

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