Post: #1

How do I let my main know she is on the verge of getting the boot? The situation is this:
I stay the night with her 4 or 5 days week.
A few weeks ago she invites me over, but doesn't put out. I leave, which pissed her off. Oh well. I did tell her I don't hang out without sex. Probably a bad move. But she definitely got the message.
Last week she spends the night. Doesn't put out. I don't say anything. I just go cold for two days.
The other day she does this shit again. Now, I'm furious. I've barely talked to her in two days. She invited me over tonight, but I said no I am not in the mood. I'm on the verge of just saying fuck it, and never seeing her again. Its infuriating.
Its very possible she has a side piece. She strikes me as a player.

I actually like her. She is smoking hot, which makes it even more infuriating when she pulls this shit. Because looking at her ass gets me instantly hard. Guys, how can I tell this woman to only invite me over if you're ready to put out in a way that will make a woman understand? I'm lost.

Post: #2

Throw shit on her.

G

Post: #3

(10-01-2015 08:07 PM)Easy_Mode Wrote:  I actually like her. She is smoking hot, which makes it even more infuriating when she pulls this shit. Because looking at her ass gets me instantly hard. Guys, how can I tell this woman to only invite me over if you're ready to put out in a way that will make a woman understand? I'm lost.

Stop inviting her. Somewhere along the line she got the idea that this was ok and tested it 3 times. Now she doesn't care that you are mad. Move on to the next one with a smile because this chick does not seem worth your being infuriated.

Post: #4

(10-01-2015 08:07 PM)Easy_Mode Wrote:  How do I let my main know she is on the verge of getting the boot? The situation is this:
I stay the night with her 4 or 5 days week.
A few weeks ago she invites me over, but doesn't put out. I leave, which pissed her off. Oh well. I did tell her I don't hang out without sex. Probably a bad move. But she definitely got the message.
Last week she spends the night. Doesn't put out. I don't say anything. I just go cold for two days.
The other day she does this shit again. Now, I'm furious. I've barely talked to her in two days. She invited me over tonight, but I said no I am not in the mood. I'm on the verge of just saying fuck it, and never seeing her again. Its infuriating.
Its very possible she has a side piece. She strikes me as a player.

I actually like her. She is smoking hot, which makes it even more infuriating when she pulls this shit. Because looking at her ass gets me instantly hard. Guys, how can I tell this woman to only invite me over if you're ready to put out in a way that will make a woman understand? I'm lost.

So when you say she didn't put out..how exactly? Did you initiate sex and she shut you down? Or were you laying there waiting for her to grab you by the shank and get to work? Big difference

Also what are you doing to get her revved up before you get there? If you learn how to get her tingles going in advance you wont have to do much before you're balls deep once you get there.

Quick example:

Via text

Her: "Hey what do you want to do tonight?"
Me: "Pull you down by the hair and go all the way up inside you"

Done deal

Post: #5

(10-01-2015 10:34 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(10-01-2015 08:07 PM)Easy_Mode Wrote:  How do I let my main know she is on the verge of getting the boot? The situation is this:
I stay the night with her 4 or 5 days week.
A few weeks ago she invites me over, but doesn't put out. I leave, which pissed her off. Oh well. I did tell her I don't hang out without sex. Probably a bad move. But she definitely got the message.
Last week she spends the night. Doesn't put out. I don't say anything. I just go cold for two days.
The other day she does this shit again. Now, I'm furious. I've barely talked to her in two days. She invited me over tonight, but I said no I am not in the mood. I'm on the verge of just saying fuck it, and never seeing her again. Its infuriating.
Its very possible she has a side piece. She strikes me as a player.

I actually like her. She is smoking hot, which makes it even more infuriating when she pulls this shit. Because looking at her ass gets me instantly hard. Guys, how can I tell this woman to only invite me over if you're ready to put out in a way that will make a woman understand? I'm lost.

So when you say she didn't put out..how exactly? Did you initiate sex and she shut you down? Or were you laying there waiting for her to grab you by the shank and get to work? Big difference

Also what are you doing to get her revved up before you get there? If you learn how to get her tingles going in advance you wont have to do much before you're balls deep once you get there.

Quick example:

Via text

Her: "Hey what do you want to do tonight?"
Me: "Pull you down by the hair and go all the way up inside you"

Done deal

Yes, I attempted to initiate. She would just turn her back to me. The first time she did this I left. The second was at my place, so I just had to suck it up like a dumb punk bitch. The third I told her "I'm leaving this just got really awkward." She asked me to come over today, but I said no.

I will try the text advice. At least, then I'll know what mood she is in. Also, I left out the problem seems to occur when she is on Adderall.

Post: #6

What this thread again?

Post: #7

I would view her like a race horse who broke its leg.
Drop her.

Post: #8

OP update?

Post: #9

(10-01-2015 10:34 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(10-01-2015 08:07 PM)Easy_Mode Wrote:  How do I let my main know she is on the verge of getting the boot? The situation is this:
I stay the night with her 4 or 5 days week.
A few weeks ago she invites me over, but doesn't put out. I leave, which pissed her off. Oh well. I did tell her I don't hang out without sex. Probably a bad move. But she definitely got the message.
Last week she spends the night. Doesn't put out. I don't say anything. I just go cold for two days.
The other day she does this shit again. Now, I'm furious. I've barely talked to her in two days. She invited me over tonight, but I said no I am not in the mood. I'm on the verge of just saying fuck it, and never seeing her again. Its infuriating.
Its very possible she has a side piece. She strikes me as a player.

I actually like her. She is smoking hot, which makes it even more infuriating when she pulls this shit. Because looking at her ass gets me instantly hard. Guys, how can I tell this woman to only invite me over if you're ready to put out in a way that will make a woman understand? I'm lost.

So when you say she didn't put out..how exactly? Did you initiate sex and she shut you down? Or were you laying there waiting for her to grab you by the shank and get to work? Big difference

Also what are you doing to get her revved up before you get there? If you learn how to get her tingles going in advance you wont have to do much before you're balls deep once you get there.

Quick example:

Via text

Her: "Hey what do you want to do tonight?"
Me: "Pull you down by the hair and go all the way up inside you"

Done deal

I agree, caveman game is the only way to recover or playful punishment game like "you know, playing all these silly games is a going to get you spanked"

Post: #10

(10-01-2015 11:21 PM)Easy_Mode Wrote:  

(10-01-2015 10:34 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(10-01-2015 08:07 PM)Easy_Mode Wrote:  How do I let my main know she is on the verge of getting the boot? The situation is this:
I stay the night with her 4 or 5 days week.
A few weeks ago she invites me over, but doesn't put out. I leave, which pissed her off. Oh well. I did tell her I don't hang out without sex. Probably a bad move. But she definitely got the message.
Last week she spends the night. Doesn't put out. I don't say anything. I just go cold for two days.
The other day she does this shit again. Now, I'm furious. I've barely talked to her in two days. She invited me over tonight, but I said no I am not in the mood. I'm on the verge of just saying fuck it, and never seeing her again. Its infuriating.
Its very possible she has a side piece. She strikes me as a player.

I actually like her. She is smoking hot, which makes it even more infuriating when she pulls this shit. Because looking at her ass gets me instantly hard. Guys, how can I tell this woman to only invite me over if you're ready to put out in a way that will make a woman understand? I'm lost.

So when you say she didn't put out..how exactly? Did you initiate sex and she shut you down? Or were you laying there waiting for her to grab you by the shank and get to work? Big difference

Also what are you doing to get her revved up before you get there? If you learn how to get her tingles going in advance you wont have to do much before you're balls deep once you get there.

Quick example:

Via text

Her: "Hey what do you want to do tonight?"
Me: "Pull you down by the hair and go all the way up inside you"

Done deal

Yes, I attempted to initiate. She would just turn her back to me. The first time she did this I left. The second was at my place, so I just had to suck it up like a dumb punk bitch. The third I told her "I'm leaving this just got really awkward." She asked me to come over today, but I said no.

I will try the text advice. At least, then I'll know what mood she is in. Also, I left out the problem seems to occur when she is on Adderall.

There's your answer

Post: #11

There you go. She's taking ADHD / mental issue medication, so chances are that it's affecting her.
Back in the days, kids were not "ADHD, needing medication", they were just "crazy kids".

It's been 3 strikes. Tell her straight out, "if I come, don't do like last time, and simply have fun with me. Consider this your final chance". No smiley. This may not work on a new girl (it will scare her out and she'll disappear), but for a girl that you've been banging for a while, she'll get the message that she's about to lose you. Two things can happen:

1) She gets the message, and to avoid losing you, she fixes her shit.
2) She sees this as bullying and leaves, but you wouldn't have gotten anymore sex even if she stayed. You saved time.

Post: #12

(10-11-2015 01:03 AM)Rawmeo Wrote:  There you go. She's taking ADHD / mental issue medication, so chances are that it's affecting her.
Back in the days, kids were not "ADHD, needing medication", they were just "crazy kids".

It's been 3 strikes. Tell her straight out, "if I come, don't do like last time, and simply have fun with me. Consider this your final chance". No smiley. This may not work on a new girl (it will scare her out and she'll disappear), but for a girl that you've been banging for a while, she'll get the message that she's about to lose you. Two things can happen:

1) She gets the message, and to avoid losing you, she fixes her shit.
2) She sees this as bullying and leaves, but you wouldn't have gotten anymore sex even if she stayed. You saved time.

Hi, quick update, since someone asked. I basically ignored her for a few days. She text me asking if it was over. I didn't lose my cool, stayed chill, and she told me she was horny and to come over. Every since then she has put out every single time, and for whatever reason she has been much more attentive and sexual. I'm at a loss as to why, but I guess don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

Post: #13

Try to emotionally detach yourself from this girl. Date other ones. Run a little dread game if you want to keep her around.

But to directly address your last post..

Quote:..and for whatever reason she has been much more attentive and sexual...

..a common tactic for a woman with a guilty conscience is to ramp up the sexual attention she's giving you

Post: #14

Nice job then!

Post: #15

Next her for good. She's smoking hot you said. She thinks she's higher value then you. You keep running back to her like a puppy dog and she loves it. Remember silence is golden