Post: #26

Guys, could we discuss the topic logistics rather then reasons?

Here are some rules I'm trying to follow:
1. Create some fake identity. Keep it simple though.
2. Get a burner phone. With as little trace as possible.
3. Be very discrete at the online sites.

I'm still looking for answers to the following questions:
- How do I get a hotel room without exposing my true identity? Other options?
- How to handle "r u merried" shot tests. Especially on line? I do have some in my pocket. They work best in person when I can smirk along some BS phrases.
- Anything else to keep in mind?

Post: #27

(09-14-2015 08:37 AM)Dino Wrote:  other than different pussy of course.

Uhhh...Moral judgement aside, is there anything better in life than new ass?

Post: #28

(09-17-2015 01:51 PM)xyz100 Wrote:  Guys, could we discuss the topic logistics rather then reasons?

Here are some rules I'm trying to follow:
1. Create some fake identity. Keep it simple though.
2. Get a burner phone. With as little trace as possible.
3. Be very discrete at the online sites.

I'm still looking for answers to the following questions:
- How do I get a hotel room without exposing my true identity? Other options?
- How to handle "r u merried" shot tests. Especially on line? I do have some in my pocket. They work best in person when I can smirk along some BS phrases.
- Anything else to keep in mind?

Google voice is good in fact create a whole new name and identity with a separate Google account t. And there is no way to get a hotel room without showing I'D unless you go to the really bad hotels and no one wants to go there.

When using Online sites use a picture of someone else that looks a lot like you. Then when you meet she won't be pissed. And your profile can never be traced back to you. It will have a different name different email and phone number. Always change all details just a little bit. Use a zip code from a nearby location when saying where you live. Change your date of birth when talking about your age. I habe had women do background checks on me nefore and DOB is a great way to find people, police us it all the time. Make sure you are not signed up for any mail correspondence from hotels that can bite you In the ass.

In fact Airbnd is good for this. Probably still get caught eventually. But that is a whole another discussion.

And yes fresh pussy is the ultimate, wait u til you have been married for many years. It is like water for a man dying of thirst. Even better don't get married.

Finally whatever you do, do not have any kids. It will end you for sure.

Post: #29

(09-18-2015 02:13 AM)reco2100 Wrote:  When using Online sites use a picture of someone else that looks a lot like you. Then when you meet she won't be pissed.

Where do I get pics like this? Google returns the result with celebrities only.

Post: #30

There are tons of anonymous pics on the Internet you should be able to find something. If you cannot find lots of pics easily you may want to rethink this endeavor. You want to cover your tracks? You need to be very careful and do a little work.

Post: #31

No mistresses/girlfriends. That'll be too hard to juggle. To be safe, go for ONS only at bars/clubs on the other side of town. You will probably need a burner phone, secret email, different name, secret apt on the far side of town, and a consistent weeknight solo activity out of the house (gym, biz meeting, etc) to ensure plausible deniability. You can't afford to get caught. It's very high risk. Be careful, always use rubbers, and cover your tracks.

Post: #32

The main problem is the phone number, burner is not a good option(he'll have to hide it from his wife all the time). Is it possible to have a virtual number so women will see it instead of the real one when you call them?

Post: #33

^ Either keep it in the car or at work. Google voice/hangouts is a good alternative option if you don't want to carry around 2 phones.

I'd recommend keeping an old ID with an old address on it to check into hotels with so if they ever send anything it'd end up lost in the mail. Any hotel you rent should be done online using a prepaid card, and often times the address of the website's HQ is listed on the reservation and not yours. Some hotels have day rates for people who only want to stay a couple hours (such as travelers on layovers) for a cut rate, so you can also call around ahead of time for that, if you can't get out at night.

Never, EVER bring your side piece within a 5 mile radius of your house. The further you are from home, the better. If you go the hotel route, check in and shit before you meet up with her, have her come to your room or meet you in the lobby, and have her leave before you, in case she gets the idea to see what kind of car you have.

Keeping a mistress takes a lot of pre-planning and logistics. Trying to freestyle it can lead to mistakes you probably can't afford.

Post: #34

(09-19-2015 09:44 AM)Deuce Anna Half Wrote:  ^ Either keep it in the car or at work. Google voice/hangouts is a good alternative option if you don't want to carry around 2 phones.

I'd recommend keeping an old ID with an old address on it to check into hotels with so if they ever send anything it'd end up lost in the mail. Any hotel you rent should be done online using a prepaid card, and often times the address of the website's HQ is listed on the reservation and not yours. Some hotels have day rates for people who only want to stay a couple hours (such as travelers on layovers) for a cut rate, so you can also call around ahead of time for that, if you can't get out at night.

Never, EVER bring your side piece within a 5 mile radius of your house. The further you are from home, the better. If you go the hotel route, check in and shit before you meet up with her, have her come to your room or meet you in the lobby, and have her leave before you, in case she gets the idea to see what kind of car you have.

Keeping a mistress takes a lot of pre-planning and logistics. Trying to freestyle it can lead to mistakes you probably can't afford.

google voice only for US number isn't it?

Post: #35

Google voice or phone with two SIMs is also an option. But if she gets her hands on the phone she can figure it all. This or second phone - neither is perfect. One should choose one that fits best given environment.

Post: #36

If you're using Google Voice, look into an app that can hide/password protect your info. I use NQ Vault for Android, which not only can hide photos, videos, messages, and contacts, but can lock out apps so you can't access them without a PIN and can camouflage the PIN input screen as an app crash.

Post: #37

(09-17-2015 01:51 PM)xyz100 Wrote:  Guys, could we discuss the topic logistics rather then reasons?

Here are some rules I'm trying to follow:
1. Create some fake identity. Keep it simple though.
2. Get a burner phone. With as little trace as possible.
3. Be very discrete at the online sites.

I'm still looking for answers to the following questions:
- How do I get a hotel room without exposing my true identity? Other options?
- How to handle "r u merried" shot tests. Especially on line? I do have some in my pocket. They work best in person when I can smirk along some BS phrases.
- Anything else to keep in mind?

One that I have used on the are you married shit test is to say. Yeah I'm married and my wife is hot, but I am really interested in you. This has worked well for me a couple of times. Women are all competitive and this shows you are not trying to hide anything you are the bold older man that knows what he wants. NFG.

Post: #38

As a married man you should have two degrees of separation with a hookup and always with a separate phone line and no last name or personal info given.

In your case, You are rationalizing for what you want and have not come to terms with your decisions yet.

1. You are married and 26 years old. You need to accept it And either divorce your wife or see if she is open to other women to spice the relationship up. Or take the once a year business trip to hookup away from home.

You have married for a greencard you explicitly have stated. Have you not seen a scorned woman burn the house down with her in it. You need to get it together and think what will happen if your wife Realizes you are cheating after giving you residency. Will she call immigration in a fit of rage that many before have done ? She could easily implicate herself and claim the marriage is fraud if she's mad enough. Good luck with a good immigration attorney at 250 to 300 an hour to fight that.

2. You are 26 years old and want to check out other options - wait till 5 years go by and that feeling of frustration will only intensify.

3. It does not matter whether you work with someone daily or once a month. You are still employed in the same company. Once again random work place hookups can result in her developing feelings for you. How do you cut this off ? She knows where you work ? Your schedule ? Coworkers ? Fast forward after you stop answering her calls and now she could be leaning towards sexual harassment.
Does she follow you home and find out where you live ? How far can a crazy coworker take it ? I've seen too many friends make the same mistakes you have and not many of them ended well.

I am sure the next company you apply at will want to know what happened with your previous employer and maybe verify references ? How great would they be if some feminist nazi in hr issues a report with sexual harassment all over it. What will your chances of hire be then ?

Too much downside no upside. Do the right thing.

Post: #39

I feel like the easiest way to slip up and get caught is when some dumb bitch in heat gets turned on a little too much and gives you a hickey/scratches up your back. That's basically game over if you're married cause those marks will need some time to go away

Seriously I can't believe how childish some women are with the hickey thing. Next time a girl does that to me I'm gonna give her one on her forehead

Post: #40

Another area to be careful is your car. It has a license plate that can be traced. Can't look up a license plate? All she has to do is report you as a traffic infraction and the police will find you for her. I drive a lot of rental cars so that helps a little. But you can always be found. The trick is not to make her want to find you.

Also if she rides in your car there are many things that give away your identity. I put all items in the trunk including my wallet and pay for everything in cash. One time I left my credit card out and the crazy bitch got my full name looked me up found my wife and called her. What a fucking nightmare. It is a tough road to go down. And there are a million ways you they can fuck up your life. The older you get and the more you have to lose the worse it gets.

You are young have not been married long and do not have kids believe me it is easier to just leave her.

Post: #41

Honestly in my opinion this type of stuff is asking for trouble and asking to have your life turned upside down. I don't care how much people may say if you "have the right frame" "set things up properly" your asking for trouble.

I'd say either get divorced and have fun if you want to go that route. I think the only way this can not be a headache is if you happen to find a chick and lay out early on it's either an open relationship or find a chick who's cool with looking the other way and has a kind of guys will be guys just treat me right kind of attitude. otherwise I think its trouble.

A buddy of mine has been married to his wife for a few years, has a couple kids, seems like a very standup guy would never expect a situation like this but I guess his wife knows he's like a huge hornball and though I don't know the specifics basically gives him a pass every few weeks to go hit a strip club and get some extras or maybe once a year he'll go down to Costa Rica and play around for a few days. As long as his wife knows about it she's cool.

Post: #42

(09-22-2015 09:48 AM)jamaicabound Wrote:  Honestly in my opinion this type of stuff is asking for trouble and asking to have your life turned upside down. I don't care how much people may say if you "have the right frame" "set things up properly" your asking for trouble.

I'd say either get divorced and have fun if you want to go that route. I think the only way this can not be a headache is if you happen to find a chick and lay out early on it's either an open relationship or find a chick who's cool with looking the other way and has a kind of guys will be guys just treat me right kind of attitude. otherwise I think its trouble.

A buddy of mine has been married to his wife for a few years, has a couple kids, seems like a very standup guy would never expect a situation like this but I guess his wife knows he's like a huge hornball and though I don't know the specifics basically gives him a pass every few weeks to go hit a strip club and get some extras or maybe once a year he'll go down to Costa Rica and play around for a few days. As long as his wife knows about it she's cool.

I tend to agree it is a huge amount of trouble and if you do it enough and for Long enough you probably will get caught. Especially with the level of crazy in American women these days. But unfortunately if you are married and with kids and do not want to get divorce raped this is about the only alternative. And it is quite popular I have heard numbers some where around 80% or married couple will cheat. Why the fuck get married in the first place? Believe me I would not do it if I knew all this 22 years ago. But now I am like a lot of men stuck. Also a lot of women know their husbands are cheating and they just don't want to get divorced.

I know mine has suspected it but I cover my tracks pretty well. Plus she has it too good and I game her well which causes her to want to stick with me pretty hard. Game fucking works.

I would never get married again, learn from my mistakes. Now I am just surviving till I am ready to make the move out.