Post: #1

I'm currently travelling through Europe,
I've pipelined with tinder like two weeks before, but when I actually came over, the girls weren't eager enough to actually meet up, some were out of town, some got cold, most been working through the whole week and couldn't find the time and other stories.

out of several hundreds of matches, I did get some dates, though most of them were with girls that I actually matched during my visit, rather than while pipe lining.

Anyways, I've put in too much time into both pipelining and tindering while on the spot, and the ROI just wasn't good enough and took too much energy.

It does makes sense that in the middle of the week most girls might be too busy with work and school and stuff, but I often read here posts about guys that say they just arrived to the spot for few days and instantly set up dates and even banged, which from my experience, is not very feasible statistically.

Thus comes the question, is there some way to maximize the actual results from all my tinder matches?

Post: #2

Be sexier than her other matches.

Post: #3

Depends what country your in but I wouldnt pipeline to far out in Europe, maybe 2 or 3 days, push for meetups quickly.

Post: #4

I have a guy I pay to put my at the top of the swipe queue, but it doesn't sound like matches are your problem. 200 is far too many, you should be killing it off of 200. The key is to have a good opener and be direct and push for a meet. I usually send 5-10 messages back and forth and naturally work in hanging out and ask when shes free. She could say any random day that week or even that night. Pop it into your calendar, get her #, and then move on to the next match until your calendar is full with 2 dates a day (some will flake naturally)

Post: #5

(09-07-2015 11:42 AM)godzilla Wrote:  Depends what country your in but I wouldnt pipeline to far out in Europe, maybe 2 or 3 days, push for meetups quickly.

This

I've never tried pipelining that far out but my best success with tinder always came when meeting the same day or soon after. If it takes too long to actually meet you, they just lose interest and forget about you. You're just a face on the internet to them after all.

One thing I was doing on there while travelling was really playing the foreigner card. Pick something cool (and cheap) that you wanted to do anyway and say something about how she can be your tour guide for it. Normally they like to show off their city if they've done whatever it is before and if they haven't then you both get to do whatever it is for the first time.

Also, you say you're spending a lot of time on it which I really don't think you need to. I ask for chick's numbers after 2 or 3 messages and set up a date as soon as they give me their number. Tinder can be such a pain in the ass that for my own sanity I invest very little energy into it

But really, tinder seems like a crapshoot most of the time, even if your shit is tight. If you're gonna use it just gotta accept its flaws I think

Post: #6

If girls are "too busy" then they just arnt that into you. Girls will always make time for the right guy.

Im not sure why you're spending that much time on tinder anyways. It should be a back up option while you're traveling.

Post: #7

The main reasons I'm using tinder are:

1. to contact a large number of girls simultaneously.

2. no need to isolate the girl as opposed to venues such as bars/clubs - that's probably a major reason.
I'm 29 and feel that night game is too demanding and not fruitful enough as well - if you go too early to the night spots, all the girls are still sober, wanna hang inside with their friends and dance or whatever, and after about 60-90 minutes at the club I'm starting to lose my game mode and start lacking; if you go too late, most fine looking girls that were down to hook up already probably got picked up; if somehow you manage to go at the right time, you got only about an hour to get it right, so it's a hit or miss, the whole venue might suck and sometimes you can end up with a chick that just wasted too much time of your night and don't really wanna go home with you.

3. sometimes you can encounter better looking girls on tinder than the ones you can meet on the real world, especially if it's a weekday and no one is out at night.

4. If I'm not with a wing, tinder can be sometimes like staying in my comfort zone.

The number of matches are not the problem as I got even around 500 matches, and actually try to speak with about 100-150 of them.

The problem is that most girl seem to use it just for fun and less than to actually meet up, or just don't really wanna meet with a foreigner who's about to leave. few wouldn't respond at all, many would respond in way too high time intervals (e.g. first reply after several hours, second reply after a day, etc. by the time anything happens I'd already move to another destination)

with those that do reply timely I do push quickly to meet up, but either they are too busy to be meeting already in the same day or the day or two after that, or once they just realize that I'm not staying for longer than a few days/week, it seem to come as a turn-off for most girls, sometimes even after they give me their number they would probably re-think about it, and than start to flake.

can guys that do pull quickly from tinder when they are abroad for just about a week post some sample chat transcripts?

Post: #8

(09-07-2015 11:19 AM)youngbuck Wrote:  I'm currently travelling through Europe,
I've pipelined with tinder like two weeks before, but when I actually came over, the girls weren't eager enough to actually meet up, some were out of town, some got cold, most been working through the whole week and couldn't find the time and other stories.

out of several hundreds of matches, I did get some dates, though most of them were with girls that I actually matched during my visit, rather than while pipe lining.

Anyways, I've put in too much time into both pipelining and tindering while on the spot, and the ROI just wasn't good enough and took too much energy.

It does makes sense that in the middle of the week most girls might be too busy with work and school and stuff, but I often read here posts about guys that say they just arrived to the spot for few days and instantly set up dates and even banged, which from my experience, is not very feasible statistically.

Thus comes the question, is there some way to maximize the actual results from all my tinder matches?

The guys I know that have done it successfully were traveling to smaller cities/towns where the girls didn't have nearly as many options. I think that might be the key. If you're going to a city with <1M population (i.e. somewhere in EE) the girls there are more likely to keep their "word" and honor the meetup/date.

Post: #9

Is Tinder of any use in China? Anyone tried it with any success? Just curious.

Post: #10

When I had tinder dates when traveling it was either ONS or i never ever saw the girl again besides on one occasion.

Post: #11

With the time it takes to game and work around schedules, converting a Tinder match into a date usually takes me 1-3 weeks. If I'm only in town for a couple nights this can be a problem. The solution for me was to subscribe to Tinder plus for one month before you travel so you can use the passport feature to swipe in the city you're traveling to. Put in the work before you travel and reap the benefits when you get to your destination.

Make sure you get yourself plenty of numbers so if one bails you have back ups. When you're traveling, you have limited nights out so don't put all your eggs in one basket.

When I traveled to DC for Roosh's lecture, I passport Tindered until I got about 10-12 numbers and just met up with the top 2. A few flaked out but it was no problem when you have options.

Post: #12

Tinder in China (tier 1 city) is 50% local 50 % expat
The locals all mention they just wanna meet more people and make new friends ( they obviously know it's a hook up app) since they are soo lonely working at their boring jobs, but obviously you can game then too, just gotta be more subtle in your approach. China is still quite a conservative country and the hooking up openly on apps (I have an impression) is not too well looked on by the general public, so if you get past that, your success rate goes up. (The other way is to screen for more dtf chicks, but wechat is better for that.

Post: #13

Is there any particular way you should word your profile when overseas? In mine I indirectly state I'm American and then say a phrase in a foreign language to hopefully get across I can communicate ok too.

Post: #14

Europe is a BRUTAL place for tinder my friend.

Until Bernie Sanders breaks up the euro-monopoly where 99% of the tinder pussy is going to the top tenth of the top 1%, might wanna seek elsewhere.

Jokes aside, a lot has changed. You'll see some posts here from 2011/2012 about "pipelining" and all this stuff when online dating was still somewhat new, but now I see no point. Things have changed. A 5 day old match is as good as toast.

You want to maximize your chances the best I can tell you is when you match a girl chat her up IMMEDIATELY, because you never know when she is gonna get back on the app. Then, when you have her engaged, go for the hangout quickly. If you are passing through town don't even bother with the number. I feel a lot of dudes here say you need to get the number or whatsapp before the meetup but I've found in many cases its more natural to ask to meetup on tinder and THEN ask for the number once you are handling the logistics with her.

If you're traveling Europe your best bet is chatting up every tourist chick you see when you are out seeing the sights. I know it takes guts but that is the best route to acquiring lays.

I've tindered a lot in Europe when i've lived there and got very little to show for it other then a few dates and zero lays. The few lays I did get were from daygame and social circle (some not so great American chicks, I get desperate in Europe, just like American chicks get desperate in Bangkok lol)

For example Barcelona is a daygame paradise, but unless you look like a jacked version of Ryan Gosling, tinder is a waste of time. There is just too many good looking bros in Europe while the girls, especially on the western side of the continent are mostly hags. Its just simple math and ratios.

Good luck, don't be a pussy like me, and approach a lot during the day will give you much better ROI

Post: #15

I like Europe cause its not about Tinder.

A female relative went to Italy ,Greece and got like 90 matches..she is very fat.That says it all to me.

The guy I travelled with last time is a Tinder guy.He can't interact in bars or daygame.He found it tough as local chicks had no interst in another tourist.Chicks can get cock anytime.

I've seen this in Barcelona too.Cool you are a yank or Aussie but you are better off making out you live there or looking at moving to the city you are visiting.Say you are moving there with work or study.

I've also seen hot chick's Tinder in Australia in tourist areas.The foriegn guys they had matches with were like 2 or 3 points above them SMV wise.

A mate pipelines Asia but he is a blond god so it's easy.He is scared to travel solo and now won't approach cause he has been fed mutton here for so long.NO man I know who does Tinder gets chicks on par or better than him.Yet dudes who do cold approach do...and forget Tinder if you are over 40.

I'll freely admit I'm not attractive or photogenic for Tinder.But I do get approached in Europe.And approaching is super easy for me..solo especially with Western euros.I think I'm ugly sexy like the Rolling Stones.

Chicks on holiday want to be swept off their feet taken on adventure..I keep forgetting this at times.

Post: #16

is tinder gold worth it and should i create an extra new account for it?

Post: #17

(11-20-2017 07:04 AM)LatinoHeat Wrote:  too many good looking bros in Europe while the girls, especially on the western side of the continent are mostly hags.

HOW DARE YOU, SIR