Post: #1

The other day I had a shit-test from an older woman. I wan't looking to game her and we were discussing how the rules of the dating game had changed on account of her being a member of the older generation.
I told her that I discriminated quite severely with women that I chose to spend my time on (not necessarily true but it was important to keep the frame) and her hamster started to spin, saying that I had no self-respect or respect for women in general.
Right on cue, she asked if I respected her. I flat-out told her no. Abrupt end of the conversation. Zero fucks given.
But it got me thinking about how best to respond if I was looking to game her.
So far I've managed to come up with 2 possibilities.

The first would be to laugh my ass before before saying no with a sly grin, ideally demonstrating asshole game with a hint of playfulness.

The second would be to look around, find the nearest AFC, point to him and say "See that guy over there? I'm sure that he'd love and respect the shit out of you. Why don't you go and start a conversation with him? Chop chop" before smacking her on the ass.

Obviously the best way would be to test it out but it's not something I come across very often so wouldn't able to do it organically. Which do you think would be best?

Post: #2

Sounds like you're way over-gaming here. Why not just play along and poke fun of her for taking the whole thing so seriously (as it seems you are)?

Depends on your style of game I guess.

"Respect you? I just met you, you've got to earn that sweetheart. Right now you're just another girl alone at [insert whatever place you are in]"

Post: #3

"Why? Do you have [xyz factors that you explain are the best qualities of women of her generation]"

To defuse 'you don't respect women or yourself' after she said "...do you respect me?": "why would it matter if I don't respect women or myself? That says something do you think?"

Post: #4

"Who (the fuck) are you?" or "Who do you think you are?". For some reason they always tell their name as a response

Post: #5

For these shit-test if you can't think of anything good/specfic, always have a default response.
My usual is:
Girl: (insert shit test)
Me: "Aww that's cute, so tell me about your relationship with your mother."
Works every time to either A. shut them up or B. let them know i'm not taking their shit seriously.

-CD

Post: #6

From previous experiences, the thing I have learned is to sometimes leave things unsaid. If a girl tries to "shit test" me, I usually laugh and drink my beer or give her a sarcastic look. That usually makes her drop things or she tries to validate herself. It's worked great for me. Try it out.

Post: #7

Take step back. Take a look at her whole body from the legs up. If you want her, simply "Yes" once eyes reach her face.
Older women are mature. It will tingle if she likes you and she will laugh.

Post: #8

Of course I respect you!

Said with a slight smirk and a touch of sarcasm.

Post: #9

You have to give respect to get respect.

My response would be based around that principle. Like, as long as they are showing me the proper respect, it's all good.

Post: #10

"I should respect you for the simple fact that you are a girl, even if you have no achievements?"

Post: #11

Stare into the distance <silence> "sorry no offence I wasn't thinking about you right now I was actually thinking about something else"

Post: #12

Gmac is Bang on with his analysis of your situation OP. You're currently treating Gaming as if is was a math equation with complex variables when all it is at the end of the day is how to deal with women's emotional response. Indeed a little of knowledge is needed on knowing how to deal with them, but most importantly is to have the ability to adapt to the women that you're speaking to.

Unfortunately that part can't be learned! So OP if you really wanna get good at this ( I recall reading a thread about your Gaming experience a while back) You have to it the Ground Hard. It's not your response that made her bounce it's your lack of intuition about her emotional state that did. I'm pretty sure that all the posters that responded could have said the same thing as you did and she wouldn't have left. This is not a knock on you so keep asking questions my friend and we'll let you know what's up.