Post: #51

It's not a dead give away but it is definitely a hint to your doings.

Post: #52

My idea:
Put everything left behind in a drawer, then if one comes back, take her back to your room and open said drawer with ALL the girl's left-behinds. Like a lost and found. Either drive her off or get her motor running in the high rev band.

I don't get many left-behinds. A few give actual gifts. Had two leave bras, several never hairpins or anything else. Usually they just leave white stains on my mattress.

Post: #53

I don't think it's usually worth looking that into. Most guys know by this by high school.

There seem to be some slow learners here.

What's next..a girl "likes" your facebook status update...now she's crazy about you??

Post: #54

I'm a slow learner. I just realized how this girl I've had over a few times has left a hair tie every time she's in my bedroom. Then I thought back. The first girl I banged after divorce and red pill left a scarf and earrings, check.

Didn't realize at the time, but a girl I was seeing for a while who was really trying to lock me down actually *brought over* a bunch of stuff, which I now realize was probably the same thought process as leaving something behind: broom, portable convection oven (awesome), kitchen stuff.

The scent thing intrigues me. Heartiste mentioned once: "1. Ditch the cologne, a tiny bit of ladies’ perfume on the neck is the way to go."

Does anyone have experience with this working (either self applied or from another girl)?

Post: #55

hahah this brings back memories, now I just don't care, I've found a nose ring, and left it on my desk in my room, just a tell tale sign another girl has been there.

Now this is good: had a bottle of fireball in my room it as full when Girl A came over, a few days later i'm banging Girl B after some fireball. Girl A come backs over and immediately notices the bottle half full, i was laughing inside, but said "yeah" and move on lol.

Another one was a girl finding a condom wrapper underneath my bed.....me and this girl never use condoms....she said "oh nice" and I just laughed and threw it away.

Honestly I think in a way placing left behinds strategically and induce a higher attraction and want to you from the girls who see it. Jealousy can be used in us mens favor.

Post: #56

Yep.

I don't worry about shit left and it's never caused a problem that didn't end up working in my favor.

Post: #57

^Agreed.

I've mistakenly sent girl A a text that 'she left her necklace' when really it belonged to girl B. I can't keep track of who leaves what...but it gave me a new way to restart with girls I've fucked and want a round two..."hey got ur necklace"

So far girl A ALWAYS replies and ask to set something up, but rarely mentions the necklace. If they do ask, mention that you had a few people over the other night and someone must have left the necklace laying around.

Also relevant: http://www.pipubs.com/one-item-every-bachelor-needs/

Post: #58

I've had some gems. Was actually dating a girl a while back and was looking for something under my nightstand (which hadn't been cleaned out in a long ass time) ... found a home pregnancy test and a pair of underwear from a previous relationship. Brutal.

Most recent leave-behind was a stiletto knife. I'm talking fully spring loaded switch blade. She was on top of me and I grabbed her ass and felt it in her back pocket. Put it on my window sill and she never took it with her.

Post: #59

I don’t if this is classified as a “leave behind”, but last night one of my FWB’s noticed that there was a tissue with lipstick in the bin in my guest bathroom. I rarely go in there, and I realised that a woman I had banged a few days before went to clean off some lipstick in the bathroom and had thrown the tissue in the bin. She said she felt dirty sleeping on the same sheets as a woman that I’d banged. She went home and asked me if I still wanted to hang out. I haven’t got back to her yet.

The funniest one was a nurse I used to bang. She was anal about hygiene and would wash her pussy out with some kind of syringe device after I banged her. She left that in my guest bathroom, and then another woman came the next day and asked me what the fuck it was. I said it was some cleaning stuff. She got a pissed off, then banged me anyway. After we banged she said that she’s not stupid and she knows I’m banging other women.

Moral of the story – check what’s in my guest bathroom before I invite any women over.

Post: #60

Also (and this is kind of gross sorry to admit) but I do not wash my bed spread very often. There are all kinds of random loose hairs of different colors, lengths, and textures on my pillows and bed sheet. I try to quickly screen for them but it's whatever. From my experience most girls don't notice/care about that kind of shit. Hell my comforter has random little white pussy-juice stains from years of fucking different women and they never notice or care.

...It's actually pretty putrid I should probably just buy a new bed set come to think of it.

Post: #61

(04-18-2014 06:05 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  Also (and this is kind of gross sorry to admit) but I do not wash my bed spread very often. There are all kinds of random loose hairs of different colors, lengths, and textures on my pillows and bed sheet. I try to quickly screen for them but it's whatever. From my experience most girls don't notice/care about that kind of shit. Hell my comforter has random little white pussy-juice stains from years of fucking different women and they never notice or care.

...It's actually pretty putrid I should probably just buy a new bed set come to think of it.

I wash my sheets weekly - I use all white sheets so I can bleach them. This stuff is good for getting stains out and you can find it in a dollar store:

Post: #62

She gets more upset when she smells a different perfume on her pillow than finding earrings.

Earrings could have been there a long time.

She knows when the bedding was done because she did it.

"I don't know what you are talking about. There's no perfume on there."

Post: #63

(06-06-2013 02:01 AM)Vicious Wrote:  When I was in college I used to have a lost and found basket on the hat rack in my apartment. Pins, make up, ear.rings even a jacket once. People would ask about it and I'd tell like it is. It's funny but I think that the knowledge of this basket led more girls to leave stuff.

I'm not the only one to have done this!
I had a designated lost and found drawer at my last house. I need to start one here. Had a few of my regulars that would check it when they came over for stuff they wanted to take for their own.

The leave behind and scratching biting etc are definitely intentional forms of marking you as territory.

I can't say anything though, I always try to mark a new girl. Leave a big hickey on the left boob towards the upper mid chest and whenever they notice it... "Yeah, no low cut shirts for you this week.. dont be mad though, its not a hickey on your boob, its a hickey on your heart."

Post: #64

Just got the leave behind last night. Chick was at mine for dinner and movie. Heavy makeout/dry humping met with constant LMR, and no bang. WTF, im thinking NEXT. This morning I find her sweatshirt and she wrote her birthday on my calender.....WTF.

Post: #65

First meet with a new girl last night- she was on her period and consequently refused to bang. At the end of the evening, I found her hair clip on the passenger seat of my car. I had commented on this piece earlier in the evening. Coincidence?

Post: #66

Found a leave-behind that has to be from the girl I used to bang, Maria. It was one of those strapless bra things and I found it while vacuuming deep under my bed.

Haven't banged her in at least 4 months. Oops, need to clean better/more often under my bed.

Also found sexy ass panties of the much hotter girl I'm dating now.

Post: #67

[DELETE]

Post: #68

this happens to me ALL THE TIME. Hairpins, underwear, scarves, blowdryers, jewlery. I am surprised so many of you take the time to scrub all of these things out. I really dont care. they see eachothers shit they usually just leave more shit

The only things that i really move are "toothbrushes" i always move the woman toothbrushes into the drawer in the bathroom when a different babe comes over beacuse this is very "relationship-y" and it can bring out bitchy attitudes as well and the possibility of them peeing on each others toothbrushes or sticking it in the ass or somthing (this realy happened to me)

Also SMELLS dear god i dont care about my clothes, but when my bed smells stronly of another girls perfume it has led to some clashes so i always changes the sheets if the girl has a lot of perfume/

Post: #69

Finger brace in my car from last weekend. Hairs in my sink all the fucking time.

Post: #70

Got a blowjob from this hippy chick in college once that wore a ring on almost every single finger or some shit.

She left them all piled up on our bathroom sink when she left.

Next day my girlfriend was over and says, "Whose rings are these - they're so cool!" She was ditzy as hell.

Told her some girl one of my roommates slept with left them behind. "You can have them if you want," I says.

"Really?! Are you sure."

"I'm positive. Have em'. She won't be back."

Next thing you know she's wearing a couple on her fingers. haha I was living with about 5 or 6 guys at the time and everyone laughed their asses off for about a week at that one.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #71

Got the obligatory earrings, hairpins, etc.

It buffles me how there are almost no exceptions to this behavior.
No way thats by accident. How often do you forget things at her place?
It happens. But not at that rate.
Somehow they share this strategy whithout men noticing.
Girl magazins? TV shows? Serious question. I really want to know this.


This weekend i had a special case.
Went to a girl after a long day playing paintball and stayed over night.
Next day home i discover the shirt she was wearing the day before in my backpack.
Of course she denied putting it in.

The best way to deal with it seems to be to ignore it.
Gets their hamster running.
"why doesn't he mention he found my x?!"

Post: #72

Fucking butterfly earring that my gf of course found whilst vaccuming my room

Post: #73

Dignity