Post: #651

My thoughts on finding a wife in Ukraine.

I have only been in Kiev for ten days so I'm certainly no expert on this subject but, wanted to give my experience so far if your looking for a wife. This thread was starting in regards to finding a wife and bringing her back to the U.S.

I'm writing this in regards to finding a woman and living here in Ukraine instead. Online dating has basically been a huge waste of time for me. I've gone on alot of first and second dates here but, the quality and attitudes of the women haven't been what I'm looking for. Have only done night game on one occasion and didn't have a good experience. Daygame here in Kiev is challenging but, the women I have incountered have been pleasant to talk to and have alot of potential. I have only approached women in the 6.5 - 7.5 range. Have gone on acouple dates from daygame and I'm learning as I go. No flag yet but, hope that will change by the end of my trip. It is very challenging here as far as the dating scene goes. Going on three to four dates to get the bang is very foreign to me and has been a huge challenge that is frustrating. Don't get me wrong. I have alot of respect for the more traditional women here. If the women in America had the same mindset then the divorce rates wouldn't be so high.

Church game. I recently experienced a death in my family that hit me pretty hard. Spend acouple days just sightseeing and walking around alone, lost in my thoughts. Noticed many churches along my journeys. Attended two services and will attend another one today. Quickly realized the talent that was attending the services. Women here at church are very talkative and interested in seeing a foreigner attending church services. In my experience they are so much easier to approach here then on the street.

My two cents on finding a future wife.

Become conversational in Russian language. Or at least beginner level. Move to second tier city in Ukraine. Find a church that fits your religious preference and start to build a small social circle. Find a pretty woman in the seven range. At the age of around twenty five years old.

Hope this information is useful to someone.

Post: #652

(09-14-2016 10:33 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

(09-12-2016 11:24 AM)phluff127 Wrote:  Because the only reason to get married is to have kids. Therefore, marry a girl and get her pregnant immediately and repeatedly. If you have 3 kids for instance, this will mean she will be unable to date anyone for about 6 years whether she lives on a farm in Poland or Miami beach. By the time the 6 years are up you now have 3 little rugrats running around, ... Moral of the story- marry and impregnate.

Kids doesn't mean she will stay.

Some women may even prolong getting pregnant.

There's no way to predict every case, but it seems reasonable that the more kids the lower her market value will be.

There is the other side-- post-partum depression or other problems from the kids (craving for more money for private school for them for instance) could make her MORE likely to exit.

However, the simplest and most straightforwards logic seems intuitively to suggest that other things being equal her lower market value makes it more work for her to "trade up."

Post: #653

(09-15-2016 07:08 AM)Patriarch Wrote:  I don't mean to shit on the Vietnam hype train, but Vietnamese women are some of the most cunning, deceitful girls you will ever meet. There are definitely some great girls here, but the extent that they will go--both in severity and length--to deceive men is breathtaking to behold.
If you're looking for a wife here, either screen Vietnam cupid VERY carefully or, better yet, develop a social circle and have people screen girls for you. Any decent english ability should be a red flag.

I have a TON of Vietnam experience. I speak the language somewhat and have learned lots about the culture.

IF you are interested in marrying a girl from Vietnam, I believe it's most important to check out her family first. Family will tell you everything with Vietnamese girls.

Overall... your chance of meeting a girl that will do you dirty is much lower than the US, Canada, UK... ect.

Have you had a bad experience?

Post: #654

^Know one really knows until the girl gets on US/Canada/UK soil.

Post: #655

(09-29-2016 03:23 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^no one really knows until the girl gets on US/Canada/UK soil.

True, as the Brits say, the proof of the pudding is in its eating!

You bring a 7+ foreign woman from 2d or 3d world to US/Canada/Western EU soil, you'll discover within one or 2 years if you chose wisely. Good luck, too.

Post: #656

(09-29-2016 03:23 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^Know one really knows until the girl gets on US/Canada/UK soil.

Women don't change just by entering a new country. I understand what you mean when you say that, but keep in mind if you do your homework and get to know the woman in advance, she likely won't surprise you down the road.

Also someone mentioned Asian girls tend towards being less interesting at sex. I think this is just a case of understanding how to unlock that sexuality. My time in Vietnam... the women always started off really conservative and nervous. If you do the right things that often progresses into her clawing your clothes off at every available opportunity. One girl in particular had me averaging sex something like 8 times a day for nearly 2 months... I got to a point where I was almost afraid to be alone with her!

Post: #657

Okay I agree bring a girl over is risky but u have to think it also depends where u bring her, if you bring her to a small town and join a traditional church and other community based activities the risks go down a lot- to summarize don't bring her to big cities like NY or LA instead go for a small town where it's family orianted and u have good value and game keeping her should not be too hard.

Post: #658

(09-17-2016 09:06 PM)aeroektar Wrote:  

(09-12-2016 11:24 AM)phluff127 Wrote:  It shouldn't matter whether or not you bring a foreign girl back. Why? Because the only reason to get married is to have kids. Therefore, marry a girl and get her pregnant immediately and repeatedly.....

I've seen a lot of men, good successful men who have their shit together, do exactly that and lose it all, the house, the kids, the dogs, the cars, everything they've worked for.

.....

In America she faces no consequences, just everyone else.

Wow, I'd like to hear more details on that! Can you relate what states, what cities.... the professions of the men, where the chicks were from who ditched their benefactor?

Post: #659

(10-01-2016 03:43 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(09-17-2016 09:06 PM)aeroektar Wrote:  

(09-12-2016 11:24 AM)phluff127 Wrote:  It shouldn't matter whether or not you bring a foreign girl back. Why? Because the only reason to get married is to have kids. Therefore, marry a girl and get her pregnant immediately and repeatedly.....

I've seen a lot of men, good successful men who have their shit together, do exactly that and lose it all, the house, the kids, the dogs, the cars, everything they've worked for.

.....

In America she faces no consequences, just everyone else.

Wow, I'd like to hear more details on that! Can you relate what states, what cities.... the professions of the men, where the chicks were from who ditched their benefactor?

I'm from just outside of Boston, so generally that part of the country.

I've meet divorced guys here who came from other states for work, legal immigrants, guys working in real estate, finance, the trades, who married women from all walks, small town girls, college educated from other states, women flown in from other countries (I've met two guys this year who brought women from Thailand and the Phils who are now divorced).

But the group I see getting raped the hardest by divorce are guys that are born and raised here and live their entire lives within a 20 mile radius. They meet their wives during or right out of high school, have a bunch of kids, buy a house, setup deep roots, most work in the trades (pays well here). Not exactly wealthy men, but making enough to own a nice house, a family car, a nice work van or nice truck, maybe a Mustang or Corvette, can take nice vacations and generally provide a very comfortable American life. Every time I see one of these guys getting divorced and having the rug pulled out from underneath them, the bitch doesn't even leave for an upgrade, they take the house and stay in the area, live off the combination of child support and their nursing job or whatever, and hop back on the carousel, maybe eventually find a scumbag boyfriend.

Since this is a thread about wife hunting abroad, I'd say honestly the best way to protect yourself is to avoid bringing her back to the US, if you absolutely must, screen extra hard and bring her back to a conservative area, although even this is risky.

Whether I meet the future wife of my children in America or overseas, I'm going to screen for these things:

1) Prefers living in a suburban or rural community, even strongly dislikes the city.
2) Is great with kids, wants a traditional family.
3) Has firm religious beliefs, doesn't have to be actively religious.
4) Comes from a strong family, good relationship with father, with a mother who isn't fat.
5) Isn't overly outgoing or outspoken, not an intellectual.
6) At most drinks occasionally. No smoking or drugs.
7) No tattoos, no loud hairstyles, nothing more then pierced ears, fairly conservative dress style.
8) Passes the boner test but not a stunner.

Post: #660

(10-01-2016 05:35 PM)aeroektar Wrote:  I'm from just outside of Boston, so generally that part of the country.

I've meet divorced guys here who came from other states for work, legal immigrants, guys working in real estate, finance, the trades, who married women from all walks, small town girls, college educated from other states, women flown in from other countries (I've met two guys this year who brought women from Thailand and the Phils who are now divorced).

But the group I see getting raped the hardest by divorce are guys that are born and raised here and live their entire lives within a 20 mile radius. They meet their wives during or right out of high school, have a bunch of kids, buy a house, setup deep roots, most work in the trades (pays well here). Not exactly wealthy men, but making enough to own a nice house, a family car, a nice work van or nice truck, maybe a Mustang or Corvette, can take nice vacations and generally provide a very comfortable American life. Every time I see one of these guys getting divorced and having the rug pulled out from underneath them, the bitch doesn't even leave for an upgrade, they take the house and stay in the area, live off the combination of child support and their nursing job or whatever, and hop back on the carousel, maybe eventually find a scum bag boyfriend.

Since this is a thread about wife hunting abroad, I'd say honestly the best way to protect yourself is to avoid bringing her back to the US, if you absolutely must, screen hard and bring her back to a conservative area, although even this is risky.

True and this thread is getting off topic from the original concept.

I'd suggest making a separate thread if your concern is to discuss bringing them back and all that goes with it. It's also subjective depending on your experience and can go round and round.

In the long run the answers are black and white and simple. In this thread alone it's repeated many times. If not, just do a google search.

It's like driving a car and knowing the dangers. Once you know the dangers you put your seat belt on and drive. There is not much more to discuss. You just want to know about about the places to go.

The original poster was interested in countries and cities abroad.

I believe this thread is for guys that already understand the idea and concerns of bringing her back or not. Now they want to look at cities and countries for their prospects.

Post: #661

I'm here in Manila and have been seeing an 18 yr old college student. She's from Mindanao and I wonder if that contributes to her sweet, submissiveness. Anyways, she's the first girl I've met that I consider marrying and bringing back home. On the Travesty scale of attractiveness she's a 5.5, but her tits are a solid 8 and she photographs well, very well. Her fun, bubbly, joking personality and submissiveness adds some points along with her being 18. She has a propensity to gain weight though but she knows this and doesn't like it either. She's about 15 lbs overweight right now buts still looks good.

I'm her second guy, the first was earlier this year. He's still in the picture on facebook, she's stringing him along but you can tell by the fb comments she's distancing herself from him and he doesn't like it. Though she's tried to add me to her fb, tried to message me there, I never responded. I act like I just don't use it, so that I can check her page to get some insight into her life. Curiously, she hasn't mentioned anything about her attempts to connect with me there, yet.

Her family has told her to stop seeing me because I'm too old so we're doing that in secret. I'm 45, but she thinks late 30's. So we can only see each other a few times a week and the sex is great. I'm surprised at how much we connect through it and how fun she is in bed at such a young age with little experience. But her personality is like Pikachu, just bubbly and giggly most of the time. The downside of that is there's not a lot of intellectual conversation and she brings that up and asks if I'm bored with her because she's not intelligent.

She wants to get pregnant and married right away, but will wait until she graduates in a few years. Though she tells me she's ready anytime I am. She's an only child, comes from a broken family (parents separated when she was 10) both parents work abroad and she lives with her Aunt who will also begin working abroad next month. When that happens, she'll be free to spend more time and nights with me.

Pros

* Young, very mold-able, submissive and expressive
* Wants to feed me, put my belt on for me, etc.
* Kissing is great, Sex is great and will probably get even better in the near term
* Bubbly, giggly, jokster (she scared me on purpose when I came back upstairs in the dark).
* Has a Daddy complex (which benefits me because of my age) She's truly attracted to an older guy though her last bf was only 21 but introduced to her by her family.
* Won't let me pay for an Uber to take her home. Insists on taking public transportation.
* Has never even hinted about money and doesn't want me spending anything on her.


Cons

* Met her online, but her profile was brand new and I may have been the first guy she met since it was only a week before I arrived in the Phils.

* She started saying, "I love you" when I was still in the States before we even met.
* Comes from a broken home, not a well-off girl but her parents work overseas and make enough to put her through school.
* Stringing the previous bf along
* Has the tendency to gain weight. Afraid she will balloon after the first kid.
* Child-like, not mature like a girl in her mid-late 20s

A couple nights ago I was with a Travesty 7.5. (T7.5) Smaller tits, but long legs, amazing ass and tummy, light porcelain skin. She works as a floor manager in a very high end restaurant/bar. The sex was not so great and her personality was that of a complete bitch but her body was simply amazing. Hard to control my hands, but I don't want to see her again.

She was certainly the 2nd hottest girl I've ever been with and it motivated me to get into shape to have more of that, but then last night I was with my T5.5 college girl and I had exponentially more fun with her. Suddenly I have thoughts of settling down, or maybe it's just settling to avoid any more work in the search?

So that's where I am so far in the wife hunt. I have a new girl coming over today and a date with another new one tomorrow but I'm starting to catch feelings for my main and have thoughts about settling down with her.

I know I can get better looking if I get in better shape and put in the time, and I'm still curious about Vietnam and other Asian countries.

Post: #662

(10-05-2016 08:57 PM)Onto Wrote:  I'm here in Manila and have been seeing an 18 yr old college student. She's from Mindanao and I wonder if that contributes to her sweet, submissiveness. Anyways, she's the first girl I've met that I consider marrying and bringing back home. On the Travesty scale of attractiveness she's a 5.5, but her tits are a solid 8 and she photographs well, very well. Her fun, bubbly, joking personality and submissiveness adds some points along with her being 18. She has a propensity to gain weight though but she knows this and doesn't like it either. She's about 15 lbs overweight right now buts still looks good.

I'm her second guy, the first was earlier this year. He's still in the picture on facebook, she's stringing him along but you can tell by the fb comments she's distancing herself from him and he doesn't like it. Though she's tried to add me to her fb, tried to message me there, I never responded. I act like I just don't use it, so that I can check her page to get some insight into her life. Curiously, she hasn't mentioned anything about her attempts to connect with me there, yet.

Her family has told her to stop seeing me because I'm too old so we're doing that in secret. I'm 45, but she thinks late 30's. So we can only see each other a few times a week and the sex is great. I'm surprised at how much we connect through it and how fun she is in bed at such a young age with little experience. But her personality is like Pikachu, just bubbly and giggly most of the time. The downside of that is there's not a lot of intellectual conversation and she brings that up and asks if I'm bored with her because she's not intelligent.

She wants to get pregnant and married right away, but will wait until she graduates in a few years. Though she tells me she's ready anytime I am. She's an only child, comes from a broken family (parents separated when she was 10) both parents work abroad and she lives with her Aunt who will also begin working abroad next month. When that happens, she'll be free to spend more time and nights with me.

Pros

* Young, very mold-able, submissive and expressive
* Wants to feed me, put my belt on for me, etc.
* Kissing is great, Sex is great and will probably get even better in the near term
* Bubbly, giggly, jokster (she scared me on purpose when I came back upstairs in the dark).
* Has a Daddy complex (which benefits me because of my age) She's truly attracted to an older guy though her last bf was only 21 but introduced to her by her family.
* Won't let me pay for an Uber to take her home. Insists on taking public transportation.
* Has never even hinted about money and doesn't want me spending anything on her.


Cons

* Met her online, but her profile was brand new and I may have been the first guy she met since it was only a week before I arrived in the Phils.

* She started saying, "I love you" when I was still in the States before we even met.
* Comes from a broken home, not a well-off girl but her parents work overseas and make enough to put her through school.
* Stringing the previous bf along
* Has the tendency to gain weight. Afraid she will balloon after the first kid.
* Child-like, not mature like a girl in her mid-late 20s

A couple nights ago I was with a Travesty 7.5. (T7.5) Smaller tits, but long legs, amazing ass and tummy, light porcelain skin. She works as a floor manager in a very high end restaurant/bar. The sex was not so great and her personality was that of a complete bitch but her body was simply amazing. Hard to control my hands, but I don't want to see her again.

She was certainly the 2nd hottest girl I've ever been with and it motivated me to get into shape to have more of that, but then last night I was with my T5.5 college girl and I had exponentially more fun with her. Suddenly I have thoughts of settling down, or maybe it's just settling to avoid any more work in the search?

So that's where I am so far in the wife hunt. I have a new girl coming over today and a date with another new one tomorrow but I'm starting to catch feelings for my main and have thoughts about settling down with her.

I know I can get better looking if I get in better shape and put in the time, and I'm still curious about Vietnam and other Asian countries.

Congrats on your find. Did you stretch your age by seven years?

A lot of guys do this, and I have too. I'm curious how you expect it to go when you tell her the truth as well her parents? Particularly since they were concerned before.

Maybe you have been there before, or other guys have been there. I did this once with a chick about the same age difference but told her early on, within a few weeks. It's been awhile since I did this. I remember she was pissed but forgave me.

A lot of guys do this to give us a better chance online. I have heard several women say they liked a guy but when they found they were told the truth, then they immediately broke it off. The reason is they stated that they couldn't trust him. If he said that then what else?

It's been so long ago I can't remember how I got out of it. I'm curious how you think this will work. It appears that you are open to something long term or as you said "settling down" with this approach.

A lot of guys do it. It's a good think to consider.

Post: #663

(10-05-2016 10:19 PM)stpete Wrote:  

(10-05-2016 08:57 PM)Onto Wrote:  ...
Her family has told her to stop seeing me because I'm too old so we're doing that in secret. I'm 45, but she thinks late 30's. So we can only see each other a few times a week and the sex is great. I'm surprised at how much we connect through it and how fun she is in bed at such a young age with little experience. But her personality is like Pikachu, just bubbly and giggly most of the time. The downside of that is there's not a lot of intellectual conversation and she brings that up and asks if I'm bored with her because she's not intelligent.
...

Congrats on your find. Did you stretch your age by seven years?

A lot of guys do this, and I have too. I'm curious how you expect it to go when you tell her the truth as well her parents?

Maybe you have been there before, or other guys have been there. I did this once with a chick about the same age difference but told her early on. It was not great, but she stuck it out.

A lot of guys do this to give us a better chance online. I have heard several women say they liked a guy but when they found this out, then they immediately broke it off.

It's been so long ago I can't remember how I got out of it. I'm curious how you think this will work.

I stretch my age by 8 years. The forum members and friends here who I've met recently didn't know my age, assumed I was mid-late 30's, and surprised to find out I wasn't so it's not too much of a stretch I guess. When I ask girls here in the Phils to guess they often say 28, but maybe they are just being kind or don't know how to judge a foreigners age?

Either way, if a girl loves you and after you've really connected with them both sexually and emotionally the truth won't matter even if it's a 15 year stretch. I also don't tell women that I have an adult son.

I take the approach that my personal life (age, kids, job, etc) is none of there business until we're at the point of marriage. That's when it becomes there business, but even then you should always keep assets that are yours, yours. They don't need to know what I have and where it is. Better for everyone if they don't.

You can always say you stretched your age downwards because you know some women may need a little help in getting past the false social stigma of age gaps and you know they are really most concerned with finding a man of good character, instead of one that fits a certain number. In other words, you did it as a favor to them, which is true.

Post: #664

Onto,

I would recommend finding an older woman. That age gap is a bit too high in my opinion (for marriage). Adds more unneeded risk. I'd shoot for something in the 24-32 range to be on the safer side of things. Once you go past 15-20 years, people are likely to think you are a creep preying on young desperate girls from 3rd world countries. Personally, I wouldn't want to be that guy to my family and friends. As for non age related things, there is just too many significant red flags. Also, unless you are straight obese, being a little over weight shouldn't stop you from getting better quality. Wouldn't let that hinder you. Anyways, just giving my honest opinion. Wish you the best of luck in your wife hunt.

Post: #665

(10-06-2016 09:06 AM)Tweezy Wrote:  Once you go past 15-20 years, people are likely to think you are a creep preying on young desperate girls from 3rd world countries. Personally, I wouldn't want to be that guy to my family and friends.

This is how you view the world? What is wrong with you, dude? Maybe there are many valid reasons not to date a chick 20 years younger. This stuff is the opposite. Enjoy being a crab in the bucket.

Post: #666

(10-06-2016 09:06 AM)Tweezy Wrote:  People are likely to think you are a creep preying on young desperate girls from 3rd world countries.

Who are these people and how can I stay away from them?

Post: #667

Onto, have you lied to her about anything else? If you did marry her, would you plan on living in the Philippines or going back?

Post: #668

(10-06-2016 09:24 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

This is how you view the world? What is wrong with you, dude? Maybe there are many valid reasons not to date a chick 20 years younger. This stuff is the opposite. Enjoy being a crab in the bucket.

There is no ignoring or thinking that it isn't a reality. It happens.

The only question is, does it matter to you or do you care.

I am usually on the side of live your life how you want to and don't give 2 cents what other people think. However, this is probably one of the few instances where I want to air on the side of caution.

My comment certainly wasn't meant as hating or putting down people that do. Personally have no problems with it so long as the girl is of age. Just my own thoughts on the matter. Let's say I was 45 and had a 25 year old daughter. How is she gonna think when she learns you went and wife'd up an 18 year old girl from a 3rd world country? Just stuff to think about.

Anyways, I knew my view wouldn't be looked at favorably here. Again, no disrespect. Just giving my honest opinion. Good luck!

Post: #669

(10-06-2016 02:42 PM)Tweezy Wrote:  

(10-06-2016 09:24 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

This is how you view the world? What is wrong with you, dude? Maybe there are many valid reasons not to date a chick 20 years younger. This stuff is the opposite. Enjoy being a crab in the bucket.

There is no ignoring or thinking that it isn't a reality. It happens.

The only question is, does it matter to you or do you care.

I am usually on the side of live your life how you want to and don't give 2 cents what other people think. However, this is probably one of the few instances where I want to air on the side of caution.

My comment certainly wasn't meant as hating or putting down people that do. Personally have no problems with it so long as the girl is of age. Just my own thoughts on the matter. Let's say I was 45 and had a 25 year old daughter. How is she gonna think when she learns you went and wife'd up an 18 year old girl from a 3rd world country? Just stuff to think about.

Anyways, I knew my view wouldn't be looked at favorably here. Again, no disrespect. Just giving my honest opinion. Good luck!

It's none of her God damned business. That's what.

I don't know if you belong on this forum. Maybe you do, and I might be wrong prematurely, but you have a lot to learn. You have no semblance of red pill mentality at all.

First of all, your daughter should not have the audacity to question her father in that manner. At 25 she should be worried about her own husband and your grandchildren if you raised her right.

If you are already losing an argument in the future, that has not even happened, who is wearing the pants in your household? Not you. Maybe not even your future wife! To be beholden to your own children is not just henpicked or weak, but irresponsible. You better not have any children anytime soon. You need to work on foundational aspects of masculinity and what it is to be a man, then you need to work on game basics. Focus on frame. That would be a good place to start. You don't have the right frame of mind for wife hunting, let alone travel game. I have some Chinese ex girlfriends that would eat you alive for an appetizer. You would be funding a boyfriend you cannot see because they would smell your weakness.

If you would be willing to learn more, and can swallow your pride on what you think you know, we can link you some resources.

Let us know.

Post: #670

(10-06-2016 09:06 AM)Tweezy Wrote:  I'd shoot for something in the 24-32 range to be on the safer side of things.

In my experience, women who haven't already married by their mid 20s are usually broken and/or head cases. It's only in mentally ill countries that you'll find women who feel 'empowered' by squandering their prime fertile years.

Post: #671

(10-06-2016 04:35 PM)DaveR Wrote:  

(10-06-2016 09:06 AM)Tweezy Wrote:  I'd shoot for something in the 24-32 range to be on the safer side of things.

In my experience, women who haven't already married by their mid 20s are usually broken and/or head cases. It's only in mentally ill countries that you'll find women who feel 'empowered' by squandering their prime fertile years.

Best line I have read here in recent memory.

Post: #672

(10-06-2016 01:20 PM)erikak Wrote:  Onto, have you lied to her about anything else? If you did marry her, would you plan on living in the Philippines or going back?

I haven't, and I don't view it as lying anyways. My being 8 yrs older and having an adult son have no material affect on her life. When girls ask me if I'm Catholic, I say "Of course!" even though I'm really nothing. Since it's fine with me if we raise our kids Catholic, what does it really matter?

I don't know where we would live. A big part of me would want to move back to the US. The quality of life there is so much better, but of course there are risks.

I've talked in the past of my LTR with an 28 yr old FOB Mexican I met online when I was living in NYC. She could barely speak any English at the time, but had an actuary degree and was a VP at one of the largest international banking firms. She had the whole "Sex and the City" series on DVD when I met her and after almost 3 years of being together in NYC I never saw a bit of change in how she was raised. She rejected feminism completely.

If we lived here in the Philippines it would be in one of the cities where the weather is mild and I have enough semi-passive income and savings to make it work. I was speaking with Dagnasty about it and he suggested to make it seem like I would want to live here and never return to the US. That would remove any green-card fantasies and then see how she reacts. I suspect she would be fine with it.

Many girls here in the Phils are happier to stay in their country if they are going to have a much better quality of life and stability. For a modestly attractive girl finding a Filipino who makes $36k/year, will marry her, is faithful and doesn't do drugs/gamble/abuse her is like hitting the lottery.

That said, there are many stories of Pinay's or her family having the husband killed in order to cash out for the family or be with their Pinoy boyfriend. Only costs about $60. So there can be an even bigger risk in marrying and staying. She may not be thinking like that now, but 10-20 yrs from now? Who knows?

In the US all you have to worry about is getting financially raped, but at least you had some good years hopefully. When you're 45 you start to develop a real awareness of how many good years are left. I'm more than halfway to the end. I "might" have another 30 left in me, but I could also get hit by a jeepney later this afternoon.

Tweezy, I understand what you're saying and I do feel odd walking down the street together, but it's because of my own western programming. No one here outwardly judges us. Sure, if I bring her back people will judge me, but 100 yrs ago in the US they certainly wouldn't have. Is that progress?

It doesn't really matter to me what my family would say. Fortunately they are liberals, which sucks because of their "progressive" views, but can be a benefit in situations like this. After all, how can they judge a 27 yr age gap as wrong, but say it's ok for two guys to engage in bestiality or for tranny's to use the woman's bathroom?

I've been out on several dates here with professional women in their mid 20's - mid 30's and have had them back in the apartment. While the conversation and banter is more on par with western women the sweetness and submissiveness is just not there like it is with this 18 yr old. And the sex isn't nearly as good either.

It may be because of their age, but the largest part of it is psychological compatibility. My main's psychological makeup (mode of being) and mine mesh very well with each other and it gets expressed through our texting, joking, and physically in the bedroom.

I could let her go and keep searching and maybe find something like that with more miles on it, but why should I? A bird in the hand is worth more than two in the bush. I'm fortunate to have found anyone that I connect like that with.

I had a 29 yr old TV producer in my bed yesterday and I decided not to bang her because I just wasn't feeling it with her like I do with my main. I'm still going to date, but I'm cutting off all the previous girls in the rotation and raising the bar substantially for any new ones.

Post: #673

(10-06-2016 07:52 PM)Kaizen Wrote:  

(10-06-2016 04:35 PM)DaveR Wrote:  

(10-06-2016 09:06 AM)Tweezy Wrote:  I'd shoot for something in the 24-32 range to be on the safer side of things.

In my experience, women who haven't already married by their mid 20s are usually broken and/or head cases. It's only in mentally ill countries that you'll find women who feel 'empowered' by squandering their prime fertile years.

Best line I have read here in recent memory.

Thanks, but Phoenix deserves the credit for that one. The following short but very lucid and powerful post of his clarified my thoughts in that area:


/thread-9856-...pid1053496

(06-28-2015 01:57 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  It's occurred to me today that a man has two living choices: live in a mentally ill country, or live in a poor country.

Optimum living for a man in the 21st century thereby comes down to "pulling money from a mentally ill country, and living in a poor country". I will be redoubling my efforts in this.

Post: #674

(10-06-2016 08:06 PM)Onto Wrote:  Tweezy, I understand what you're saying and I do feel odd walking down the street together, but it's because of my own western programming. No one here outwardly judges us. Sure, if I bring her back people will judge me, but 100 yrs ago in the US they certainly wouldn't have. Is that progress?

It doesn't really matter to me what my family would say. Fortunately they are liberals, which sucks because of their "progressive" views, but can be a benefit in situations like this. After all, how can they judge a 27 yr age gap as wrong, but say it's ok for two guys to engage in bestiality or for tranny's to use the woman's bathroom?

If you don't care about what your family thinks then no worries mate. Happy hunting.

I about 10 years younger than you and starting to think about or long to settle down.

From my time spent traveling, Asian women on average seem to be the best marriage material.

My top two countries of intrigue are Vietnam and Kazakhstan.

Anyone have any intel on Kazakhstan as pertaining to the women? How do they stack up to the Vietnamese?

Post: #675

Onto,

Those "Cons" are pretty big ones.

Enjoy the 18 year-old pussy, but don't let it distract you from your actual wife hunt (if that's indeed what you want).

Good luck and keep us posted.