Post: #1

According to the book “BANG”, it says we should never give a complement too early in the game and girls usually do not believe their instinct because of both reasons and my personal experience it leads a question in my mind. If we not say some complement in the early of the game they usually do not see our interest of them they just think we are friendly and I have found out that if we give sample complement early in the game they would be more into the game so what is the deal of saying complement?

Post: #2

Show interest with a sensual touch, and sexuality with a bold mien.

Post: #3

Don't compliment

Post: #4

Ok, don't compliment, but what do guys think about verbal signifiers of interest apart from kino (not compliments).

Post: #5

then what is the reason of not giving complement

Post: #6

I think there is a difference between saying your interested and giving some kind of round-the-way compliment.

"I like the way you do your hair" - compliment with no signifier of interest. So are: "I like your car". "I like your bag". "That was an intelligent thing you just said".

"you're cute enough to take home" - up front ballsy signifier of interest. another : "If we keep talking, we're going to end up more than talking".

Post: #7

(01-13-2009 01:29 AM)twigman Wrote:  "I like the way you do your hair" - compliment with no signifier of interest. So are: "I like your car". "I like your bag". "That was an intelligent thing you just said".

Compliment her bag and she's going to think you're gay.