Post: #1

So, I'm sure plenty of guys have been rejected by girls as well as rejected by girls who were previously platonic friends.

But what if after a few months, she changes her mind and wants to date you? Do you leave your ego at the door and give her a 2nd chance?
What if she changed her mind because she discovered you were wealthy, is she a golddigger?

We were friends before I asked her out, and she rejected me. Then she discovered I drove an expensive car and started flirting with me. I was bitter and moved on to other women.

She's an alpha woman, who works in media now. I don't even know if I can handle a super-demanding and high-expectations girlfriend.

Anyone ever given a girl a 2nd chance after she rejects you?

Post: #2

just fuck her for a while

But that's just me...

Post: #3

The woman you describe isn't worth the effort you took in start this thread

The woman you described is an openly materialistic, cold-hearted lizard who only wants to get in your pockets

Bait and switch

Fuck then ignore

Post: #4

(02-17-2015 04:13 PM)tacolove Wrote:  She's an alpha woman

There is something off with this statement. Referring a woman as alpha?

Post: #5

Need more details. How old is she? How old are you? Big city? Did she just get pumped and dumped by a sports star?

Post: #6

(02-17-2015 04:28 PM)Avon Barksdale Wrote:  

(02-17-2015 04:13 PM)tacolove Wrote:  She's an alpha woman

There is something off with this statement. Referring a woman as alpha?

My thoughts exactly

Post: #7

(02-17-2015 04:28 PM)Avon Barksdale Wrote:  

(02-17-2015 04:13 PM)tacolove Wrote:  She's an alpha woman

There is something off with this statement. Referring a woman as alpha?

Threw me off too. Giving the benefit of the doubt I would replace 'Alpha' with bitchy

Post: #8

(02-17-2015 04:28 PM)Avon Barksdale Wrote:  

(02-17-2015 04:13 PM)tacolove Wrote:  She's an alpha woman

There is something off with this statement. Referring a woman as alpha?

Alpha woman - career-oriented/ambitious/good looking/media personality/high-maitenance/really demanding/high expectations

Rejected me once already many, many years ago, during school years. Now she works in media.

Feeling a bit down lately, gotta get my career back on track and make more money. I don't really think I have it in me to deal with her demands or expectations anymore.

I just want a girl who is low-maintenance and is happy to be with me, instead of playing games with me.

Post: #9

(02-17-2015 04:41 PM)tacolove Wrote:  Feeling a bit down lately, gotta get my career back on track and make more money. I don't really think I have it in me to deal with her demands or expectations anymore.

I just want a girl who is low-maintenance and is happy to be with me, instead of playing games with me.

Nothing wrong with pumping and dumping her.

Just grab a drink, if you've got good game, get her into bed.

Rinse and repeat.

Post: #10

(02-17-2015 04:29 PM)Grange Wrote:  Need more details. How old is she? How old are you? Big city? Did she just get pumped and dumped by a sports star?

We're in our 30's but I've known her for 15 years since school, and before she started her media job.

I don't think she dates that much, but she might have hot guys hitting on her based on her job. I don't even want to deal with the jealousy when she talks to other guys.

It would be funny to be eskimo brothers with a sports star but I don't know who she's dated recently. I only talk to her ever couple of years. Frankly, its too much effort for me to date her.

Post: #11

Suspicious

Post: #12

(02-17-2015 04:48 PM)tacolove Wrote:  I don't think she dates that much, but she might have hot guys hitting on her based on her job. I don't even want to deal with the jealousy when she talks to other guys.

It would be funny to be eskimo brothers with a sports star but I don't know who she's dated recently. I only talk to her ever couple of years. Frankly, its too much effort for me to date her.

Dude, she isn't in the date category at all, she's DTF girl.

She's raised the gold digger flag.

You already sound a bit jealous just thinking about it.

Just get her out, bang her, and forget about her.

Post: #13

(02-17-2015 04:53 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Suspicious

Very suspicious, I remember this name:

/thread-42049-...#pid949493

Post: #14

It's good you found RVF. Sounds like you've got a bad case of oneitis. RVF can help cure it.

In all sincerity you're putting way too much thought into it. The best thing I can tell you is play the field a little bit with other women and then see how you feel. Sounds like she realized how quickly her options are disappearing and she's looking around for a chump to settle with. There's a 99% chance that deep down you don't want to be that chump.

Post: #15

http://www.rooshv.com/never-let-a-girl-reject-you-twice

Quote:You’re not a bus that comes every 10 minutes. You’re not the 7-11 that stays open 24 hours a day. You’re the once in a millenia asteroid that lands in Siberia and kills a lot of small animals. If she happens to miss that then she will die before having the chance to experience it again. She has one opportunity with you and that’s the opportunity that you create with your approach. If she does not explore that opportunity with her most capable social being, then she can fuck off.

Post: #16

(02-17-2015 04:13 PM)tacolove Wrote:  So, I'm sure plenty of guys have been rejected by girls as well as rejected by girls who were previously platonic friends.

But what if after a few months, she changes her mind and wants to date you? Do you leave your ego at the door and give her a 2nd chance?
What if she changed her mind because she discovered you were wealthy, is she a golddigger?

We were friends before I asked her out, and she rejected me. Then she discovered I drove an expensive car and started flirting with me. I was bitter and moved on to other women.

She's an alpha woman, who works in media now. I don't even know if I can handle a super-demanding and high-expectations girlfriend.

Anyone ever given a girl a 2nd chance after she rejects you?

I have two friends who are dating where the girl had denied the guys advances several times. They are now in an extremely happy long term relationship. I'm a bit jealous, not at all because of the relationship, but because I have too much pride to go out with a girl who denied me, and I lack the persistence to continue with the endeavor.

If she changes her mind because she finds out something you OWN appeals to her - the question you need to ask yourself is this:
Can I handle removing all feelings for this girl and just enjoy her for her body?

For most guys, I seriously doubt they could. And they would be in denial that they could avoid catching feelings for the lizard.


New Question: What if on your first attempt, she told you to try harder? not in any beta sort of way, obviously. I've had a friend had an approach do this to him. They ended up hooking up.

Post: #17

At the point that she identifies herself as having less than genuine intentions, she has then disqualified herself from ANY fair dealings

There is nothing left to remove, let alone feelings. Her cards are on the table boss...

Bottom line, if she is willing to treat you like a chump, why would you be any less inclined to treat her like a hoe?

Post: #18

Depends on the girl. The only one's I've ever gone for after a rejection are ones who I knew pre-game. If it has been a few years gone by and you are obviously a different person then often times you basically are starting over. It's not really worth the effort though, it's just an ego (as well as other things) stroker when you get them.

There's a big difference though between a girl who has rejected you and one who is simply playing hard to get. Your dignity demands you distance yourself from the former, your pride likes to bang the latter.