Post: #5476

(05-04-2017 05:56 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Option C - bad logistics - go for the bang in the toilet!

WIA

I have never banged in a public toilet. The closest I came to that was a girls locker room in College.

My question is do I have a better chance of seeing and banging the girl after we bang in the toilet because of bad logistics?

I am sport fucker so a 20 min session in the bathroom is not going to satisfy me. But if it greatly helps my chances of banging this chick on later a date I am always down to try it out.

Post: #5477

(05-04-2017 02:58 PM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(05-04-2017 05:56 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Option C - bad logistics - go for the bang in the toilet!

WIA

I have never banged in a public toilet. The closest I came to that was a girls locker room in College.

My question is do I have a better chance of seeing and banging the girl after we bang in the toilet because of bad logistics?

I am sport fucker so a 20 min session in the bathroom is not going to satisfy me. But if it greatly helps my chances of banging this chick on later a date I am always down to try it out.

There's really no way to predict it to be honest.

But often times, you make a fast bang happen, you take initiative on her impulsiveness - without adequate aftercare - much worse things can happen besides not getting repeat business.

WIA

Post: #5478

felt like a bad ass tonite.
met an unhappy married chick, took her to the back exit made out with her then took her back to her friends arm in arm squeezed her ass as i passed her my phone number written down on a napkin old school style. she was complementing my chocolate (shout out to black genetics) lips the whole nite.

Hope i get to throttle this old ass blonde mami.
also of note met another bachelorette party tonite...but this may have a happy ending...to be continued: waiting on a singular text to seal the deal..

Post: #5479

(05-04-2017 09:38 AM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

(05-04-2017 08:27 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  But now you know. Anytime I'm abroad, I want to hear hip hop. EDM and the like grate on my ears. We know that stuff started in Baltimore, Detroit, Chicago and New York - by largely black and Latino producers, djs, and artists - but for me, so much of the mass market stuff is soulless.

And that observation is shared by many, so we cluster abroad.

The mass market stuff isn't soulless. All it is just an expression of vanity and selfishness.

Vanity brings out the chicks into those slutty outfits. Selfishness fuels what these raver chicks at mass market, debauchery filled fuckfests known as festivals qualify as their "love" and the "love" their feeling. "Peace, love, unity, respect" my ass.

I join in because I want to rail a bitch in the woods while doped out on molly and losing half my mind. What separates me from them is that atleast I'm honest about it.











Granted I like the music too .

This is a dream of mine. Molly sex = unreal, especially after being outside and dancing your butt off all day.
Thanks for the advice, Iso rudebwoy, and azulsombra

Post: #5480

no go. Heres where I think I blew it. After Downtown drinking we all went to the strip club that closes at 4am (bars close at 2 hear and the club stopped serving alcohol). I have some mini bar sized drinks in my pocket so me and the bachelorette girl are drinking those, dancing, and doing our own thing. I should have asked her to bounce right then and there.

Missed opportunity.

Post: #5481

Ugly God on Fame Game... Nothing we all didn't know already but its just so funny for a man who even calls himself UGLY haha. Women are ridiculous really.

Starts at 3:35 so you don't have listen to Vlad ramble.

Post: #5482

Fella's, any input on achieving clear skin? I have, what I'm assuming is razor bumps or discoloration on my "chin strap" area when I'm clean shaved. This has been ongoing over the years but it would be nice to finally achieve smooth clear skin if possible. I'll probably get a referral to the dermatologist, but IME it seems like they have little to no experience with black skin.

Post: #5483

(05-08-2017 11:33 AM)DimeBait Wrote:  Fella's, any input on achieving clear skin? I have, what I'm assuming is razor bumps or discoloration on my "chin strap" area when I'm clean shaved. This has been ongoing over the years but it would be nice to finally achieve smooth clear skin if possible. I'll probably get a referral to the dermatologist, but IME it seems like they have little to no experience with black skin.

Stop shaving, start using black soap, or get this:

Post: #5484

Thx Fam!
I was just youtubing and came across similarly consistent suggestions on a black soap regiment. I just ordered the following; (1) exfoliating brush .79 cnets, (2) Raw African Unrefined Black Soap $3.75, (3) Wahl Super Shaper dry shaver $60, and (4) Bump Patrol Aftershave $3.57.
My man below seems to have a solid routine I will incorporate

Post: #5485

(05-08-2017 11:33 AM)DimeBait Wrote:  Fella's, any input on achieving clear skin? I have, what I'm assuming is razor bumps or discoloration on my "chin strap" area when I'm clean shaved. This has been ongoing over the years but it would be nice to finally achieve smooth clear skin if possible. I'll probably get a referral to the dermatologist, but IME it seems like they have little to no experience with black skin.

(Oh wow I can finally post here... and on this thread)

Epiduo gel did the trick for me. Got it from a black dermatologist and used it throughout my early and mid 20s. Not as much as was recommended and only right after I shaved (and one time after) but it did the trick. I rock a beard mostly these days but even on my neck when I shave I no longer get the bumps and no longer use the gel. I'm in my late 20s now.

Post: #5486

I have the Andis shaver, pro series that the barber's use.

Bump patrol makes good products, I also use the shave gel for when I clean my dome.

I ran out recently, so I started using coconut oil after I shave my head. I too get a few bumps behind my ears, if I don't shave properly.

Post: #5487

(05-08-2017 01:13 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I have the Andis shaver, pro series that the barber's use.

Bump patrol makes good products, I also use the shave gel for when I clean my dome.

I ran out recently, so I started using coconut oil after I shave my head. I too get a few bumps behind my ears, if I don't shave properly.

Yea man, I've been hearing some good things about coconut oil. I'm going to pick some up as well.

Post: #5488

Coconut oil can be used for so many things, I use it on my body and you can cook with it.

The brand I get is $2.97 at Walmart, which makes it a bit cheaper than Bump Patrol.

As we all know, black skin is very sensitive. If you can go an extra day or so without shaving it helps it in the long run.

I have the dark area under my chin, I think they call it hyper pigmentation. There is a laser treatment for it, I cannot be bothered to pay the money and go through the process.

Post: #5489

So once again I know this is a Black Man thread, but I figured I'd bring something I'm experiencing with a Black woman to you guys to see what your take is. I don't think this is something where race is even really a factor and it is more a game issue overall, but I wanted your take.

I met a Cameroonian girl recently and got her number. If you don't find Black women attractive but are still a fair guy, you'd have to at least rate her a 7.5. In my book, since I love all races of women, she is an 8.5 at a minimum. This is the second woman from Cameroon that I've gotten a number from and moved forward with, and so far they seem to have the best attitudes of any African women I've spoken to. The first one was last year and didn't result in a lay because of a few factors, but I could have turned it into a friendship and used tortoise game if I had patience and wasn't moving to a different city.

We first met early last week during me day gaming and we had a 10-15 minute conversation in the store before she asked me to walk her around as she shopped and I ejected. I waited about three days before texting her. She responded quickly by text and immediately called me. She has called me every night since and I always have to cut the conversation short because the shortest one has been about 40 minutes long.

My issues, or what I am seeing as red flags are the following, and I'm not sure how others would view this. By the way I am making it a point to be more patient with women, whereas in the past I always rushed and pressured them for sex, and I just want to learn as much as possible from every woman I meet regardless of whether I get the notch and/or flag or not.

- She keeps mentioning going to church and makes it seem like a big part of her life. She even asked me to get up early and get dressed to go to church with her yesterday, but I pushed it back. I have no problem with going to church and other people's religions, although I don't practice a religion myself but do believe in God.
- She speaks in a very sweet and gentle way, but she is extremely opinionated and judgmental. She makes it seem like she knows exactly what she is looking for beyond anything I've seen from a woman before. My parents come from a Mid Eastern country and I joked with her about taking her there and how they love black women, and she immediately she would never go to a Muslim country. It was a joke, but damn, not even to visit? There are many more examples of her being even more judgmental, but you get my point.
- She mentions marriage but more so having children and a family A LOT. She has even asked me about how my family feels about black women, would I want a mixed baby, and other things like will your parents live with you when you get married.

There is a lot more, but for now I'll leave it at that.

Is this girl trying to hubby or LTR me up, or is she just really demanding or both? Again, she is beyond sweet with the way she acts, but ruthless with what she wants.

Post: #5490

What are you looking for?

If it is just a lay, then I would move onto the next low hanging fruit target.

Post: #5491

(05-08-2017 01:38 PM)StackGsMan Wrote:  My issues, or what I am seeing as red flags are the following, and I'm not sure how others would view this. By the way I am making it a point to be more patient with women, whereas in the past I always rushed and pressured them for sex, and I just want to learn as much as possible from every woman I meet regardless of whether I get the notch and/or flag or not.

- She keeps mentioning going to church and makes it seem like a big part of her life. She even asked me to get up early and get dressed to go to church with her yesterday, but I pushed it back. I have no problem with going to church and other people's religions, although I don't practice a religion myself but do believe in God.
- She speaks in a very sweet and gentle way, but she is extremely opinionated and judgmental. She makes it seem like she knows exactly what she is looking for beyond anything I've seen from a woman before. My parents come from a Mid Eastern country and I joked with her about taking her there and how they love black women, and she immediately she would never go to a Muslim country. It was a joke, but damn, not even to visit? There are many more examples of her being even more judgmental, but you get my point.
- She mentions marriage but more so having children and a family A LOT. She has even asked me about how my family feels about black women, would I want a mixed baby, and other things like will your parents live with you when you get married.

There is a lot more, but for now I'll leave it at that.

Is this girl trying to hubby or LTR me up, or is she just really demanding or both? Again, she is beyond sweet with the way she acts, but ruthless with what she wants.

bruh

None of those things are red flags

What's her phone number

Post: #5492

I agree with Rudebwoy.. it depends on what you are looking forward.

Taking race out of the equation completely this girl sounds horrible for me in a LTR.

-I hate opinionated and judgmental people.. If she does it to other people what makes you think she won't start doing it to you?

-She said she would NEVER go to a Muslim country.. What kind of close minded ignorant shit is that. You might not be a fan of their ways but damn.

Post: #5493

Lol. Fuck their countries. Biggest hypocrites on the planet.

Post: #5494

Other than Dubai (UAE) I haven't met many western girls that want to visit a Muslim country.

I was talking to some chick recently, she was telling me about a guy friend that moved to Saudi for a good job opportunity. I asked her if she would move there and she replied "not a chance".

Post: #5495

Newandimproved here. Finally got my posting privileges. Been reading (all 200+ pages) of this thread over the last month. Love the thoughts and insights being shared on here so I thought I would introduce myself.

I'm a really late bloomer (didn't lose my v card til well into my 20s). Struggled with crippling social anxiety but eventually found therapy and then game. Probably been seriously gaming or 2-3 years. Had a pretty solid upbringing and looks too. Missed out on a lot of opps back in the day merely because of lack of self esteem and inability to read signs. I guess I just struggled being myself in this world, part of which no doubt has to do with race.

That's why I love the travel theme of this post. Recently took a trip down to SD where me, the unapologetically nerdy and quirky me, really struggled to "land." San Diego's a cool, small and liberal city. But I feel like it's tough to be an outlier. There's just not that much culture and as such, whether you're white or black or whatever, you're pretty much put into a box. Meanwhile, in the two major cities where I live (and grew up) I feel like I'm killing it now.

I consider myself high intermediate early advanced now. I've been doing pretty well with online dating (Tinder and Hinge... Bumble not so much) so I'd be happy to share some thoughts.

Finally, as to whether race is a hinderance in game, I tend to err on the side that it's not. Don't get my wrong, I'm very racially aware and political and have seen some of my closest friends resort to the lowest common denominator when times are tough. But I also don't believe in giving white people (or anyone else) too much credit. If a girl's attracted, she's attracted. I'm not saying she'll marry you, but depending on your level of game, you will be able to hop aboard for the ride.

Post: #5496

(05-08-2017 01:44 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  What are you looking for?

If it is just a lay, then I would move onto the next low hanging fruit target.

I am primarily looking for increased experience with women and the increase in game that entails. After that my priority is flags, followed by notches. I'm not saying all I want with this girl is to just get laid, but I don't plan on setting up any marriages or LTRs any time soon. Another goal is to see how easily I can get laid without spending too much money (talking about day game and dates that come from that here). My goal is to spend no more than $100 on a girl before I get laid, excluding hotel rooms.

Part of my learning process is to stop being rushed to get laid with a girl. I used to push for sex by the first date. Now I want to take it slower. I think I'll give this girl up to 5-7 dates at a max before I throw down the ultimatum of sex or separation (I know girls are not fans of pressure and ultimatums).

(05-08-2017 01:54 PM)frenchcorporation Wrote:  bruh

None of those things are red flags

What's her phone number

Look, if you teach me French so I can impress all these French speaking African girls I meet you can have their numbers, but only as sloppy seconds after me.

I saw your post earlier today and thought about it, and I think you're right. They aren't necessarily red flags and in fact might be better seen as signs that she is very interested. I just don't appreciate entirely appreciate the way she thinks, and she has said she is a "good girl" many times. I don't want to go on tons of dates and be left with a marriage or no poosy ultimatum. That is what I meant by red flags.

(05-08-2017 04:30 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  I agree with Rudebwoy.. it depends on what you are looking forward.

Taking race out of the equation completely this girl sounds horrible for me in a LTR.

-I hate opinionated and judgmental people.. If she does it to other people what makes you think she won't start doing it to you?

-She said she would NEVER go to a Muslim country.. What kind of close minded ignorant shit is that. You might not be a fan of their ways but damn.

Kirdiesel, you are one of the members of this forum that I try to read when you post in any thread that I see. Others in this thread include Rudebwoy, Moma, WIA, and some others.

You're older than me from what I remember, but I can identify with your mentality.

I am going to see where this thing goes with her, but I definitely am not considering a LTR or anything like that even though she's about an 8-9 in my eyes.

I totally agree about what you said about the Muslim country thing. I was just joking about taking her and wouldn't care if her or any other girl would want to go. But the issue is this. If you marry a guy and love him, you still wouldn't want to see where his roots are from and see his family? Not even once? I totally agree with why many people aren't big fans of Muslim countries, and I don't practice Islam myself and neither do my parents, but god damn. That's like me marrying an African-American girl and refusing to eat soul food even once for the rest of my life. How close minded can someone be.

(05-08-2017 05:01 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  Lol. Fuck their countries. Biggest hypocrites on the planet.

When I first read this post I thought of a lot of things I'd like to say to you. The only reason I won't type all that out is out of respect for black members of this forum whose words I appreciate.

Let me say this though, if Middle Easterners are the biggest hyprocrites in the world and "fuck their countries", then black people have to be a close #2. Your people aren't all sweet little victims either. Racists call you monkey and us sand monkeys, meaning we are the same shit. Walking out of Africa the only way you can go is through the Middle East.

By the way, you remind me of those guys that call you you know whats in private or online and shit their pants around black people in person. Walk in front of a speeding bus assclown.

(05-08-2017 06:14 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Other than Dubai (UAE) I haven't met many western girls that want to visit a Muslim country.

I was talking to some chick recently, she was telling me about a guy friend that moved to Saudi for a good job opportunity. I asked her if she would move there and she replied "not a chance".

I don't blame them, but as I described above this situation is different. I am talking about if a chick legit wants to marry you (not saying this particular girl wants to marry me) and she wouldn't want to even visit where you descend from ONCE.

I have met many chicks that like Middle Eastern guys but wouldn't want to visit the region or are at least hesitant.

I also know a white American born guy that thinks that going to SEA for girls or really for anything other then just seeing the sites if and only if he has a lot of time and money to do so is absolutely stupid. He once told me he'd rather sleep with one white girl than 50 SEA girls, and he doesn't even like white girls that much. This is the same guy that has flown to South America several times partly with the goal of getting laid.

People are entitled to their opinions, but in my very humble opinion it is retarded to not want to experience the entire world, especially the places that you have some sort of connection to. I want to see every country, and although maybe I won't, I can't imagine being with a girl that thinks my idea is ludicrous.

Post: #5497

Good attempt at shaming but I stand by my position and no amount of shaming tactics will sway me.

When it comes to xenophobia, misogyny and racism few, if any places come close to the largery Muslim Middle East.

Post: #5498

(05-08-2017 11:42 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  Good attempt at shaming but I stand by my position and no amount of shaming tactics will sway me.

When it comes to xenophobia, misogyny and racism few, if any places come close to the largery Muslim Middle East.

No worries, I wasn't trying to sway you. Unless you mean trying to sway you in front of a speeding bus.

It's funny that an utter xenphobic misogynistic racist that is openly hating another race is calling Middle Eastern people xenophobic, misogynistic, and racist. I'm sure you came to that conclusion by spending a lot of time in the Middle East. Just like I know everything about SEA by meeting a handful of Southeast Asians and visiting there exactly zero times.

The parts of the Middle East that I know actually LOVE foreign people. I can't recall a genocide that has occured in the Middle East in about a century, but I do recall Rwanda. I did read, however, that it was the Middle Eastern people that caused the Hutu and Tutsi to go wild.

It was also the Middle Eastern slaves in America that were sent back to Liberia and used the tactics they learned from the Americans to enslave as many Liberians as possible.

It is also Middle Eastern comedians that spend 70% of their time on stage making fun of white people.

Now I can see why you hate Middle Eastern people so much. I think you win the race baiter of the year award, or maybe what I should say is master baiter, because you certainly are a jackoff.

Post: #5499

Respectfully, please take that shit elsewhere. This not the forum for that discussion.

Post: #5500

(05-09-2017 01:06 AM)DimeBait Wrote:  Respectfully, please take that shit elsewhere. This not the forum for that discussion.

No problemo! I ain't even mad.

TDK