Post: #5451

Anyone here have a datasheet or first hand experience from a brown and black mix country like Trinidad, Guyana, Mauritius?

Post: #5452

I do, djemba. I went there (Trinidad) for four days a few years ago.

Post: #5453

(04-24-2017 11:35 AM)Iso Wrote:  

(04-24-2017 11:23 AM)Mufasa Wrote:  Hey how do you game a bachelorette party?

In my experience thus far they its the worst group of girls to game: the are just cockblocking each other competitively all nite. Austin apparently is one of the big bachelorette party destinations (or thats what they keep telling me).

Don't waste your time.

(04-26-2017 01:47 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

(04-24-2017 12:09 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

(04-24-2017 11:23 AM)Mufasa Wrote:  Hey how do you game a bachelorette party?

In my experience thus far they its the worst group of girls to game: the are just cockblocking each other competitively all nite. Austin apparently is one of the big bachelorette party destinations (or thats what they keep telling me).

Actually this is the same in Germany.

I really don't understand why EVERY SINGLE group of girls do this and the attitude transcends continents.

Cosign.

The only time I could see bachelorette game working is if you snipe ONE chick out. Grab her as she's leaving the bathroom and get her digits within 2 minutes. Something that gets her out of the group dynamic.

Done some more research. Being in a bachelor party works--maybe just saying you're in a bachelor party works as well?
Having a mass group of guys (don't have to know each other) interact with them all worked as well.

@Iso you are right but it just seems too much of a gold mine. A group of girls low key hating on their friend for getting married and feeling sexually competitive. Ive opened the groups and they are receptive but after the open is when the cockblockery is unleashed.

(04-27-2017 12:58 PM)frenchcorporation Wrote:  

(04-27-2017 09:09 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  @Darkknight - it isn't over.

She will unblock him within 3 months, guaranteed.

Im taking the under on this one

Post: #5454

(04-25-2017 07:52 AM)frenchcorporation Wrote:  Also I got knocked the fuck out but I cant remember how (probably fell over), vaguely remember walking the street with my clothes soaked in blood, then being in a hospital, (the doctor did a really bad job on the stitches, had it redone when I came back to England) & then the next thing I remember is waking up in the hotel.

Ummmmm WTF?!?!

Care to elaborate? Were you jumped? Were you beat up and robbed? Does stuff like this usually happen to you when you drink?

Post: #5455

(04-25-2017 12:22 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  Question on avoiding being put into "provider" category.

By no means am I wealthy, but I carry myself well, dress my ass off, drive a decent enough whip and have a nice bachelor pad. I keep seeing a reoccurring trend where bishes will say something like "I just wish I can meet someone who doesn't just want to fuck me," or some variation thereof. I'm so tired of having the "golden poossy talk" with bishes where I have to explain how their vagina is just one of many and holds no special power over me. Of course, experience and conventional wisdom tells me to plow through this ASD behavior, but hearing this shit turns me off like a lamp and I don't even bother trying to escalate and usually never call again. I hate wasting my time on them.
Should I start dressing down and parking my whip around the corner?

I almost never tell women (Non social circle, non business contact. Rando girl I meet at the beach, bar or club) what I really do for a living. I always tell them something that will disqualify me from LTR in their heads. When they ask me what I do for a living I pretend to get a little anxious and apprehensive. Then I ask her. "Are you judgemental?" Which they always say "No." I ask again "Are you sure you are not judgmental?" They say "No" again. If I am alone I tell I am a manager at a male escort company. If I am with one of my boys (we have a routine worked out) I tell them I am a producer of Porn films and we met on a set. Telling girls stuff like this does two things. 1. She instantly disqualifies you as LTR material / provider frame. 2. This quickly opens the door to sexual talk. Specifically her fantasies. Your goal is to get her to talk about her wildest sexual experiences and fantasies. P.S. no matter what she says you cannot be judgemental!! Remember you just told her you work in the sex industry sooooo No Judgements!!!

Post: #5456

Men! I just wanted to thank you guys for the advice.

I was in south east London last night with my Nigerian friend to watch the Joshua vs Klitschko fight. Seeing the brothers show such solidarity areally highlighted how important it is to have brothers on your side. It really was a great night to see so many brothers drinking together, smiling and sporting a fellow brother.

Not many people have our backs, so we gotta make damn sure we cover/support our own.

TDK

( I best not get banned for this post)

P.S I'm over that girl. I'm glad I got offended and voiced my displeasure once I heard about the racist family instead of being quiet and enjoying the pussy. I have too much pride for that.Dimebait, your post was legendary. Sheep farmer! Pedigree!

Post: #5457

"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you,"

Post: #5458

One of the hottest tall girls I've seen last night. 6'1, white, tanned skinned, could twerk like she needed to make that money. At some point we're dancing I ask her if she's a volleyball player. I'm right, I know volleyball booties like the back of my hand. I'm definitely in to smash this chick....GOOD THING ITS A BACHELORETTE PARTY!!

Chick started cockblocking her friends like a NHL goalie. FML

Edit: she was definitely the most sober one. Add to the list these girls need to be liquored up to distort their cockblock efficiency

Post: #5459

(04-30-2017 01:03 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  One of the hottest tall girls I've seen last night. 6'1, white, tanned skinned, could twerk like she needed to make that money. At some point we're dancing I ask her if she's a volleyball player. I'm right, I know volleyball booties like the back of my hand. I'm definitely in to smash this chick....GOOD THING ITS A BACHELORETTE PARTY!!

Chick started cockblocking her friends like a NHL goalie. FML

Edit: she was definitely the most sober one. Add to the list these girls need to be liquored up to distort their cockblock efficiency

Post: #5460

(04-29-2017 12:42 PM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(04-25-2017 07:52 AM)frenchcorporation Wrote:  Also I got knocked the fuck out but I cant remember how (probably fell over), vaguely remember walking the street with my clothes soaked in blood, then being in a hospital, (the doctor did a really bad job on the stitches, had it redone when I came back to England) & then the next thing I remember is waking up in the hotel.

Ummmmm WTF?!?!

Care to elaborate? Were you jumped? Were you beat up and robbed? Does stuff like this usually happen to you when you drink?

I wasnt robbed, had all my stuff on me, which leads me to believe I probably fell over, but I have zero recollection of how it happened so I cant be sure

And this incident was the first time i was actually injured on a night out

I have a cool scar now though, silver lining and all that

Post: #5461

(04-30-2017 02:23 PM)frenchcorporation Wrote:  

(04-29-2017 12:42 PM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(04-25-2017 07:52 AM)frenchcorporation Wrote:  Also I got knocked the fuck out but I cant remember how (probably fell over), vaguely remember walking the street with my clothes soaked in blood, then being in a hospital, (the doctor did a really bad job on the stitches, had it redone when I came back to England) & then the next thing I remember is waking up in the hotel.

Ummmmm WTF?!?!

Care to elaborate? Were you jumped? Were you beat up and robbed? Does stuff like this usually happen to you when you drink?

I wasnt robbed, had all my stuff on me, which leads me to believe I probably fell over, but I have zero recollection of how it happened so I cant be sure

And this incident was the first time i was actually injured on a night out

I have a cool scar now though, silver lining and all that

Dam bro crazy! Let us know what you were drinking so I can avoid that!!!

Post: #5462

(04-30-2017 04:06 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  "Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you,"

This is pretty much the dark truth of it all. It was an uncomfortable truth for a while but now I see it. It isn't as bad as I thought it was gonna be though. it's liberating in its own way.

Post: #5463

Summer looks

http://us.asos.com/men/vacation/cat/?cid...p%7csummer

Post: #5464

Scenario: You're in line at the grocery store about to check out. you open the cashier, an older man and the bagger, a young lady. your commentary on on the sweets that they offer near the register is interesting enough to get a response out of both of them.

Older man responds, girl responds, three way banter. Bag girl offers to walk your cart to your car.

Game-on?

Personally I say yes because grocery people literally NEVER offer to push my cart out. Ususally they help old people / women. And the girl was cute sooo...

Anyways, we go outside, we're chatting about the store when somehow the girl ends up telling me that her age (18) and that she sneaks out to go to parties.

I play along and say some bullshit along the lines of: "I'm not surprised. Any girl that likes Kir Kats is sneaky. I don't trust them."

She laughed and then said she doesn't sneak out all the time. So at this point we're at my car, and I just wasn't sure how to proceed.

I think I should have asked for her more details regarding her situation. Should I have asked when she gets off work, or would it have been better to simply ask for the number?

I didn't want to ask for the number because I have enough contacts in my phone, and it didn't seem like a strong lead because she wasn't really asking me any personal questions.

I didn't think escalating by touching her would have been appropriate either. The social context was that this is just some grocer that's helping me with my bags, didn't seem appropriate to do a shoulder rub or touch her arm. What do y'all think?

Bottom line, I hesitated, she stuck around for a little bit waiting for me to say something else, so she went back to work. Easy out for her.

Not the ideal situation, but I figure there is something to learn from it. Or someone could share one of their grocery store conquests.

Game on brothas.

Post: #5465

(05-02-2017 07:16 PM)BasketBounce Wrote:  Scenario: You're in line at the grocery store about to check out. you open the cashier, an older man and the bagger, a young lady. your commentary on on the sweets that they offer near the register is interesting enough to get a response out of both of them.

Older man responds, girl responds, three way banter. Bag girl offers to walk your cart to your car.

Game-on?

Personally I say yes because grocery people literally NEVER offer to push my cart out. Ususally they help old people / women. And the girl was cute sooo...

Anyways, we go outside, we're chatting about the store when somehow the girl ends up telling me that her age (18) and that she sneaks out to go to parties.

I play along and say some bullshit along the lines of: "I'm not surprised. Any girl that likes Kir Kats is sneaky. I don't trust them."

She laughed and then said she doesn't sneak out all the time. So at this point we're at my car, and I just wasn't sure how to proceed.

I think I should have asked for her more details regarding her situation. Should I have asked when she gets off work, or would it have been better to simply ask for the number?

I didn't want to ask for the number because I have enough contacts in my phone, and it didn't seem like a strong lead because she wasn't really asking me any personal questions.

I didn't think escalating by touching her would have been appropriate either. The social context was that this is just some grocer that's helping me with my bags, didn't seem appropriate to do a shoulder rub or touch her arm. What do y'all think?

Bottom line, I hesitated, she stuck around for a little bit waiting for me to say something else, so she went back to work. Easy out for her.

Not the ideal situation, but I figure there is something to learn from it. Or someone could share one of their grocery store conquests.

Game on brothas.

Ask for her number and tell her you know this cool party you wanna invite her to.

Post: #5466

When you see a black dude with exquisite taste in white women

Post: #5467

Also, don't mess with MyDetroitPlayers

Post: #5468

@BB - 18 year old girls want to drink and have fun.

If you didn't want her number, then tell her to take yours because you left your phone at home. I would assume her walking you to your car was a strong IOI.

You don't need to know her details, she has already told you she likes to sneak out and have "fun". You can find out about what chocolate bar she likes later on.

I generally don't touch girls until I am behind closed doors, then I am a Octopus.

Post: #5469

(05-03-2017 07:56 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Also, don't mess with MyDetroitPlayers

I wouldn't be surprised if this was in response him molesting someone.

Bishop Earl Ray vs. Bishop Manuel Cruz






That poossy don't belong to you, you renting it

Post: #5470

WEEKEND REPORT:

So fellas I just spent a second weekend in Antwerp and Brussels - Belgium.

I am there for work once a month so I have decided to mix game and work together. The first weekend there I had a Tinder date with a blonde I previously mentioned but that didnt end up working out (couldnt close her) and this was my second weekend with actual time in the field.

Friday night - Brussels - Bloody Louis

I drove down from Antwerp to Brussels which is about a 45 minute drive. I found this club on Facebook called Bloody Louis. I use Facebook's discover feature to find out what events are going on in each city and then check out the attendee list to see what kinds of girls are going and decide from there. So this place was a hip hop club and the list looked solid so I decided to make the drive.

Coming from Cologne, Germany to that I have never seen so many immigrants (Africans and Arabs) in one place since NYC, London or Paris. I totally expect that when I go to these cities but had no idea Brussels would be like that. A little reverse culture shock if you will. So I had some trouble getting in because I was alone and had to come back in 1 hour and upon showing my passport the door guy finally let me in. Lots of guys there too... I would say 3 guys for every 1 girl. The place and music were fantastic but found the girls to be lacking a bit. Quality just not high enough. I spent most of the night just circling the dancefloor and opening a girl here and there. Nothing really panned out until I saw this brunette with light eyes staring at me from the bar. I immediately walked over there and opened her with a simple opener and things took off from there. Turns out shes a 19 year old fashion designer (HB 8+) from the area of Rotterdam (Dutch girl) and is just there for the night. We get to vibing some more and shes there with a friend of hers and they are both single. Her friend wants a guy but can't find one and shes super interested in me. I talk to her friend a bit and disarm the whole situation and now her friend is cheering both of us on.

This of course works well in my favor and we end up making out at the club and she pushing me to squeeze her tits and ass. I oblige a little bit and she starts asking me about my logistics. Unfortunately I have a place in Antwerp 45 minutes away and shes staying in a hotel with her friend and checking out 11am (which is in just a few hours) FUCK IM STUCK!.... So I stay with my girl and her friend is running around trying to find a guy that shes interested in with no luck. The the other brothers there just couldnt cut it...

So the night winds down and I end up driving them back to the hotel and my girl starts running out of gas as soon as we hit the car. Shit is NOT going down. I make a small/sly attempt to see if I could park the car and come up with them but it was apparent that it wasn't happening and my girl and I exchange numbers and plan to talk again later. I then drive back home to Antwerp like ugh.

Mistake made:

Monday was a holiday in both Belgium and Germany. I didn't think to ask my girl if there was a holiday in the Netherlands as well and make a date RIGHT THERE AND THEN for Sunday night. Rotterdam is about 1 hour and 15 minutes from Antwerp.. I realize this on Saturday and text her a normal message (not to seem too thirsty at first) but she doesn't respond at all. I leave the whole thing alone until last night and decided to send her this message. Warning bad game in here:

"Never heard from you. Guess you lost interest. It was nice meeting you at Bloody Louie and good luck with your fashion thing. You keep grinding on yours and ill keep grinding on mine"

She responds

"Sorry for my late response. Right now I am very busy with work. I need to make some priorities. Its also the MILES I am thinking about. But I wish you all the best. Thanks for the nice evening"

So now we are up to date and I haven't responded to this message yet. Shes interested but the distance between us is turning her off. Cologne is 2.5 hours from her.

I am there (in her area) once a month for work (could be more if i had help) and could actually use her help for my business since its fashion related and she knows fashion. In addition i COULD REALLY USE someone in her location. My business is running extremely well and I think she could help me throw some gas on the fire.

I am hesitant to try this angle because I don't want this to turn into a business relationship (don't want to mix pussy and business) but sometimes if it makes dollars it makes sense!

What do you fellas say?

Post: #5471

A) What you did right?

Handled the female obstacle

B) What you did wrong? Invested in something without a clear plan.

Said it before, get your logistics straight, and her logistics before you start to put the mack down.

You could have figured out their situation in 5 minutes and then moved on to greener pastures.

- make sure your logistics are tight before you go out.
- see the chick
- step over
- get her attention
- open the conversation
- GET HER LOGISTICS

a) the logistics are good - game on
b) they're bad - get the contact information, and FRIENDZONE them, before they friend zone you.

Option C - bad logistics - go for the bang in the toilet!

WIA

Post: #5472

(05-04-2017 05:56 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  A) What you did right?

Handled the female obstacle

B) What you did wrong? Invested in something without a clear plan.

Said it before, get your logistics straight, and her logistics before you start to put the mack down.

You could have figured out their situation in 5 minutes and then moved on to greener pastures.

- make sure your logistics are tight before you go out.
- see the chick
- step over
- get her attention
- open the conversation
- GET HER LOGISTICS

a) the logistics are good - game on
b) they're bad - get the contact information, and FRIENDZONE them, before they friend zone you.

Option C - bad logistics - go for the bang in the toilet!

WIA

Archie it was late in the night bro and and it was either that or go home completely empty handed. I don't feel that I lost chances with other girls because of her. It was a sausage fest in there and I had to make something out of nothing.

1. I had no logistics. I was staying 45 minutes away and I went to Brussels for the first time just to check it out. I didn't know what to expect. I didn't want to invest $70 on a hotel room just to check out a place less than a hour away.

2. You do have a point there. After finding out the bad logistics maybe I should have friendzoned her and possibly make an attempt later when the logistics were correct. Now I just blew the whole fucking thing up.

You are right... I gotta get that shit in my head.. no escalation without a proper plan. No Plan No Escalation. For some reason my brain said move now and figure the rest of the shit out later.

My brain said ok ill start now.. make a good impression on her.. make my sexual intentions known... Call her up later.. get the logistics right.. drive to Rotterdam whenever and close her then.

C - The toliet wasn't possible because in Europe there are bathroom attendants everywhere the bathroom was crowded as fuck too.


In summary, I played myself by escalating in the nightclub when I should have played it cool, took the number and made a move when logistics were right.

Im gonna bang this into my head NOW... No escalation without a clear plan!

I think this is the same shit that cost me that big titty blonde sister a while back.


Why do I feel like the game has changed somehow? When I was younger this was part of the procedure.

Kiss close, number close, make intentions known... bad logistics? No problem... get number and follow up later. Good logistics? - Move forward toward SNL.

This whole lay off the girl completely kinda blows my mind for some reason.

Post: #5473

When you're younger and the girls are younger, there are different expectations, said and unsaid.

With young girls, college students and the like, a college guy can get into some shenanigans.

A guy my age talking to an age appropriate chick, can bring her back to the college days with age regression.

But when you got a decade plus on a chick, you've got to overcome the mental dissonance on your end and hers IN A SITUATION LIKE DESCRIBED.

Before some of you fuck nuts get carried away thinking a man in his 40's can't regularly fuck teenagers without being in the provider role.

There is something very specific about this no logistics/time running out scenario with age disparity and an obstacle that has to be at least *considered*, and not just pushed through like a mouth breather.

But now you know. Anytime I'm abroad, I want to hear hip hop. EDM and the like grate on my ears. We know that stuff started in Baltimore, Detroit, Chicago and New York - by largely black and Latino producers, djs, and artists - but for me, so much of the mass market stuff is soulless.

And that observation is shared by many, so we cluster abroad.

Sausage fest is bad not because of competition, but too many guys scares away women.

I've said too much

WIA

Post: #5474

(05-02-2017 07:16 PM)BasketBounce Wrote:  Scenario: You're in line at the grocery store about to check out. you open the cashier, an older man and the bagger, a young lady. your commentary on on the sweets that they offer near the register is interesting enough to get a response out of both of them.

Older man responds, girl responds, three way banter. Bag girl offers to walk your cart to your car.

Game-on?

Personally I say yes because grocery people literally NEVER offer to push my cart out. Ususally they help old people / women. And the girl was cute sooo...

Anyways, we go outside, we're chatting about the store when somehow the girl ends up telling me that her age (18) and that she sneaks out to go to parties.

I play along and say some bullshit along the lines of: "I'm not surprised. Any girl that likes Kir Kats is sneaky. I don't trust them."

She laughed and then said she doesn't sneak out all the time. So at this point we're at my car, and I just wasn't sure how to proceed.

I think I should have asked for her more details regarding her situation. Should I have asked when she gets off work, or would it have been better to simply ask for the number?

I didn't want to ask for the number because I have enough contacts in my phone, and it didn't seem like a strong lead because she wasn't really asking me any personal questions.

I didn't think escalating by touching her would have been appropriate either. The social context was that this is just some grocer that's helping me with my bags, didn't seem appropriate to do a shoulder rub or touch her arm. What do y'all think?

Bottom line, I hesitated, she stuck around for a little bit waiting for me to say something else, so she went back to work. Easy out for her.

Not the ideal situation, but I figure there is something to learn from it. Or someone could share one of their grocery store conquests.

Game on brothas.

If you are in the States especially you better check her I.D.


An "18 year old girl" could easily be 16 or 17. It doesn't matter how mature her speech, body or mannerisms are. I know, I know, she was employed at the grocery store but in many states 16 and 17 year olds have driver's licenses and are allowed to work low wage jobs after school. I know several teens that did those kinds of jobs in high school. She already said she sneaks out and lies to her parents, who is to say she isnt lying to you?

I'm not trying to be the Debbie Downer here but the difference between a 17 and 18 year old could be the difference between a fun bang or going in front of the judge in some places. Saying she lied about her age is NOT going to convince a jury in a worst case scenario.

Verify.

Post: #5475

(05-04-2017 08:27 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  But now you know. Anytime I'm abroad, I want to hear hip hop. EDM and the like grate on my ears. We know that stuff started in Baltimore, Detroit, Chicago and New York - by largely black and Latino producers, djs, and artists - but for me, so much of the mass market stuff is soulless.

And that observation is shared by many, so we cluster abroad.

The mass market stuff isn't soulless. All it is just an expression of vanity and selfishness.

Vanity brings out the chicks into those slutty outfits. Selfishness fuels what these raver chicks at mass market, debauchery filled fuckfests known as festivals qualify as their "love" and the "love" their feeling. "Peace, love, unity, respect" my ass.

I join in because I want to rail a bitch in the woods while doped out on molly and losing half my mind. What separates me from them is that atleast I'm honest about it.











Granted I like the music too .