Post: #26

She tells me she was raped or that her ex was "abusive". The last several women I spoke to (some of whom were over thirty) felt the need to tell me this for some reason. They were all sluts too.

Post: #27

Hearing a girl say that she "deserves" something.

Foul language. Nothing is more unattractive than when a girl swears like a sailor.

Post: #28

-Mostly guy friends
-Simping happening on her Facebook/Instagram(Don't confuse with lots of likes. The ones where guys don't comment but instead she just gets lots of likes are upper quality girls which the majority of guys think they can't get meaning low self esteem hottie wondering why she gets no comments or thirsties. Aka she is amazingly fair game/arm candy material where if you fuck her your status goes through the roof and the kind of girl I usually date).
-LTR hopping with Taylor Swiff level drama after every break up and her spreading rumors about exes.
-Queen mentality aka guys breaking their legs for her usually always followed by a beta simp or army of cute girl followers(they are fun to bend to your will but watch out for the drama after you dump them). If you fuck this type everyone below on the ladder will want your dick though. Great pump and dump material if you can avoid retribution.
-Hot girl with no friends period though simp followers. Major red flag.
-Claiming always how "traditional" she is
-Interested in helping the poor in Africa and bragging about it.
-Claiming to be great fuck buddy and letting her boyfriend sleep around.
-Claiming to be bi.
-Admits to masturbating to porn.
-Lots of selfies and only selfies on Facebook/Instagram with 15+ likes
-Outrageous dyed hair/dyes hair frequently(red is okay though)
-Claims to have been stalked and/or raped.
-Heavily interested in children(aka honey trap wants to be pregnant with your seed AVOID AT ALL COSTS because she will poke holes in your condoms).
-Admits freely when she lost her virginity.
-Claims low notch count on her own(multiply given number by 5).
-100 cock stare
-The crazy look in her eye.
-Gut feeling telling you to watch out. Always believe your gut.

Post: #29

Girl talking about rape.

Whatever it's true or not, whatever it happened or not, I don't care, if she talks about being involved with anything that touches to rape, I ditch her immediately. I don't want to end up with false charges because she isn't satisfied.

Post: #30

(12-15-2014 12:06 PM)Dr. Howard Wrote:  The other 'black widow' red flag is NO or few legitimate female friends. She has acquaintances but no longterm female friends...why? because she has back stabbed or boyfriend stolen too many times from those close to her.

Yeah this is clearly indicative of being a shitty person. Honestly I think it's related to the serial monogamist because this women forgets about all her friends while in a relationship, then once she's single she realizes she has no friends so that adds to the desperation of finding a man right away. Either that, or she just sucks so much that it drives any potential friends away.

That being said I'm sure a girl without many friends is great for ONS and bangs.

Post: #31

If she doesn't have a thigh gap.
If she doesn't drink coffee.

Post: #32

Freely talks about past relationships and past dates. Especially recent dates. Replies to texts mid conversation.

Post: #33

Excellent posts by the OP and Dr. Howard on serial monogamists aka (black widows), I've dealt with this kind of woman first hand, and they can just as bad as worse as your blatant raging slut types. There is a certain level of deception, manipulation, and cold calculation, that these women engage in, that is truly shady and fucked up.

A lot of guys touched on some good ones, but a glaring red flag I think a lot of people are neglecting, are girls whose group of friends almost all consists of wild party girls or raging sluts. There's the old saying "birds of a feather, flock together", in other words women tend to gravitate and make friends with other women who are similar to them.

Not to mention I think women are even more influenced by their peer groups than men, so if her friends are all partying doing MDMA and fucking new dudes, they will think that it's the "cool thing to do", or feel like they are missing out if "all their friends are having so much fun." Which translates to "I want to go out get fucked up and ride some new cock."

To kind of expand on what other guys have said, another red flag to pay attention to are girls who have a shit ton of "ex-boyfriends", if you've been seeing a girl for a few months and over that time she's casually mentioned a handful of different "exs" that's not a good sign. Not only has she taking many past dicks, but she has shown that she's "nexted" those dudes, which means she's not in very stable relationships, and probably isn't someone to bother getting serious with.

To take it a step further, a really big red flag is if a girl actively tries to avoid an ex, this could mean that she played or burned the guy real bad and doesn't want to face him. If she burned an ex in the past, you could be the next one to get burned by her in the future.

Post: #34

Personally, I like to shit test girls. For gold diggers I ask them when their birthday is and what they are up to for Valentines day. If they take the bait and ask for shit. That is a red flag.

Revealing clothing. Your clothes are an expression of your inner self. I like nothing more than a girl in a long dress.

If my gut screams slut. Red flag.

Post: #35

(12-15-2014 03:46 PM)Pride male Wrote:  If my gut screams slut. Red flag.

Sir, are you colorblind?

Post: #36

Most have been listed

-claims to have been abused
-music fests
-social media whore

Facebook is good for checking the latter two, I find the first can be solved with a few easy questions and a wrist check

Post: #37

(12-15-2014 03:37 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  Excellent posts by the OP and Dr. Howard on serial monogamists aka (black widows), I've dealt with this kind of woman first hand, and they can just as bad as worse as your blatant raging slut types. There is a certain level of deception, manipulation, and cold calculation, that these women engage in, that is truly shady and fucked up.

Just got done with a serial monogamist, or she got done with me-- in fact the first time she talked to me she mentioned dating "one at a time" , she didn't want me fucking other chicks, but you could tell she was used to monkey branching.

I was ready for getting ditched by her as she clearly was not able to love, but it was unpleasant as I am looking for an LTR.

Some others already mentioned: Any mention of rape-- it's not that I fear fake charges here as much here in Asia, although of course that's a nightmare, it's more like "She's claiming her boyfriend raped her, if she's really horny why wasn't she eager to fuck her boyfriend?"

Just shows too much conflict.

But the biggest are little signs of argumentativeness, hard to notice at first, attempts to control frame.

"Let's meet at the mall at 3"
"How about at the other mall at 4"

You'll later find she does this with every single thing you want to do.

tattoos-lack of concern for future ,plus bad taste and wanting to "rebel" and get attention for wrong things.

Here in Asia-- if she's on a dating site- most have a clear agenda of getting money for their families-- you are a work permit, not a person.

Post: #38

Tells lies. Curses like a drunk sailor.

Post: #39

Great lists so far. Owning a small dog is a huge red flag - usually signals high maintenance attention whore

Post: #40

if she doesnt do anal

Post: #41

(12-15-2014 03:37 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  Excellent posts by the OP and Dr. Howard on serial monogamists aka (black widows), I've dealt with this kind of woman first hand, and they can just as bad as worse as your blatant raging slut types. There is a certain level of deception, manipulation, and cold calculation, that these women engage in, that is truly shady and fucked up.

That's the thing, you never expect much from the raging slut besides a few bangs. The serial monogamist seems like girl friend material until you realize how manipulative and cunning she is and it's really all just rooted in severe self esteem and abandonment issues. Both types of girl deserve the same thing: a deep dicking several times and then nothing more.

Post: #42

(12-15-2014 03:37 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  Excellent posts by the OP and Dr. Howard on serial monogamists aka (black widows), I've dealt with this kind of woman first hand, and they can just as bad as worse as your blatant raging slut types. There is a certain level of deception, manipulation, and cold calculation, that these women engage in, that is truly shady and fucked up.

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To take it a step further, a really big red flag is if a girl actively tries to avoid an ex, this could mean that she played or burned the guy real bad and doesn't want to face him. If she burned an ex in the past, you could be the next one to get burned by her in the future.

Agreed, an outright denial of an ex or a declaration that he is 'crazy' or 'abusive' is a red flag or 'spider sense tingler'

I had one girl who called her ex boyfriend's incessant texts and flowers a result of "he is crazy" when he had legitimate reason to be crazy because she was cheating on him and just went 'we're done' radio silence when a relationship with me was viable.

A chick who is pretending an ex is non existent is controlling the narrative.

Post: #43

Such good shit in this thread.

Another one I'll add: won't shut up about her expertise in whatever it is she does to me, especially after she intros the topic and I don't ask questions about it and she keeps rolling. Because I'm a PhD student I often hear women telling me how awesome they are in some subject or pursuit I don't care about. Bitch do I go telling you all the details of what I do and all the acclaim I get? No. You don't impress me by comparing your work to my work.

Post: #44

Any kind of drug dependence illegal or legal.

I'll definitely snoop a girl's pills. If she's on anti-depressants, psych (bipolar) meds, or has a painkiller habit it's a no go for me. Besides, opiates dry up the cooch.

Besides obvious daddy issues, any kind of serious parental conflict. Outright saying they dislike their parents while constantly fishing for your sympathy. It's especially bad if a latina or asian woman says stuff like this.

Lack of care or respect towards siblings. If she treats her siblings like shit guess who else she will try to treat like shit?

Workplace or school drama. If she complains a lot and always has shit going down with co-workers or peers then you know something is up.

History of breakup drama. Fighting with exes etc..

My new one: Girls who are really into the EDM scene. They really like random cock and drugs. If she can throw out DJ names and shit be wary.

Big fan of hip hop and rnb. Likes lots of random cock.

Post: #45

A lot of the suggested red flags require a fair amount of investigation.

How would you make finding these things out quick and practical?

WIA

Post: #46

(12-16-2014 11:10 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  A lot of the suggested red flags require a fair amount of investigation.

How would you make finding these things out quick and practical?

WIA

Practice good interviewing skills. Be non judgmental and open.
Example:
Girl drops a tidbit of a story about a tough time she went through a few years ago
Me: Oh yeah? what was challenging for you about that time?
Girl: blah blah blah
Me: Wow, sounds rough, so what'd you do?
Girl: blah blah
Me: Huh, so how'd it all turn out?
Girl: blah blah

Standard technique for cutting through bullshit. Ask them about a situation (or in the case of a girl you're dating wait for them to bring it up). Ask them some details about what they liked/didn't like, etc. Ask them what they did. Ask them how it turned out.

If someone is being honest with you then you'll have clear insight into how they approach life. If they're being shady the answers will clash and it becomes pretty obvious they're trying to hide something.

Do not tell a girl your red flags - that will either encourage her to do those things when she's mad at you or cause her to hide them from you. Never make her feel guilty or ashamed in the moment. Take some time away from her to make your judgements so you're not clouded by the interaction and then either keep her around or dump her simply and cleanly. Don't tell her why - just say it's not working out.

Post: #47

Red flags (in no particular order):

*Drug use (both prescribed and not).
*Smoking (I adjust this for European women).
*Tats and/or piercings.
*Ability (or not) to perform basic housekeeping tasks (cooking simple things, preparing a salad from scratch, basic cleaning). What does her car look like? If it looks like an apartment/trash can on wheels, not a good sign.
*Alcohol use. Is it excessive? Us she a black (or brown) out drunk?
*Ever been to rehab/mental hospital? For what? Still getting treated? If yes, what meds is she on?
*Does she read books (or even magazines), or is everything she "reads" just regurgitation on the Huffington Post?
*How often does she "go clubbin'/bar hoppin'"?
*How addicted to her smart phone/tablet is she? Does she look at it or keep it in her hand when she's with you?
*Come from a broken family? What's her relationship with her family?
*Excessive notch count.
*Had any STDs? Which one(s)?
*Wants raw dog fucking/internal blasting ASAP.
*How does she dress when she goes out? Does she put any effort into her appearance or is she a "wrinkled, dirty sweatshirt, sweatpants and Uggs" type?
*Does she ever ask what you want do/eat/drink/etc., or is it always about her? Does she take the initiative to "do stuff" with/for you?
*What's her social circle like? Old, established friends or "BFFs" from last week waiting in line at Starbucks? Ratio of guys to girls?
*Hobbies, interests (or lack of).
*Has she ever been out of (the country of her birth)?
*What's her degree in? How long did it take her to complete it? If it's in "Feminine Studies" or any other useless shit like that - bleh.
*Have her read aloud; can she? Is she literate? This effects her social skills tremendously.

These are off the top of my head. As always, use your gut and Red Pill wisdom to assess.

Post: #48

-Divorced parents / strained relationship with father
- Lack of impulse control (letting you cum inside when not on the pill / inability to walk away from that last donut)
- Narcissistic tendencies
- Lack of empathy / inability to place herself in others' shoes
- Sexual hangups / withholding sex / compartmentalizing sex acts

Post: #49

Anyone have experience with women who always watch horror/ supernatural flicks?

I'm getting to know a pretty attractive girl who I think I can hook up with....every time I ask her the latest movie she's seen...it's some horror or supernatural flick. Doesn't seem right...

Post: #50

(12-16-2014 08:29 PM)robreke Wrote:  Anyone have experience with women who always watch horror/ supernatural flicks?

I'm getting to know a pretty attractive girl who I think I can hook up with....every time I ask her the latest movie she's seen...it's some horror or supernatural flick. Doesn't seem right...

Honestly I'd much prefer this to the girl that screams at the top of her lungs every time something "scary" in a movie happens.