Post: #226

(01-14-2016 08:26 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

(01-14-2016 06:20 PM)XXL Wrote:  My way to find out is to watch how the girl reacts when some things go bad. Or really bad.

I love when a woman can stay relatively normal in a tough situation. It makes me feel like she's a part of the same team.

There's enough random problems to deal with every day. The last thing I need is a woman who goes crazy over some silly nonsense.

Agreed. Most girls shut down in bad situations. They don't know how to deal with problems or adversity in the slightest.

Once i see this in a girl i automatically next her in my mind, no point in trying to progress past that point.

They do shut down. They cannot follow a problem to it's logical conclusion. That's why a good relationship with the parents comes into play as most girls would prefer to take advice from their middle aged parents than me.

Post: #227

Echoing one of the most highlighted flags here, I've recently come to the conclusion that the "predominance of male friends" is the most toxic. I mean, is there really any limit to what kind of trouble this can lead to? I may very well start my first thread on this story, but it'd be a beast (and it's still amidst current events), but to offer an ultra-condensed version, I'd put some moves on literally the girl next door, day by day, as she kept showing up at my door. Ultimately got her onto the bed for some firm, but lightweight escalation, and periodically, she'd gently voice her boundaries, to which I'd pull back and re-engage momentarily. What would become her workhorse rationalization was this "oh, we're neighbors, this can't happen" business, and so the night was a stale-mate.

Still, not before the week was out she was back over here, and as we just chatted about whatever, she drops this horrifying bomb on me - all about how she has these "angels" that look after her, and initially thinking that this was some kind of religious connotation, she elaborates as to how she's referring to some kind of posse of guy friends who treat her like another dude (sigh), and who wouldn't hesitate in enacting violent retribution unto anyone whom they deemed as a threat to her virtue. Hearing this put me in a fog, it was so dreadful. I have to admit I was scared, like, "what the fuck did I rile up here?" Throughout our rather lengthy discussion I held my cool, but made it plain to her that she didn't have to play it like that. Merely expressing that she was uncomfortable and that my advances had gone their distance would've sufficed.

Essentially, at least potentially, an obsessed gaggle of ultra white-knight orbiters. Christ, even having more baggage than LAX, this chick still had droves of admirers. I wonder if these guys even fuckin' know about each other, but it was presented as if this was a consolidated coalition, bound by a dutiful sense of chivalry.

Again, might do a thread, as there's more to it than that, but this was the pinnacle.

- Guy friends
- Rivalries with chicks
- Estranged from her own children
- Allusions to a history of mega-drama of all flavors
- Ravenous for attention, validation, and all-out drama

Quite a lapse in my judgment, but looks like I caught it just in time.

Post: #228

One to "watch" in the future: the Apple Watch.

Like a stealth wrist-mounted iPhone, it will allow girls to clandestinely recieve offers of dick via Morse code vibrations directly into their wrist, while they're sitting across from you on a date slugging mimosas.

She won't be able to text back, but as young women are moving away from using English to communicate, instead preferring a primitive emoji pictogram language reminiscent of simplified Chinese, she will have programmed the device's accelerometer to interpret a rapid 45 degree left inclination of her forearm to send the reply:



It will truly be the go-to tool of the sophisticated 21st century ho.

Post: #229

(01-14-2016 08:26 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

(01-14-2016 06:20 PM)XXL Wrote:  My way to find out is to watch how the girl reacts when some things go bad. Or really bad.

I love when a woman can stay relatively normal in a tough situation. It makes me feel like she's a part of the same team.

There's enough random problems to deal with every day. The last thing I need is a woman who goes crazy over some silly nonsense.

Agreed. Most girls shut down in bad situations. They don't know how to deal with problems or adversity in the slightest.

Once i see this in a girl i automatically next her in my mind, no point in trying to progress past that point.

Um...where are you guys finding these girls who can stay focused and calm during tough/dramatic/emotional situations ?

If I had to "next" a girl every time she broke down crying or said a situation was "too much to handle" then I'd be nexting every single one of them.

The only females who can cope in these situations (female politicians and/or company bosses) can only do so because they have beta orbiters around them, either being emotional tampons, taking the blame, doing the hard or dirty work, or making sensible suggestions.

The only type of tough situations women are hard wired to deal with without any male help involve those with her own children.

Post: #230

Black (or ethnic) women with dyed hair (blonde etc).

Post: #231

Another red flag I haven't seen mentioned is the "yoga is life" girls. Not the ones who casually go to yoga a couple times a week, im talking about the ones who go to Bali to become a certified yoga instructor and post nonstop yoga selfies of them in different poses everyday. These are the most selfish, self absorbed, irrational, and often times slutty women.

Post: #232

(01-24-2016 11:37 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  

(01-14-2016 08:26 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

(01-14-2016 06:20 PM)XXL Wrote:  My way to find out is to watch how the girl reacts when some things go bad. Or really bad.

I love when a woman can stay relatively normal in a tough situation. It makes me feel like she's a part of the same team.

There's enough random problems to deal with every day. The last thing I need is a woman who goes crazy over some silly nonsense.

Agreed. Most girls shut down in bad situations. They don't know how to deal with problems or adversity in the slightest.

Once i see this in a girl i automatically next her in my mind, no point in trying to progress past that point.

Um...where are you guys finding these girls who can stay focused and calm during tough/dramatic/emotional situations ?

If I had to "next" a girl every time she broke down crying or said a situation was "too much to handle" then I'd be nexting every single one of them.

The only females who can cope in these situations (female politicians and/or company bosses) can only do so because they have beta orbiters around them, either being emotional tampons, taking the blame, doing the hard or dirty work, or making sensible suggestions.

The only type of tough situations women are hard wired to deal with without any male help involve those with her own children.

The next best thing is to look for whether a girl can calm down and get out of the way when you exert some leadership in a stressful situation. I've been seeing a gal for a while now whom I've noticed follows my frame pretty well - when I stay calm during a difficult situation, she calms down. When I put a frame on a situation, she falls into the frame without too much squealing. It's a good thing to look for.

Post: #233

Her being 25 yrs old. For some reason, for me, an unusually high proportion of 25 yr old chicks manifest cuntish behavior on the 1st (and only) date when compared to their 18-24 yr old peers similar in most things but age. Anyone else experience this?

Post: #234

Some red flags:

Single mom

'Nuff said. Single moms should always be taken with extreme caution because their first and foremost instinct is to provide for their kid, meaning she very well may be seeking out a "beta provider" as a source of income for her kids, not as a real lover

Girl who just broke up with a douchebag

Should also be taken with caution; is likely looking for a sweet, sensitive "rebound guy" at mommy or daddy's advice because she was just burned by a "bad boy" she was in love with, but within a few months she'll sober up and realize she was just "settling" and likely cheat (possibly with the same ex).

Any girl who requests favors or gifts

If she requests favors or gifts (ex. drinks, etc) she's either a golddigger or shit-testing; if a guy's been dating a girl for awhile there's no reason he can't buy her a gift but only on his own terms; asking someone to buy you a gift is bad manners

Post: #235

(01-24-2016 01:35 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  Black (or ethnic) women with dyed hair (blonde etc).

I want to hear the reason behind this.
Ive never dated anyone who dyed their hair blonde or some other random color. I just dont find it attractive.

But do tell..

Post: #236

(01-29-2016 11:59 AM)toejam Wrote:  

(01-24-2016 01:35 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  Black (or ethnic) women with dyed hair (blonde etc).

I want to hear the reason behind this.
Ive never dated anyone who dyed their hair blonde or some other random color. I just dont find it attractive.

But do tell..

As a general rule girls who dye their hair different colours show signs of not being happy with themselves, more so than the majority of the population.
Maybe they wished they were born white with blonde hair or maybe they are some kind of feminist/SJW type that doesn't conform to normal stereotypes and goes out of their way to make themselves look less attractive and to attract attention to themselves.

Post: #237

The following applies to the local brown women...

-Women with different colour weave (red, blonde, etc)

-Girls with gold in their teeth.

-Girls with fucked up ass English names (Happiness, Joy, Faith, Queen etc)

This is just a tell for low quality village ass.

Post: #238

If I had to pick just one flag it would be:

- Excessive time devoted to social media

Too much time on social media is a sign that a girl is self absorbed, secretive, a group thinker and gossip. This isn't a new signal, but just a technologically current signal. The social media whore had her compatriot in earlier techonological eras

2010s - iphone zombie
2000s - obsessive texter
1990s - AOL/Instant messenger zombie
1980s - Private phone line in her bedroom girl
1970s - Phone monopolizer, chain letter writer
1960s - Hangs out at beauty salon all day gossiping

The personality has always been the same, but the means of expression has been different. If a bitch invests her time in gossip and attention whoring she will be a drain on a man. I consider that to be a big red flag to me because a girl in that category can seem otherwise attracive as she invests a lot of time in her public persona, says 'the right things' and is often well put together.

The other red flags for crazy bitches, or sluts tend to be less deceptive for me. I don't have to dig through her phone to see bastard children, a cabinet full of pills, or being AMOG'd by one of her 'just a friend' male companions.

Post: #239

Absolutely, Doc. Goddamn, as I all ready stated, that dude-crew flag is grindin' me without mercy. Yeah sure, they're jus' lookin' out for her.

Post: #240

(12-25-2015 02:43 PM)brick tamland Wrote:  Doesn't seem to have a plan for her life
Lazy
Sleeps a lot
Has no drive to improve herself
Lies, big and small
Keeps in touch with former sex partners
Talks about exes
No ethics
Binge drinker
Thinks life is about getting away with dishonesty
Has quit varsity studies but complains about not having a career
Has a bad relationship with food (mood eating and over-esting )
Will leave her car or home in a state of disrepair, not fixing obvious problems
Addiction
Poor or non-existent relationship with parents
Absent father
Financial troubles or deep debt
Impulsive
Limited intellect
Has a past

You sir, very adequately just described my most recent ex girlfriend. I should have read this list beforehand, it would have saved me a lot of stress.

Post: #241

I'll just go with my number 1: A social media presence.

Post: #242

(02-02-2016 06:01 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

(01-29-2016 11:59 AM)toejam Wrote:  

(01-24-2016 01:35 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  Black (or ethnic) women with dyed hair (blonde etc).

I want to hear the reason behind this.
Ive never dated anyone who dyed their hair blonde or some other random color. I just dont find it attractive.

But do tell..

As a general rule girls who dye their hair different colours show signs of not being happy with themselves, more so than the majority of the population.
Maybe they wished they were born white with blonde hair or maybe they are some kind of feminist/SJW type that doesn't conform to normal stereotypes and goes out of their way to make themselves look less attractive and to attract attention to themselves.

^^Spot fucking on, man! Any beautiful (Black, Asian or Hispanic) chick that wants to fuck around with their God given natural gift screams "SELLOUT" to me.

A beautiful head of thick, black hair = hot as fuck for me.

If I want a fake blonde, redhead, whatever, I'll look to the white women.

Post: #243

(02-07-2016 09:05 AM)YossariansRight Wrote:  

(02-02-2016 06:01 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

(01-29-2016 11:59 AM)toejam Wrote:  

(01-24-2016 01:35 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  Black (or ethnic) women with dyed hair (blonde etc).

I want to hear the reason behind this.
Ive never dated anyone who dyed their hair blonde or some other random color. I just dont find it attractive.

But do tell..

As a general rule girls who dye their hair different colours show signs of not being happy with themselves, more so than the majority of the population.
Maybe they wished they were born white with blonde hair or maybe they are some kind of feminist/SJW type that doesn't conform to normal stereotypes and goes out of their way to make themselves look less attractive and to attract attention to themselves.

^^Spot fucking on, man! Any beautiful (Black, Asian or Hispanic) chick that wants to fuck around with their God given natural gift screams "SELLOUT" to me.

A beautiful head of thick, black hair = hot as fuck for me.

If I want a fake blonde, redhead, whatever, I'll look to the white women.

I have one exception though...
Fake asian gangster girls with the blonde hair, tattoos and fake boobs.
They aren't LTR material to me and they weren't supposed to be but they are fun to play around with.

Post: #244

Quote:she elaborates as to how she's referring to some kind of posse of guy friends who treat her like another dude (sigh), and who wouldn't hesitate in enacting violent retribution unto anyone whom they deemed as a threat to her virtue.

This was a shit test to see if you were scared. Given that you're neighbors I think you probably made the right choice, but keep in mind nothing needs to actually happen for her to sick her violent male orbiters on you. May as well go for the bang in that case.

Post: #245

1) Has friends blocked on Facebook. We all know why, and she thinks she is slick.

2) Wants friend to come on a date. I really hope everyone here is smart enough to avoid this. Had this happen Saturday. She tried to give me some lame excuse. I told her sure I'll meet you, but I had my main come over. She said I was a db for standing her up. Took no responsibility for trying to invite her friend.

3) She never has had a guy on FB profile, or she doesn't really care if you're FB friends. Because a guy on her FB profile will run off orbiters. If she doesn't care about being FB friends, its because she has plenty of dick chasing her.

4) If she talks about her whore/drinking days in college. Once a whore, always whore. They never go back to wanting one dick.

5) If she says most guys bore her. Also, because she loves many and varied cocks.

6) Wants to move the relationship at lightning speed. If she is treating you like a king two weeks in, its because she loves doing that. Nothing to do with you. And she loves to do it with NEW men.

7) Disappears after a fight or argument. She's getting dicked.

Post: #246

(02-08-2016 06:41 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

Quote:she elaborates as to how she's referring to some kind of posse of guy friends who treat her like another dude (sigh), and who wouldn't hesitate in enacting violent retribution unto anyone whom they deemed as a threat to her virtue.

This was a shit test to see if you were scared. Given that you're neighbors I think you probably made the right choice, but keep in mind nothing needs to actually happen for her to sick her violent male orbiters on you. May as well go for the bang in that case.

Indeed, for that wasn't the end of the story. My next serious go at it I posted in the Players' Lounge. Given how I had since come to believe that it was some bizarre test or defense mechanism, I ultimately (and unwisely) let her back into my space so that I could re-engage. But since her -at long last- definitive rejection of my advances, coupled with the appearance of another guy consistently spending nights at her place, I do rightly reckon that the game is up.

Post: #247

(12-14-2014 04:11 PM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(12-14-2014 04:06 PM)LouEvilSlugger Wrote:  - Divorced parents
- Social media presence
- Travels to fuckfest locations ie resorts in Jamaica and Mexico
- Guy/girl ratio in her social circle
- Tattoos/piercings

So which ratio is bad? Is it a red flag for you when she has lots of male friends? Or no male friends at all?

I'm not the OP,but would add the other extreme (most friends are female, only male friends are relatives or gay.) In my experience someone like that has a huge problem relating to heterosexual males. May not necessarily be a lesbian though it's a definite possibility.

Post: #248

(02-11-2016 12:58 PM)mammal Wrote:  

(12-14-2014 04:11 PM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(12-14-2014 04:06 PM)LouEvilSlugger Wrote:  - Divorced parents
- Social media presence
- Travels to fuckfest locations ie resorts in Jamaica and Mexico
- Guy/girl ratio in her social circle
- Tattoos/piercings

So which ratio is bad? Is it a red flag for you when she has lots of male friends? Or no male friends at all?

I'm not the OP,but would add the other extreme (most friends are female, only male friends are relatives or gay.) In my experience someone like that has a huge problem relating to heterosexual males. May not necessarily be a lesbian though it's a definite possibility.

This is very interesting. Care to explain on the majority females friend theory? 2 of my plates from the past year seem to fit this theory a bit. One could not relate to dudes without seeming to "boss" them around if that makes sense, otherwise she and I only got along on a sexual level and not much else.
The other was a very cool chick, had been divorced a few years, mid 30's, not many male friends at all other than casual acquaintances at the local lake who wakeboard weekends similiar to her. All her other friends were female and they were the ones she spent time with, never the dudes. Mostly kept to herself, home-body and was easy to get along with.

Post: #249

A girl who shows you off around an ex:
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In general a girl who maintains regular contact with guys she used to duck is trouble. If she actively goes out of her way to make sure they run into you guys while you're hanging out, run.

Post: #250

For me:

1) Poor relations with her parents

2) No sense of humour: indicates takes herself too seriously; iow entitled syndrome due to 1) and 3)

3) Spoilt.

4) Devious; always an indicator of something to hide possibly to keep many cocks after her at same time. I got NO time for this shit.

5) Text addict; F'g hate it