Post: #1

A little different scenario here. I'm the girl trying to close the deal with a guy--sex only, no relationship desired (I have a bf, just want some strange.) So after months of online trading nude pics and graphically sexual scenarios imagined, I meet with my target and boom...nothing, back to our old friend routine (yep, friends from work first I'm afraid) and I didn't even try for the f*ck. Later I email saying I wish I'd seriously made him cum all over--the response "I'm not sure I can cheat on my wife, but let's keep trading nude pics" We are at meeting number 2 this week and I want to close this--I seriously am wet for this guy. Besides being sexy, keeping the conversation on sex, and kino--any other things I can do (specific routines or tricks) to close the deal?

Post: #2

Is this for real - "your target" "kino"? Getting involved in cheating is alot of heartache just for sex. If you were in love with him another matter of coruse, because then you couldn't just find someone for that elsewhere.

Post: #3

(12-15-2008 02:47 AM)twigman Wrote:  Is this for real - "your target" "kino"? Getting involved in cheating is alot of heartache just for sex. If you were in love with him another matter of coruse, because then you couldn't just find someone for that elsewhere.

yup. For real, I'm afraid. In my mind the cheating has already occurred, we'd both surely be in trouble if what has already been done was discovered, so I want to Finish it! To me--heartache's not an issue, because I don't think anyone would ever know....

Post: #4

I'll give you my blunt and honest opinion as a man on a seduction/travel forum.

I've never been married, nor do I EVER intend to marry. I am not Einstein, but I'm not retarded either. However, this guy of whom you speak IS married. Further, it sounds like he doesn't want to ruin his marriage. Can you blame him? If his wife divorces him for cheating, he will lose nearly everything in the divorce. What are you trying to do here? What is your motivation? Do you want to potentially ruin a man's family and monetary life just so you can cream a couple of times? You are clearly selfish in your orgasmic pursuit with this man. Leave him and his marriage the fvck alone. Alrighty? Good.

Having said that, I think you are a shining example of an unscrupulous woman whose pursuit of a married man is completely and totally self-serving and unethical.

Furthermore, I cannot tell you any "routines" or "tricks" to get a married man to sleep with you, as I have never tried to seduce a married man. But hey, good luck with all that!

Post: #5

I agree with X-Factor. Married *and* a coworker? This just sounds like bad news. He could already be in enough trouble with the wife or the boss as is just from the exchanging nude pics.

Post: #6

A far safer way of going about cheating on your boyfriend is to meet me!

Post: #7

We're gonna need pics before we can advise further

Post: #8

Shoot....send me your email and number.

Post: #9

send me too.

[email protected]

(and i have a guaranteed seduction secret for you)

Post: #10

This isn't the first time, Dramaqueen, but we don't offer advice to anyone on how to cheat with a married person or if they're married themselves. Sort of a shocker isn't it from a PUA forum?

Post: #11

(12-16-2008 12:15 PM)Trotter Wrote:  This isn't the first time, Dramaqueen, but we don't offer advice to anyone on how to cheat with a married person or if they're married themselves. Sort of a shocker isn't it from a PUA forum?

I'm ok with that. It's nice to know there are guys out there with a good value system. I normally wouldn't chase a married guy (38 yrs old and haven't ever been there yet), but surprisingly find myself really wanting this one--mostly since we've intensely teased each other since August and mildly flirted since before then. Life finds itself complicated and I'm guilty of being caught up in the moment here--mind you Not to break up any marriage---only for a moment. Perhaps that moment could cost more than he's willing to pay, and you guys reminded me that I lost sight of that. Still though, I'm not sure what I'd do if really presented the chance to seriously sex this guy. Who knows? Any way, peace out and thanks for the time to respond (even if it wasn't what I wanted to hear.)

Post: #12

I don't think any less of you and I think maybe I've had a change of heart. You sound like a complex personality in a pretty deep place right now. Go ahead and leave me your email and number and I'll help you out.

Post: #13

I wanna help too.

Post: #14

This post is pretty crazy, but not as crazy as the whole, "accept Jesus as your savior and win a free PSP!" I can deffinitely see a church doing that too.