Post: #1

I have a somewhat interesting situation. I went on a few dates with this girl, she put on a show of being a really emotional and loving girl, and on the last date we went out partying/dancing and wound up at her friend's house at 3 am (I really wanted to close the deal at that point but couldn't cause her friend was there). Immediately after that night she went all silent on me and even posted pictures of herself on facebook out and about (none of her pictures included another guy, but in all her pictures she's alone, so a guy has obviously taken her out...)

I don't know what the proper response is here. The player side of me says she's just a whore and I should just forget about her, but I can't shake the feeling that maybe this is all just a little test/game and she wants to gauge my reaction, and she really wants me to contact her. Anyone have similar experiences?

Post: #2

three dates and you didn't try to hit it? she probably just gave up on you man.

Post: #3

You've missed the opportunity, brother.

Post: #4

You people need to learn to tell better stories.

The anti fuzzy hat movement has gone too far. A proper field report could give the various minds here something to work with.

What you have written suggests that you're merely an orbiter.

WIA

Post: #5

Don't try and read into this chick so much.
When a bird is really into you, things are very simple and things just happen.
The fact that you went on three dates and did not secure a bang is not a good sign. Try and pull a hail-mary bang from this bitch but thats about all the advice I can offer.

Post: #6

I had the same thing. I went out on a few dates with some lizard (black from DC). After the 2nd date, I became impatient and so when she asked us to go out again, I said she should come back to my place.

She initially rejected the offer but afterwards sent me an opener text. We watched some British movies and I tried to move on her. Sucked her neck and her ears and flicked her nipples but she batted my hand away from her vagina thrice.

After she was gone, that was it. I made my bid and it was rejected.

On with the game.

Don't sweat it too much, bro.

Post: #7

Moma: that actually sounds a lot like my situation. Cheers!

Post: #8

I have definitely had a similar experience. The most recent was not long before discovering what we call GAME . What happened still rankles and it caused me to reflect and I'm studying game in most of my spare time. Very similarly I had a 20 y.o. student over at my place about 3 times without going for the bang. I was beyond blind back then. Never even tried to touch her tits or crotch. We kissed about twice in the whole time I knew her. Last time I saw her we went for a date driving a 30 mile round-trip to have burgers & fro-yo in the hilly suburbs. I bought flowers for her and after the date took her straight back to her home
after that night she never contacted me again. (well that's surprising)

Thank god I woke up. I'm on the long journey now for sure.

Edit: @OP this ain't no test. Believe this, the opportunity has disappeared. So don't call her. Convert the frustration into resolving to be more GAME aware. That's what I'm doing now.

Post: #9

(12-07-2014 02:01 PM)pump_and_romance Wrote:  I don't know what the proper response is here. The player side of me says she's just a whore and I should just forget about her, but I can't shake the feeling that maybe this is all just a little test/game and she wants to gauge my reaction, and she really wants me to contact her. Anyone have similar experiences?

This is wishful thinking and fantasy on your part. The proper response is to go out, meet and bang other girls. It is that simple.

Post: #10

(12-07-2014 02:43 PM)The_e_man Wrote:  Don't try and read into this chick so much.
When a bird is really into you, things are very simple and things just happen.
The fact that you went on three dates and did not secure a bang is not a good sign. Try and pull a hail-mary bang from this bitch but thats about all the advice I can offer.

This is exactly what I thought as well.

This might clear things up for you, OP:

http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/th...e-message/

Post: #11

The best advice I have received from this forum is that when you go out on a date, always go for kiss/try to turn it sexual. Has saved me a lot of time in the past.