Post: #351

Literally don't care what photos a girl uses. I just care if she's hot.

Girls know that. Hence, the lack of effort on her part.

P.S. many girls who take car Snapchat filter selfies don't travel or go outside. Seriously. It's 2018. Car -> work/school -> bed/Instagram/Netflix.

Post: #352

I get matches once in a blue moon and even with those, none of the girls have initiated conversation. Same thing goes for Tinder. There must be something really abnormal about my profile or I am very below average looking which I am 100% sure I am not.

Girls, who I have met in real life have spontaneously called me handsome or at the least dashing. Also, in comparison to on bumble, on a site such as SA, I receive a whole flood of messages from very hot girls complementing my looks, even though I only have a photo or two of me in my SA profile and my income mentioned is not very high. My bumble profile is those two same photos and 3 more. There is a small lighthearted write up included.

It must be a cultural or ethnicity issue with me . I swipe mostly nearby bumble users who are girls from either my University or a nearby medical center. Most of the girls are of a different ethnicity. Still, even some of the swipes for my own ethnicity have not garnered any response.

I would gladly appreciate if any forum member can evaluate my profile and let know how I should improve it. I can PM my profile details including the pictures in a link.

Post: #353

(04-06-2018 09:37 PM)bk19xsa Wrote:  I get matches once in a blue moon and even with those, none of the girls have initiated conversation. Same thing goes for Tinder. There must be something really abnormal about my profile or I am very below average looking which I am 100% sure I am not.

Girls, who I have met in real life have spontaneously called me handsome or at the least dashing. Also, in comparison to on bumble, on a site such as SA, I receive a whole flood of messages from very hot girls complementing my looks, even though I only have a photo or two of me in my SA profile and my income mentioned is not very high. My bumble profile is those two same photos and 3 more. There is a small lighthearted write up included.

It must be a cultural or ethnicity issue with me . I swipe mostly nearby bumble users who are girls from either my University or a nearby medical center. Most of the girls are of a different ethnicity. Still, even some of the swipes for my own ethnicity have not garnered any response.

I would gladly appreciate if any forum member can evaluate my profile and let know how I should improve it. I can PM my profile details including the pictures in a link.

I am in the same boat. I am slightly above average looking. My profile is great. But I get matches once in a blue moon, and of those, the girls are much lower than me in terms of looks, and it never leads to anything.

Bumble is mostly a gold digging app. Try this: choose a well paying job and write it on your profile. Wait 1-2 weeks. You will see the difference in terms of quality/quantity of matches. But there's no point of talking to those girls because they are highly unlikely to bang you prior to finding out that you lied about your job.

This is just the nature of online dating... if is just a platform to pump and dump girls much uglier than yourself. A girl who is at your own level will have hundreds of guys at and above your level (because in a hook up market guys are much less selective). Obviously, those guys are just gonna pump and dump those girls, but the girls are so stupid that they don't understand. This is why online dating doesn't work. It only works for girls who want to hook up, and chads/top 20% guys who want to bang thousands of bitches a year with minimal effort.

Online dating does not lead to relationships unless you have a stable good career and are willing to marry a woman who wants to marry your money and give you an obligatory pity fuck as little as she can.

Post: #354

^^^

Happy to review both of your profiles.

Post: #355

(04-08-2018 05:46 AM)kbronik Wrote:  Online dating does not lead to relationships unless you have a stable good career and are willing to marry a woman who wants to marry your money and give you an obligatory pity fuck as little as she can.

Only guys who do not actually have a stable good career think this. It's totally untrue.

I have a good career and the only women I ever pull from online are overachievers themselves who have no need for all the money I make, and want to fuck all the time if we get to that point. Not even once has a 'gold-digger' ever shown interest in me.

Women on dating apps are not in the poor house. They aren't after money, they're after a man who can make them feel a certain way.

You're absolutely correct that online girls at your own level have many guys above your level trying to fuck her. Where I succeed is in the fact that most guys above my level in physical attractiveness are inarticulate dumbasses, and very intelligent girls are put off by that, so then I become their best option.

It's all about carving out your niche; some quality that will make certain girls choose you over more conventionally attractive options.

Post: #356

Yeah man, this isn't rocket science. Bishes wanna bang just as much as we do. Have decent pictures, be witty, confident and refrain from coming off as a fucking weirdo and you'll be fine. Digitally enhance your pics, delete and repost randomly to satisfy the algorithms and ABC (always be closing).

Post: #357

Back in the states and after updating my bumble account, its raining matches. Almost 3x more than Tinder, and decent amount of hotties. Very interesting.

Post: #358

Any major changes?

Post: #359

Things have been, weird, deleted my Bumble account - I got 1 immediate match, and it's been dead ever since.

Not sure what's going on, I killed it with my last account - but didn't have the new pics up, figured I'd try a fresh account with the new pics.

Not much traction, but it's only been about 2 days, so we'll see.

My other account wasn't attached to FB and was a younger age, and I didn't get shit for about 2 weeks.

This current one i have is connected to FB.

I'm on an old OS on a fairly new iphone 6S and refuse to update because I know they'll throttle my phone.

I'm just did the update, so we'll see.


Just kidding - I literally got 2 matches after the update weird.

Post: #360

I've had completely random results with Bumble. I typically get like 1 match a day. Then there have been maybe two periods in the total time I've used it of a week or so where I get 40+ matches a week, without doing anything new.

Post: #361

Bumble is hit or miss and very much depends on the city you're in. In Austin I had a ton of quality matches and hits. I actually built a harem in Austin, TX purely on bumble.

In Miami and New Orleans I had little results with quality women. Although New Orleans a lot of cheating wives and girlfriends flooded the app during convention season.

I've been considering launching and investing in a bumble clone in Ukraine and Russia. I actually already have native apps cloned already I just need to market it and adjust the language. If I launch it out of Moldova I won't have to worry about sanctions like VK which is now blocked in Ukraine.

I think tinder is due some competition in Ukraine. I never used it in Russia so not sure what tinder is like there.

Post: #362

Bumble has sucked terribly for me this time around.

I swipe, get some matches.

They message me. Typically "Hi" or something semi-witty.

I respond in kind.


END OF CONVERSATION.

EVERY GOD DAMN TIME.

What the fuck!?

Post: #363

(05-15-2018 07:53 AM)nola Wrote:  Bumble is hit or miss and very much depends on the city you're in.

Really wanted to get some discussion going on this. Bumble was king for me in NYC and at one point I was getting close to a 100 matches a week as well as enough convos than what I know what to do with.

Might be asking for too much here but anyway we can put together a list of cities in the US great for bumble?

BTW, isn't Austin like a sausagefest these days due to the growth of the tech industry?

Post: #364

Tried Bumble in NYC and after one week about 8 matches 4 actually messaged. I reply with something witty and no replies back.

Post: #365

(05-19-2018 02:48 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  Bumble has sucked terribly for me this time around.
I swipe, get some matches.
They message me. Typically "Hi" or something semi-witty.
I respond in kind.
END OF CONVERSATION.
EVERY GOD DAMN TIME.
What the fuck!?

It's merely a way to circumvent the match timeout, enabling her to build a warchest. She will then keep you on ice while she starts with Chad Thundercock and works her way down her list of backup men.

Post: #366

(05-19-2018 03:12 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

(05-15-2018 07:53 AM)nola Wrote:  Bumble is hit or miss and very much depends on the city you're in.

Really wanted to get some discussion going on this. Bumble was king for me in NYC and at one point I was getting close to a 100 matches a week as well as enough convos than what I know what to do with.

Might be asking for too much here but anyway we can put together a list of cities in the US great for bumble?

BTW, isn't Austin like a sausagefest these days due to the growth of the tech industry?

Yeah Austin is a pretty big sausage fest. But I really killed it on bumble there and the quality was good. I've been living outside the US for sometime now so it might be different now. Bumble was literally just starting also it's HQ is in Austin so that might have made a difference at the time.

Not to derail but but to answer your question, Austin is full of beta males. A lot of gays, guys participating polyamory, and autistic techies. As has always been the case for me in most very liberal cities I seem to be able to hit the upper tier talent due to this being the main competition.

It's the same feeling I get in EE out-gaming sex tourist and Turks is just as easy as out-gaming agreeable leftist pussies in liberal towns. I think if one takes this perspective sausage fest don't really have much of a negative effect.

Post: #367

(05-20-2018 01:56 AM)nola Wrote:  

(05-19-2018 03:12 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

(05-15-2018 07:53 AM)nola Wrote:  Bumble is hit or miss and very much depends on the city you're in.

Really wanted to get some discussion going on this. Bumble was king for me in NYC and at one point I was getting close to a 100 matches a week as well as enough convos than what I know what to do with.

Might be asking for too much here but anyway we can put together a list of cities in the US great for bumble?

BTW, isn't Austin like a sausagefest these days due to the growth of the tech industry?

Yeah Austin is a pretty big sausage fest. But I really killed it on bumble there and the quality was good. I've been living outside the US for sometime now so it might be different now. Bumble was literally just starting also it's HQ is in Austin so that might have made a difference at the time.

Not to derail but but to answer your question, Austin is full of beta males. A lot of gays, guys participating polyamory, and autistic techies. As has always been the case for me in most very liberal cities I seem to be able to hit the upper tier talent due to this being the main competition.

It's the same feeling I get in EE out-gaming sex tourist and Turks is just as easy as out-gaming agreeable leftist pussies in liberal towns. I think if one takes this perspective sausage fest don't really have much of a negative effect.

But this makes me wonder what makes San Francisco so horrible for men then.

Post: #368

Seems like women wearing the single-mom condition like it’s a badge of pride on these dating apps.
Are doods really readily signing up to be accessories to these women’s lives?

I just nexted the last single mother I was willing to bang. The turning point for me was, when after we finished banging she said, “I’m available either next Thursday or Sunday,” like my life was subject to her schedule. Though facially, this sounds ideal, a regularly scheduled fuck buddy, she’d text me every gotdamn day, morning, noon & night.
Gentlemen, stop entertaining this shit!

Post: #369

Must be the vibes you're giving off: "You are who you attract."

I've never had a single mom want to use me for anything other than dick, which was fine by me.

Post: #370

Anyone else get significantly more matches on Bumble than Tinder? I can't figure out why this could be.

Post: #371

(06-11-2018 07:08 PM)Batman_ Wrote:  Anyone else get significantly more matches on Bumble than Tinder? I can't figure out why this could be.

I think tinder has been more raped and pillaged. Eg) more hacks etc. whereas bumble is less hacked so matches are more evenly distributed. This is why I preferred when cold approach got me more results than online. One loop hole in the system and one person feasts and the others starve. Whereas with cold approach the work you put in is the reward you get out.

Post: #372

(06-11-2018 07:08 PM)Batman_ Wrote:  Anyone else get significantly more matches on Bumble than Tinder? I can't figure out why this could be.

The more attractive you are, the more matches you'll get on Bumble vs. Tinder, as Bumble more aggressively sorts profiles by attractiveness.

Also, matches on Bumble don't matter — messages do.

Post: #373

(06-07-2018 12:37 AM)DimeBait Wrote:  ...she’d text me every gotdamn day, morning, noon & night.

People are just too damn busy and women deal with that by using texting as a substitute. Since attention is more of what women want than sex, they see texting as a value-add whereas it's just a burden for a guy.

Of course, if you don't text, you'll get shit-tested over it. So it's a pain in the ass either way. Women just don't appreciate that guys enjoy fucking a whole lot more than staring at words on a smartphone. I really wish women were not so addicted to words...

Post: #374

If it wasn't for text messages Western women wouldn't need to be literate.

Post: #375

Man, so true!