Post: #1

Ok so the story of my life with girls is the fact that Im great at meeting and instilling attraction but after that Im a fish out of water,part of the problem is that I dont have alotta time alone with them and when I do the time and place is way off,so my question is how can I set it up to where i can go to the next level?-------- (this is urgent cause Im gonna lose this girl and I've spent to much time on this to back down any help is needed)

Post: #2

There is no such thing as "urgent" when it comes to dating. You need to be more aggressive. Creating attraction is great but you need to follow up on that. Say to her to go somewhere private so you can escalate.

Post: #3

I doubt it is urgent, I'm sure there are other womans out there willing to touch you. I'm sure you are doing well already, just inform her that she should hang out with you. Do something exclusive. Starting with kino, you can eventually get to a kiss, and eventually penetration. I'm bad with this too, but keep escalating. The hardest part I have come to realize is where you put your arm around her for the first time, it takes balls but you gotta just do it. It will work out better than you think.

Post: #4

(12-22-2008 02:54 PM)mlucasone Wrote:  I doubt it is urgent, I'm sure there are other womans out there willing to touch you. I'm sure you are doing well already, just inform her that she should hang out with you. Do something exclusive. Starting with kino, you can eventually get to a kiss, and eventually penetration. I'm bad with this too, but keep escalating. The hardest part I have come to realize is where you put your arm around her for the first time, it takes balls but you gotta just do it. It will work out better than you think.

How tho Im still on that line bewtween whats right and whats not???? Do I justgo withthe feelingthats its cool or take a risk!?!??

Post: #5

Since you're in the learning stage you're going to have to make mistakes with lots of girls until you figure it out. To think you are going to master this on the next girl is foolhardy. Just try a move, see if it works, and if not see how you could try something else the next time.