Post: #26

only as a teenager

Post: #27

(09-30-2014 02:45 PM)draketton Wrote:  only as a teenager

Same, never seems to happen now. Is it us or them I wonder?

Post: #28

No, and never before. The guys who get approached, is it the looks or is it open body language?

Post: #29

Once back in junior college during the day. Some chipper 6 came up to me and started chatting at me when I was walking out of the student union. We had a brief conversation but her super happy attitude was kind of a turn off. I don't know, but I tend to think people who act like that are crazy. Maybe I'm just too cynical.

Anyway, I was caught off guard and not into her.

Post: #30

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Post: #31

Cold approaching doesn't come as an obvious approach.

If a girl talks to you for something that is not related to something that is required, like asking for help if your at work, that is an approach.

Females work in subtle ways. It could be simple eye contact, a quick simple, a quick seemingly innocent question. That's an approach. I'm willing to bet guys on here have been approached far more times than they actually realize.

Post: #32

Oh, yeah, that goes without saying.

Post: #33

It has happened, now that I think about it.

A couple of weeks ago, while charging my mobile at a boarding gate in Sydney Airport, I was asked if I would be long with that power socket. I smiled and indicated another one to my left -- pretty obvious to the eye. She smiled back and commented something about having to complete her paper. We both focussed on our thing, I asked her to watch my stuff while I wandered around.
She eventually indicated boredom with her work and upon my asking, got me to guess her accent, which I got to after a few hints. She's a Romanian PhD student, a 7/8, around my age, brunette. We chatted about travel, our studies, some mutual teasing about our interests, vibed well.

I sensed interest by the end but when she boarded her flight, I assumed the sale and anticipated her asking my number (she didn't). We indicated that we hoped to bump into each other on the way to university as she goes to the one up the road from mine -- which happens to be Melbourne's largest uni.
Damn. I've got stop being so hopeful and push for a date instead. We haven't seen each other since. :/

Post: #34

oh shit....you SOBS gotta be really attractive.

Unfortunately i represent the losers camp in this thread.

I've never been approached by a random girl on the street...unless you count all those 8/10 drug-addicts who wanted me to give them a dollar or so (which makes me even more pathetic lol...). And all those promoters...girls giving away flyers to promote some restaurant or so...

So both cases can't be counted as "female daygaming'.

Post: #35

Yes many times...

Although the most extreme case, chick WAKES ME UP on the train and proceeds to tell me "come on, I'll buy you sushi" (I blackedout from the night before)

I was so disoriented thinking "WTF is going on" and then 5mins in I asked her where the hell did she see me and how in the world are we now about to eat sushi together. She then explains she saw me on the train. Next thing I know...
- She buys me sushi
- She shows me her ass on her ipad
- She asks me to travel with her to miami TODAY and says "what's stopping you"

Post: #36

(10-02-2014 11:03 AM)Distant Light Wrote:  Yes many times...

Although the most extreme case, chick WAKES ME UP on the train and proceeds to tell me "come on, I'll buy you sushi" (I blackedout from the night before)

I was so disoriented thinking "WTF is going on" and then 5mins in I asked her where the hell did she see me and how in the world are we now about to eat sushi together. She then explains she saw me on the train. Next thing I know...
- She buys me sushi
- She shows me her ass on her ipad
- She asks me to travel with her to miami TODAY and says "what's stopping you"

Did you go to Miami?

Post: #37

Never cold approached...but

A turkish girl ran some indirect game on me at one point. Asking me for some directions or something and I ended up getting her contact. She was doable but I was beta at the time. I was just beginning to date another girl and actually messaged her i couldn't meet up. She was pissed! And I was stupid.

Another time I returned to my car to find a note on the dash. Some girl wrote she saw me and thought i was 'chill' and left her name and number. I checked her out on Facebook. She was okay and happened to know a friend of mine...I didn't pursue it.

I think that's it.

Post: #38

Day, no. Night/evening yes.

Both times by black chicks.

Once in a bowling place with my buddies. She comes over, we have small talk and she ends up asking me for my number.

Second time was in Paris, by the Eiffel Tower. 3 Black girls, one comes and talks to me. Compliments me, etc, small talk too.

Post: #39

(10-02-2014 11:03 AM)Distant Light Wrote:  Yes many times...

Although the most extreme case, chick WAKES ME UP on the train and proceeds to tell me "come on, I'll buy you sushi" (I blackedout from the night before)

I was so disoriented thinking "WTF is going on" and then 5mins in I asked her where the hell did she see me and how in the world are we now about to eat sushi together. She then explains she saw me on the train. Next thing I know...
- She buys me sushi
- She shows me her ass on her ipad
- She asks me to travel with her to miami TODAY and says "what's stopping you"

Post: #40

(10-02-2014 08:13 PM)Flint Wrote:  

(10-02-2014 11:03 AM)Distant Light Wrote:  Yes many times...

Although the most extreme case, chick WAKES ME UP on the train and proceeds to tell me "come on, I'll buy you sushi" (I blackedout from the night before)

I was so disoriented thinking "WTF is going on" and then 5mins in I asked her where the hell did she see me and how in the world are we now about to eat sushi together. She then explains she saw me on the train. Next thing I know...
- She buys me sushi
- She shows me her ass on her ipad
- She asks me to travel with her to miami TODAY and says "what's stopping you"

Hahaha.

Funny thing is that I totally believe it. The more I learn/experience I realize the truth is stranger than fiction.

I've been cold approached/opened by a girl but only in a very crowded area or during a big event. The last time I can remember this happening is during a very large event in my area where I was approached on the sidewalk out in front of my house (right by the beach) by multiple girls that were walking down to the beach/event. They were young, dumb, and I wished I'd filled them with my cum.

Unfortunately, they probably approached me more because of my friend's dog, but that was more of an excuse on their parts because 2 of the 5 were like "fuck the dog, who's this guy" once I'd established some rapport.

They only noticed my shirtless muscled up buddy after he stepped over and it was apparent we were friends. Kind of entertaining.

It's pretty rare that I get cold approached, but it's happened (sans dog). Most of the times I'm sure it doesn't hurt that I've had social proof or am in a cool area/participating in fun/social sports.

I'm of somewhat above average looks, but I really don't expect to get approached much at all. Eyed much more often, but still not regularly by any means. I've been approached slightly more in the night/bar/club type environment, I'm sure due to liquid courage and the low light makes everyone look better.

Being cold approached by a girl who is cute/pretty is rare. Even an ugly/overweight girl approaching me is something that's nice to have. I never am a jerk to girls if they approach nicely, I'd much rather take it as a compliment.

Post: #41

When I was younger, like 16-23, I'd get cold approached a lot. I've been straight up asked out by a number of girls, though honestly most of those were way below my standards. I'm a handsome guy, and back then I had the lean/muscular/ripped look going on. I can remember several times girls didn't just want me to take them out, but they basically threw themselves at me or wanted me to come to their place and fuck them. Those were usually pretty hot, but into the drug scene or chicks trying to find an army husband. Unfortunately most of that shit happened when I was in a really bad place mentally and all I wanted was a nice girlfriend and some stability, so I ignored most of them.

These days I'm still handsome and all, but I'm overweight (muscular with a layer of fat) and not nearly as good looking overall as I used to be. I still get approached but normally by girls I'm not interested in banging. Basically if I am making some effort to look decent and not wearing a hat I'll get a good amount of interest. If I'm looking too scruffy, wearing a baseball cap, etc I'm invisible to women. Should be interesting to see how things go as I lose weight and make an effort to improve my appearance overall.

One cute girl did approach me a few weeks back, pretty decent looking, blonde with big tits, probably 18, I figured she was a new freshman at my school. She wanted to sit with me at the library, which no girl has never asked to do in all my time here as there are plenty of places to sit. I tried making small talk, tried getting her to engage a bit, but she was super shy and wouldn't even make eye contact after she sat down. I was working on something and I probably waited too long to start chatting to her, and gave her time to get all self conscious and shit. Then I had to leave to take care of my housing and books, and that was the end of that.

Post: #42

(09-29-2014 02:38 AM)Switch Wrote:  I had a girl ask me to school dance once. I instantly knew what it was like to be a hot girl with beta orbiters. She was kind of fugly, but I still went to the dance with her to be nice (beta move) and then never responded to another one of her texts.

One of your two moves was alpha, the other beta. You have them the wrong way around.

Going to the prom with a girl you know is below your level (since she asked) is actually as alpha as it gets. It indicates self confidence and self belief. It indicates you don't care what other people think. Of course, dating girls below your level is generally not recommended, but since the girl asked and you didn't have anyone else to go with, you had nothing to lose.

Not replying to her text was poor form. Politely decline for the best outcome.

Post: #43

(10-03-2014 12:39 AM)fouryearsago Wrote:  Going to the prom with a girl you know is below your level (since she asked) is actually as alpha as it gets. It indicates self confidence and self belief. It indicates you don't care what other people think.

So that loser guy at school who could not get a girl who settles with a fatty to go to prom with him is the most alpha guy at prom ?

I don't understand how that works? I would assume that you are high value if you go to prom with a hot girl...then all the hot girls take notice because their female competition is dating you, thus building intrigue and attraction.

Post: #44

(10-01-2014 03:57 PM)Pride male Wrote:  No, and never before. The guys who get approached, is it the looks or is it open body language?

i think it's looks. friend of mine has great looks, gets approached. it goes nowhere after that though, as he has no game. he'd be smashing 9's and 10's with some game.

me? never. i have to work for it...hard too sometimes.

Post: #45

(10-02-2014 08:13 PM)Flint Wrote:  

(10-02-2014 11:03 AM)Distant Light Wrote:  Yes many times...

Although the most extreme case, chick WAKES ME UP on the train and proceeds to tell me "come on, I'll buy you sushi" (I blackedout from the night before)

I was so disoriented thinking "WTF is going on" and then 5mins in I asked her where the hell did she see me and how in the world are we now about to eat sushi together. She then explains she saw me on the train. Next thing I know...
- She buys me sushi
- She shows me her ass on her ipad
- She asks me to travel with her to miami TODAY and says "what's stopping you"

Hahahahahaahahahahhaahah that gif is hilarious

(10-02-2014 03:01 PM)TheWastelander Wrote:  

(10-02-2014 11:03 AM)Distant Light Wrote:  Yes many times...

Although the most extreme case, chick WAKES ME UP on the train and proceeds to tell me "come on, I'll buy you sushi" (I blackedout from the night before)

I was so disoriented thinking "WTF is going on" and then 5mins in I asked her where the hell did she see me and how in the world are we now about to eat sushi together. She then explains she saw me on the train. Next thing I know...
- She buys me sushi
- She shows me her ass on her ipad
- She asks me to travel with her to miami TODAY and says "what's stopping you"

Did you go to Miami?

No sir!!!! Hahahahaha...

She did give me this bracelet after I told her all my bracelets were given to me... (The one with the letters)




I was still in shock and laughing because she was dead serious. While eating she made a phone call to chicago and then some midwestern city.

I was just smoking cigs just laughing at how random my life is. Eventually, I try to kiss her which she says "no we shouldn't I get very clingy".

PEACE OUT!!!!!

Once I heard that, I wanted to go home because anything revolving about monogamy is the fast track to me saying "lets just be friends"

Post: #46

The most recent was when I went to Starbucks because that one drink is "to die for."

McCoy: Hi whats.....

Blonde bimbo: I like hazel

McCoy: Wut

Blonde bimbo: your eyes are green and brown

McCoy: I'd like that pink drink with the whipped cream every one gets

blonde bimbo: okay, anything else?

McCoy: nah bro

blonde bimbo: name

McCoy: Ezekiel

blonde bimbo: I like that name

McCoy: so does my mom.....

ended up seeing the lizard at school

Post: #47

(10-03-2014 03:45 AM)Lucario Wrote:  

(10-03-2014 12:39 AM)fouryearsago Wrote:  Going to the prom with a girl you know is below your level (since she asked) is actually as alpha as it gets. It indicates self confidence and self belief. It indicates you don't care what other people think.

So that loser guy at school who could not get a girl who settles with a fatty to go to prom with him is the most alpha guy at prom ?

I don't understand how that works? I would assume that you are high value if you go to prom with a hot girl...then all the hot girls take notice because their female competition is dating you, thus building intrigue and attraction.

The loser goes to the prom with the fatty because that's all the loser deserves. The alpha goes with the girl below his level because she asked, the alpha knows his true worth, the alpha doesn't care about what others think, and it's only the one night. There is a subtle but important difference, and it's difficult to describe. You will know it when you see it though.

Post: #48

(10-04-2014 02:05 AM)fouryearsago Wrote:  

(10-03-2014 03:45 AM)Lucario Wrote:  

(10-03-2014 12:39 AM)fouryearsago Wrote:  Going to the prom with a girl you know is below your level (since she asked) is actually as alpha as it gets. It indicates self confidence and self belief. It indicates you don't care what other people think.

So that loser guy at school who could not get a girl who settles with a fatty to go to prom with him is the most alpha guy at prom ?

I don't understand how that works? I would assume that you are high value if you go to prom with a hot girl...then all the hot girls take notice because their female competition is dating you, thus building intrigue and attraction.

The loser goes to the prom with the fatty because that's all the loser deserves. The alpha goes with the girl below his level because she asked, the alpha knows his true worth, the alpha doesn't care about what others think, and it's only the one night. There is a subtle but important difference, and it's difficult to describe. You will know it when you see it though.

How about this perhaps. The alpha does not have concern for the thoughts of sheep and to him that girl that just asked him does not exist. You lowered your standards, your own self worth, and all measure of respect by going with her. I would prefer blue balling for a night than going with a girl I considered ugly. If she was slightly below par but cute I might have done it but not flat out ugly.

Also in response to the thread. Occasionally I get appproached by chicks due to my local rep. It's usually something like "OMG aren't you H. I have heard a lot about you." Or "Aren't you H, that one guy who [insert thing I did or joke attributed to me]. You must be so popular." Regardless of the local fame though I'm not by any means "popular" just well connected.

Post: #49

I've had an ugly, pudgy chick that said my skin was glowing and how my girlfriend must be pregnant at work the other day.

Post: #50

Once in the daytime that I can recall, in a restaurant.
I went in by myself and sat down. She then came to my table and asked me to come sit with her. She was a very cocky and confident girl in general though, the kind of girl you'd expect to do this.