Post: #1

Just interested if that ever happened to anyone here. I got approached several times in clubs and at home parties but it actually never happened to me during the day, except by a few giggling Iranian teenage girls in Tehran, but that doesn't really count.

Describe how these girls were like if you can still remember.

Post: #2

In the daytime have been numerous times when chicks appear to give approach invitation like for example them standing right up to me in personal space and so on. Only for me to approach and get shot down. I figure it was validation of some kind especially in front of others. So I don't bother with approach invitation during the daytime now.

Post: #3

While I was stuffing my face in a Burger King, she came up to me and "just had to tell me I was gorgeous".
I had food in my mouth, and was too caught off guard to mumble anything but "Thanks".
She was maybe a 6 so I continued eating.

Another time after dropping a young plate off to some morning college classes, went to go get some coffee and had the barista remark how clear and smooth my skin was, and wanted to feel my face.

Post: #4

(09-28-2014 03:53 PM)spokepoker Wrote:  While I was stuffing my face in a Burger King, she came up to me and "just had to tell me I was gorgeous".
I had food in my mouth, and was too caught off guard to mumble anything but "Thanks".
She was maybe a 6 so I continued eating.

Another time after dropping a young plate off to some morning college classes, went to go get some coffee and had the barista remark how clear and smooth my skin was, and wanted to feel my face.

Post: #5

i had funny situation. i was walking after a girl who i wanted to approach when some averge girl poped out of nowhere and asked me if i wanted to talk to her. i was like "uhhh" she said: i thought you wanted to meet me../? Me: sorry no

you could call this a girl daygame street cold approach. she seemed a bit nervous probbaly had some approach anxiety.

Post: #6

I was 21 and at work at a sales job and had a very attractive girl that was 26 start asking me how often I go out and gave me her number. Then she would text or call me every few days wanting to hang out. I wanted to but something always came up. I guess she got pissed at me because I kept blowing her off, but it was the first and the last time that has happened to me from what I can remember. Oh well.

Post: #7

I was at a Starbucks across from campus from my school about a year ago. I went there a few times a week to "do homework", but in reality it was a great spot to hit on girls. This was in my nascent stages of day game, so I had little success, but one encounter stood out.

I was sitting on an armchair, when a cute girl sites down next to me. Jackpot!

And to make matters even better, she opened me! She started making small talk with me, and chatted for about five minutes until there was a pause in the conversation. After a brief silence she told me the only reason she was talking to me was because she was doing a test for her sociology class about how people respond to strangers talking to them.

I teased her about destroying my ego, and then we talked for a few minutes about how people are so closed off in todays world. I didn't tell her I went to Starbucks to hit on strangers, but it made me think about day game, and game in general. The fact that talking to strangers and making friendly conversation was once typical in our society, and is now so abnormal as to be the subject of an experiment, says a lot about America today.

As for actually having a girl hit on me "for real" during the day, no not that I can remember.

Post: #8

Is girls going direct on you a common thing? I have never had a total stranger telling me I am 'gorgeous' or similar.

(09-28-2014 03:53 PM)spokepoker Wrote:  While I was stuffing my face in a Burger King, she came up to me and "just had to tell me I was gorgeous".
I had food in my mouth, and was too caught off guard to mumble anything but "Thanks".
She was maybe a 6 so I continued eating.

Another time after dropping a young plate off to some morning college classes, went to go get some coffee and had the barista remark how clear and smooth my skin was, and wanted to feel my face.

Post: #9

I've had it happen a couple times.

A few were MILFs making some small talk at the grocery store. Stuff like "wow such good deals today" I didn't really say anything back because it caught me so off guard. Not entirely sure they were 'approaching' me.

Another was this bird-looking chick with short hair who was pretty cute. I was at the bus stop early one morning while it was a bit dark. We talked the whole bus ride to campus. I got her number but she didn't reply. I'm thinking she just started talking to me to feel more comfortable since we were the only ones at the bus stop, then again she sat next to me on the bus as well.

The third was technically during the day, but the chick was hammered (last day of school party). She came up and said "omg you're the hot guy from english class" The girl I was seeing was standing like 5 feet away so I grabbed her number quickly and walked off. We met later, madeout for a bit, but she had this annoying ass cockblocking friend who just sat there talking about music, then they wanted to go to a party on the other side of town. Definitely would have banged had I gone, but it would have been another hour or so in transit.

Post: #10

Talking to me yea.

Gaming me? No.

I have had girls open me with some legit question about where/when is this or that, and I have transitioned it into me macking to them.

One way to get girls to open you is making eye contact. Often I am just looking at a girl cause she caught my eye and she will ask me some sort of question.

Hell maybe that is her game...

Post: #11

I had a girl ask me to school dance once. I instantly knew what it was like to be a hot girl with beta orbiters. She was kind of fugly, but I still went to the dance with her to be nice (beta move) and then never responded to another one of her texts. I still see her at school, she looks at me when I pass her in the halls and I kind of smirk because she and I both know I'm so far out of her league that really she should be ashamed to even think I'd go for a girl like her. The journey to alphadom is a slow and embarrassing one hahaha.

Post: #12

It happened in Poland where a girl, as I was sitting on a bench, told me she saw me idate another girl. Then she asked if I wanted to invite her to a coffee. I was hesitant, smelling a scam, but I did. Turns out she was just a horny college student. A 6, medium to low quality.

It happened again twice in Russia where, on separate occasions I got complemented by strange women. The first I was sitting in Starbucks on Tverskaya street and this tomboyish 6 (shit by Russian standards) comes up to me and tells me "I had to tell you you have a beautiful face" and then she runs off. The other was a hobo chick whose male hobo friend asked me for money, then she comes over trying to drag him away and from a distance she says the same thing "beautiful face".

These were all shit quality girls, high quality may like you upon approach but they sure as hell won't approach you. Good for the ego no less.

Post: #13

Few times. Specially when I was younger. I am 28 now and I don't give girls the time to approach me anymore because I am always approaching.

Post: #14

Yes.

And it panned out perfectly.

Post: #15

Used to happen to me all the time in high school and college, but not really since then. However that was when I lived in the huge populated place known as the "Gay Area" of norcal. Being in a city with less than 300k is a hindrance.

Post: #16

One day I was walking through my university campus, guitar case in hand. A cute blonde passing me by looked over, smiled and said "hi", but I decided to play it cool and just said "hi" back and kept on walking.

Post: #17

It only happened once. I was in a club in New Jersey with my buddies and I spotted a cutie (solid 8.5) across the dance floor and exchanged smiles. Next thing I know, she silently sidles me. She taps me on the shoulder, smiles and says hi. I ask her if she wants to dance. End up making out 5 minutes later, doing shots and I attempt to make our exit.

Next thing I know her little shit friend, this 5' 2'' chick comes up to me, kicks me in the shin, grabs her friend and they're gone. In all fairness, it was probably the most efficient cockblock I've ever seen. She probably picked up this tactic on the female rooshvforum. The girl that sidled me wasn't even drunk... the short one was just being a cunt.

Post: #18

Yes. The toned yoga MILFs at my Starbucks are always gaming me.

Frankly I should say yes to a few of them.

Post: #19

I got cold approached after a class a couple weeks ago. I answered a question out loud and she approached me after I just left the class in the hallway.

I didn't get a chance to talk with her then for more than a couple minutes since I had to rush to another class, I figured it would be no big deal since I could just resume it whenever I saw her again.

I do see her in class but I haven't found an advantageous situation to continue. She always sits beside a class buddy and I don't really have intention of placing myself in that category either.

Post: #20

Was once in a winery in Georgia with family on vacation and i ended up getting cold approached and elderly opened by some chick asking me if I had been to park city Utah due to the ski cap I was wearing at the time. My immediate reaction was a confused look and thinking to myself "the hell is she talking about?" since it was given to me by said relatives on that trip and before I said anything my aunt explained the whole deal to her.

It wasn't until later that I realize what exactly was the deal with that chick after my aunt spelled it out for me(Used to be pretty dense about that sort of thing). Not that it mattered anyhow, my logistics were beyond abysmal since I staying with family up in the mountains in their cabin and didn't have my own ride.

Post: #21

I've had girls say things or smile or whatever plenty of times, but an actual approach where she initiated contact and tried to get my contact info? Only once. Led to a freaky bang with a monster facial, though, so

Post: #22

(09-29-2014 08:54 PM)horn Wrote:  Yes. The toned yoga MILFs at my Starbucks are always gaming me.

Frankly I should say yes to a few of them.

Their body is toned but their skin's elasticity especially in the face say otherwise.

Post: #23

(09-29-2014 10:19 AM)DJ-Matt Wrote:  Used to happen to me all the time in high school and college, but not really since then. However that was when I lived in the huge populated place known as the "Gay Area" of norcal. Being in a city with less than 300k is a hindrance.

I should clarify this, it reads that I was cold approached only by gay dudes. That was actually my jocular way of describing Concord/Pleasant Hill/Oakland. I.e. being in a large population center and hoofing it or riding the bus and spending a lot of time out of the house resulting in me getting approached by girls a lot.

Post: #24

Nothing really stands out as far as actual direct approach(I'm not counting situations like a girl saying "hi" )

Walking by a University last spring I was catcalled by a car full of girls.

Post: #25

Yeah,a few times. Once there was this girl who sat beside me on a train ride who immediately offered me chewing gum (??), we ended up talking the whole way but unfortunately she lived far far away. Another time, also on the train, a girl needed help with her maths and chemistry. Third time I recall, a girl complimented my shirt selection and arms on a bus. Intrestingly, the few times where a chick actually started talking to me was when I wasn't game-aware. Hasn't happened in a long while, although maybe I should just use the public transportation more often.

I don't really view a girl saying the first words of the interaction as an approach, her approach is already there if there is solid eye contact and a smile. Another thing is obviously her orbiting you. If you see a girl doing this, her part of the approach has ended and in daytime settings you gotta have real bad game to fuck it up.