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Need advice: dealing with insufferable people
My room mate's sister is in town and staying at our apartment. I'll be straight up honest and say she I shouldn't have allowed her to stay.

I need some advice for making it through the day as she leaves tomorrow.

Let's paint a picture:

1. Works in HR
2. Massive vocal fry
3. Die hard feminist
4. Die hard liberal
5. Massive bitch shield
6. Ego higher than cloud 9 since she's skinny and petite living in Indianapolis. (7 maybe 8)

Basically all of the things we talk about here on RvF.

I won't lie, hearing some of the stuff she spouts almost makes me want to let an Islamic Jihad take over the country. I've never met an individual as repulsive as her.

Any meditative, happy place advice would be useful. I plan on leaving the house today, but damn even her presence makes my blood boil.
09-13-2014 07:41 AM
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Sorry mate but there's none! Once these women become part of your Game/Red Pill awareness radar, you cannot not be repulsed by that. But anyway wasn't there some Daygame that you had to run today?
09-13-2014 07:50 AM
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RE: Need advice: dealing with insufferable people
You do not deal with them, you do not communicate with them.

Next time, you know you do not let anyone like her in your apartment. Toxic people should be cut out from your life.
09-13-2014 07:51 AM
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RE: Need advice: dealing with insufferable people
Ahh, living with roommates, how I miss it. Just leave man, hate to say it. Get an Airbnb for the weekend, or go party in a hotel and hang out in the hotel bar.
09-13-2014 08:24 AM
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"Say to yourself in the early morning: I shall meet today inquisitive, ungrateful, violent, treacherous, envious, uncharitable men. All these things have come upon them through ignorance of real good and ill". People do not choose to behave they way they do so "[t]hat men of a certain type should behave as they do is inevitable. To wish it otherwise were to wish the fig-tree would not yield its juice."

Accept that she is a jackass and move on, focussing on yourself. Just because you've allowed her to stay thus far does not mean you owe her your time, energy, or even a second thought.

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09-13-2014 08:32 AM
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I gather mocking her mercilessly is off the table for the sake of future harmony between you and your housemate. You could play dumb, a la Ali G, in how you mock her. Maybe walk around in your underwear, play "inappropriate" music or videos a little too loud in your room, or bring the skankiest looking hooker you can back to your apartment. How about hard drugs? Any crack dealers live nearby?
09-13-2014 09:06 AM
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I've just been reading a copy of Mein Kampf around her.

Thanks for the advice guys. It's like having a decently attractive Lindy West spouting off every Jezebel talking point. At least with her it's easy to ignore her, an attractive girl doing it is just plain disgusting.

I work in a large corporation and live in a big blue city. I have never met an individual who tries so hard to be all that it is to be a multicultural progressive. The level of pride in herself is repugnant. Chick is from the Midwest too.

Her husband is a 6'4 guy who shoots on the weekends. Honestly confuses the living hell out of me.
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09-13-2014 09:12 AM
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Avoid them as much as possible. It's best to avoid political discussions at all costs. If she talks to you, use extremely short answers.

her: "how are you?"
you: "good."

her: "did you finish that report?"
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09-13-2014 09:48 AM
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If she is leaving tomorrow. Just go out and do something. See a couple of movies, go to a sports bar - college football is back, hang out with your friends. Go over to a friend's place.

Unless you know your roommate thinks his sister is a little f'd in the head, you don't want to rock the boat too much. That would just leave lingering damage from a short visit.

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09-13-2014 09:56 AM
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She's leaving tomorrow, just find something to do. If she was living with you, you'd have a problem.
09-13-2014 09:59 AM
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bang her
09-13-2014 10:19 AM
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(09-13-2014 07:41 AM)frenchie Wrote:  she's skinny and petite living in Indianapolis. (7 maybe 8)

I second "bang her." Answer is obvious.
09-13-2014 10:43 AM
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People are allowed to be like this because they get something out of it. What they get are reactions. They don't care if the reactions are good or bad. They just want to be paid attention to.

The best thing you can do is starve the beast. Don't engage. Be absent whenever possible. Bring another girl around and go to your room and shut the door.

One more thing: "I won't lie, hearing some of the stuff she spouts almost makes me want to let an Islamic Jihad take over the country. I've never met an individual as repulsive as her."

Funny you should say this, because the recent barrage of awful female singers (Arianna, Iggy, etc.) made me say a similar thing to someone. It didn't end well.
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09-13-2014 11:02 AM
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Bang another girl in your room. Loudly.

Don't let some cunt ruin your day.
09-13-2014 11:20 AM
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The only thing you can do is ignore everything she does. Act like she doesn't exist.
09-13-2014 11:28 AM
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cut them out off your life, there is no other way to deal with toxic people
09-13-2014 11:30 AM
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Other alternative.
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09-13-2014 11:32 AM
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(09-13-2014 11:32 AM)Texas_Tryhard Wrote:  



Other alternative.

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09-13-2014 11:42 AM
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It's not like she has to sleep in your room right? Just hang out in your own spaces inside the house and go outside and do things. I also second the notion of bang another chick loudly in your room. If you make the environment "hostile" enough, she will think twice about ever staying over again.

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The tick I use when dealing with insufferable people is to just imagine it's all happening with this song in the background:


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Texas_Tryhard, fuck that was funny! Laugh

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If she's constantly mouthing off, then she's deliberately trying to display masculine intellectual dominance. Liberal women think you attract a man by being one. So, obviously, she's into someone in the house. (I'd like to say you, but social Marxists are degenerates, and - since their politics are gay influenced - I expect them to try and socially-normalise incest within the next fifteen years).

She might have gone by now, but mock her mercilessly, in a casual, friendly, plausible-deniability way that makes you seem like you're on her side. You disarm her by doing it in a way that makes you seem supportive, but dumb.

Assuming she's not a lesbo:

Next time she starts mouthing off, ask her outright if she's single, saying you have a single friend who has 'so much in common with her' that 'you two would get along real well.'

During the conversation, you casually let it drop that she's a lesbian - in a non-judgemental way that makes it seem like you're pro-gay. Say something like "She keeps bragging to me how she eats pussy better than any man ever could, so you'd be in for a wild ride."

When she says that she's not a lesbian - all straight girls, even liberals, are homophobic when it suits them - that's when you need to look really confused, and apologetic: "What? I just assumed from your interests and your voice." Look genuinely confused. Say a good natured "Sorry, guess I'm a lousy matchmaker," then vacate the area as soon as possible, in a casual "I've got to get on with my day" kind of way, not a 'running-away-from-conflict' way.

This way you play into her script of being a 'dumb man' that she gets to feel intellectually-superior to - thus not feeling attacked, which subtly-validates your misunderstanding in her mind. The hamster will start obsessing over the fact that she's coming off as a dyke to attractive men.

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If she is a lesbian, go about your life and treat her like the invisible woman she is.
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This is why I don't live with roommates.
09-13-2014 03:19 PM
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Before she leaves tell he you thought she was hot and you like to meet her in the not so distant future to do what nature calls.
09-13-2014 03:47 PM
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Make fun of Indianapolis. It's really that simple. Sarcastically say something like you heard "Indianapolis is basically New York".

Trust me on this one.
09-13-2014 05:16 PM
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