Post: #1

Ok so I met this girl awhile back. She is so damn sexy to me. We get along great but are an on/off type thing. With NO bangs and a blow job to show for it.

I'm an idiot. I'm just now figuring shit out and have gotten a make out with three different chicks this week. One bang. The bang was an 18 year old with kung fu grip pussy. Just last night actually.
The other girl I went out with on Thursday. This girl is a sure bang too. I made plans with her for next weekend but she wants to drive an hour and a half away to bring me lunch at work because I'm so busy next week and have my boy this weekend.

But even with the 18 year old pussy and this other chick that is down to bang I keep thinking about this other one that I haven't even had my dick in yet. The only thing I can think of is she isn't a slut and that is super attractive to me, but otherwise I just can't figure out how to get this one off my damn mind.

Post: #2

How do you know she's not a slut? Because she didn't bang you? Maybe she's banging other guys? Maybe not, but for sure we always want what seems out of reach until we have it.

One thing you could do to get her out of your mind is to truly imagine what it would be like to get your wish. Where she's so in love with you that she's driving 3 hours each day to make sure you have breakfast, lunch and dinner and the she's going to just sit there and watch you eat with a big starry-eyed gaze and she'll tell you that she loves you every other minute your together and texts you non-stop when your not.

Really take this wish fulfillment exercise as far as you can and then try to notice how it makes you feel about her.

Post: #3

I guess I don't know she isn't.

Other than when she was blowing me it was obvious she was really nervous. And then later said that was only the 2nd dick in her mouth.
I almost can't even imagine that's true but she was in a long term relationship.

Post: #4

You're probably attracted to her for other reasons besides not being a slut. Those other reasons are just hard to articulate. I think the best way to get a girl off your mind is to interact with other girls. If the ones you have going on now don't do it for you, start approaching others until you find one that does.

Post: #5

Well we all want something hard to get. Im also into a good girl who shows that scared look when i take her clothes off instead of spreading her leg like a whore. Nothing is wrong with you.

Post: #6

You are fine bro, you dont have any problem. Oneitis is a very natural thing that happens to all men, alpha or beta.

Onto is right. You dont know anything about her. I bet none of us can really say we know anything about a girl we hang out/are on and off with either.

Be very careful of oneitis, it brings even veteran players down to hell.

It is very important that you recognize that she is just one girl like any other. To say she isn't a slut is ridiculous. How do you know? How does anyone but her and the alpha who fuck her in a toilet stall knows? Im not trying to be mean but in my experience and by listening to countless beta whenever I hear "she is not a slut" I just feel like ok lets get her to a RVF party.

She is attractive to you but there will be plenty of other girls you will find attractive. Your gut instincts will tell you that "but those attractive girls are not like her". If you ever hear yourself saying that you need a reality check. You dont know her nor those girls.

You are doing very well by banging the 18yo. Keep at it bro and dont stop. If needs be make her your fuck buddy for the moment, and go out and hit on some girls. Forget therapy or self-improvement. When I had oneitis I saw a therapist once/week and did all the stuff to improved myself. None of that works until I went out and approached like mad. Now I look back and Im like "Jesus that girl is so mediocre, why did I even fall for her????" You will soon be able to feel the same.

It helps to cut contact with her. Someone who makes you feel this uneasy while contributing nothing to your life dont deserve to be in it.

Post: #7

I say you can't get her out of your mind because you don't really know her. Trust me, if you fucked this girl or knew her a bit more you probably wouldn't be thinking about her so much.

Also, I laughed at kung fu grip pussy. Lol, I know how that feels. Had to deal with that with the latina girl I lost my virginity too. I came as soon as I entered that pussy.

Post: #8

I've decided to keep pressing forward while keeping that one on the line.....going for two different bangs in one weekend this weekend