RE: Tokyo Datasheet and a Basic Guide to Japanese Girls
Update for this thread:
I'm in Tokyo for the second time. I've been here 2-3 weeks and will be here for a couple more weeks. Running lots of game, various tactics. For the record I'm 41 (look early 30s) white guy, super limited Japanese.
-- Looking for a daygame wing, Shibuya area
LINE. Get the LINE app. Works over WIFI and almost everyone -- guys and girls -- have it. I have 12 new LINE friends with about 10 days of going out.
Neighborhoods. I'm staying Shibuya, very nice apartment, small, 2 mins from Shibuya station, $2200 for 5 weeks. About $70/night, which is better than $85/night I paid last year. Shibuya is a "darling" sweetheart neighborhood where I feel safe everywhere (and I go out of my way to get in trouble), whereas Roppongi is a filthy mess, by my standards in terms of on the sidewalk, but I have had several fun adventures there (including I think my favorite Japanese meal of my life, a place I found by accident).
English. I would say the girls here barely speak English. Some do, but most do not. And I've had some very interested girls where we just couldn't get past the English barrier. With that said, my Spanish is okay and I can communicate better here than in Spain or Costa Rica. Overall, I think there's an openness, and non-verbals go a long way. I've had some excellent times w/ girls (not pulls, just great moments) with girls that clearly couldn't understand me, but liked me anyway. I work the non-verbals. You can develop some non-verbal routines pretty quick if you have to... I do a lot of the same things in almost every interaction.
Clubs. Feria in Roppongi is great mainstream club, more on the hip hop side than EDM. 4000Y for guys, comes w/ 2 drinks. Packed, Int'l crowd, multiple floors. Lots of English speakers. I suck at SNPs, but the first time I was there I went home w/ a girl (mid 30s, hot by that clubs standards). Great time... number closed a really lovely one last week, no response to text. In Shibuya, this club Shibuya Sound Museum has been great for SF-style bass music (hip hopish). 2 Fridays in row, great time, great crowd, hundreds of people, 3000Y, 1 drink. Went to Camelot last Thur, sess pool, smokey, lame, gross club. Womb... been several times, will probably skip it this year, I have better options (and I don't like EMD)... but I did get a day2 lay from that place last year, girl from Korea on vacation. Air... very local feeling, not-central, hip hop club, don't recommend it for game. There is a Gaspanic in Shibuya right by the Scramble... divey, gnarly, low-end hip hop, but I like that kind of place sometimes. Club Asia seems to be well promoted, but I hate that club... never had a good time there, but maybe I've been on bad nights.
Shibuya Bars. HUB, everyone likes the Hub. Tons of sharks in there, aggressive Aussies. Local guys are drunk, mild, funny and relentless hit on j-girls, which I find hysterical to watch. Drunkest girls I've seen in Japan. I like Shibuya Hubs better than Roppongi Hubs. The Scramble Bar is a nice meet market right across from the station. I like that place... honest meat market. I'm mostly a club guy at night, so that's all I've got there.
Daygame... this is what I really want to talk about. I'm maybe 20 sets in, first time daygaming in a foreign country, I'm only about 500 sets into daygame in general, but plan on adding another 100 here in the next 2 weeks. To me... it's exactly like home in SF, but with better girls (but, I hit on a lot of Asian girls at home). Today's stats: 12 sets -- 3-4 blowouts where she either never looked up, or snaps away and keeps going, 2 where I gave up on the language issue, 1 where she had to go (I plowed a bit, she meant it), 3-4 that hooked, 3 of which I bailed on because I didn't like her upclose and 1 I number closed... we're chatting online, she kinda cute, speaks English, uni student. That's the 2nd one I've number closed in the last few days, last one was harder. Both are chatting with me.
...daygame for me, is almost exactly like home, stats are almost identical, and I haven't really been "on" yet. Looking fwd to a real "on" day.
Coffee Shops. If we have any remote worker types... coffee shop game is really awesome for me. I've number closed another girl that way, also chatting a bit. Being regular, gets you that social circle feeling. Stay away from the biggest Starbucks near the station, and look for coffee places around universities... I have to work, a least a bit, everyday, and I am loving coffee shop game. People stay in a coffee place for like 8 hours. Lots of intense eye contact, I'd done some direct approaches, about as hot as anything else here. Everyone is super nice to me.
Final note... it's essentially just like home for me, w/ +1 for hotter girls (I love Asian girls, especially J-girls), and -1 for English. Wash. And that makes sense. Game is game.
I'm going to put in my time and see how I do... need to ramp up Daygame. Anybody want to join?? I'm going to do 2-4 days a week, 2 hours each. I'm here for 2 more weeks.
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