Post: #476

You need to let go of past obstacles and stop letting them impede your progress. Might sound cliche but if you just forget about everything that happened previously and re arranged your mindset it will be easier then trying to finding out what was wrong with your previous actions.

Post: #477

(01-03-2018 11:44 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  GM

During an interview with SUCCESS magazine, world champion racing driver Mario Andretti was asked for his number one tip for success in race car driving. He said, “Don’t look at the wall. Your car goes where your eyes go.”

When newbie drivers are starting to race, this is one of the most crucial lessons that they learn. When you’re driving at 200mph you need to focus on the road in front of you. If you look at the wall, then you’ll end up hitting it! The same could be said for your life, your work, and dealing with women.

They teach the same thing to downhill skiers. Look down the slope at where you want to go...not at your skis.

Hawaiians have a saying "Think shark, see shark". You starting to see a common theme here?

It's your inner dialogue that's off...not you.

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Very on point..

Post: #478

Post: #479

Wow, interesting thread. I'm surprised I never came across it before.

What you focus on, is truly what is important. OP proves this 100%.

My suggestions:

1. Fix your self-image. This will take a while, quite possible a very long while. Suggested Book: Psycho-Cybernetics

2. Keep improving on physical escalation. This will open you up more and more, and you'll have more fun experience with girls. Suggested Book: The Physical Game by Ozzy at RSD

3. Buy or download Tony Robbin's "Personal Power 2". This will really help you appreciate life and how amazing it truly is. Girls or no girls, life is fucking beautiful. You just need to be awakened to that philosophy.

4. If you still haven't found what you're looking for after all 3 of those, look into deeper esoteric self-help like The Master Key.

Post: #480

As someone who actually gets pussy (see my rep and post history)

"Game" hasn't worked because you think "game" is real

Post: #481

Wow what a rollercoaster of a thread. I hope OP is still alive and well, but these recent posts of his weren't very positive. My suggestions: Get off the weed for a week or a month or however long to not miss it. Sure weed in moderation is completely fine, but doing it daily is not doing you any favors. After being off weed for awhile, you can reflect and possibly go back to weed once a week at maximum. Obviously a ton of porn everyday isn't very good either, try to quit that at the same time. Eventually your life will be put upside down and you can reflect on it.

I may or may not be barreling to this exact situation as the OP but to be fair I only have like 1% of his approaches. Still I am optimistic to start a new chapter in my life, hence the joining of this forum.

Post: #482

(06-05-2018 04:42 AM)whiteknightrises Wrote:  As someone who actually gets pussy (see my rep and post history)

"Game" hasn't worked because you think "game" is real

It's kind of real, but it can only be played on 'maybe girls'. If you approach some stunning teen and she has literally zero interest in you due to the way you look or whatever, then all of the teases and cold reads and negs (game) isn't gonna help one bit, unfortunately. I know this from experience! lol

Post: #483

Hey Greenman, I really appreciate your posts. I respect your struggle and I'm hoping for the best for you.

As an aside, nice work realizing that the SEA girl was giving you a girlfriend experience and was not, in fact, respecting you as a man. Guys with much more experience than you have fallen head over heels for women like that, to their long term detriment. That said, if you ever decide to go that route, as long as you're aware of what you're getting into, then it is what it is.

At the same time, if you truly are interested in going the non P4P, non sponsorship route, then you've been told by several repped members what course of action needs to be taken to raise your SMV, several times, and have decided not to pursue any of those recommendations. So while nature may have initially worked against you, your weed addiction, porn addiction, and refusal to bulk up are all on you.

Nonetheless, I respect your struggle and I'm hoping for the best for you.

Keep us updated.

Post: #484

Wow, this thread has inspired me to post my own story.

I have recently turned 29 and like thegreenman, I am an incel apart from hookers, who always leave me feeling unsatisfied.

People don't realise how difficult it is to get female contact in this feminist society where being a straight, red blooded male is seen as a negative thing.

I have only done 200 or so approaches but have been asked to cease and desist a total of 7 times by security, my manager at an old job, women themselves have told me off, etc.

People in 2008 told me "awwww, don't worry, you're young, you'll find a girlfriend". "Don't feel the pressure of modern society, it's not all about sex".

Well like me tell you, when you have been feeling horny from the age of 13, it most definitely IS all about sex, then once you've had it I'd bet you'd chill out a bit.

Yeah, I don't know quite how I landed in this situation, I've never found myself around women regularly, never had female friends, I don't know anything about female interaction.

Now I've let my entire prime slip past without ever indulging in the sweet juices of a young girl. I'm talking 18-25 year old girls. In their prime.

I will always be "the creepy old man" having never experienced being the average young guy who's good with chicks.

I totally relate to how thegreenman feels about missing you're prime and how 30 is a massive down turn.

Post: #485

If you are looking for help or advice, you will have to give a little more detail. What country are you in? Do you live in a big city or a small town? How are your controllable variables (ie: are you rich/poor, in shape or out of shape, style, etc)?

Most importantly, do you have male friends or an otherwise normal social life? The fact that a manager at your old job told you to stop talking to a woman makes it clear that your social calibration is off in some way. You should never make direct approaches on women in your workplace.

I do think there is already a lot of good advice stated on this thread that I highly recommend that you read closely.