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RE: Poland and what is getting on my nerves
(06-21-2014 07:02 PM)Booyah Wrote: Could you just explain me what do you mean writing 'culture' ?
maybe im wrong but I have this feeling you just confuse a term
Firstly and most importantly, customs, habits and interesting but true stereotypes of the local people. Stories, music, beliefs, food, DOs and DONTs, rituals, drinks, interesting facts about the country and the people, basically anything that is UNIQUE about the country and its inhabitants. If that's not what culture means, then sorry I confused the term. That's what I meant by culture. And I meant no disrespect. I'm someone who really enjoys observing and soaking in a country's culture, then I write about it on my blog. Despite all my attempts, I failed to observe much in Poland, and what I observed was mainly those negative things I wrote above.
PS: I lived in a flat with Polish people, and I stayed away from foreigners, tourists and Erasmus students. So my experience was close to 100% Polish.
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(06-21-2014 06:59 PM)turkishcandy Wrote: In EE, I was most impressed with Serbian and Ukrainian culture. Romania also seemed like it had a lot to offer, but my stay was too short. In WE, German and French culture stroke me the most, but it would be a mistake to compare these 2 to Poland.
If by "culture" we mean the set of values and ideas that live in the minds of a given population (i.e., the "software" of a population of humans), then culture merely is. Its existence is never at stake. If a country's culture is very different from one's culture, one would call it "distinctive". If it's similar, one would call it "not distinctive".
What is Polish culture? In my humble opinion:
- The clash between Catholic indoctrination and Slavic pragmatism.
- The trauma of the period between the early 1790s and the early 1990s, which included three partitions of Poland, several bloody invasions, loss of considerable percentage of the population (serious impact on the gene pool), and the humiliating Soviet colonization.
- Wounded pride stemming from the fact that Poland was once a proud regional power capable of defeating all its powerful neighbors, and it has suffered humiliation and tragedy repeatedly in recent decades. This is found mostly in men and older women (who lived in Soviet times), since young women live in the present and are generally utterly uninterested in history, even the history of their own country. Yet, I have met Polish women who told me they would never date a German man, since it would be disrespectful towards their ancestors.
"The great secret of happiness in love is to be glad that the other fellow married her." – H.L. Mencken
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RE: Poland and what is getting on my nerves
turkishcandy.
Ukraine having more culture than Poland? LOL how long have you LIVED in Ukraine? Poland is a country with a much longer history. customs? the 2 countries share a lot of customs but a lot of Ukrainian customs are originally from Poland. and what rituals you mean?
what did you expect from your Polish flatmates? to do the rituals in front of you ?  and yeah you complain about the holidays and then say there are no tradition even though most of the traditions in EE are associated with religion
Ukrane has no Nobel Prize winners in literature (in fact it has no Ukriainian nobel prize winners at all).
"Poland has no culture. No traditional music, food, customs, traditions. There is nothing special about this country to begin with. And, like that wasn't enough, it's getting more and more westernized everyday."
you sound really ignorant. it looks like you didnt even make an effort to get to know this country.
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RE: Poland and what is getting on my nerves
Regarding the changes when you pay something, just get a credit card - for free - and you can pay bypass everywhere without pin (amount below 50pln). Problem solved. It took me 5 minutes and a passport to get my card (sent 2 days after).
I've been from Krakow to Wien by car and highways were better quality on Polish side, especially from Krakow to Katowice. From Krakow to Wroclaw, 3hours by bus, 15pln; What else ? You want to go to Gdansk for a weekend to escape from busy Krakow ? Just take the plane, 1 hour.
Poles don't like Russian but I haven't seen so much animosity towards others countries/nationalities. We do joke with my polish friends towards black and arabs because I'm French and they laugh about how many africans there are in France. From my eyes, in 6 months, I've never witnessed truly racism against someone. I don't speak very well polish so I probably missed what they said sometimes about some people, but no actions like assault on a black guy in the street or club.
Poles are very welcoming and proud to show you around and invite you to parties and other things. I can't even count how many times they helped me with basic stuff when I arrived here in Poland. My manager coming to my place at 9 pm to bring me a small heater during winter because mine was not working anymore; a colleague coming with me at 7 in the morning to tax office to deal with taxes papers, a colleague brought me strawberries from her Mum's garden, and so so ... I have hundred of stories that you cannot even imagine happening in France for example. Just get some interest to their culture and learn some basic language and it will open the doors.
Regarding butterfaces problems, I think there is a misunderstanding. The fact is 99% of the hottest polish girls stay with polish dudes. It means, you barely never see a foreigner with a extremely cute polish girl. That's why some people may complain because they don't get the hottest girls.
The "slut" behavior of polish girls that I read here often is not the reality. I would say most of polish girls are not what it is described here. You have a small minority of girls going to clubs and trying to find a guy for a night. In a city like Krakow it seems that there is a lot of this kind of girls but it's just because it's a student city and you have more young girls in this mood. I have many friends - mostly from my work - who are girls between 20-26 and none of them behave as a slut. Even if they dress with short skirts and heels at work it doesn't mean they are slut. They just like to dress this way.
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RE: Poland and what is getting on my nerves
(06-21-2014 07:10 PM)turkishcandy Wrote: Firstly and most importantly, customs, habits and interesting but true stereotypes of the local people. Stories, music, beliefs, food, DOs and DONTs, rituals, drinks, interesting facts about the country and the people, basically anything that is UNIQUE about the country and its inhabitants. If that's not what culture means, then sorry I confused the term. That's what I meant by culture. And I meant no disrespect. I'm someone who really enjoys observing and soaking in a country's culture, then I write about it on my blog. Despite all my attempts, I failed to observe much in Poland, and what I observed was mainly those negative things I wrote above.
PS: I lived in a flat with Polish people, and I stayed away from foreigners, tourists and Erasmus students. So my experience was close to 100% Polish.
I know what you mean. It goes a little something like this..
People of age 40+ are enjoying their freedom and recovering from bad past experiences, either war or communism period. While they appreciate newfound freedom they already got used to that after 20 years so now they live comfortably enough to have no motivation to fight for their dying culture. So they just don't care. And when they look at their children or grandchildren they lose all hope. Which is understandable.
Younger generation, born around 1980 and up have huge insecurity issues. They were born in a free country but feel sooooo below fellow Europeans that they desperately try to catch up with the west by impressing them how progressive and "modern" they can be. Polish culture/tradition is still alive in their hearts but the rat race they participate in makes them slowly forget about their national identity.
And then there's the latest "Internet kids" generation, born around 1995+ that consists of ignorant little fucks entitled to everything who don't give a flying fuck about anything boring or sentimental such as tradition or native culture. They just eat up everything that west feeds them and shit on their parents wisdom thinking they are independent individuals. The bigger the city they live in the more confident they look. But in the end it's all smoke and mirrors pose that allows them to be cool. Once you strip them of validation they turn to useless crybabies with no spine whatsoever.
Girls have changed a bit too. Sure, most of them are still somewhat nice but if you dig deeper you WILL meet bunch of bitches with an attitude "cheering to the freaking weekend, having ray bans on feeling hella cool that niiiiight"
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RE: Poland and what is getting on my nerves
Advantages of Poland:
1.Super service especially by women with traditional clothing and big decoltes who always bow with a smile to get the extra tip
2.Clubs open every night
3.Shops open very long hours.If you are hungry you can get sth to eat ASAP.The same if you are thirsty there is no way you will have to drink your urine or overpay.
4.Taxis everywhere.In case a drunk girl collapses on your lap a taxi driver always comes to save the situation.
5.Extra cheap public transportation with hotties inside.
6.Tasty polish food and very cheap even in good restaurants
7.WiFi everywhere to communicate with dziewczyny
8.Gallerias and clubs in close distance so that women do not complain
9.Women smoking approachable everywhere
Try to find all of the above in the West.In fact Westerners think Poles are suckers for providing so much for so little cost.All the above are part of the slavic comfort which takes excellent dimensions in CR.(there is efficiency and talent there).
Slavic countries are heavens for drinkers,fuckers and eaters.This means that if you travel to eat,drink and fuck you will be successful.
They are not so good for people who like dogs,handicapped,elderly,tatooed fat women with green hair,gays etc.
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RE: Poland and what is getting on my nerves
(06-22-2014 09:25 AM)Greek kamaki Wrote: Roads:Roads are a bad thing if you fuck roads.In case you fuck women you will not be disturbed.
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