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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
(07-16-2015 11:42 PM)GreenHills Wrote: - On a larger scale. Bitchy girls are bitchy because of their personality, not because they have Leo Dicaprio on tap waiting on the phone in their back pocket.
This is a good point and I feel there is a lot to it. Some of the behaviour out there is absolutely cuntish, I've seen friends some of which are 8s and 9s get blown out and flaked on by girls as if they are worth nothing and other behaviour, and this stuff is regular. A 7 girl goes into every date in comparison knowing the guy wants to fuck her and many guys would do anything to be with her, they are the fucking royalty of the modern age and the entitlement has gone through the roof. All this shitty behaviour is strongly related to many girls being absolutely spoilt and pampered by parents/ex-boyfriends and also the other ends of daddy issues and the like (stemming from broken down families/divorces at an all time high). Also men are brought up being told to be nice to women, women don't get told to be nice to men rather more so how to scheme men to get what you want out of life, just take a look at the amount of women on Seeking Arrangement many who are utterly average.
The supply of cock on the horizon is just one part of the reason some (many) women act like absolute cunts. It is not even the supply of cock in its actuality but what's in their heads - the belief that they can get a man with the click of their fingers. The truth is that they can, but it is a false economy as the beta guys bore them and aren't attractive to them and the alpha guys are one in a dozen and often a time aren't exclusive to them and don't care about them at all. They realise this false economy further down the road, and replace some of the bitchy behaviour into bitterness.
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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
(07-17-2015 12:22 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote: (07-16-2015 11:42 PM)GreenHills Wrote: - On a larger scale. Bitchy girls are bitchy because of their personality, not because they have Leo Dicaprio on tap waiting on the phone in their back pocket.
This is a good point and I feel there is a lot to it. Some of the behaviour out there is absolutely cuntish, I've seen friends some of which are 8s and 9s get blown out and flaked on by girls as if they are worth nothing and other behaviour, and this stuff is regular. A 7 girl goes into every date in comparison knowing the guy wants to fuck her and many guys would do anything to be with her, they are the fucking royalty of the modern age and the entitlement has gone through the roof. All this shitty behaviour is strongly related to many girls being absolutely spoilt and pampered by parents/ex-boyfriends and also the other ends of daddy issues and the like (stemming from broken down families/divorces at an all time high). Also men are brought up being told to be nice to women, women don't get told to be nice to men rather more so how to scheme men to get what you want out of life, just take a look at the amount of women on Seeking Arrangement many who are utterly average.
The supply of cock on the horizon is just one part of the reason some (many) women act like absolute cunts. It is not even the supply of cock in its actuality but what's in their heads - the belief that they can get a man with the click of their fingers. The truth is that they can, but it is a false economy as the beta guys bore them and aren't attractive to them and the alpha guys are one in a dozen and often a time aren't exclusive to them and don't care about them at all. They realise this false economy further down the road, and replace some of the bitchy behaviour into bitterness.
Some reasons why the behavior is cuntish:
- Women are not afraid of men. You can't touch a woman here. I come from a country where women are a bit more reserved when they're outside, because they know that there are guys that can possibly be violent if dealing with a misbehaving woman, with no consequences. Maybe some of the guys who have been in Russia / Ukraine can give an opinion about these places as well. And frankly most of the city guys in the US are just so harmless.
- Big American cities are completely anonymous.
- Guys approach random girls. Work only with girls in your social circle and the behavior won't be cuntish. I've never had a girl I knew socially that behaved bad. Of course, random approaches are a part of game, so we can't say no to them.
- Ex boyfriends, parents. Agreed, all are a factor.
Roosh said it well:
http://www.rooshv.com/women-are-abusive-...onstrained
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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
Just a reminder for guys who on POF- you should be using the "Locals" feature on the phone app.
This uses GPS to show you POFfers who are in your area.
How you use it:
This is effective for guys like me who live in towns that get a lot of tourists or really any larger city that get a lot a business travelers.
Click on the Locals icon on the menu page.
You will see a gallery of profile pics along with the distance they are from you.
Scroll down. If you use POF regularly you will recognize the mugs of your local whores. Ignore them. You are looking for faces you don't recognize. Click on any that might be bangable and check their profile for their hometown. If they are from out of town-bingo! Shoot them an opener.
Message with them a bit and slip in some question to find out why they're in town. If they're with a family group or visiting family I blow them off because in my experience your odds of a bang are very low. If they are vacationing with friends or on a business trip you have a decent chance. It's well known that women away from home are much more likely to engage in casual sex. Set up a drink meeting and go for the SNL.
Recent example-saw a girl on locals and that she was from a distant city. Opened her, chatted, found out she was here with friends for the weekend. Met her at a bar where she was with her friends that same night, got along well, she waved off her friends, I took her to my house for skinny dipping and a bang. Very easy; she was looking for some vacation dick. This would also be great for guys who live in cities that get a lot of business travelers- they are often alone or with boring coworkers. Arrange to meet near her hotel then get up to her room.
I check Locals every day right now because we are slammed with summer tourists here. Tourist girls are some of the easiest bangs you will ever get. If you aren't using Locals you are missing out.
"If anything's gonna happen, it's gonna happen out there!- Captain Ron
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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
Got another tourist girl bang using the POF Locals feature.
If a girl on vacation is willing to meet you for a drink when she's only in town for a few days and very likely will never see you again, she's strongly considering having casual sex. Obviously, she knows you two aren't going to be dating. They are in party mode, so cocky/funny, drinking, and ramping up the kino double time is the winning formula.
"If anything's gonna happen, it's gonna happen out there!- Captain Ron
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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
Just wanted to share this funny story of another clueless chick. This "model" hit me up the other day on okc and wanted to meet after work for dinner. Had a pretty face, but a lack of body pics definitely made me wave the red flag. She said she used to model but tripped over cables on a shoot and now has a permanent back injury and can't exercise anymore...lol yeah right. I was like how about we go for a walk in the park or the mall and then get drinks after, (instead of the free dinner for her.) She was like, OMG meet a stranger in the park! NO WAY! She said she felt more comfortable in a dinner setting for a first meeting (aka,this is why you're fat bitch). So I was like well I prefer something more active for a 1st date, I don't take strangers to dinner either, sorry honey. No free lunches on me, i've learned that the hard way with 1st date dinners, no dinner til we have established biblical relations. This brokeback BBW model can't even walk in the park without a trigger warning, but expects guys to pay for her dinner, LOL. It blew my mind, but it it made it so easy to next her when she wouldn't fold to my frame. Game saves my wallet another $50.
I ended up meeting a way hotter chick at the corner bar for 2 drinks, and by the time we got back to my place she came in and within 2 minutes she was like "let me see your bedroom".
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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
So this happened today.... This profile visited mine, so I went to check her out...
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My self-summary
I am a very young Woman, , Married woman who loves taking care of myself and loves trying to be on Shape. I "recently moved here" with my 65 Old husband and i can say i felt something is wrong, something is Missing.. I am here for exploration because i have a very Boring husband. I have to be honest that i have a 3 year old Kid. So i am very careful and discreet about this. I have a very Discreet Kinky Side(BDSM) which my husband doesn't want to partake no matter how i tried. I want a real submissive guy for discreet session but you should know that i am not going to do this instantly. So let me ask you, do you Want to play with a real, sexy, kinky, fetishist Lady ready to please you and for you to please me? Have a fetish or fantasy you want to play out? I'm totally open-minded and when I say I have no limits, I mean it! There isn't anything too freaky for me to indulge. So don't be afraid to drop me a message containing your email address. I'm very kinky and need to indulge my wild side. I also love role playing, so if you want to get dirty and do me every which way while we role play your favorite scene.
Maybe you're married? But your wife isn't into anything but sleeping in the bedroom. Leave your email address and ill be the one to contact you.
I love traveling, shoes, Fashion and being in Control.
I don't have any issue traveling for the right and deserving Submissive Guy.
Leave your email address and ill be the one to contact you."
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Smells like a scam to me... Any Thoughts???
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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
(07-26-2015 01:00 AM)Remington Wrote: Had another OKC chick just leave. Got the bang. Sex was really awkward because she said she didn't know how to deal with my height...that was a first.
She sounds ungrateful that you gave her the bang.
(07-27-2015 04:10 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote: Ended up giving a fucking bot my phone number..., opened a young milf with a line about a short-term relationship. She responded but my follow up wasn't as strong. Another thing I'm starting to think about is, if I don't have logistics on lock and can't bring a chick back wouldn't it be a waste time going on dates that won't lead anywhere. My best chances at getting lays are going to the girl's crib or finding a free spirited nympho that wants to have sex in strange places.
Might sound obvious, but sounds like you need to be working on the aspects of your life that will make getting bangs easier.
Also look at getting in to other areas where you can approach, ie: not online. Online is mainly validation fuel for lizard brains. Approaching in bars, clubs, shops, street etc will build your confidence and give you access to those free spirited nymphos. Those girls don't wait online for guys.
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