Post: #26

Yes, we were together 6 years. If she had cheated on me within the first 2-3 years I would have been devastated, but looking back I'm relieved it ended the way it did. I would have most likely been talked into marriage + kids and would remain a blue beta boy for life

Post: #27

This is really the type of question that guys shouldn't even be thinking about. It's better to concentrate on things that bring more value to you. Wondering if you have been cheated on brings nothing to the table for any of us.

Post: #28

Perhaps it brings comfort for OP to know other red pill men have also been cheated on.

Post: #29

Not that i know of. There was an "incident" at a bar where my ex-gf had been groped by some dude in their group on the dance floor. Next day she came to me bawling and told me what happened. Didn't really bother me. Best way to avoid cheating? Stay alpha, stay aloof, never show jealousy.

Post: #30

(03-20-2014 10:30 AM)Skye Wrote:  Perhaps it brings comfort for OP to know other red pill men have also been cheated on.

You made my point. Needing to hear that other guys got cheated to feel good tells me he has some stuff to work on. It has nothing to do with cheating.

Post: #31

Or maybe he's simply curious and wants to explore a cause (being cheated on) and effect (becoming a red pill alpha player etc. and posting on RVF). I could imagine it being a fairly prevalent thing, and with the last page there's been a large body of evidence of cheating from 16 year olds in relationships to 6 year old marriages.

Post: #32

Wasn't there a thread with someone claiming they were never ever cheated on and they were 100% about it?

Post: #33

My first girlfriend who I dated for around 2 and a half years.. Devastated at the time but turns out it was the best thing that could've happened. I was madly whipped thinking marriage/kids with this chick.