Post: #1

its difficult to find the good threads since the forum is so big. I can get laid but I can't get laid consistently and when your close friends are wusses its hard to keep improving. I know I am still a 'beta' otherwise I would not post this.

Just looking to be pointed in the right direction of posts for anyone that knows the forum better than me. Cheers

Post: #2

It's good to see your desire to get better and improve yourself, regardless of your friends. I am not sure of one specific thread that will help that. There is so much more to it than just "do this and it will magically happen". Roosh's books, Bang and Day Bang are great resources as well as Christian McQueen's The Alpha Playboy is a great read. Those books are a great start to cover a lot to get things started toward greatness.

Post: #3

You need to list what things disappoint you or frustrate you. Take just 5 minutes to do this.

Take a long hard look at this list. Ask yourself, how much control you have to fix any of it and write down the level of control you have and can have in the future.

For example People driving like asses – no control. On the other hand, approaching girls – have control but need to get better. Being more assertive – have control but need to get better. You get the point.

Either share your list or do some searches on the forum from this list. For example a search for “eye contact” brings up a lot of good shit. If you share, I’m sure there will be other members who would be happy to help further.

Post: #4

Just read read read, doesn't need to be anything specific, just browse the forum regularly. You'll pick things up.
Also, don't blame your friends. I don't see how they factor in. If you need wing men and your current friends can't step up, find new friends.

Post: #5

Welcome to the forum...

You're right there's hundreds of great threads with loads of useful information and techniques that take you through any given situation with a chick from the time you pull out the chair for her at the restaurant up until you are slapping that ass in bed.

However, it's important that you record/are aware of what has brought you success SO FAR and continue to hone and accentuate/amplify those winning moves.

Some newer guys will read through this forum from front to back, left to right and leave more confused then they entered. Reason why is because they don't know pay attention to what they ALREADY have going for themselves (height, looks, cash flow, style, blood line)

You will read conflicting opinions and methods from a lot of the successful senior members on here. Guys can have different views or not agree on the EXACT same issue. Sometimes there is NO right or wrong way. As the old folks say - there's more than one way to skin a cat!

You can't implement every single technique, because what works for one cat won't work for another (vice versa)

That's why it's important to take morsels here and there, mix em' up in a pot and refine your own thang. You are already doing your thing, which puts you AHEAD of 95% of the guys entering the gates of RVF. You just sound like you want to do it to a higher degree which is cool.

Just know thyself, and become commander of your OWN world and vibe and you WILL get what you want out of this player lifestyle

Just my two cents...

This is a good read http://www.realmenabroad.com/2014/01/the...queen.html