Post: #26

(03-09-2014 10:29 PM)Draugr Wrote:  Cars are mean to be ridden in, is it alright if I were to lift your keys and take yours for a ride?

Nah man, it would be more like me leaving the keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked.

Quote:Women are always unhappy, and looking for an out.

Another excuse, eh?

Post: #27

(03-09-2014 10:28 PM)Onto Wrote:  How is that making an excuse for her? Have you lost your mind? Where do I blame anyone? If you want to fuck other guys girls than have at it, but don't try to pass yourself as some Alpha male that's "The Man". All chicks that have been in a relationship for awhile are easy Pickens....especially after the holidays, New Years, and Valentines Day.

You're the one talking about alpha males. I'm starting to think your a woman.

Post: #28

(03-09-2014 10:40 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

(03-09-2014 10:28 PM)Onto Wrote:  How is that making an excuse for her? Have you lost your mind? Where do I blame anyone? If you want to fuck other guys girls than have at it, but don't try to pass yourself as some Alpha male that's "The Man". All chicks that have been in a relationship for awhile are easy Pickens....especially after the holidays, New Years, and Valentines Day.

You're the one talking about alpha males. I'm starting to think your a woman.

Between the two of us, your more the woman since you can't use reason effectively, or answer pointed questions. You can't even give a specific reason why you think I'm a woman. How old are you anyways?

Post: #29

@worldwidetraveller

Its a motor pool car. Just because you like that particular vehicle doesn't make it yours.

Plus, any woman can be tempted away from any situation.

Post: #30

And we are talking about Alpha males.

Post: #31

On the ladder of women, banging a cheater is one rung above a hooker.

Post: #32

(03-09-2014 10:58 PM)Draugr Wrote:  @worldwidetraveller

Its a motor pool car. Just because you like that particular vehicle doesn't make it yours.

Plus, any woman can be tempted away from any situation.

Comparing a woman to a car might be part of your problem. As for women being tempted, so what? They can either say yes or no just like the rest of us. If a woman spreads her legs for you, while you're in a relationship, you can either say yes or no.

I don't have a problem if you do or don't. It's up to you and you decide what your boundaries are.

I certainly won't be trying to shame you for not fucking a woman while you're in a relationship by saying things like "you're not an alpha man if you didn't fuck her". That is what women do.

Post: #33

Boundries are nice in theory, but if you can't enforce them, then they don't exist.

And I don't bother with anything as passive aggressive as shaming.

The question is one of honesty, integrity, and being trust worthy among other men.

Post: #34

(03-09-2014 11:16 PM)Draugr Wrote:  Boundries are nice in theory, but if you can't enforce them, then they don't exist.

Boundaries could mean you walk. If that isn't a big enough boundary for your woman then you are not high value enough in her eyes. That should be something to work on.

Quote:And I don't bother with anything as passive aggressive as shaming.

Really? Sure you do.

(03-09-2014 11:02 PM)Draugr Wrote:  And we are talking about Alpha males.

Quote:The question is one of honesty, integrity, and being trust worthy among other men.

Haha I love it man.

I really wouldn't care if I slept with your woman or not. If you don't work on yourself to be of high value where she would care to lose you than why should I care?

Post: #35

So you base your value solely on the judgement of women?

I do care when other men think they can sneak around my back and pilfer what I lay claim to.

Post: #36

(03-09-2014 11:30 PM)Draugr Wrote:  So you base your value solely on the judgement of women?

I never said that. If a woman values you enough, she will be scared to lose you to temptation. If she still cheats on you then leave. No problem. That hardly means my value is based on her judgement.

Nice try though.

Quote:I do care when other men think they can sneak around my back and pilfer what I lay claim to.

Sounds like a problem you need to correct. I would hate going through life worrying about other men fucking my women. I certainly wouldn't want to rely on other men being "respectful" and "honest" by not fucking my women. I would rather rely on myself and not others.

Post: #37

Women only value themselves. Any man is only on bad day away from being valued.

And it has nothimg to with being valued. I don't cotton to being disrespected by another man.

Post: #38

(03-09-2014 11:38 PM)Draugr Wrote:  I don't cotton to being disrespected by another man.

Not a damn thing you can do about it.

Post: #39

Really now?

Post: #40

(03-09-2014 11:45 PM)Draugr Wrote:  Really now?

This isn't a chat program. Don't clog up the thread with this nonsense.

Post: #41

What nonsense?

I am just saying that there can be dire blow back from messing around behind someone's back.

And also it is indicative of an untrustworthy person. Such a person would be considered to be fair game to also cheat out of money, et al.

He is also probably the type without solid friends.

Post: #42

(03-09-2014 11:56 PM)Draugr Wrote:  What nonsense?

Making an open ended statement that relays no information is nonsense.

Quote:I am just saying that there can be dire blow back from messing around behind someone's back.

And also it is indicative of an untrustworthy person. Such a person would be considered to be fair game to also cheat out of money, et al.

So, what? You're going to offer the guy an investment? There isn't a thing you can do if she wants to cheat. You're showing some really bad tendencies in some of your posts. Why the hell would you want revenge? Is your ego so attached to one chick that you need to spend time on getting revenge because some other guy gave her what you couldn't? You're better off just fucking other women and letting it all go.

That is why even if you're in a relationship or married you keep your shit together. That way you will always have options if the relationship goes south. The more options, the less you worry about losing one girl

Quote:He is also probably the type without solid friends.

Now that is some male hamsterism.

Post: #43

Let's me just say I don't to post anything where it would appear the board advocates illegal activity.

Post: #44

(03-10-2014 12:07 AM)Draugr Wrote:  Let's me just say I don't to post anything where it would appear the board advocates illegal activity.

You would risk jail over ONE chick? haha Too funny man.

Post: #45

Why would you assume police involvement?

Post: #46

(03-08-2014 10:23 PM)jariel Wrote:  I am in the process of taking another man's woman.

I found out early on in our interaction, that she was with another man, but once I sensed her desire to be possessed by another man, I made the decision that I was going to have her in any way that he could have her.

In doing so, like a bunt, I laid down my game, and she waived me in when I reached third.

Earlier today, I slid into home.

So now she has, at least in one way, left her man.

Regular red pill consumption forces one to see mankind and the world it inhabits for what it is, and eschewing all of its inherent facades.

For example, one can't chastise another for taking someone's woman when it's possible that they have done same thing, yet unknowingly.

Consciousness doesn't determine reality.

So today, I didn't take another man's woman, she gave me what me what she wanted me to have, and I accepted it. That's reality.

But do I want her?

He can keep her; whatever she's capable of doing to him, she could do to me.

I already got what I wanted.

Keep that in mind as you move forward.

No one breaks up a "happy home", because if the home is truly happy, it can't be broken.

Think you approached this the cleanest way possible, Jariel. Good for you... Personally, I don't like living in fear (that means the terrorists win) but I've seen on three separate occasions slighted men going after the guys who stole their chicks out from under them. Ultimately, you have to live your life the way you want to, but always a good idea to try and reduce the unnecessary drama in your life.

Post: #47

(03-09-2014 06:50 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  There seems to be a lot of talk about how women are hypergamous and that it's a bad thing. There is also a lot of talk how women get away with bad behavior because men allow it.

Now, the real question, from the way I see it, is should we as men be allowing this behavior to happen? By participating, in such behavior, we are not only allowing it to happen, but also encouraging it.

When do men stop complaining about women's bad behavior and start doing something about it?

The logic I usually see behind participating in, and, consequently, encouraging such behavior is embodied in the oft heard saying "enjoy the decline". I guess the theory is that engaging in this behavior will cause an upheaval down the road in response to the aforementioned behavior, thereby causing that behavior to become stigmatized.

In my imagination, the process looks something like this:

behavior appears--> men find behavior problematic --> men engage in said behavior anyways --> society declines/deteriorates --> problem becomes so bad that it can't be ignored anymore --> society changes attitude towards behavior

Simply put, if you think something is a problem, do your best to make it worse until, eventually, everyone agrees that it's a problem. This is what some men are doing about it instead of complaining.

Post: #48

I used to get off on stealing dude's girls or pulling robberies as we called it. As I've gotten older it started to lose its appeal due to the drama involved. The girl gets attached then has a meltdown when you don't want to make her your lady or she feels like a whore for cheating. Boyfriend finds out sooner or later and now you have to throw down over a piece of ass. I always left married women alone because angry husbands have a habit of shooting the guys fucking their wives. I'm still down to fuck girls with boyfriends, but I make it a one time thing instead of an ongoing affair.

Post: #49

(03-08-2014 10:23 PM)jariel Wrote:  I am in the process of taking another man's woman.

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No one breaks up a "happy home", because if the home is truly happy, it can't be broken.

This is a lot simpler than people are making it out to be.

If you prefer to go after girls that are "taken" whether married or otherwise, that reflects on you (there IS something going on with you that's negative, some trauma or something you haven't dealt with internally).

If you just pursue what you like and you end up fucking some girls that are "taken" whether you know it or not and you don't specifically make more effort to go after the ones that might be "taken" then you're fine.

If you pursue ONLY girls that are "free" and would feel absolutely shitty if you landed a girl that was "taken" and found out about it afterwards, that reflects on you too.

Post: #50

A lot of guys get off on it because it strokes their ego.


You could definitely see this with op if you read the question he posits in the openining post.

Soup here reflects a more wise approach "it's the same thing" it doesn't matter

if you think about it she could be cheating on her bf with more than one guy, so op might not be as special as he thinks. Any dick will do.

Personally it's not a moral issue but i don't find the idea of fucking a woman who may have had her bf's cum in her mouth 1 to 24 hrs ago appealing to me. There's a lot a lot of drama that could be involved.

We all like to think we are the players, but girls play too. It's similar to the realization tucker Max had when he realized he too is a plate.

It's important to not let your ego cloud your judgement and think, how am I being used here?