Post: #26

I had a girl I was out with dump a beer over my head. I didn't slap her, but I did calmly get up, walk outside, and front kick a size 12 foot dent in her Mercedes door before leaving. The amount of discipline it took not to grab her by the hair, drag her into the bathroom, and then shove her face in the toilet before giving her a swirlie was a Sisyphean effort. In the "way it should be" world I would have smacked her.

Post: #27

A woman broke into my apartment when I lived in St. Louis and I beat the living piss out of her.

I'll never forget the look on that cops face. He said "sir, you did this to a woman." I said "fuck you, that's a crackhead." I couldn't believe how many people after that told me how evil I was for hurting that poor woman with the crack cocaine addiction.

Aloha!

Post: #28

Women pull this shit to find out where your bounaries are and how much they can get away with.

Women find my boundaries pretty damn quickly and when they do, they step back and respect the boundaries and respect me or they get kicked to the curb.

If they don't find the boundaries they will just keep pushing on and on further and further to find out where they are and they WILL get even more pissed off with you and lose repsect with you every step of the way.

Post: #29

(01-04-2011 09:04 PM)YoungGunner Wrote:  Since I live in the U.S where people are quick to cry domestic violence though, I would just look her in the eye, and tell her in a serial-killer voice to either get over her insecurities and immaturity and change her behaviour or leave.

You know she will keep pushing those boundaries all the time. After a while your serial-killer voice will have absolutely no effect on her.

"get over her insecurities and immaturity and change her behaviour", that doesn't apply to women. If I was writing a thesis I wouldn't even type these words even after I start typing dfgjhgfkjh to fill up the pages so I can finish my thesis.

Wait till a woman pulls some shit on you then calls the cops with a rehearsed sob story while you contemplate slashing your wrists before the cops get there. Because you know that they are on her side and when they get there and you will somehow break your jaw, half your ribs, and have a black eye, if not two. You'll be lucky if nobody hears anything in jail because even wind of you hurting a woman gets out you're a dead man, aside from the fact that you suck dick everyday or otherwise a sharp object will pierce your organs if you don't. And these are false charges, even IF(and that's a big IF) you get acquitted of these false charges they will tell you to get lost, with no apology, or some money because you missed work.

You haven't walked around the next day with a 110 heart rate because the previous night your woman(your love of your life who wouldn't do anything like that you thought) pulled some shit on you.

Some of the most successful players have ice running down their veins. They are quick witted so the situation doesn't escalate in to some drama fest where the end result is you have to have very expensive dental work done.

This shit should be a mandatory class in high school. Just like they have every right to have women studies to spew their hatred and lies about men, we have every right to teach young men the realities of the world.

Post: #30

(01-04-2011 10:38 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I had a girl I was out with dump a beer over my head. I didn't slap her, but I did calmly get up, walk outside, and front kick a size 12 foot dent in her Mercedes door before leaving. The amount of discipline it took not to grab her by the hair, drag her into the bathroom, and then shove her face in the toilet before giving her a swirlie was a Sisyphean effort. In the "way it should be" world I would have smacked her.

How did you let things escalate to the point of her dumping beer on your head? I gotta tell you, that has not happened to me, and hopefully never will. Usually women do shit like that because they know a decent man who loves women will never hit a woman, so the beer is simply smacking your "ego" to cool off. However, making a dent in her Mercedes is a good reaction because you then attack her need for attention and insecurities.

In the end, everybody loses when shit gets this bad. I tend to stay away from psycho girls like this as they give off a LOT of red flags way before it gets to this point. The greatest players known when to hold 'em, and know when to walk away as the song goes...

Mixx

Post: #31

My ex slapped me in my sleep and when I woke up, startled, she pretended she was asleep. I was so groggy, I thought it was a dream (it wasn't that hard a slap) but in retro, I know she did it.

Why did she slap me? Because she felt that I was sneaking around with other women (I don't relinquish my phone for women to use and I always keep a lock on it).

Post: #32

(01-05-2011 10:13 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(01-04-2011 10:38 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I had a girl I was out with dump a beer over my head. I didn't slap her, but I did calmly get up, walk outside, and front kick a size 12 foot dent in her Mercedes door before leaving. The amount of discipline it took not to grab her by the hair, drag her into the bathroom, and then shove her face in the toilet before giving her a swirlie was a Sisyphean effort. In the "way it should be" world I would have smacked her.

How did you let things escalate to the point of her dumping beer on your head? I gotta tell you, that has not happened to me, and hopefully never will. Usually women do shit like that because they know a decent man who loves women will never hit a woman, so the beer is simply smacking your "ego" to cool off. However, making a dent in her Mercedes is a good reaction because you then attack her need for attention and insecurities.

In the end, everybody loses when shit gets this bad. I tend to stay away from psycho girls like this as they give off a LOT of red flags way before it gets to this point. The greatest players known when to hold 'em, and know when to walk away as the song goes...

Mixx

There were a lot of red flags. 1) She was a stripper. 2) She was always going on and on about "respect" (she was 22 wtf does she know about respect??) 3) We were both drinking at the time and I was ignoring her rants (I'd banged her several times before). Finally she turns on me talking about how I'm an asshole who doesn't respect her. I laughed and said "What are you going to do about it"? Beer gets dumped.

The funny thing is that I left and she stayed not knowing about what I did outside. She started txting me an hr later about how she was sorry and wanting to see me. Of course, I didn't even respond. She was/is just batshit crazy and I did make the mistake of thinking I was impervious to anything she could have done. It honestly never crossed my mind that she would dump a beer on me. That had never happened to me before or since.

Post: #33

(01-05-2011 07:56 AM)wolf Wrote:  

(01-04-2011 09:04 PM)YoungGunner Wrote:  Since I live in the U.S where people are quick to cry domestic violence though, I would just look her in the eye, and tell her in a serial-killer voice to either get over her insecurities and immaturity and change her behaviour or leave.

You know she will keep pushing those boundaries all the time. After a while your serial-killer voice will have absolutely no effect on her.

"get over her insecurities and immaturity and change her behaviour", that doesn't apply to women. If I was writing a thesis I wouldn't even type these words even after I start typing dfgjhgfkjh to fill up the pages so I can finish my thesis.

Wait till a woman pulls some shit on you then calls the cops with a rehearsed sob story while you contemplate slashing your wrists before the cops get there. Because you know that they are on her side and when they get there and you will somehow break your jaw, half your ribs, and have a black eye, if not two. You'll be lucky if nobody hears anything in jail because even wind of you hurting a woman gets out you're a dead man, aside from the fact that you suck dick everyday or otherwise a sharp object will pierce your organs if you don't. And these are false charges, even IF(and that's a big IF) you get acquitted of these false charges they will tell you to get lost, with no apology, or some money because you missed work.

You haven't walked around the next day with a 110 heart rate because the previous night your woman(your love of your life who wouldn't do anything like that you thought) pulled some shit on you.

Some of the most successful players have ice running down their veins. They are quick witted so the situation doesn't escalate in to some drama fest where the end result is you have to have very expensive dental work done.

This shit should be a mandatory class in high school. Just like they have every right to have women studies to spew their hatred and lies about men, we have every right to teach young men the realities of the world.

"If I was writing a thesis I wouldn't even type these words even after I start typing dfgjhgfkjh to fill up the pages so I can finish my thesis."

Not sure what you mean by this, my point being if she keeps pushing after I've tried to diffuse the situation indirectly and told her that she can either change or leave that I would walk from her. If she constantly tries to give me shit and act rude to my friends why would I put up with it? If you mean she's downright psychopathic, not just having a fit, then that's an entirely different beast in terms of trying to dealing with her behaviour.

"Wait till a woman pulls some shit on you then..."

You've experienced this ? I know the law is biased towards women and that they are quick to tell lies to get the law on their side, and that no matter how conniving or psychotic they may be I'm going to be the one defending my actions and proving claims wrong if they accuse me, but that's the unfortunate reality. Maybe you misunderstood me when I used the term "serial killer voice." I meant cold stern and emotionless, not threatening or violent. I don't mean to sound rude but what would You suggest to deal with a women like this besides avoid her?

"Some of the most successful..."

That's my point. The "change her behaviour.." is the last thing I would try before I walk and the thing I would do after trying to diffuse the situation with other means . If that doesn't work then I know for sure things are never going to stabilize and that the girl will never be "normal," again, and that I would be best just not confronting a daunting issue like that.

Post: #34

(01-05-2011 05:03 PM)YoungGunner Wrote:  

(01-05-2011 07:56 AM)wolf Wrote:  

(01-04-2011 09:04 PM)YoungGunner Wrote:  Since I live in the U.S where people are quick to cry domestic violence though, I would just look her in the eye, and tell her in a serial-killer voice to either get over her insecurities and immaturity and change her behaviour or leave.

You know she will keep pushing those boundaries all the time. After a while your serial-killer voice will have absolutely no effect on her.

"get over her insecurities and immaturity and change her behaviour", that doesn't apply to women. If I was writing a thesis I wouldn't even type these words even after I start typing dfgjhgfkjh to fill up the pages so I can finish my thesis.

Wait till a woman pulls some shit on you then calls the cops with a rehearsed sob story while you contemplate slashing your wrists before the cops get there. Because you know that they are on her side and when they get there and you will somehow break your jaw, half your ribs, and have a black eye, if not two. You'll be lucky if nobody hears anything in jail because even wind of you hurting a woman gets out you're a dead man, aside from the fact that you suck dick everyday or otherwise a sharp object will pierce your organs if you don't. And these are false charges, even IF(and that's a big IF) you get acquitted of these false charges they will tell you to get lost, with no apology, or some money because you missed work.

You haven't walked around the next day with a 110 heart rate because the previous night your woman(your love of your life who wouldn't do anything like that you thought) pulled some shit on you.

Some of the most successful players have ice running down their veins. They are quick witted so the situation doesn't escalate in to some drama fest where the end result is you have to have very expensive dental work done.

This shit should be a mandatory class in high school. Just like they have every right to have women studies to spew their hatred and lies about men, we have every right to teach young men the realities of the world.

"If I was writing a thesis I wouldn't even type these words even after I start typing dfgjhgfkjh to fill up the pages so I can finish my thesis."

Not sure what you mean by this, my point being if she keeps pushing after I've tried to diffuse the situation indirectly and told her that she can either change or leave that I would walk from her. If she constantly tries to give me shit and act rude to my friends why would I put up with it? If you mean she's downright psychopathic, not just having a fit, then that's an entirely different beast in terms of trying to dealing with her behaviour.

"Wait till a woman pulls some shit on you then..."

You've experienced this ? I know the law is biased towards women and that they are quick to tell lies to get the law on their side, and that no matter how conniving or psychotic they may be I'm going to be the one defending my actions and proving claims wrong if they accuse me, but that's the unfortunate reality. Maybe you misunderstood me when I used the term "serial killer voice." I meant cold stern and emotionless, not threatening or violent. I don't mean to sound rude but what would You suggest to deal with a women like this besides avoid her?

"Some of the most successful..."

That's my point. The "change her behaviour.." is the last thing I would try before I walk and the thing I would do after trying to diffuse the situation with other means . If that doesn't work then I know for sure things are never going to stabilize and that the girl will never be "normal," again, and that I would be best just not confronting a daunting issue like that.

I wrote something and I deleted it because it may be different for experienced players. Due to the level of game where I'm at I walk away from situations like that. I have been burned badly before and I'd rather walk than deal with it. I have been put in situations worse than having some bear spilled on me. I have defended women and almost had my teeth knocked out. Another time some whore threw something at a guy and I was just at the wrong place and wrong time and I got beat up. All I got was a sorry. As far as fighting back in all the situations the other guys had at least 50lbs on me. My last situation I had to lie down because I wasn't feeling well, and I'm in my 20's. Whatever brain fart hits their head they go along with it. No matter how much you convince them otherwise, or try to logically point it out. I'd rather not let them into my life. I don't even want to have kids with them because I know that I will not be able to get away from her unless I get out of the country and that I will lose what little of the rights I have now.

I see the use for game now.

Post: #35

I still can't get over the idea that the dude was in Thailand and invited his girlfriend. Those prices seem unreal, I thought Thailand was cheap. I have heard of old men going to Thailand and macking girls, so not sure why the poster struck out.

Post: #36

"I've been paying like an average of $80 USD a night on hotels for the past 9 nights, plus have been taking her out to fancy restaurants (averaging 50 on her meals) and paying for her to drink good wine, champagne, cocktails."

Ahh, the beauty of inflation. The USD just isn't what it used to be.


At the rate this keeps up, Chinese foreigners will be on American shores in 50 years to bang poor latina's with their overvalued renembi.

Post: #37

(01-05-2011 08:56 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I still can't get over the idea that the dude was in Thailand and invited his girlfriend. Those prices seem unreal, I thought Thailand was cheap. I have heard of old men going to Thailand and macking girls, so not sure why the poster struck out.

That is a trip indeed, inviting a girlfriend to Thailand/Columbia/any place popping with easy good looking nani. A female friend of mine (we were dealing with each other, yea) kept trying to invite me to go to either Cuba or the Dominician Republic. I kept on halting and refusing. I absolutely refuse to go the beach and bring my own sand unless I am hopelessly in love with that woman.

As you all know, I did a solo trip. I saw couples on my resort and not for one iota of a moment, did I have any regret or pity. The place was popping with pussy and you think I want to be there strapped to one ting?

Fcuk dat.

Post: #38

MiXX...I'm ready homie..we need to hit Locombia pronto hermano.

Post: #39

(01-05-2011 08:56 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I still can't get over the idea that the dude was in Thailand and invited his girlfriend. Those prices seem unreal, I thought Thailand was cheap. I have heard of old men going to Thailand and macking girls, so not sure why the poster struck out.

You're right, I shouldn't have had my girlfriend come out, like I said before it was like "bringing sand to the beach." To answer your questions directly, Thailand is not as cheap as everyone makes it out to be, that was one major misconception I had about the place, and everyone told me that it's cheap as hell and you can live well on $20 bucks a day. Well that might have been true 10 years ago, but Thailand is incredibly touristy and this is "peak season" so all the hotels are full and try to get away with charging whatever they can. Maybe if you go during the rainy season when it pours balls all day and it's 110 degrees fareinheight and barely any tourists around can you find cheap prices. Also, I don't know about you, but I'm getting older now and don't like sleeping in 10 bed dorm rooms or sleeping in a hut full of bugs, no shower, and a hole in the floor for a toilet.

If you read my post, I made an epic fail on inviting my girl out, I'm the first to admit that. We stayed most of her time on Koh Samui, which is by far the most expensive place in Thailand, and about equally as expensive or more then most places in the U.S. (believe it or not). I didn't really put much effort into gaming at all earlier in the trip, so I wouldn't say that I "struck out" in the classic sense. I was really jet lagged my first few days in Bangkok and then had a bit of bad luck when all the major bars/clubs were closed and not selling alcohol the weekend I was there due to a national holiday (strange I know). Then I went off to the Krabi province where there isn't much of a party/bar/club scene, where most nightlife is having a beer at a reggae bar and watching fire dancers. Most of these bars were sausagefests and the girls weren't that fine. Also, since I am not staying in backpacker shitholes most of my hotels are nicer and therefore have fewer younger travelers and mostly were full of couples, older people, and families.

I can almost guaruntee you that the stories you heard about old men macking women in Thailand were bullshit. Those guys were probably paying for pussy, or meeting girls that hoped that they could either con them or get them to marry them and take them to the U.S. If you're trying to mack normal Thai women, you need to put in work, learn a little of the language, or get lucky and meet girls that can speak English and aren't "working", which from what I have observed is pretty rare. When I got to Koh Samui/Koh Phangan I was kicking myself, because there were shit tons of hot tourist girls from all over the world (Israel, Aussie, Swedish, etc.) and most were traveling with their girlfriends and looking to party. I'm on a 3 month trip and my chick was only coming for 2 weeks, so it didn't seem like that bad of an idea at the time. Lesson learned. You better believe I'm going to be putting in work from here on out.

Post: #40

My friend recently(2 months ago) stayed at a hotel that charged $15 a day. They cleaned his room every day and it includes a safe and etc. The previous time(Spring 2008) before that he stayed at another one for $15 a day. Both times they had air conditioner. I wouldn't go so far as to say you could live there on $20 a day but $30 is plausible.

If I was there for over a month I'd rent the place. If you're going to stay at a hotel for a month for the price I mentioned that's $450 a month. For $150 a month you could find a nice apartment.

Post: #41

This is the result of what happened when I invited a girl to a foreign country..

http://www.rooshv.com/epic-email

Never again!

Post: #42

(01-08-2011 08:27 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  To answer your questions directly, Thailand is not as cheap as everyone makes it out to be, that was one major misconception I had about the place, and everyone told me that it's cheap as hell and you can live well on $20 bucks a day.

This is true if you only consider basics (eating from street vendors and staying in a crappy room without AC), but I really doubt you want to spend your vacation like that.

Quote:Maybe if you go during the rainy season when it pours balls all day and it's 110 degrees fareinheight and barely any tourists around can you find cheap prices.

I was there in October, and the weather was very bearable. Stayed in a nice guesthouse with private bath. $15 a day. My budget was about $100 a day, and covered everything, including threesomes. However I did my due diligence, and had a list of where to go and how much to pay. If you don't know the real prices, you'll pay through the roof. Every time you go to Asia, research before you leave.

Post: #43

(01-08-2011 07:59 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(01-08-2011 08:27 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  To answer your questions directly, Thailand is not as cheap as everyone makes it out to be, that was one major misconception I had about the place, and everyone told me that it's cheap as hell and you can live well on $20 bucks a day.

This is true if you only consider basics (eating from street vendors and staying in a crappy room without AC), but I really doubt you want to spend your vacation like that.

Quote:Maybe if you go during the rainy season when it pours balls all day and it's 110 degrees fareinheight and barely any tourists around can you find cheap prices.

I was there in October, and the weather was very bearable. Stayed in a nice guesthouse with private bath. $15 a day. My budget was about $100 a day, and covered everything, including threesomes. However I did my due diligence, and had a list of where to go and how much to pay. If you don't know the real prices, you'll pay through the roof. Every time you go to Asia, research before you leave.

HAHAHA, My friend got tired of the threesomes pretty quick. This time around it was foursomes. Threesomes are good because the girls get jealous of each other and work harder to please you. With foursomes usually the girls start talking to each other.

Post: #44

(01-09-2011 02:21 AM)wolf Wrote:  HAHAHA, My friend got tired of the threesomes pretty quick. This time around it was foursomes. Threesomes are good because the girls get jealous of each other and work harder to please you. With foursomes usually the girls start talking to each other.

I've had a sixsome (me and five chicks). The problem, however, is that it is very hard to keep more than two girls busy for more than ten minutes, meaning you're wasting your money. Then the girls who're not busy start chatting or watching TV, and it gets kinda annoying.
The only rationale I can come now with to have more than a threesome is to have one of girls to videotape the encounter.

Post: #45

OGNorCal77 - no problems bro, you learnt your lesson that is the main thing. I have friends who are repeat offenders which makes it worse. Funny enough this hot girl has invited me to come to Cuba with her and her girlfriends, I declined due to work obligations.

Post: #46

(01-09-2011 11:07 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(01-09-2011 02:21 AM)wolf Wrote:  HAHAHA, My friend got tired of the threesomes pretty quick. This time around it was foursomes. Threesomes are good because the girls get jealous of each other and work harder to please you. With foursomes usually the girls start talking to each other.

I've had a sixsome (me and five chicks). The problem, however, is that it is very hard to keep more than two girls busy for more than ten minutes, meaning you're wasting your money. Then the girls who're not busy start chatting or watching TV, and it gets kinda annoying.
The only rationale I can come now with to have more than a threesome is to have one of girls to videotape the encounter.

One of the girls to videotape the encounter sounds like a very interesting idea. I've always wondered how differently they would record vs what I would record.