Post: #1351

Hey

Bit of a dumb question but............ I am in Bangkok and met a Japanese girl who works here - pretty fucking rare occurrence!

She is good looking, speaks pretty good English, said in conversation that she doesn't have a bf - I finally got her on a dinner date and she said she hasn't had a bf for years. She's actually from the Japanese countryside so not a big city girl, but seems very independent considering - she's lived in Oz for a year but told me she didn't have any relationships there.

So my question - how do I bang this girl?! I have never been to Japan and have never got my Japanese flag (it is number 1 on my list and has been for ages)

As we crossed the road I reached back to take her hand for safety - she was not willing to hold it. This is a good test and this was not a good sign but is this just because she's Japanese and naturally shy/conservative?

She works all the time and is rarely free - she wants to see the sights of BKK - like never been to Khao San Rd for example. She doesn't drink coz it makes her sick.... fuuuck! What can I do to get this girl?

Does directly saying I wanna bang her work with Japanese girl? I should imagine not!

I don't know how to escalate to physical with this chick - any ideas folks?

I'm willing to burn it to the ground if all else fails.

Post: #1352

I'd say being direct with a virginal type inexperienced Jgirl is probably bad unless u have enough comfort built so that she trusts you're "wanting to explore". Then again girls who live and work overseas are pretty adventurous compared to lost Japanese. I met a jgirl living in Vientiane who wouldn't even hold my hand crossing the street on Valentine's Day. Ditched her immediately and later that day found my Lao mltr. Don't get oneitis. Bangkok to Tokyo is an easy 5 hour flight.

Post: #1353

Lmao

"That's why I'm a big proponent of the Patrice O'Neal or area codes rating systems for Japanese women."

What...

Endless argument (standards) but it's subjective... minus the real disgusting bitches (even then..) people have different preferences.

I have definitely noticed that preferences kind of differ by race. Someone posted in this thread that Asians like tall-ish, skinny girls with a youthful face, clear/white skin, aura of innocence. I would say that is generally true, even for me, even though I grew up in the West

Another example is I notice many black guys - their primary preference is a big ass, like it takes precedent over everything else. Non-asian foreigners in general seem to like what I would call a "plainer" or more "homely" appearance - have noticed this amongst white friends

I remember seeing this on Reddit:
https://www.reddit.com/r/northkorea/comm...ma/c39k3eh
^ Some guy saying this North Korean chick was attractive. Would literally give her a 2 / would not smash if blacked out. Clearly not an isolated opinion since other dudes gave the upvote

FWIW I like the girl on the left at the beginning of the 1st vid the most. Some others are ok, too (the one you guys are saying is hot - depending on her body), couple in the 2nd vid, but no "stunners"

Post: #1354

(09-06-2016 01:06 AM)Sandstorm Wrote:  Hey

Bit of a dumb question but............ I am in Bangkok and met a Japanese girl who works here - pretty fucking rare occurrence!

She is good looking, speaks pretty good English, said in conversation that she doesn't have a bf - I finally got her on a dinner date and she said she hasn't had a bf for years. She's actually from the Japanese countryside so not a big city girl, but seems very independent considering - she's lived in Oz for a year but told me she didn't have any relationships there.

So my question - how do I bang this girl?! I have never been to Japan and have never got my Japanese flag (it is number 1 on my list and has been for ages)

As we crossed the road I reached back to take her hand for safety - she was not willing to hold it. This is a good test and this was not a good sign but is this just because she's Japanese and naturally shy/conservative?

She works all the time and is rarely free - she wants to see the sights of BKK - like never been to Khao San Rd for example. She doesn't drink coz it makes her sick.... fuuuck! What can I do to get this girl?

Does directly saying I wanna bang her work with Japanese girl? I should imagine not!

I don't know how to escalate to physical with this chick - any ideas folks?

I'm willing to burn it to the ground if all else fails.

This chick was most likely abused. Either as a kid (if virgin) or as an adult (if divorced/seperated).

Many Japanese chicks run away from Japan after a super abusive relationship. One girl, after getting to know my friend told her that her husband had tied her up, locked her up, etc and raped her/abused her sexually. For years.

A friend right now is in hiding with her kids because her husband has threatened to kill them all. He is suicidal after being transferred back to Japan, where he hated it (he is Japanese), self destructed and the company fired him.

My ex, a wonderful girl who was one of the best women I have ever met, when she was 10 was followed daily by a man who would expose himself to her and all sorts of shit. He cornered her one day and touched her all over while masturbating. It took her until 19 to finally begin to trust men again.

Japan has a sick underbelly of sexual abuse. With money, many of these women flee Japan. Without money, they take it with a proud resolve and focus.

If you want to get with her, lead her slowly and gently. Bring her to trust you, don't show any extreme emotions. Treat her like you would an abused cat.

Post: #1355

(09-06-2016 05:11 AM)whiteknightrises Wrote:  Non-asian foreigners in general seem to like what I would call a "plainer" or more "homely" appearance - have noticed this amongst white friends.

White guys like these don't know any better because they only get chubby chicks at home so a thin well dressed chick that looks exotic is like a pile a fresh $100 bills compared to the cottage cheese legs with a mildewed waft.

Post: #1356

@Laner.

Yeah, you hear some crazy stuff from Japanese girls. I had a regular that was crazy in bed, but would flip her shit if you even touched her head at all when she was giving head. Found out later that a guy fucked her in the mouth and came down her throat when she was in like 7th grade. A housewife I was with one time told me she wanted me to steal her away to America because her husband beat and sodomized her. On the opposite end of the spectrum, you have the girls that are so neglected by the male figures in their life that they try to build you into a weird daddy-like presence... who they also fuck...

Anyway, I agree. Sounds like girl could be running from something. Or she could be a hakoirimusume from a wealthy family. Strong leadership and a bit of discretion should be enough to get her. I like the abused cat metaphor. I always say to treat them like you would a little kid... who you also fuck...

Post: #1357

Been a while since I checked into this thread, but god damn it's good to have you back Skotch. Think the last time I saw you post was before my name change.

Here's a welcome back GIF:

Post: #1358

(09-06-2016 12:19 PM)Laner Wrote:  Treat her like you would an abused cat.

(09-06-2016 05:49 PM)Skotch Wrote:  @Laner.

...they try to build you into a weird daddy-like presence... who they also fuck...

I always say to treat them like you would a little kid... who you also fuck...

Lol OK guys! Thanks!

Post: #1359

Got a bit of a chubby one on tap tonight. Big fat thighs, but really pretty face. I winged her at a party while my buddy picked up her fit friend. I've got mixed feelings, but I'm gonna try to show her a good time anyway. And by a good time, I mean my ballsack.

Have a 19-year-old community college girl set for Tuesday that I'm way psyched about. Some of my best quality in a while. About to head into another busy time of year, so I'm trying to add some more girls to the rotation. I might let that 28yo that I talked about upthread go. Apparently she told my friend that she's freaking out aboit not being married yet. If I can add her and little miss barely legal, I think I'll be set for a while.

Post: #1360

I enjoy reading this motivational thread. My wife is Japanese, but lives with me here in the USA. I may be going to Japan some time next year (solo) for about 2 weeks, and then trying to live there for 1 year in 2019 (with wife in tow). I will be investigating extra-marital fucking. My wife is 31. She hasn't lived in Japan in a while, but she has friends in Osaka and Tokyo. I sometimes worry that I'd accidentally game one of her friends. Is the safe bet to game women 18-25 years old (or 40-50)?

Also, is 2 cell phones the best way to go, since now everyone wants LINE ID as soon as you meet them? Is a fake name the way to go? Just curious on any thoughts. Thanks.

Post: #1361

Has school started in Japan? Osaka nightlife has died down quite a bit in last few weeks. Girls seem busier too.

Post: #1362

@Mr.GoodThread

Japan is great for sleeping around and maintaining a large harem. I can't imagine a place where it's easier to keep a few kitties in the kitty. I have a post or two on it somewhere in here or over on the newbie forum. I guess whether or not you can get away with it depends on how Westernized your lady is and whether or not you have somewhere to take girls.

As for the phone, there's no need to double up or anything. Japanese girls almost exclusively use LINE (I hate it so I have them use iMessage), so you don't have to worry about weird calls or anything like that. If no one is gonna be snooping, there's no issue. I just set my messaging apps not to display notifications or app badges and keep my phone set on Do Not Disturb.

Depending on your age, the 18-25 range could be tough. I'm nearing 30 (I look even older) and I'm starting to have more difficulty pulling younger bitches. If you're older, a lot of girls expect you to pay for a bunch of shit, which defeats the purpose of what we're doing in a country where prostitution is de facto legal and pros are high quality and cheap. But that's a conversation for another time.

I wouldn't worry about running into your wife's friends. I don't think I've ever bumped into someone I know in Osaka, but Kyoto is surprisingly incestuous. Japan is insanely dense. It's almost impossible to fully understand if you haven't been here.

The fake name I'm all for. If you can keep your identities straight, it's a lot of fun. I have posts on that as well.

Keep us posted on the details of your trip. Good luck.

Post: #1363

My game style has evolved into a sniper game, and I am only looking for an ONS in the party tonight. Most girls in these parties are in the 5-7 range, and occasionally a few 8s. If they pass the "test," they are at least a 6 in my book. The star of this story is a 6 but the night would end with an unexpected finale.

I talk to a mixed set to warm up. One girl is interested but I know that ONS is not a possibility with her so I leave. I am standing there by myself, observing the crowd to find the "one." I see her talking to a gaijin. She is in her 30s, and seems like came alone. Her dress also fit my ""she is up for ONS" criteria. Before I approach them, she leaves the set so I make a hand motion to make her come towards me.

Her English is perfect. I would not call her cute but she just passes the "you know what test". I talk to her a bit but want to see the other options as new women join the party, and excuse myself by showing my empty glass. Ten minutes later, she comes toward me, and says "I find you". At this time, I am convinced that there are no other ONS prospects. ...It is fun to talk to her. She is well-educated, and has a cool job. I pull her to a relatively quiet section of the club, and up the kino. She told me that she would go to "this place" early tomorrow with a friend. I am so sure of my pulling chances that I am not bothered much with this piece of info. I pull her to the dance floor after an hour or so. The regular club crowd have started to pour in, and the club is almost full at this relatively early time. I turned our dancing into a dirty dancing session very quickly. I see women and men around looking at us with awe. One Japanese guy give me a high five while I am dancing. We dance very unusual for a Japanese club.

I tell her ""let us go"" As we go out of the club, she says that she is very hungry. I reply "We can eat near my station." She says it is far, and has to wake up early the next day. I do not listen to her and keep walking. She follows. When we arrive the train station, she again protests but I walk through the gates. She follows but I sense uneasiness. I am not bothered since I believe she wants sex more. We are in the train which would leave in two minutes. In order to make her comfortable, I start to talk about random shit. I just want the train to move. Finally I hear the buzzing sound that chimes before the door close. And just in a second, she storms out of the train..... I decide not to follow her. With all the info she gave me, I should have taken her to a love hotel. So one night of failure, my friends. Not the first one, will not be the last one.

P.S. I did not take her LINE since I was going for an ONS. Nowadays, I plan to change my sniper game style although it worked relatively successfully. This is not a recent event as usual.

Post: #1364

Appreciate the reply.

My trip is far away, at least 10 months to a year away for the 2 week trip and then I probably won't be living in Japan full time till about 2019. My wife is westernized in comparison to her friends but I wouldn't say that it's to an extremely annoying extent. How would this effect things though, specifically?

I've been in Japan before, but never lived there for too long. My wife would probably be working most of the day or at home taking care of a child (by the time we get there in 2019). When I go there next year, I guess I'm more concerned with trying to pick up, and succeeding in fucking one of her friends, (since I don't know who her friends are), and then one of them randomly contacting her to talk about the cool gaijin she met and hooked up with.

I turned 32 like 1 week ago, and I don't really look that old. My thinning hair isn't that bad since I tend to keep my hair low. My main issue is that I've had horrible sleep during the last 2 years so it's given me eye wrinkles and things like that.

I don't think my wife will be snooping around as long as I set the proper perameters and keep my bases covered. I'd be more worried about using proper game to manage the other girls and make sure that they don't catch feelings and try to turn it into something more. In an ideal world, I'd just be able to tell them that I'm married, and we'd all be cool with it. It's easy to lie to my wife, but to lie to different girls and to try to maintain that lie (i.e. fake name, fake residence, fake hangout spots, etc. seems difficult and stressful to maintain.). I'd rather not lie to them if possible.

Maybe finding another girl that's already married would be best. I wouldn't mind giving her a whole bunch of false information, since she'd already be lying to her husband anyway.

(09-11-2016 07:04 AM)Skotch Wrote:  @Mr.GoodThread

Japan is great for sleeping around and maintaining a large harem. I can't imagine a place where it's easier to keep a few kitties in the kitty. I have a post or two on it somewhere in here or over on the newbie forum. I guess whether or not you can get away with it depends on how Westernized your lady is and whether or not you have somewhere to take girls.

As for the phone, there's no need to double up or anything. Japanese girls almost exclusively use LINE (I hate it so I have them use iMessage), so you don't have to worry about weird calls or anything like that. If no one is gonna be snooping, there's no issue. I just set my messaging apps not to display notifications or app badges and keep my phone set on Do Not Disturb.

Depending on your age, the 18-25 range could be tough. I'm nearing 30 (I look even older) and I'm starting to have more difficulty pulling younger bitches. If you're older, a lot of girls expect you to pay for a bunch of shit, which defeats the purpose of what we're doing in a country where prostitution is de facto legal and pros are high quality and cheap. But that's a conversation for another time.

I wouldn't worry about running into your wife's friends. I don't think I've ever bumped into someone I know in Osaka, but Kyoto is surprisingly incestuous. Japan is insanely dense. It's almost impossible to fully understand if you haven't been here.

The fake name I'm all for. If you can keep your identities straight, it's a lot of fun. I have posts on that as well.

Keep us posted on the details of your trip. Good luck.

Post: #1365

(09-11-2016 07:04 AM)Skotch Wrote:  Depending on your age, the 18-25 range could be tough. I'm nearing 30 (I look even older) and I'm starting to have more difficulty pulling younger bitches.

This sounds counter-intuitive. I'm around your age, a few years older, and my prime - in the West - was late twenties, had absolutely zero issues with age, got with 18-19 year old girls frequently, I'll admit after 30 things changed, since age seemed to speed up a bit and show more. I thought Japan had less of an issue with age difference?

Post: #1366

Got back a couple weeks ago now from a week long trip to Tokyo and finally getting to finishing writing about it. Was my first time there and my first time traveling somewhere solo just for vacation. Overall, I went out 4/7 nights I was there and ended up getting the flag my last night in Tokyo. I stayed in Roppongi at a pretty good location only a short walk away from the clubs and bars nearby. Tons of Nigerians and "massage" ladies roam the streets at night, but if you just ignore them and use common sense about not entering sketchy bars you'll be fine.

Didn't day game much while here, but there's loads of beautiful women out and about in Tokyo. Girls seemed to dress up even if they were just going to the local FamilyMart. I did about 15-20 approaches while just sightseeing during the week using the whole asking for directions shtick, but most girls just had terrible English and I had no Japanese. Asking a pair of girls to take a picture of me worked well too. The Japanese girls seemed pretty friendly from what I saw. Only got one total blowout while walking around Roppongi at night where this girl wouldn't even look up from her phone. All you can do is laugh at that shit.

I also tried Tinder out here, but found it to be a total waste of time. When I last used Tinder a couple years ago in the States, I'd get a decent match rate in a much smaller city and girls who were down for dates/easy bangs. I ended up trying Tinder plus (you only get like 20 likes per day or some BS now), but it was a waste. Must have swiped damn near every girl in Tokyo, I'm talking 300+ girls and never running out of girls to swipe. Only 20 or so matches, of which a few were fakes/whores/trannies, most never replied to the first message, and the one cute girl I actually talked with just wanted to waste my time. After the third time I asked her out when she ignored my question and asked me another “So tell me X about you” I just stopped using this app. Maybe you'll have better luck than me, but I think Tinder is a low percentage play out here.

Onto the nights out:

-Saturday: I got in late Friday and passed out after finding my room. Went out Saturday night and met up with Armogan from the forums. Cool guy with no approach fear. We hit up a couple bars in the Shinjuku/Roppongi area, most notably R2, which is right across from the now closed Feria. Decent crowd in there, but supposedly its better on Friday nights. We spoke to a pair of girls sitting at the bar, but they weren't drinking much or down to go to the club.

Hit up V2 after, a nearby club with a decent amount of foreigners there. Y3500 to get in and a couple drinks. Medium sized club on the 13th floor of some building, it was a little too packed in there. Lots of talent though. Armogan opened up a pair of girls and we started talking with them. They spoke good English. I ended up running into this same girl a couple drinks later and danced with her this time. We grinded and made out a little bit. At this point it was near 2 am and we had been dancing for about ten minutes already, so I should have just pulled her outta the club. Dunno what I was thinking, low-energy play. Anyway her friend eventually comes back and they talk for a bit, and she turns around and says she has to go to the bathroom, but will be right back. I know this is her exit move, so I grab her drink and say I'll hold it for her. Salvaged something from the exchange.

I wander the club for a bit before running into Armogan again. We decide to go to nearby Jumanji. Y2000 to get in with one drink. This place was packed, but in the worst possible way. A sausage fest where you can barely move around, I'm talking minimum 80/20 guys to girls. We down our drinks and don't spend too much time here. After getting some sushi, along with some sake and more beer, we decide to hit up another club. I'm pretty hammered at this point, so I don't remember the name of the place, but the ratios here were a lot better. By 4:30 or so, I'm not having any success here, and feeling pretty done I head out. Man, Tokyo at 5 am is something I haven't seen before. Drunk people stumbling out of the clubs, Nigerians still trying to get you to come to their tittie bars, and countless cries of “massage?” Good times.

On Sunday I went to Summersonic with Armogan. This is a big music festival in Tokyo, and there were plenty of hot girls out here, many dressed in the typical Coachella slut attire. I didn't run any game here as I just wanted to get a good spot for the show. I ended up getting sick here too, so I spent Monday like Hillary, trying to suppress coughing fits. Coughing up phlegm isn't the best look for getting girls, so I got some medicine and spent time trying Tinder here.

-Tuesday: Still felt sick, but also like I had to go out. I popped into R2, but there wasn't anything going on in there, so I left after a drink. Wandered around aimlessly seeing if anything looked good before settling at Geronimo, a small dive bar with a mostly foreign staff. It was dead in here so I talked with the guys there and ended up having a good time anyway. Multiple shots on the house so I got pretty drunk within an hour or so.

At some point a few girls trickle in and stick around, including a pair of older Thai girls and a Japanese girl who was so unremarkable that the only thing I remember about her was that she had glasses. So a 5 probably. I opened her soon after and mentioned the Summersonic Festival as a reason for visiting Japan. When she asks for my favorite band and instantly responds “WOW, ME TOO!!” I start thinking this could be easy. However, the younger of the two Thai girls (looks early 30s) keeps eyeing me, so I ditch the safe 5 to go approach the marginally more attractive, easier looking Thai girl. This was a big mistake, and afterward I noticed all the obvious red flags that I'd failed to acknowledge when I was thinking with my dick. She was a working girl.

After about 10 minutes of small-talk she's already rubbing her hands (red flag) on my thighs so we bounce. Her and her friend (red flag) want to get some food and I'm hungry too so I think nothing of it. We go to this nearby sports bar that I'm pretty sure is just called Sports Bar. Order a pizza and some drinks. I order water despite the girl bugging me to keep drinking with her (red flag). I'm anxious to pull and ditch the friend, so I don't wait too long to get the bill. See these bitches ordered Y2500 glasses of champagne (red flag). I'm a cheapskate when it comes to nightlife and I hate spending money on girls I haven't banged. So this naturally pisses me off. The girls have no intention of paying for it so I pay and insist they follow me.

They want to go out and keep drinking but I'm not trying to waste anymore time or money, so I lead them towards my place. When we get there and I insist we come up, the girls keep saying no until I say bye. The main girl then says to me “We can come up if you give us money,” so now my drunken self finally knows and I just give her a pissed look before walking away. I went back to Geronimo and told one of the bartenders about the whole thing. He didn't know the Thai girls, but pointed out a group of foreign white girls now sitting there drinking. They were working girls who try to pick up men who go out on the weeknights where its less busy. I remembered that earlier I'd seen them and the Thai girls acknowledge one another. Felt like an idiot about the whole thing but at least I didn't blow a ton of money to go out and let them get hammered and potentially rob me on my dime. Be careful if you're going out alone.

-Wednesday: At the end of last night, I went to Matsue Sushi in Roppongi. Definitely recommend this place for some sushi and beer. Really friendly staff there, including this guy who spoke pretty good English. He offered to take me out for a Japanese night of drinking, so I met up with him at 2 AM this night. I had planned on seeing if I could pull a girl and somehow get her out by 2, but with nothing happening by midnight I just met up and drank and ate with this guy. Had some good conversation and Chinese practice as well. However, the guy was married and asked me in a semi-serious manner if “I was one of those players or not,” so I didn't do any approaches with him. When I was walking home around 5 AM I passed by some visibly wasted white guy walking alone with a group of Nigerians. They were guiding him along and as we walked near each other I heard one guy say to him "the strip club is this way," so I tapped him on the arm and told him not to go . Hopefully he didn't wake up in his underwear the next morning in some Pachinko's with all his money gone.

-Thursday: It's my last night in Tokyo and technically still my birthday back home, so I figure I gotta put in a real solid effort out tonight. I started out at Geronimo again, but this time there's no girls and its too busy to really chat up the staff. I have a couple beers before trying Jumanji again since the bartender said it was the place to find the Gaijin-hunters. Y1000 to get in with one drink, but the place is a bust again. This time its pretty dead, but there's still no girls. The only girls were an ugly one who looked like a hostess and a group of three girls with one guy sitting in one of the curtained off booths. I chat up some Japanese guys around me just to keep the social energy going while I down my redbull vodka.

The Japanese guys recommend Greenland, which I guess is the new name of Mist, which I'd wanted to check out anyways. 2 drinks Y2000 IIRC. Once again, this place was pretty dead with few girls around. There were a few girls walking around but I'm pretty sure they were working for the club as they knew all the bartenders and sat together at their own table. I approached them anyway after getting a drink but they blew me off after hello. At this point I just want to down my two drinks and hit the next place, but this Japanese guy and I started talking after he sat near me and I asked “Where are all the real girls at?” He laughed and pointed at these two black girls later on. They didn't do anything for me, but I asked him if he liked them and he nodded yes. I winged for him, but whatever it was, me, him, or the pair of us they weren't having it. So after a night of flaming out, its 2 AM and I'm in that solid happy drunk state. The night's still young.

I end up going to A971, where its pretty quiet aside from a few groups chilling together. And one drunk foreigner yelling in Japanese to the bartenders. I open him and we start chatting. This guy's high energy. Half-Japanese guy who's there with two friends, a black guy who happens to be from the same town as me, and a Japanese girl who speaks good English. She's quite pretty, solid 7 who was probably an 8, 10-15 lbs. ago. I mention that its my birthday even though I'm sure the time has passed, because why turn down the free drinks. Another beer in and the guy asks me if I wanna do some coke with him in the bathroom. Ahh this explains the high energy. Now, this normally isn't a part of day-to-day life for me, but when I've been drinking this long anything free sounds good.

At some point, I'm suddenly alone standing with the Japanese girl at the bar. She's very friendly and touchy with me, and we're both sufficiently inebriated that I know its just don't fuck it up game at this point. We walk out together sometime in the next ten minutes, and I don't even remember what we talked about. I just rambled about some shit in the five minutes it took to walk to my place around the corner. I was a bit forceful when guiding her back to my place, but when we were inside the clothes were off right away. The next morning we fucked again and I learned she had studied in Europe during university and “loved to travel.” The words of a typical gaijin-hunter I presume.

Overall, I really enjoyed Tokyo and especially its nightlife. If you show up in clothes that fit you, go out often, have solid logistics, and approach enough girls you'll probably have a chance to scoop up a Japanese chick looking for some foreign dick. I'm sure there's some skilled players still cleaning up in Roppongi. Also Fri/Sat are definitely the best nights to go out. Thursday was the best weeknight that I had, but even then it was dead compared to the weekend. I've already booked a trip to return to Tokyo for Halloween, but this time I'll be meeting some friends and staying in Shibuya, so I'm curious to see more of what the nightlife is out like there. Also my logistics are gonna suck as I won't have my own room. May have to try a love hotel. Having your own place right by the clubs to bring a girl back to was an advantage for sure.

Post: #1367

@Mr.GoodThread.

I think you're too worried about it. It really is easy to have a lot of girls on tap and never have an issue. I'd say 20% of Japanese girls don't mind if you cheat as long as they don't find out and 50% don't mind if you keep your skills sharp as long as you don't kiss or fuck or anything. Even if you do get caught, you could probably play it off.

I can only think of two times I ever got caught and I'm pretty cavalier. Once I had a dress, an overnight kit, and some other stuff in my house and had a girl over. I left for work in the morning and she said she'd stick around to do dishes and laundry. She found all the stuff and waited for me to come home. She didn't say anything, but acted really weird until I finally got frustrated and took her to the station. She texted me later and explained everything. I told her I broke up with a girl a while back and she was too angry to come get her stuff... Japanese people hate to throw stuff out even if there's a really good reason, so I didn't have to explain why I still had it.

The other time, a regular found a used condom in the trash. I acted really embarrassed and said I wear condoms when I masturbate because I hate the clean up and I feel like a gorilla jerking my pee-pee. She bought it, but then I gave her chlamydia a month or so later and she completely disappeared. So I'm headed straight to hell, but at least I have a window seat.

Have a pretty bomb 20-year-old bimbo tonight, so I'm gonna grab a haircut and maybe post up at Starbucks and do some work/sniping.

Post: #1368

^ Some almost expect you to have a few girls on the side. At least that was the impression I got on a few occasions. I remember one girl almost looked upset when she heard the number if other girls I was keeping was 3, either she assumed I had more because of how easily I got in her pants or she had far more dudes on the side.

I've also had girls tell me they don't mind cheating so long as no one finds out/ you don't fall for the other girl. It's more about having the guy and it appearing to be a good relationship than actually having it. I get they feeling they prefer to have the wool pulled over their eyes rather than have any assumption anything could be less than ideal.

Post: #1369

(09-16-2016 07:53 AM)cascadecombo Wrote:  ^ Some almost expect you to have a few girls on the side. At least that was the impression I got on a few occasions. I remember one girl almost looked upset when she heard the number if other girls I was keeping was 3, either she assumed I had more because of how easily I got in her pants or she had far more dudes on the side.

I've also had girls tell me they don't mind cheating so long as no one finds out/ you don't fall for the other girl. It's more about having the guy and it appearing to be a good relationship than actually having it. I get they feeling they prefer to have the wool pulled over their eyes rather than have any assumption anything could be less than ideal.

I remember this was explained to me in Japan many years ago. Women there have a fear of being tricked into a relationship by a 'loser', especially a 'loser gaijin'.

So in their mind, a loser gaijin will be so infatuated by any Japanese woman, that they project this lower quality unto themselves. Therefore, they fear other Japanese women see them as sexual losers as well.

If you have charisma with everyone, not just Japanese women, they feel more secure. Japanese women will relish the fact that their man can give western women the tingles, as they want to make doubly sure that their man is not a loser in his home country.

So in Japan, they will often look away while you have girls on the side. In the often twisted mind of a Japanese woman, this is better than questioning her choice in mate everyday.

And if anyone has spent much time in Japan knows, Japanese women have terrible choices in mates so much of the time.

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(08-22-2016 02:50 AM)Skotch Wrote:  My buddy heads off to do one of his door shifts and I bounce to a nearby bar. Place is empty and the bartender has massive tits. I start flirting and within 15 minutes we're talking about titty-fucking, three ways, and all kinds of fun shit. [b]She says she'll show me the goods if I win at rock, paper, scissors (for those who don't know, Japanese people fucking love rock, paper, scissors and play it at least 57 times a day).[b] Naturally I lose. Face was pretty busted, so I didn't bother for the number, but I'm regretting that now.

Yo Skotch, you ever take advantage of the janken trick where you never lose?

You know how they say "Saisho guu! Janken pon!" when I want to win I just go with "Saisho kara!" and cover their hand (rock) with mine (paper) and put on a huge shit eating grin while they have no recourse but to accept the loss. Especially in that situation couldn't have had anything to lose there.

Post: #1371

@cascadecombo.

I like that. It's always good to have little tricks in your back pocket, and especially so when gaming in a second language. Stuff like that is why this thread has become such a good resource.

Another good one would have been 筋肉ルーレット (making your pecs dance). I've been doing that a lot lately on dates and in bars and stuff. It's fun to get them to try to make their boobs dance and it usually leads to a fun place. Not sure why that one didn't occur to me at the time. I was wayyyyy off my game that night.



@nomadbruh.

Other players in Japan can feel free to disagree with me, but I think J-hoez are much more concerned with age than American women. Japanese society is super Confucian and very stratified. It's funny to see two Japanese people close in age meet for the first time. They sort of circle around and sniff each other's butts for a while before they figure out who is where and settle into their proper 上下関係 (hierarchical relationship). You get girls that say stuff like "年齢は関係ないよねぇ" (age is just a number), but that seems to me to be the exception. When you do meet one of those girls, however, you're probably in for a good night.

Another thing is that a guy is very much a fashion accessory for girls here. A younger girl in the States will gladly fuck you if you have good game and look presentable. Over here I think you have to have a little bit extra. A decent income, good clothes, a big circle of friends, or whatever become a must rather than a bonus. It's totally doable, but you just have to sharpen your game more. Again, those with differing experiences should feel free to disagree with me.

Just to add to that a bit, the fact that a guy is like a purse for a lot of Japanese women can work in your favor in a lot of ways too. My date with that 20-year-old bimbo the other night went great, but she just lived too far away and we had to call it a night earlier than I had planned. On her way home she was talking about me on Twitter, and it blew up in her little circle of friends. I have good confirmation that my game was where it needed to be on the first date, and I'm confident she'll show for the next one we have set up.

Post: #1372

Picked up an 18 year old the subway. Saw her look at me with anime eyes as I walked past. Thought huh? Introduce myself and banter. I invite her for a drink. She walks with me. At gate she says she can't go. I say common. She says ok. Walked her home. We stop at tamade for food. Heat it up and put on music. Escalate. She kisses me but things get weird. I could tell she was drinking by her breath. So she fesses up. She had stopped me and claimed she was a virgin. I'm like yeah right. So she just got fucked like two hours ago. By a half Japanese guy (she's half) who is already leaving to go home to Tokyo. Lol. I'm like huh do I even want the sloppy seconds? Well let me see how far I can caveman her.

When she walked in she had said I have to be home by 8. I'm like ok lol cause it's already 7:20. So I'm like well maybe she has a curfew cause she's 18 and she does live a bit far. Her story seemed plausible bc the station here is far enough from bars she'd be at a different station if she was just drinking with friends

I throw her down and start to go for it but she starts crying I want to go home so I'm like ok I just needed to know what ur deal was cause I can tell u like it.

She's like I know but just light kissin ok. And please hold my hand and walk me to station. I'm like no I'm tired I have shit to do. You can see me again if u want to get fucked. And I let her outside and exchange line IDs.

I guess legal age for sex is 18 and drinking is 20? Also she was using a translator in line. I've tried to find the English-Japanese translator in line but I can only find one for Spanish. Where is it?

Post: #1373

@TravelMuseums.

It's a bot called 'LINE英語通訳' that you add to your friends list. You send messages in one language and it spits out a translation in the other. It's horrible. Even worse than google translate, which I didn't think was possible.

But it's good to have some experience with, because some girls insist on using it and you might want to know its quirks. For example "今度遊ぼう" (Let's hang out soon) is translated as "I'll play this time." I got that from a handful of girls and had no idea what the fuck they were saying. It's also good to punch in your English and see what Japanese comes out. "Wear something cute," one of my favorite lines, comes out as "何かを可愛くすり減って下さい" (cutely wear something down to the nub).

Girls are stupid.

Post: #1374

For your information. The national institute of population in Japan surveyed on 18-34 range. In 2010 36% of men were virgin & 39% of women. In 2015 42% of men were virgin & 44% of women. Also, in 2015 70% of unmarried men & 60% of unmarried women aren't in a relationship.

Porn consumption & video games? What you think?

Post: #1375

Is that what I'll play this time means? I've been blocking girls who are asking to hangout shit... I miss wechat
I tried to add but can't find it when I copy paste this into search by lineID: LINE英語通訳