I am back from my trip in Japan and sorry for not reporting back during the trip. My schedule and sleeping hours just didn't really permitted it. Japan has been one heck of a journey and this trip back has also shed new light on the game in Japan that I didn't previously knew/realized
Overview: 12 days, 5 bangs, not the most satisfied.
Japan or Tokyo specifically has gotten harder. In my trip back, I was amazed to find that the foreigner population has increased so much from when I was last there. The clubs and bars were full of foreigners and while the vast majority still didn't have much game, they have certainly upped their fashion game. I'm seeing white dudes who have cleaned up the stereotypical tourist gear and were out in outfits that were decked to kill. I was impressed nonetheless but couldn't help but feel the pressure of it getting harder in Tokyo.
Out of the 5 bangs, 3 were in Tokyo 2 were from Fukuoka. 2 of the 3 bangs in Tokyo were from pipeline which meant that I have only successfully converted one lay from going out in my 4 nights in Tokyo.
This was how my days went for pretty much the whole trip:
6am to noon- sleep
noon to 7/8/9pm- sightseeing out of the city
9pm to 6am- going out at night
Now I mentioned before I was going to talk alittle about the nightlife in Tokyo and how it has changed from before, the two clubs I visited in Tokyo were T2 and Atom, both in Shibuya.
Now that Feria is gone from Roppongi, most of the other smaller clubs/bars have been benefiting but word in Tokyo is that Roppongi is facing another round of hard clam down by Japanese police and most of the foreigners living in Tokyo are looking to make their base elsewhere. Which brings me to T2 and Atom...
When I was in Japan about a year ago, T2 was 90% Japanese. When I went back last week, 40% of the saturday crowd were foreigners. Obviously when Feria closed down, dudes went googling and found this place out and have started to head to this traditionally Japanese club. T2 is pretty large for Japanese club standards especially if you get out of Tokyo. The place is packed like sardines on a weekend and lots of dudes are around so its not exactly conducive to talk to women. It is however a great place to bring a group of girls to so that you can isolate your girl and convince her to "go for a walk" with you outside and head straight to your apartment/the love hotels at Dogenzaka just 10mins away
Atom is another club that is located right at Dogenzaka itself so the going for a walk excuse is easier to use there. However, Atom is smaller and the clientele tends to be more Japanese even though there is an increase in foreigners there. I met a couple of cool dudes at Atom that were pretty good wingers but I went too late and most of the girls were out of the place already.
After 4 nights, I left Tokyo for Fukuoka. A city that I knew absolutely nothing about, had no friends or connections and it turn out to be the best thing that happened on this trip.
I was in Fukuoka for 7days/6nights. While I did side trips in the day and also gamed girls while I was travelling/at the city itself, I couldn't convert much but it helped me get into the talkative mood that helped me each day when I returned to Fukuoka for the night out.
On my first night there, I bombed out. I went to this bar called Happy Cock that was apparently really well promoted and suggested everywhere. I went at 12am and there were 8 customers inside. Granted it was a weeknight but this had to be the most pathetic number of people in a supposed popular bar at 12am. I bounced later with a pair of girls to another club called Infinity and while the ratio was better, I still didn't get anything and was out of the club and on the cab home by 6am. I felt crushed and regretted my decision to spend so many days in this city while only spending 4nights in a city that I was much more familiar with and had more buddies to roll with: Tokyo.
On my second night, I headed to Oyafuko Dori and was going to this big club called Cats that everyone recommended to me the night before. I was on the way there when I passed by this sign for an international bar. It was on the 3rd floor of a building and I really hesitated since I was on the way to Cats but I decided fuck it, what could possibly go wrong and headed up.
When I stepped in, there were like 5 dudes and 3 girls. Shitty numbers again. I almost left but I thought I'll just grab a drink before bouncing and started to chat with the other dudes in the bar. Turned out they were all pretty solid dudes who were cool. Most of them had their own businesses and had been in the city for years. One was even the owner of a chain female apparel stores in Japan lol, he was a true baller. The owner invited me to an event the next day called Canada Day and promised that there would be lots of people going and tons of hot girls. We made plans to go the next day and the chain stores owner also invited me to go to an event in two nights that he said would be good and full of girls. I left soon afterwards for Cats and that was when the shittest thing on this trip happened.
I was making out with this girl and the staff were DETERMINED to cockblock the fuck out of me. I was one of the few foreigners that were there and I suspect they're highly racist. I was making out with this one girl when one of the staff came over and said "no kissing" and I was like "wtf, okay whatever" I took my girl to another part of the club to dance and she gave me a peck on my cheek and immediately out of nowhere, this same dude came out and told me if we kissed again, we would be thrown out of the club. At this point, I was mad and told my chick that we could go to another club but I think she was scared and left soon after with her friend. Fuck. Afterwards, I was leaning against the wall and the same motherfucker came up to me and said "no leaning." There were like at least 10 other dudes leaning against the wall so I was pissed as fuck. I told the dude to fuck off and walked out of the club. I never visited the club again. Fuck Cats.
The night after was the much anticipated Canada Day party and honestly after the first two nights, I wasn't putting much faith into Fukuoka. I went to the party, paid 1500yen for entry and lo and behold, there were so much chicks at the party, never have I seen such ratios in Japan in my life. It was at least 70:30 and it was 70 females.
Fukuoka is the ONLY province in Japan statistically to have more women than men and are also famous for having beautiful girls. Canada Day 2016 was the proof of that. The place was full of beautiful feminine Japanese girls who were interested to meet and date foreigners, I'm not exaggerating when I say I was thoroughly impressed.
I met up with the owner of the bar and hanged around with him before hitting on a group of girls that I knew have been eyeing me for the past hour. In that time, I ignored them, hit on some other girls and laughed with the rest of the foreigners. They were being hit on by weird Japanese guys and I knew they wanted to join our circle of friends instead, we were clearly having more fun than them at the table.
After awhile, I hit on the one that looked like she was the most outgoing one of the trios. I asked her a few questions and turns out all of them were Koreans born and living in Japan. The prettiest one was the quietest and I knew she was probably the sort who would crumble at some gentlemanly gaijin game so I joked around with her and would compliment her by saying her eyes were beautiful and stuff. Japanese men don't say things like that and I could see her melting everything I said it.
My buddy who owned the bar left early to open up his bar to prepare for the after party crowd that would flood his bar. I left with 1 other foreigner and 3 J dudes and our 3 girls. The 3 J dudes had no game and were frankly embarrassing to hang around. But all of them only made the other foreigner and I more desirable. The girls and us conspired to dump the 3 dudes after they went off to the toilet and we grabbed their hands and ran out of the bar and on to the streets, everyone had a good laugh and the girls were telling us how they have never done anything so daring. Well you're hanging out with gaijins now
I brought them to Happy Cock and it was packed on a weekend. I isolated my girl and was kissing her at the side of the club. She was too shy to dance so I just grabbed her and did all sorts of goofy shit together that brought her to giggles. I knew I had this one in the bag. After awhile I suggested we go "for a walk" and she didn't want to leave her two friends behind. The leader of the 3 girls came over to talk to her and after that my girl left for the washroom. I was like "fuck no this is not happening to me" The leader came up to me and said "She told me you asked her to go for a walk. Well... go for it" and she waved my girl and I goodbye as she went back to the dance floor. I just got winged by a girl. Shit.
I brought my girl out and took her walking aimlessly around town but towards the part where it was quieter. We made out and she was like "there are people looking..." and I told her okay, lets go somewhere quieter and led her straight into a cab. She gave the typical "eh eh eh where are we going?" and I told her we were going to my place just 10mins away" She gave alittle bit of false resistance but proceeded to text her friend LOL.
Everything else from there is history but she was so shy that she refused to let me go down on her lol, she didnt want me to see her vagina LOL. Yet she had qualms about giving me head. Damn I like that chick.
After that, I placed her in a cab and went back home happy. Fukuoka was finally showing some results.
The next night, I was still tired from the outing from the previous night and my mind wasn't set to game. I headed back to the international bar to chill with the other dudes before heading back to my apartment early. I wanted to rest and wasn't in the mood for girls that night.
On Sunday, I met up with one of the girls I had set up a date with during the Canada Day party. She took me to some Fukuoka cuisine restaurant and after that I suggested we headed to my place to see "pictures of my travels" and she agreed. Lay number 2 down.
I left Fukuoka on Monday with a brand new perspective on gaming in Japan. I was always been based in Tokyo yet when I came to Fukuoka, it really showed me how bonded the foreign community is in smaller cities. The dudes were all legit gentlemen and they showed me such hospitality, absolutely no cockblocking and even suggesting the real legit places to meet girls while also being chill enough to include me in their circles. Many of them own bars in Fukuoka and I can't tell you how many free shots I've gotten just by telling the bar owners that I was recommended by them. This never happens in Tokyo. Of course, when the owner of the bars pours you free shots of tequila, you catch the attention of the girls cause who is this guy that the owner of the establishment is acting so friendly with and giving free drinks? It was an absolutely blast in Fukuoka and considering how I didn't know anyone when I first got to Fukuoka, this band of dudes were the highlight of my trip back to Japan. When there aren't as many foreigners, the bond between us gets stronger and everyone's got everyone else's backs.
I can't sell Fukuoka enough to you guys man, if you need the name and address of that international bar, just give me a pm, you definitely want to roll with these dudes when you're in Fukuoka. This trip has been an absolutely blast and I believe my longest contribution to the forum so far. Do let me know if you guys need any more info man, long live Fukuoka!