Post: #1276

(04-03-2016 06:31 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  Would be going back to Japan for a vacation end June/early July. Booked my flight but would only be in Tokyo for a few days. My past year living in Japan, Tokyo was my main gaming area and this time round I want to venture into the 2nd tier cities or even the Inaka to really press my game. I've booked majority of my stay to be out of Tokyo and am honestly mentally prepared to leave this trip empty handed. However, I'm still young (early 20s) so I have all the time to chase Tokyo pussy on future trips. I'm determined to crack the Inaka game this time around. Going to be using my gaijin card and gentlemen game heavily this trip. Anyone has experience gaming or living in the following cities? Would be great help:

Sendai
Tottori
Fukuoka
Kumamoto
Kagoshima
Himeji
Nagasaki

In Sendai there is a large outdoor mall right in the city center called "Sun Mall Ichiban". It's in the perfect area- right next to the shinkansen station, and Tohoku University, the largest university in northern Japan, is at one end of it. I would suggest getting an AirBnB or cheap ryokan or minshuku room near this mall and do daygame there. At night the miso shobai area is a few blocks away with the usual hundreds of tiny hostess bars. I've heard that quite a few of the laborers from the Fukushima clean-up go there on the weekends so that may have changed the atmosphere of the nightlife area to a little rougher. Around the "Sun Mall" and on the other side of the shinkansen station are the usual DJ and reggae bars.

Post: #1277

(04-03-2016 07:20 PM)Unkown_Killa Wrote:  

(04-03-2016 04:02 AM)Bushido Wrote:  Honestly, I wouldn't put too much effort into online stuff before going there.

There are barely any 8s on Japan Cupid, but countless numbers in Tokyo. Just a head's up.

What about Tinder? I was going to use it when I'm there, but here in the UK it has really gone down the toilet. I can't see it being much better over there though...

Tinder isn't too bad in Japan. I got a few lays in Osaka and Tokyo from it.

Just, half the shit is purikura. I definitely swiped right far more than i do in america.

Post: #1278

Purikura? My Nihongo is shit (been using that line since I arrived)! I have a few matches on tinder. Did you just push for a meet straight away (like in the first message) is that the way to do things here?

Post: #1279

I had the best success by just ask direct for a meeting.

Post: #1280

Echoing what Parzival said, its a numbers game in Japan. 9 out of 10 girls will give you their number if you ask them for it. 4 wouldn't even reply your first text and the remaining 5 would radio silence if you go on and on without asking them out on a date. Get the number, wait for a few hours before sending the first "hey, nice meeting you earlier" text and once she replies, go straight to setting up the date. If you picture yourself living in Japan and doing this in a cycle, you will never run out of girls. Even those that flaked on you the first date, you can always mass text all of them a few months later, I've gotten some bangs out of this.

Post: #1281

Zerdame is this for both real life approaches and Tinder?

Tinder is actually way better here than the UK. Got 5 matches in a few hours and the girls are way hotter.

Post: #1282

I want to fly into Tokyo in the next few days and rent an apartment or private room for a month. I found some websites advertising apartments but haven't really found what I'm looking for. Anyone on the ground knows of an apartment offering they can recommend? Location is most important and the people on the ground know where to stay better then anyone.

Post: #1283

When you use Tinder, ask for a direct date. I had some success with it, they are mostly open to meet. Of course some flake even when you set up a date, so have a backup plan. Some Tinder matched don't lead to dates.
Talk to girl in real, get the number and text her. Get the numbers is easy but then after it get tricky. Still the direct way is the better one. And keep in mind that Tokyo is a busy place. So it can be that a girl want to see you but she just has time in 2 weeks or so. When you have a date, she is mostly dtf. At Tinder you meet some english speaking ones and when you go out, go for international bar when you can't speak Japanese.

But this was already mentioned before.

Post: #1284

Cool man. Just messaged every girl I matched with: hey name, let's meet for a drink. Gonna wait and see what happens. I'm only here for like 10 more days though...

Post: #1285

If you're only there for 10 more days, I would advise you to focus more on nightgame. Do casual daygame when you go sightseeing and don't put too much into it since as mentioned, most dates would happen earliest 1 week from first meeting the girl. Continue using Tinder to supplement your game. Nightgame should be your main game as a tourist. Try international parties, they're cheap and good venue to warm up for the clubs and even get lays if you bring solid game and the odds are in your favor. Here's one that I go to when I was in Japan. http://english.gaitomo.com/

Post: #1286

(04-08-2016 11:19 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  ...and even get lays if you bring solid game and the odds are in your favor.

Agreed. If you go out with the mindset of having ONS, you will have one. If you dont have good logistics, then learn where the love hotels are. After enough comfort, hold her hand, and lead her to the love hotel. There might be a bit of "LMR" in front of the hotel though.

Post: #1287

Does anyone know any good date venues in the Iwamotocho / Akihabara area? Potentially have one like tonight!

Post: #1288

May be alittle too late in replying this but why set up a date at Akihabara? Unless its near your apartment, you should be setting dates at Shibuya or Shinjuku where its easier to pull to love hotels. Alternatively, arrange for dates at bars near your place. Any bar would do, do a location change before suggesting going back to your place. A date is 80% lay confirmed as long as you get air tight logistics.

Post: #1289

Quote:Purikura? My Nihongo is shit (been using that line since I arrived)! I have a few matches on tinder. Did you just push for a meet straight away (like in the first message) is that the way to do things here?

Id do my tindering in shibuya while chillin on a hookah. Id invite them to coke meet up with me there. It worked surprisingly well. Since I was already doing something and if they were tindering midday they were more than likely free and willing to do stuff.

Like people said, have logistics down. I didn't live in Tokyo but I knew where I would take them so their experience would have a few hiccups as possible. Also, i daytime tindered because like the others said nightgame in Tokyo is prime time.

Will reinforce what zerdame says too, unless your place is near there, get them a place where love hotels are accessible.

Post: #1290

Sorry guys not making myself clear again! My place is like 1 min from Iwamotocho station. I want a bar where there's like secluded booths / sofas so I can build the kino without worrying about her worrying who can see.

Post: #1291

Don't take this the wrong way, but how about you take a walk around your area and scout out some bars? This is what I usually do before a date in an unfamiliar area.

Post: #1292

I'm like 10 mins from Shinjuku so probably just going to go around there. Someone here a while ago mentioned a good place in Shinjuku with sofas and booths, so that seems perfect just cannot remember what it was called?

I arranged the date yesterday evening for Thursday evening, is there any need to message her any more until Thursday?

Post: #1293

Text her on weds afternoon to confirm. She would probably reply around evening so it gives you time to plan for something else if she decides to flake. One note: If she's radio silenced all the way, don't bother going to the meetup at all. Japanese girls are dicks in the sense some wouldn't even have the decency to tell you that they flaked. Don't be waiting for her, move on to the next one.

Post: #1294

I arrived in Tokyo. Man, this place is awesome. Great steak for 10 bucks. The japanese language sounds so beautiful, it's like everyone is singing all the time. And even though not a lot of people speak English, they arre giddy to help you if you need any. When I asked a girl on a train how to get to Shinjuku, six people in the cart started a debate about all the best options. Compared to the "whatever" attitude of Filipinos, this is very refreshing!

Post: #1295

(04-03-2016 06:31 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  Would be going back to Japan for a vacation end June/early July. Booked my flight but would only be in Tokyo for a few days. My past year living in Japan, Tokyo was my main gaming area and this time round I want to venture into the 2nd tier cities or even the Inaka to really press my game. I've booked majority of my stay to be out of Tokyo and am honestly mentally prepared to leave this trip empty handed. However, I'm still young (early 20s) so I have all the time to chase Tokyo pussy on future trips. I'm determined to crack the Inaka game this time around. Going to be using my gaijin card and gentlemen game heavily this trip. Anyone has experience gaming or living in the following cities? Would be great help:

Sendai
Tottori
Fukuoka
Kumamoto
Kagoshima
Himeji
Nagasaki

I think I've visited most places on that list. Basically, nothing comes close to Tokyo. Tokyo is an order easier than anywhere else. There's something about the stressed out nature of that place that pushes girls into more of a "now or never" attitude. You go to the third tier, and everything calms down -- across the board. You will meet a lot more time-waster girls. Funnily enough, if you're ever in one of those cities, keep an eye out for traveling Tokyo girls. That doubles the "now or never" effect. They're free for a few days until they're back under the office yoke.

Post: #1296

^^ Phoenix, you touch on a very relevant point. J-girls respond to time restraints like nobody else. The good news is that you can artificially construct them.

Tell them you are only in town for 2 weeks (even if you actually live in Hiroshima) and watch your flake rate drop dramatically. Of course, you still need to offer some value and bring some solid game to the equation. I knew a guy who would fly in for 2-3 weeks at a time for work in Tokyo and his flake rate was ZERO. I learned a lot from his example. And when I look back, many of my best bangs in Japan were when on business trips or holidays around the country.

Post: #1297

(04-11-2016 03:38 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

(04-03-2016 06:31 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  Would be going back to Japan for a vacation end June/early July. Booked my flight but would only be in Tokyo for a few days. My past year living in Japan, Tokyo was my main gaming area and this time round I want to venture into the 2nd tier cities or even the Inaka to really press my game. I've booked majority of my stay to be out of Tokyo and am honestly mentally prepared to leave this trip empty handed. However, I'm still young (early 20s) so I have all the time to chase Tokyo pussy on future trips. I'm determined to crack the Inaka game this time around. Going to be using my gaijin card and gentlemen game heavily this trip. Anyone has experience gaming or living in the following cities? Would be great help:

Sendai
Tottori
Fukuoka
Kumamoto
Kagoshima
Himeji
Nagasaki

I think I've visited most places on that list. Basically, nothing comes close to Tokyo. Tokyo is an order easier than anywhere else. There's something about the stressed out nature of that place that pushes girls into more of a "now or never" attitude. You go to the third tier, and everything calms down -- across the board. You will meet a lot more time-waster girls. Funnily enough, if you're ever in one of those cities, keep an eye out for traveling Tokyo girls. That doubles the "now or never" effect. They're free for a few days until they're back under the office yoke.

Come to think of it, the lay I got on my business trip to Fukuoka the last time round was also with a Fukuoka native who was working in Tokyo and back for a few days visiting family. I told her I was out exploring Kyushu and told her to "be my tour guide" or something like that. We got drinks at a bar and the transition from bar to bedroom was almost too smooth even for Japan's standard. You raised a very likely possibility. I wanted to get my Hakata Bijin lay so I guess it worked out well for me

I already have a date with an 8 planned out in Tokyo, she works at Haneda's domestic terminals and she hates her job. She has abit of a foreigner fetish so she absolutely detest local dudes. I met her when I went to Haneda to send off a friend many months back and she was selling limousine bus tickets. Flirted with her while waiting for my bus and number closed. She was the slutty sort, responded really well to my heavy kino and fucked her good. One of my best lays yet so she was the only one I contacted on my trip back this time round. Apart from her, every other lay in Japan gonna be a fresh one, I'll either clean up or go home with one pipelined lay, there ain't any other way brothers.

Post: #1298

This evening, I picked up a girl in a convenience store. Took her back to my place after 20 minutes of Google Translate. Unfortunately I got an unholy amount of LMR. It took too long so we went for food.
I couldn't figure out where I went wrong with the LMR. Is there a cultural thing with Japanese girls in Tokyo that I should be aware of when escalating?

Post: #1299

^gonna need a few examples of what you were doing, her reaction, etc etc etc before anyone can actually help figure out if/where you made any mistakes.

Does no one hit up the tiny ass chill bars in harajuku?

Post: #1300

got any names of some decent ones in harajuku cascade?