Post: #1251

So Kobe is where the MILFs are at?

Post: #1252

MILF's are everywhere in Japan, they have kids at like 23 and stay hot until 40. Thats a long time to be a MILF.

Post: #1253

Kobe is one of those cities that you choose to stay in after getting married where the men would travel daily to Osaka for work and return home to an apartment in Kobe where the rent is much cheaper than Osaka. This explains why there are many married MILFs in Kobe. If those are your type however, you can get them like Laner said, anywhere in Japan.

Post: #1254

Going next month. I am going to read the entirety of this thread and: /thread-50838.html (have skimmed over both) One quick question, I am still a game noob, but one thing I have learned is that the World of game grows and changes fast, and things that were relevant even a couple of years ago may not be relevant anymore. Are the early parts of this thread still relevant to today's scene in Tokyo?

Post: #1255

Locations of good clubs and bars may not be so relevant since the club scene changes fast as with all countries. What's popping today may be swatting flies tomorrow. Game in general however hasn't changed much in Japan, its still hard but easy at the same time. If you're coming over as a tourist, Roppongi would be your best bet if you're white since you don't have the time to date these girls. Instadates are rare in this country. If you're coming for work, read the posts of the Japan veterans and figure your own style once you reach Japan. Welcome to Nippon bro.

Post: #1256

(03-06-2016 12:17 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  Locations of good clubs and bars may not be so relevant since the club scene changes fast as with all countries. What's popping today may be swatting flies tomorrow. Game in general however hasn't changed much in Japan, its still hard but easy at the same time. If you're coming over as a tourist, Roppongi would be your best bet if you're white since you don't have the time to date these girls. Instadates are rare in this country. If you're coming for work, read the posts of the Japan veterans and figure your own style once you reach Japan. Welcome to Nippon bro.

I literally can't think of a single thing to add to this thread about living the life of a player in Japan. I think everything is here, not only about how to go about it, but also tailored to what ethnic group you belong to or what income level you're at. I think if someone summarized the content of this thread into a book, it would be THE guide to being a playboy in Japan.

Post: #1257

Thanks for that guys. I just read the first 5 pages in detail (taking notes).

The reason for my trip is actually between the two. This time it is just a 2 week holiday, but I am seriously considering moving there for work (my career is one that I could easily work in Tokyo for). I just want to see whether I could realistically live there, I think I know the answer already, without even stepping foot on the plane.

One more thing, do you guys meet up at all? It's just I know I'm not ready to run night-game solo in a foreign city yet. I've never done it in my own country, let alone halfway around the world!

Post: #1258

I'll be in Tokyo in June. If you're going there then, we could meet up. I think the rest of the Japanese RVFers do meet up on their private capacity. Then again, when you're in Roppongi on a Friday night, its hard to end the night solo even if you arrived there so. There are lots of foreigners there, you're bound to talk to some of them.

Post: #1259

Oh no I'll be there in April, but cheers anyway man. Maybe I'll post in meetups thread, I might have some luck there.

Post: #1260

I've just spent my whole weekend reading this thread in detail and currently have 30 pages of notes. They look like noodle soup at the moment, but I may actually try and do what C-note said and restructure them into one big guide.

One question that wasn’t covered, I know online gaming is shit in Japan, but I'd rather try and pipeline some prospects than sit here and twiddle my thumbs. I am currently setting up accounts on Japan Cupid and OK Cupid Japan (have I got those 2 mixed up?) Was just wondering what things I should put in the About Me and What I’m looking for sections? As for pics, I was just going to use the same varied ones I have for my Tinder here in London. I’ll try Tinder there when I actually arrive in Tokyo.

As for other online options, I have in my notes that language exchange can be a good one (maybe not short term) although a specific site was never mentioned?

I might try these 2 as well:

http://friends.metropolis.co.jp/welcome/
http://classifieds.metropolis.co.jp/cate...-for-women

As they were also mentioned.

Post: #1261

(03-07-2016 07:41 PM)Unkown_Killa Wrote:  One more thing, do you guys meet up at all? It's just I know I'm not ready to run night-game solo in a foreign city yet. I've never done it in my own country, let alone halfway around the world!

Coming from someone who runs night game all the time, in my own country and abroad- it's much easier doing it outside of your own country and especially outside your own city. In a foreign place you have no connection to, you have a free ride to game how ever the fuck you want without the risk of it coming back to bite you later on. I recently saw a man get a drink thrown over him for hitting on a girl shortly after hitting on another group of girls and the whole place saw it lol. Even worst, the girl was a 5-6 at best but we'll leave over-entitled Australian women for another discussion. He'll probably never enter that venue again. You can take risks and if you fail in the end, who cares? You live thousands of miles away and will disappear into the distance in the very near future. Whereas your own city, especially smaller ones where you're hitting up the same venues, leave you nowhere to run after a while if you don't know what you're doing. There's also the exotic factor and having better logistics than back home (hopefully own room near the action) that work in your favor when travelling.

Post: #1262

I'll be in Japan in mid June i think, hit me up.

@Unknown_Killa, hows that online working out for you so far? Any leads you think you can convert to dates/lays?

Post: #1263

(03-13-2016 04:02 PM)Unkown_Killa Wrote:  I've just spent my whole weekend reading this thread in detail and currently have 30 pages of notes. They look like noodle soup at the moment, but I may actually try and do what C-note said and restructure them into one big guide.

One question that wasn’t covered, I know online gaming is shit in Japan, but I'd rather try and pipeline some prospects than sit here and twiddle my thumbs. I am currently setting up accounts on Japan Cupid and OK Cupid Japan (have I got those 2 mixed up?) Was just wondering what things I should put in the About Me and What I’m looking for sections? As for pics, I was just going to use the same varied ones I have for my Tinder here in London. I’ll try Tinder there when I actually arrive in Tokyo.

As for other online options, I have in my notes that language exchange can be a good one (maybe not short term) although a specific site was never mentioned?

I might try these 2 as well:

http://friends.metropolis.co.jp/welcome/
http://classifieds.metropolis.co.jp/cate...-for-women

As they were also mentioned.

You might also try other travel/international friendship/language exchange sites just to see what you find. Like CouchSurfing, PenPal, etc. If you end up meeting any Japanese girls on those sites, please let us know here.

Post: #1264

Tinder in Tokyo was quite good for me. Girls are quite easy, if they're up to meet then they will make it happen, if not they will just not reply. Not a lot of games which I thought was very nice. They also look better in real life than in pictures.

Post: #1265

(03-14-2016 10:56 AM)master Wrote:  I'll be in Japan in mid June i think, hit me up.

@Unknown_Killa, hows that online working out for you so far? Any leads you think you can convert to dates/lays?

Nothing yet to note. I'm not too sure how to fill out my profile well. This guide:

/thread-32589.html

is only good if she speaks fluent English, which very few J girls do. I was wondering how I could amend this?

Post: #1266

I've started spamming simple "hi, how are you" messages to get the ball rolling, based on these:

/thread-53148.html
/thread-38070.html

The girls are very receptive at responding. I guess it's the online analogy of approaching in a coffeeshop / bookshop as opposed to a bar / nightclub, their defences are naturally a lot lower (a lot of thirsty guys on these sites though).

Do you guys reckon I should have a few back and forths of light chitchat before suggesting a Skype convo?

Post: #1267

(03-20-2016 04:04 PM)Unkown_Killa Wrote:  Do you guys reckon I should have a few back and forths of light chitchat before suggesting a Skype convo?

For Japan, no. You don't need that at all. In fact if you persist with too much game and even a request at a video call with a girl you just met, you're most likely going to get radio silenced. This is a country where you can get radio silenced for casually mentioning a phone call so a video call is almost out of question. I really don't know how to explain it but this is a country where girls will fuck you on the first date but not do a Skype call with you.

Post: #1268

Honestly, I wouldn't put too much effort into online stuff before going there. Japan isn't the Philippines or Thailand where girls want to lock you down before you step off the plane. Giving an appearance of being cool, stoic and unavailable is the way to go. Therefore just shoot out a mass message nearer the date of your arrival for logistics purposes. I.e. "Are you free to meet Tuesday or Wednesday evening?" Most will ignore or make up an excuse, so work with the keen ones or girls who make another suggestion.

In any case, once you step off the plane you will realize that the talent on the ground is much hotter. There are barely any 8s on Japan Cupid, but countless numbers in Tokyo. Just a head's up.

Post: #1269

Would be going back to Japan for a vacation end June/early July. Booked my flight but would only be in Tokyo for a few days. My past year living in Japan, Tokyo was my main gaming area and this time round I want to venture into the 2nd tier cities or even the Inaka to really press my game. I've booked majority of my stay to be out of Tokyo and am honestly mentally prepared to leave this trip empty handed. However, I'm still young (early 20s) so I have all the time to chase Tokyo pussy on future trips. I'm determined to crack the Inaka game this time around. Going to be using my gaijin card and gentlemen game heavily this trip. Anyone has experience gaming or living in the following cities? Would be great help:

Sendai
Tottori
Fukuoka
Kumamoto
Kagoshima
Himeji
Nagasaki

Post: #1270

I'd be very interested in a Japan guide. I'm flying in somewhere the next month. I'll probably do some online and maybe a little daygame. Definitely no night (unless pull o'clock is at 22:00)

Post: #1271

I hitchhiked around Japan for a month. That shit is Inaka.

Those cities you mentioned are at least half million people. Way of a step up from inaka. Especially Fukuoka, that city is perhaps best kept secret in Japan.

You basically know you are in the inaka in Japan when taking trains is no longer and option and seeing girls older than high school who isn't a housewife is like seeing a unicorn.

Post: #1272

(04-03-2016 04:02 AM)Bushido Wrote:  Honestly, I wouldn't put too much effort into online stuff before going there.

There are barely any 8s on Japan Cupid, but countless numbers in Tokyo. Just a head's up.

What about Tinder? I was going to use it when I'm there, but here in the UK it has really gone down the toilet. I can't see it being much better over there though...

Post: #1273

(04-03-2016 10:45 AM)Laner Wrote:  I hitchhiked around Japan for a month. That shit is Inaka.

Those cities you mentioned are at least half million people. Way of a step up from inaka. Especially Fukuoka, that city is perhaps best kept secret in Japan.

You basically know you are in the inaka in Japan when taking trains is no longer and option and seeing girls older than high school who isn't a housewife is like seeing a unicorn.

Would be visiting some true inakas like Gero but that would be to meet up with an old friend who moved back to his hometown due to some family problems. Are there any intel to drop on the cities I've mentioned tho? I've gamed Fukuoka quite abit so pretty used to it there. Intel on any other Japanese cities would be much appreciated. Would be bringing my laptop and documenting my daily journey as well.

Post: #1274

(04-03-2016 09:08 PM)Zerdame Wrote:  

(04-03-2016 10:45 AM)Laner Wrote:  I hitchhiked around Japan for a month. That shit is Inaka.

Those cities you mentioned are at least half million people. Way of a step up from inaka. Especially Fukuoka, that city is perhaps best kept secret in Japan.

You basically know you are in the inaka in Japan when taking trains is no longer and option and seeing girls older than high school who isn't a housewife is like seeing a unicorn.

Would be visiting some true inakas like Gero but that would be to meet up with an old friend who moved back to his hometown due to some family problems. Are there any intel to drop on the cities I've mentioned tho? I've gamed Fukuoka quite abit so pretty used to it there. Intel on any other Japanese cities would be much appreciated. Would be bringing my laptop and documenting my daily journey as well.

No real advice. Its Japan, so even if a girl is interested she will just "EHHHHHH!!!" whenever you try and talk to her. Bigger cities I would just hit a reggae bar or surfer bar as they often have people who have traveled.

The true inaka just seems like pussy purgatory.

Sounds like an awesome trip though! I would love to bum around Japan again.

Post: #1275

(04-03-2016 10:45 AM)Laner Wrote:  No real advice. Its Japan, so even if a girl is interested she will just "EHHHHHH!!!" whenever you try and talk to her.

This gave me a few laughs. Definitely looking forward to the trip myself. With the JR Pass, I'm going to try to literally Bang Japan.